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  • How to approach and talk to this girl in my spanish class?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    She's a freshman, I'm a sophomore. I need advice on this, I'm shy and so is she, she barely talks in class and so do I. She sits across the room, sometimes I notice her staring at me and when I stare back she looks away. And even when I look somewhere near her, I can still see her eyes lookin at me. I'm really shy when it comes to approaching girls, It's been 3 years since I had a girl. Sad, I know. I'm not bad looking at all, but it's my shyness that turns girls off. I need some advice on this. Thanks.
  • How do I choose between a job and relationship?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Here's the skinny: I have lived my whole life in one place, and then moved somewhere for grad school. My fiance and I have had a long-distance relationship for 5 years (8 hours apart, weekend visits about once a month). She has lived all over growing up and now has a stable job near her family. She has absolutely refused to move away from her family when it comes time for me to find a job. I'm about to get a PhD and want to make sure I take advantage of it. There are job opportunities around the country, but I have not really pursued them so that I can find something near home (we both are from the same area), even though it would be almost a step down from the work I have been doing. I recently found out that there is an opening basically with my name on that would greatly increase my skill set for the future, but it's here at my grad school. I am having to decide if it's worth staying here and working for another couple years with the hope I will be more marketable to get better jobs back home, or to move home without a job lined up so we can re-establish our relationship. Personally, I feel like I would benefit from keeping the job here, but my fiance has been with me for 5 years with the hope that I would be home, and I would feel terrible to lose her after all the loyalty she's shown me. I love her very much, but the career/relationship debate has been nagging us for several years now. Any advice? Thanks!
  • I'm anorexic and my ex best friend is super mad at me. what should I do?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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  • GUYS: What does this mean?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    I have this guy I met at a sort of personhood activity(it's all about dealing with people, with the opposite sex, especially).During the activity, I asked for his friend's name, I just wanted to open a small talk that's why I asked. I don't like his friend. So he told me the name. He was my partner for the rest of the activities, and after the day, he asked for my number, so I thought he wanted to have connections, because he wants to be friends. Then for a day, we started texting each other and all. He asked me if he could give my number to his friend (the friend I asked the name), I said yes, I mean, that'd be really rude if I said no. Then he said okay, he'll give the number to the friend. And then he stopped texting me. When he went to our school with all his classmates, he didn't even tell me. I knew they were there because of my friend. So I asked him if they went to our school, he said yes. I just don't know why he didn't tell me. I mean...whatever. So, then just lately, I saw he added up my friends in Facebook, but he didn't add me. I have this thing that maybe he still can't find my profile. I texted him, I asked him if he had an account, but he didn't reply. No reply at all. Did I do something stupid? WHAT?
  • Girls how tall do you want a guy to be?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    We all know girls (at least in america) would almost always rather have a taller guy as a mate, and pretty much require they be at least their height, but my question is, is just around an inch and a half enough of a height difference? I mean for outgoing, hot girls that DO have options. I hate being just shy of 5'10" but always ALWAYS go for chicks that are like 5'8", meaning im an average height guy who likes girls quite a bit taller than average (although not runway model tall)... dunno those legs just kill me :) although 5'7" or 5'6" isnt a killer if it was the right girl, but im not sure girls are as forgiving in a guys height, for chicks in that height range, do you/can you find guys between 5'9" and 5'10" attractive? Would you rather date a guy that is 6 ft? 6'2" ?
  • Family Issues. Help? 10 Points for best answer...Sorry i'm skipping around a lot in my description.?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    Ok so i am a 16 year old female and in the 11th grade. My parents have been married for 16 years also. So when i was in the sixth grade my dad called my sister and i upstairs. When we got there we saw my mom crying and i dad then told us that he had an affair with another woman about 5 years before an that we had another sister. I did not cry, my sister did. I thought that he was telling me, my mom, and my sister, but he was only telling us. He had told my mom when it happened. I immediately started to resent my mother. I just could and still can't understand how she can stay with him. It seems like since that day me and my mother have never been the same. I pretty my can't stand her. I just feel like she only wanted to stay with him to make us happy but i would much rather have them divorced and happy than together and arguing. My mother and i get in an argument seriously everyday and i has drained me mentally, and emotionally. When my dad hears her and i arguing he comes and starts yelling at me because he feels like i don't respect her. Everytime my dad goes to see my other sister; my mom gets worried and scared that he will have another affair with my sisters mom, and it makes me sick. He is always explaining to my mom that it is not my sisters fault so she has the right to see her father and also he does not have to pay child support. He always say "if i had to pay child support, we would not have this house and we would not be living the life we do because it would make us struggle even more." out of resentment i always take his side. But now i think i hate the man he has become because he is mean, has anger issues, and always thinks he right, and doesn't allow anyone to voice there opinions, but he swears up and down that he doesn't do that.. theres alot more to it but i don't feel like writing it....the only thing i want is for my mom to understand my feeling and for me to be able to talk to her about anything.
  • Girls, what do you think of this guy? (PICSSSS)?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I really like this guy...he's really sweet and nice...absolutely hilarious...has the best personality...and my friends for the most part think he's really hot. I am just wondering out of pure curiosity what you girls think...I don't stalk him at all or anything lol...but I am just a little curious what you think...the pics on this photobucket are all that I have of him :(. http://s995.photobucket.com/albums/af78/laurr321/ there are several pictures on that photobucket you could scroll through if you want Thanks <333 Sorry I know I already asked this but it says it got delelted and I didn't have a chance to read the responses.
  • Do all guys have this problem?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    Are all guys stubborn jerks that can't admit that they're wrong or say that they're sorry?
  • I'm depressed!! And i want this feeling to go away!! How can i do that?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Well it's kinda a long story but i meet this boy last year and we became good friends, and then i'm in the 8th grade and he's in the 9th grade so now he wont talk to me or hug me he just think i'm invisible all the time! like he doesn't see me anymore!! So i gave him a letter but he called me a cleany or something like that!! and it means that i hug him to much!! other girls hug him too! why not me? but i love hugging boys!! so now what i don't want to be depressed all my life help me!!
  • pick yes or no????????????

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    i have something in my mind please help me by pick either yes or no????? thanks alot
From the Garden Shed

The most wonderful time of the year

Posted Wed, Nov 04, 2009
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Christmas is only a few weeks away and they will be playing this song 'It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year' on the radio until we are very glad that December 26th has rolled around.

Compost (Mark Cullen)I argue that THIS is the most wonderful time of the year because of another miracle: compost.

You may think that I am nuts and you would not be alone. Join the line up right over here behind my kids. Truth is, I am not alone either.

Talk to my friend Lorraine Johnson, with whom I co-wrote a book called The Real Dirt, The Complete Guide to Composting in Canada. It is out of print, but is still used in some post secondary schools as text for the subject. Lorraine is a passionate composter.

So is my friend Susan Antler. She is the executive director of the Composting Council of Canada and while she is very enthusiastic by nature, she reserves her greatest output of exuberance for the subject of composting. www.compost.org


Yes, we are out there. The crazy composting community stretches far and wide across this great land.

So, it is fitting that you do two things this time of year to celebrate the great composting season:
#1 empty your composter if you have not done it since last fall.
#2 fill it again.

Empty it.

When you remove the composted material from your composting unit (or pile...) be sure NOT to spread it like salt and pepper all over your yard. Compost is not a condiment. It is the meat in the sandwich. It provides the lifeblood for all plant life in your garden by feeding the micro organisms that support the perennials, annuals, vegetables etc. that you plant out there.

I spread finished compost 3 to 5 cm thick (1 to 2 inches) all over my garden this time of year. In most cases this means that the contents of your composting unit will not go very far. That is o.k. as you can buy more or spread next years' compost supply over another part of your yard next fall.

Fill it.

Compost (Mark Cullen)1. Put a shovel full of finished compost in the bottom of the composter. This will help to 'get the party started' - in other words, the beneficial bacteria in the compost will initiate the decomposition process.
2. 'Layer' your compost beginning with a thick layer (10 to 15 cm, scrunched down) of 'brown stuff' - fallen leaves is the #1 brown stuff of choice. You can use shredded newspaper if leaves are scarce in your area.
3. Next layer is 1/2 as thick of 'green stuff'. Finished tomato plants, annuals, grass clippings or kitchen scraps will do the trick.
4. Continue to alternate a thick layer of 'brown' with a 1/2 layer of 'green', pushing the contents into the composting unit as you go to maximize the volume in it.
5. Add water as you go... it is only in the presence of moisture that decomposition takes place. Pity the poor people in the desert that try this.
6. Add Green Earth Compost Starter (www.greenearth.ca) every 2 to 3 layers to speed up the decomposition process.

If your composter has a lid, put it on the unit but only if you have pre-moistened the contents! Remember, dry stuff just sits there! If your composter does not have a lid, no worries. I don't really get the point of the lid anyway, except that it 'neatens' up the look of the unit.

Position your compost.

Position your compost in as much sun as possible and as close to the kitchen door, for convenience. You can add compost all winter long, regardless of where you live in Canada. While it will freeze solid in most regions, it will also thaw in time and when it does, the greatest decomposition occurs. The frost 'rips and tears' the cell structure of the organics that you place there: the warmth of spring will activate the 'good guys' that do the breaking down of the works.

What to put in:
Anything organic, providing that it is NOT any of the following:
- meat or meat byproducts
- cat and dog droppings (or any meat eater, for that matter)
- dairy products
- wood, bark, metal or plastic
- weeds that have gone to seed (though, I break this rule all of the time)

The Foot Soldiers arrive!!

Back to the beginning: when you spread finished compost over the surface of your garden you encourage earth worms to come up and pull the compost down into the soil. They eat this stuff; convert it into organic, nitrogen rich earth worm castings that feed the soil. Earth worms also open up the soil, allowing oxygen to flow to the root zone of your plants. (Note: all plants need oxygen at their roots.)

And finally, there is the wonder and awe of watching what WAS something recognizable, like leaves, banana peels and grass clippings, convert into the most useful soil additive ever created. Your plants thrive: they grow faster, resist insects and disease and they produce flowers and fruit like never before. They are happy.

And all you did was organize 'waste material' into a pile or composting unit and wait.

THAT is the miracle of compost.

Keep your knees dirty!

Mark

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Q/ Should I cut my lawn short before the first snow fall?
A/ No. Just the same as ever - 2 1/2 to 3 inches.

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