Like the Tickle-Me-Elmo of sex toys, the We-Vibe is clearly the hottest toy on the market this holiday season. When I asked the staff from my favourite independent Canadian sex stores for their top three sex toys picks for 2008, every single list inc... more »

Apparently ostrich testicles are more effective than Viagra. I’m pretty sure I’ll never find out. Eating ostrich testicles is up there on the to do list right after licking floor. Oh yeah, and I don’t have a penis to prove it on. But given the claim ... more »

I have been single for about eight months and have recently started dating again. I met someone that I like very much and think there’s a good chance we’ll get physical. The problem is that there are two things about my body that embarrass me and cou... more »

I'm dating the most wonderful man in the world. I care for him deeply, and he cares for me. Here's the problem. I am preoccupied with “chick problems,” i.e., I overanalyze male behaviour and I don't take what is said at face value. He says, “She's ni... more »

My girlfriend says I am a bad kisser and I want to be better. Can you give me tips on how to snog? Please tell me the basics. more »

I have recently returned from a two-month trip to Thailand. While there, I had lots of fun with various working girls in the red-light areas, but one girl really captured my heart. I have never felt like this before. I would do anything for her. I th... more »

I got jealous this week. I'd forgotten the way it burns - that lovely concoction in the pit of your gut of panic, anger, insecurity, craziness, a sudden increased desire for your mate, and the secret urge to take the eyes out of the woman who has sud... more »

I’ve been dating this girl for a couple months now and things have been going well.  Recently we’ve begun having sex. The problem is that we have very similar names.  My name is Jordan and hers in Jordyn (pronounced the same way). We are both experie... more »

I have written to you previously about being frigid ever since my boyfriend of four years (my first ever) and I broke up. I am now 21 and single. Your response was very helpful. My sex drive improved with time and reflection. However, in an attempt t... more »

A friend of mine, after being involved with a man for over a year, found out a little detail about him he had failed to mention up to that point: he’s an alcoholic. more »

I am a 20 and have just ended a long-term relationship (3.5 years) with my first ever boyfriend and sexual partner. We both agreed to end on good terms, for we simply grew distant and were not hostile toward each other. Also, his drive was by far gre... more »

I've been seeing a really great guy for two years now after a crappy divorce from Mr. Control Freak. I’m 44 and he’s 47. After making the obvious comparisons at the beginning and then getting to know him, his friends, and his family, I realize I'm in... more »

I’ve 32 and I’ve just started seeing this guy I really like. We get along really well and there’s a connection I think we both feel. Here’s the rub. I definitely want kids, and I’m not getting any younger so I don’t want to waste my time with a guy w... more »