Last year, I had an intense involvement with a 24-year-old woman (I’m 35) who left to travel for six months. When she left, we didn’t make any promises, but continued to maintain the intensity long distance. Then she started to get distant and say th... more »

I’m a curious fourteen-year-old boy with some questions: more »

I’ve been seeing a guy for a year now. He’s 35 and I’m 44 but I look great for my age and have always dated younger men. I’ve been divorced for 10 years and I have two teenage sons who are gone most of the time so I'm looking for the real thing. I ha... more »

I had been out of an abusive relationship for four years and, after taking time to enjoy the transition to bachelorhood, I have been open to dating. For the most part, it has been enjoyable but I have not met a person I wanted to get serious about. N... more »

I have been seeing this guy long-distance. We don’t see each other often, yet we continue this relationship, hoping that, if it is meant to be, things might eventually fall into place. I visited him recently and it was like a fantasy weekend. He trea... more »

I answered an online personal ad posted by a guy in my city. We corresponded for a few weeks. After three or so failed attempts to meet, we decided to give up. To be honest, I think our interest in each other just fizzled roughly at the same time. Th... more »

My girlfriend and I have great sex but while I can finish in most positions except when she’s on top. She can only finish on top. I prefer penetration while she prefers rubbing against me while on top, which gives me ingrown hairs. I’d be able to mak... more »

If sex with women is so good (the only women who complain about never reaching an orgasm are straight women), why do women even bother with men (aside from making babies)? more »

I am a 49-year-old straight man and my sex life is non-existent. I masturbate at least three or four times a week, which is something, but I don't want to hire a hooker, for health and moral reasons. Could you please give me some guidance? more »

Do you know of any herbs or homeopathic remedies that would decrease an overactive sex drive? Would these work equally on men as on women? more »

This is hard to talk about. The first time I had sex was with my cousin (he was 14 and I was 13), and while I don't feel scarred by this, it does creep me out a little sometimes. Is it common for first-time sexual experiences to be with a sibling or ... more »

Every time I meet a new girl, I fall in love. My female friends are all old-time crushes and call me a flirt. When I ask why they won’t go out with me, they give different reasons. One is too busy to go out with me, another found a steady boyfriend a... more »

I bet you get a lot of letters starting with “I have a friend,” but I really do have a friend who was recently (14 months ago) diagnosed with A.L.S., or Lou Gehrig’s disease. He’s now 31, sexual desire and ability unaffected, and had just yesterday l... more »