Family - 4 hours ago
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good?
I have a black friend and today we were at mall and he ask a blackgirl out and she said no!! She told him he wasn't street enough and that he need more swagger?? She also said guys without rap sheets need not apply?? What is street and swagger mean?? I mean he has a good job working at the same place for 6 years, house and car, never been in trouble with the law and take care of himself so i don't know exactly what she is saying??
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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I just might not look for a girlfriend until after Christmas is done so i dont have to buy them a gift haha!
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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We have been together for 4 yrs. In the 1st 6mth's he wanted too(didn't actually have a ring just talked about it a lot) and I didn't cause it was to fast. We have a wonderful relationship. He has taken my son in as his own. We have lived together for 3.5 years. We do almost everything together. When he goes away on trips, like hunting/camping and I ask him questions about it, he automatically resorts to "I don't trust him" and says that is why we are at a stand still. The thing is that I do trust him, I am slightly insecure and a little nosy so I ask questions about their plans, etc. isn't that normal of someone who cares? I think it's an excuse, I don't believe he thinks that. I don't know what to do...I feel used and I am starting to think that he is waiting for someone better. He's really good to me and my son, I hope that's not the case. I am tired of the embarrassment when asked "why hasn't he married you yet?"...now I am asking myself that question. The whole "why buy the cow when the milk is free" is haunting me. I am to afraid to change anything because he is stubborn (so am I) and I am afraid he will just let me go because he will think that I don't want him, it seems too risky. I love the idea of getting away for the weekend, but I already did that, he always misses me alot (calls, texts, etc) right now he is away hunting and he calls and texts me. I usually text him but I really haven't this time cause I don't want to be viewed as none trusting. I'm hurt and I don't know how to get what I want...and if I don't get that I don't think my relationship will stay together since the feeling of insecurity grows inside of me with time :( I don't want to mess this up but I don't want to be just a gf either.
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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So... my wonderful boyfriend proposed to me - and I most definitely said yes! The thing is - I don't really like my engagement ring.
I didn't tell him - I was just glad to be engaged and figured I would just grow to love the ring - but it's 2 months later and I still don't!
Guys I want your perspective cause I really don't want him to be hurt or to think I don't appreciate all the effort he went to in picking it - should I tell him I don't like it or not?!?
Should prob mention -
We'd both always wanted him to pick the ring for me - so I just asked him to follow 1 rule - "no white gold please"... it's white gold! (he said he forgot! hehe) Plus he gave it to me after the warranty ran out! Oh dear - what to do!?!?
Oh - and I do love him and am greatful to be marrying him - that's why I don't want to hurt him!
How much I like my engagement ring has nothing to do with how much I love my fiance. I just don't know if I should pretend to like this forever when I really don't!
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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I was just trying to have a simple conversation with a girl i added on myspace and she for some reason goes off on me!! Is this the typical american black women that are in america? Alot of Spanairds including myself like black women but they come off hard-core and rude for some reason.. This is me and a girl i thought was nice but i think different now about black women, this is the second time i have met another rude one..
11/23/2009
4:45 PM
Dan:
Hello, how are you doing today?
♥Successful:
who are you?
Its Dan from Spain
you dont remember me
♥Successful:
**** no i dont
wtf
i dont know you
Dan
Damn why you blackgirls so rude dude
you dont have to say ****
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4:47 PM
♥Successful:
sorryy but i dont remember you
im not tryna be rude or anything
but Your dumb as ****
byee now
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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you found out you could physcially carry your bf like a baby?
Or would you be proud of your strength?
Could you easily do that to me if I'm only 5'8 and 138 lbs (65 kg)?
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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Well, this guy told me that. But the way he said it made me think he was being disrespectful. what do you think. BTW; the reason is because he's considered the school player and he doesn't own me. Were not evening dating. Do u think he was playing with me?
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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how do i ask a guy on facebook for his number so i can text him?
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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I told him I wanted to be friends because I did not think he loves or cares for me, I told him I wanted to still be cool you know every now and then speaking, or texting, but he said no. He removed me from all online social networks and would not reply to any of my calls or texts. I called him a lot after freaking out because I still cared for him and wanted to remain in contact with him, he came very upset and told me that I don’t mean a thing to him( I don’t want to believe that, after 1 year and 7 months of dating) and that I was crazy and need help ( I don’t want to believe that, after 1 year and 7 months of dating) I was very, very, very good to him... I just want to know why would somebody say that to someone that he maintain such a close friendship with for so long, the just erase them and not want to be coo, ok or anything with that person? He was good to me also... it has been about 15 days since I called, and text and sent him what I then called my last email saying... I just wanted to be friends what was the harm in that and that he hurt me, and no good would come of him not treating people right. I told him in the email I was here if he need and I have not contacted him again. Thing is I really care for him and I can not stand not being able to communicate with him at all. I’m not asking for a girlfriend boyfriend thing I just don’t understand why we cant still be friendly. I want to know should I wait a month or so to reach out, and if so what do I say. I’m not mad at him, and I don’t want him to be mad at me. Should I just leave him alone as he asked? We have been through this before and some how we always started to speak again but this time feels different somehow. I remember when he told me we would always have something special... I don’t see how a few phone calls and texts should make that change. I don’t understand... I know he said we cant be friends because we have been intimate, and had emotions.. but I feel that’s the exact reason we should be... because we do(did) at one time or another share so much how could we not. When should I try to say something to him, if at all? If so what should I say to open the lines of communication? I cant seem to get over him? I sit and wish and wonder.... if he thinks of me, if he thinks he said too much that he cant contact me. Is it possible that he really did not care after all that time, and what he said 15 days ago was what he really felt. Any advise is REALLY appreciated.