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  • Is my girlfriend being rude?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    YESTERDAY, I asked my girlfriend if she had plans for this afternoon. She said "I don't think I do." So I asked her "I was gonna see if you wanted to come over and watch a movie with me." And she replied "I don't know, I'll see." Well...today went by...and she never texted or called me to let me know. WTF? Is she being rude, or should I not think anything about it? She is 18 and I am 22 btw.
  • I want this guy. It is not a question. :/..?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

  • How do I choose between a job and relationship?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Here's the skinny: I have lived my whole life in one place, and then moved somewhere for grad school. My fiance and I have had a long-distance relationship for 5 years (8 hours apart, weekend visits about once a month). She has lived all over growing up and now has a stable job near her family. She has absolutely refused to move away from her family when it comes time for me to find a job. I'm about to get a PhD and want to make sure I take advantage of it. There are job opportunities around the country, but I have not really pursued them so that I can find something near home (we both are from the same area), even though it would be almost a step down from the work I have been doing. I recently found out that there is an opening basically with my name on that would greatly increase my skill set for the future, but it's here at my grad school. I am having to decide if it's worth staying here and working for another couple years with the hope I will be more marketable to get better jobs back home, or to move home without a job lined up so we can re-establish our relationship. Personally, I feel like I would benefit from keeping the job here, but my fiance has been with me for 5 years with the hope that I would be home, and I would feel terrible to lose her after all the loyalty she's shown me. I love her very much, but the career/relationship debate has been nagging us for several years now. Any advice? Thanks!
  • I'm anorexic and my ex best friend is super mad at me. what should I do?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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  • GUYS: What does this mean?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    I have this guy I met at a sort of personhood activity(it's all about dealing with people, with the opposite sex, especially).During the activity, I asked for his friend's name, I just wanted to open a small talk that's why I asked. I don't like his friend. So he told me the name. He was my partner for the rest of the activities, and after the day, he asked for my number, so I thought he wanted to have connections, because he wants to be friends. Then for a day, we started texting each other and all. He asked me if he could give my number to his friend (the friend I asked the name), I said yes, I mean, that'd be really rude if I said no. Then he said okay, he'll give the number to the friend. And then he stopped texting me. When he went to our school with all his classmates, he didn't even tell me. I knew they were there because of my friend. So I asked him if they went to our school, he said yes. I just don't know why he didn't tell me. I mean...whatever. So, then just lately, I saw he added up my friends in Facebook, but he didn't add me. I have this thing that maybe he still can't find my profile. I texted him, I asked him if he had an account, but he didn't reply. No reply at all. Did I do something stupid? WHAT?
  • Girls how tall do you want a guy to be?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    We all know girls (at least in america) would almost always rather have a taller guy as a mate, and pretty much require they be at least their height, but my question is, is just around an inch and a half enough of a height difference? I mean for outgoing, hot girls that DO have options. I hate being just shy of 5'10" but always ALWAYS go for chicks that are like 5'8", meaning im an average height guy who likes girls quite a bit taller than average (although not runway model tall)... dunno those legs just kill me :) although 5'7" or 5'6" isnt a killer if it was the right girl, but im not sure girls are as forgiving in a guys height, for chicks in that height range, do you/can you find guys between 5'9" and 5'10" attractive? Would you rather date a guy that is 6 ft? 6'2" ?
  • Family Issues. Help? 10 Points for best answer...Sorry i'm skipping around a lot in my description.?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    Ok so i am a 16 year old female and in the 11th grade. My parents have been married for 16 years also. So when i was in the sixth grade my dad called my sister and i upstairs. When we got there we saw my mom crying and i dad then told us that he had an affair with another woman about 5 years before an that we had another sister. I did not cry, my sister did. I thought that he was telling me, my mom, and my sister, but he was only telling us. He had told my mom when it happened. I immediately started to resent my mother. I just could and still can't understand how she can stay with him. It seems like since that day me and my mother have never been the same. I pretty my can't stand her. I just feel like she only wanted to stay with him to make us happy but i would much rather have them divorced and happy than together and arguing. My mother and i get in an argument seriously everyday and i has drained me mentally, and emotionally. When my dad hears her and i arguing he comes and starts yelling at me because he feels like i don't respect her. Everytime my dad goes to see my other sister; my mom gets worried and scared that he will have another affair with my sisters mom, and it makes me sick. He is always explaining to my mom that it is not my sisters fault so she has the right to see her father and also he does not have to pay child support. He always say "if i had to pay child support, we would not have this house and we would not be living the life we do because it would make us struggle even more." out of resentment i always take his side. But now i think i hate the man he has become because he is mean, has anger issues, and always thinks he right, and doesn't allow anyone to voice there opinions, but he swears up and down that he doesn't do that.. theres alot more to it but i don't feel like writing it....the only thing i want is for my mom to understand my feeling and for me to be able to talk to her about anything.
  • what do i do!? what do i do!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    there is this guy i have been best friends with since the seventh grade, cody. we have secretly liked eachother these entire three years and we are now becoming a little flirty. we also have been hanging out at church functions and different things like that together. our friends joke around about how we belong together, and now he is finally asking me to the movies and stuff. everytime he asks im buisy but im thinking of hanging out with him over the thanksgiving break. ANY ADVICE? at all! about future relationship and/or first one on one date with him. anything you desire to type to me. it will help our a bunch. also, do i become completely flirty? will this ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out? AHHHH!
  • Girls, what do you think of this guy? (PICSSSS)?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I really like this guy...he's really sweet and nice...absolutely hilarious...has the best personality...and my friends for the most part think he's really hot. I am just wondering out of pure curiosity what you girls think...I don't stalk him at all or anything lol...but I am just a little curious what you think...the pics on this photobucket are all that I have of him :(. http://s995.photobucket.com/albums/af78/laurr321/ there are several pictures on that photobucket you could scroll through if you want Thanks <333 Sorry I know I already asked this but it says it got delelted and I didn't have a chance to read the responses.
  • teen crush how and what?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok so i like this girl at school she likes me but i have not had a girlfriend before so first what do i need to do and secound how do i know what my parents will say or think? Extra: Im 13,a guy, and sorta chubby
From the Garden Shed

Beat the recession: compost!

Posted Wed, Oct 28, 2009
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The headline of my Yahoo! Blog this week may sound ridiculous to some. Bear with me.

Leaves(Mark Cullen)This weekend many - if not most - Canadians who have deciduous trees to deal with are going to be raking leaves. More still will put a pumpkin outside the front door to decorate for Halloween. Both of these situations provide an excellent opportunity to take small steps in your ongoing effort to save the environment and save money (the recession buster!).

First: the leaves.

For every large, leaf filled paper bag that I see out at the curb in our neighborhood, I see between $2 and $4. How is that? The value of the raw organic material in each bag is the perfect amendment to your garden. I don't use the word 'perfect' often - I value this word, and as such, apply it here because there is nothing that will come closer to perfection than a garden that has been fed a steady diet of fallen leaves over a period of years. A full bag of your fallen leaves will equal more or less one commercial bag of compost in size, weight and 'soil nutrition'.

Many of the people that put their leaves out for the municipality to pick up (without charging them or getting a credit on your tax bill) will also go to their local garden retailer come spring and buy... Get this... Compost! Or triple mix, or top soil or what-have-you. They will pay between $2 and $4 for each bag...go figure.

Add to this, the cost of the bag itself... I saw 5 for $2.89 on special this week... That is 58 cents per bag that you can add to the cost of taking them to the curb.

So, what to do with your leaves?

Leaves(Mark Cullen)1. Rake leaves off of your lawn.
Leaves that are left on the lawn reduce the exposure of the sun to the lawn itself, thereby causing the lawn to go yellow and die.

2. Rake leaves ON to your garden beds.
Leaves provide a natural insulation over the surface of the soil in your perennial, annual and vegetable beds. This will promote the activity of beneficial insects (namely earth worms), eliminate the heaving of young perennials out of the soil and will minimize winter damage.

3. How deep should the leaves be?
Pile the leaves up to 50 cm (18 inches) thick, if they are dry at the time of raking or 20 cm (8 inches) if they are wet. If you don't want them to blow away, hose them down as you pile them on the soil.

4. What will happen to the leaves?
As we experience freeze/thaw cycles the leaves will mat down in a thin layer that will prevent the germination of weed seeds come spring and will reduce the need for watering - by you - until early summer. In the mean time the aforementioned earth worms - those foot soldiers of the garden - will come to the surface of the soil, pull them down deep into the earth, eat them and convert them - hold on for this - into nitrogen rich earth worm castings (you may wish to call them something else...).

5. Alternatives?
a. Go ahead and put all of your leaves into the paper bags but only fill them 3/4 full. Add some water from the hose if the leaves are dry at the time. Turn the top down to hold the contents in place, lay the full bag down on the soil at the back of your yard, and lay more full bags on top. Go as high as you wish. Stack them like cord wood.
Come spring, your leaves will be in the early stages of decomposition and ready to spread on your veggie garden, to fill the bottom 1/3 of containers (the remaining 2/3 will be filled with fresh potting soil) or given away to a needy gardener...(your local community garden?).

b. Fill your composter. You WILL fill it rather quickly: this only works if you have just a few leaves or lots of composting units. Personally I reserve the composting units in my yard for kitchen scraps and seasonal yard waste like spent tomato plants, petunias and the like.


As for the Halloween pumpkin: after Saturday night's festivities, cut it into pieces using a sharp spade or shovel and put them into your composter or onto your garden where they will 'melt' down into just about nothing. Pumpkins are 99% water, so leaving that at the curb for waste pick up makes no sense at all.

Putting Canadian municipalities out of the composting business is becoming a theme here - in my opinion, worse things could happen.

Next week: the do and don't of composting...

Keep your knees dirty.

Mark

For more information on this topic go to www.compost.org or www.markcullen.com.

Question of the Week
Q/ How do I store Dahlia tubers for next year?
A/ Wait until the foliage has turned brown in the fall. Cut the foliage down, leaving a few inches of stem above ground.
Dig around the plant carefully to avoid damaging the tubers.
Lift the clump and gently shake out excess soil.
Wash the tubers gently. Lay the tubers on sheets of newspaper and allow them to air dry in a sunny location for 1 week. Store tubers in a cardboard box lined with newspaper. Store in a cool, dark, dry location.

 

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