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  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • If a girls your friend with benefits?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    But acts like you two are talking to form a relationship, what gives? What's that about? If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. I like her, should I turn this into a relationship?
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • It feels like theres so much going wrong?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    Im a 17 year old male and don't think i can cope. Firstly, Im 6'5' and quite skinny which i hate, i always feel like i stick out. Secondly i'v not had a girlfriend for sooooooo long. Iv only kissed 4 girls in my entire life! I also feel like I do nothing to help the world, like i am forever getting depressed about how little i do to help people, I don't know how to bring myself to do good things and say nice things without getting all embarrased. I am (in my opinion) very selfish, which means i do most things my way, when I do say something, or act in a nice manner i feel sooo good, Then wonder why i cant do this all the time so get depressed again. I feel like im slipping away gradually from all my friends and starting to turn into a loner and I always feel so imature. I hate how my mum is living at home on her own when I am in Liverpool studying Preforming Arts which i don't even think I want to do. I don't want to tell my mum though as I think she would be upset because Its all I have wanted to do in my life. Im thinking of getting a diary (as gay as this might sound but I don't care) And writing a really long list of things to do before I die, and hopefully by doing this I will feel A much better person. And if not, i don't know what to do at all. Any advice or help would be great. Thanks!
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
From the Garden Shed

Beat the recession: compost!

Posted Wed, Oct 28, 2009
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The headline of my Yahoo! Blog this week may sound ridiculous to some. Bear with me.

Leaves(Mark Cullen)This weekend many - if not most - Canadians who have deciduous trees to deal with are going to be raking leaves. More still will put a pumpkin outside the front door to decorate for Halloween. Both of these situations provide an excellent opportunity to take small steps in your ongoing effort to save the environment and save money (the recession buster!).

First: the leaves.

For every large, leaf filled paper bag that I see out at the curb in our neighborhood, I see between $2 and $4. How is that? The value of the raw organic material in each bag is the perfect amendment to your garden. I don't use the word 'perfect' often - I value this word, and as such, apply it here because there is nothing that will come closer to perfection than a garden that has been fed a steady diet of fallen leaves over a period of years. A full bag of your fallen leaves will equal more or less one commercial bag of compost in size, weight and 'soil nutrition'.

Many of the people that put their leaves out for the municipality to pick up (without charging them or getting a credit on your tax bill) will also go to their local garden retailer come spring and buy... Get this... Compost! Or triple mix, or top soil or what-have-you. They will pay between $2 and $4 for each bag...go figure.

Add to this, the cost of the bag itself... I saw 5 for $2.89 on special this week... That is 58 cents per bag that you can add to the cost of taking them to the curb.

So, what to do with your leaves?

Leaves(Mark Cullen)1. Rake leaves off of your lawn.
Leaves that are left on the lawn reduce the exposure of the sun to the lawn itself, thereby causing the lawn to go yellow and die.

2. Rake leaves ON to your garden beds.
Leaves provide a natural insulation over the surface of the soil in your perennial, annual and vegetable beds. This will promote the activity of beneficial insects (namely earth worms), eliminate the heaving of young perennials out of the soil and will minimize winter damage.

3. How deep should the leaves be?
Pile the leaves up to 50 cm (18 inches) thick, if they are dry at the time of raking or 20 cm (8 inches) if they are wet. If you don't want them to blow away, hose them down as you pile them on the soil.

4. What will happen to the leaves?
As we experience freeze/thaw cycles the leaves will mat down in a thin layer that will prevent the germination of weed seeds come spring and will reduce the need for watering - by you - until early summer. In the mean time the aforementioned earth worms - those foot soldiers of the garden - will come to the surface of the soil, pull them down deep into the earth, eat them and convert them - hold on for this - into nitrogen rich earth worm castings (you may wish to call them something else...).

5. Alternatives?
a. Go ahead and put all of your leaves into the paper bags but only fill them 3/4 full. Add some water from the hose if the leaves are dry at the time. Turn the top down to hold the contents in place, lay the full bag down on the soil at the back of your yard, and lay more full bags on top. Go as high as you wish. Stack them like cord wood.
Come spring, your leaves will be in the early stages of decomposition and ready to spread on your veggie garden, to fill the bottom 1/3 of containers (the remaining 2/3 will be filled with fresh potting soil) or given away to a needy gardener...(your local community garden?).

b. Fill your composter. You WILL fill it rather quickly: this only works if you have just a few leaves or lots of composting units. Personally I reserve the composting units in my yard for kitchen scraps and seasonal yard waste like spent tomato plants, petunias and the like.


As for the Halloween pumpkin: after Saturday night's festivities, cut it into pieces using a sharp spade or shovel and put them into your composter or onto your garden where they will 'melt' down into just about nothing. Pumpkins are 99% water, so leaving that at the curb for waste pick up makes no sense at all.

Putting Canadian municipalities out of the composting business is becoming a theme here - in my opinion, worse things could happen.

Next week: the do and don't of composting...

Keep your knees dirty.

Mark

For more information on this topic go to www.compost.org or www.markcullen.com.

Question of the Week
Q/ How do I store Dahlia tubers for next year?
A/ Wait until the foliage has turned brown in the fall. Cut the foliage down, leaving a few inches of stem above ground.
Dig around the plant carefully to avoid damaging the tubers.
Lift the clump and gently shake out excess soil.
Wash the tubers gently. Lay the tubers on sheets of newspaper and allow them to air dry in a sunny location for 1 week. Store tubers in a cardboard box lined with newspaper. Store in a cool, dark, dry location.

 

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