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  • I want this guy. It is not a question. :/..?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

  • How do I choose between a job and relationship?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Here's the skinny: I have lived my whole life in one place, and then moved somewhere for grad school. My fiance and I have had a long-distance relationship for 5 years (8 hours apart, weekend visits about once a month). She has lived all over growing up and now has a stable job near her family. She has absolutely refused to move away from her family when it comes time for me to find a job. I'm about to get a PhD and want to make sure I take advantage of it. There are job opportunities around the country, but I have not really pursued them so that I can find something near home (we both are from the same area), even though it would be almost a step down from the work I have been doing. I recently found out that there is an opening basically with my name on that would greatly increase my skill set for the future, but it's here at my grad school. I am having to decide if it's worth staying here and working for another couple years with the hope I will be more marketable to get better jobs back home, or to move home without a job lined up so we can re-establish our relationship. Personally, I feel like I would benefit from keeping the job here, but my fiance has been with me for 5 years with the hope that I would be home, and I would feel terrible to lose her after all the loyalty she's shown me. I love her very much, but the career/relationship debate has been nagging us for several years now. Any advice? Thanks!
  • I'm anorexic and my ex best friend is super mad at me. what should I do?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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  • GUYS: What does this mean?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    I have this guy I met at a sort of personhood activity(it's all about dealing with people, with the opposite sex, especially).During the activity, I asked for his friend's name, I just wanted to open a small talk that's why I asked. I don't like his friend. So he told me the name. He was my partner for the rest of the activities, and after the day, he asked for my number, so I thought he wanted to have connections, because he wants to be friends. Then for a day, we started texting each other and all. He asked me if he could give my number to his friend (the friend I asked the name), I said yes, I mean, that'd be really rude if I said no. Then he said okay, he'll give the number to the friend. And then he stopped texting me. When he went to our school with all his classmates, he didn't even tell me. I knew they were there because of my friend. So I asked him if they went to our school, he said yes. I just don't know why he didn't tell me. I mean...whatever. So, then just lately, I saw he added up my friends in Facebook, but he didn't add me. I have this thing that maybe he still can't find my profile. I texted him, I asked him if he had an account, but he didn't reply. No reply at all. Did I do something stupid? WHAT?
  • Girls how tall do you want a guy to be?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    We all know girls (at least in america) would almost always rather have a taller guy as a mate, and pretty much require they be at least their height, but my question is, is just around an inch and a half enough of a height difference? I mean for outgoing, hot girls that DO have options. I hate being just shy of 5'10" but always ALWAYS go for chicks that are like 5'8", meaning im an average height guy who likes girls quite a bit taller than average (although not runway model tall)... dunno those legs just kill me :) although 5'7" or 5'6" isnt a killer if it was the right girl, but im not sure girls are as forgiving in a guys height, for chicks in that height range, do you/can you find guys between 5'9" and 5'10" attractive? Would you rather date a guy that is 6 ft? 6'2" ?
  • Family Issues. Help? 10 Points for best answer...Sorry i'm skipping around a lot in my description.?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    Ok so i am a 16 year old female and in the 11th grade. My parents have been married for 16 years also. So when i was in the sixth grade my dad called my sister and i upstairs. When we got there we saw my mom crying and i dad then told us that he had an affair with another woman about 5 years before an that we had another sister. I did not cry, my sister did. I thought that he was telling me, my mom, and my sister, but he was only telling us. He had told my mom when it happened. I immediately started to resent my mother. I just could and still can't understand how she can stay with him. It seems like since that day me and my mother have never been the same. I pretty my can't stand her. I just feel like she only wanted to stay with him to make us happy but i would much rather have them divorced and happy than together and arguing. My mother and i get in an argument seriously everyday and i has drained me mentally, and emotionally. When my dad hears her and i arguing he comes and starts yelling at me because he feels like i don't respect her. Everytime my dad goes to see my other sister; my mom gets worried and scared that he will have another affair with my sisters mom, and it makes me sick. He is always explaining to my mom that it is not my sisters fault so she has the right to see her father and also he does not have to pay child support. He always say "if i had to pay child support, we would not have this house and we would not be living the life we do because it would make us struggle even more." out of resentment i always take his side. But now i think i hate the man he has become because he is mean, has anger issues, and always thinks he right, and doesn't allow anyone to voice there opinions, but he swears up and down that he doesn't do that.. theres alot more to it but i don't feel like writing it....the only thing i want is for my mom to understand my feeling and for me to be able to talk to her about anything.
  • Girls, what do you think of this guy? (PICSSSS)?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I really like this guy...he's really sweet and nice...absolutely hilarious...has the best personality...and my friends for the most part think he's really hot. I am just wondering out of pure curiosity what you girls think...I don't stalk him at all or anything lol...but I am just a little curious what you think...the pics on this photobucket are all that I have of him :(. http://s995.photobucket.com/albums/af78/laurr321/ there are several pictures on that photobucket you could scroll through if you want Thanks <333 Sorry I know I already asked this but it says it got delelted and I didn't have a chance to read the responses.
  • teen crush how and what?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok so i like this girl at school she likes me but i have not had a girlfriend before so first what do i need to do and secound how do i know what my parents will say or think? Extra: Im 13,a guy, and sorta chubby
  • Question about a guy?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I feel a wee bit cheesy having to ask such a question, but I'd like a bit of input. So there's a guy I've taken a fancy to, although I haven't known him for a very long time (about two months). He'd talk to me and such over text and occasionally say a flirt or two every so often (he's called me cute and all, and once he said "Would you like me to play with your hair ;)" after I mentioned that I like people playing with my hair. I'd talk to him either over text or skype. We don't see each other that much in person since we both go to separate, single sex schools. He's a pretty quiet guy in person, but he says it's because English is not his first language and he's a little shy (not just to me, but to everyone, except for guys). The other day over Skype, we agreed to go to the upcoming dance together (he didn't really ask, and I didn't really either). So he talks to me and all and if I ask him to go to games and all with me, he'll reply, "I'm not going." And then express a bit of disappoint, and ten or so minutes later, he'd reply saying, "You know, I've decided I'd go after all :)" I usually can't hang out with him because I play in the band and can't leave during certain times, but he does come and say hi before he gets ushered by the people in the front. I once asked him if he liked me (in a very awkward manner over Skype), and he said he barely met me, so he doesn't know. And he asked me the same, and I told him that he's better than most guys, but I also don't know. Which leaves me to wonder, does he?
  • Do all guys have this problem?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    Are all guys stubborn jerks that can't admit that they're wrong or say that they're sorry?
From the Garden Shed

Putting your garden to bed, chapter 2

Posted Thu, Oct 22, 2009
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Have you noticed that the Canada geese are flying north AND south these days? I am never sure if this means that they are confused about which way is south or if they have something figured out that just hasn't occurred to me yet.

In any case, their frequent honking tells me that they know for certain that winter is on its way. And with it, the deep freeze for most of us Canadians, our gardens included. We can count ourselves lucky, I suppose, that we get 5 or more months off, every year.

But for now, we are not done.
Still lots to do in the garden, so let's get it in: this week, in the form of answers to the most frequently asked questions this time of year.

Flower(Mark Cullen)Should I cut down my roses?

No. Unless they are so tall and lanky (e.g. grandifloras) that there is risk of them breaking off at the snow line in high winds. Best to leave them until spring arrives in earnest when you can assess the winter damage, if any, and trim accordingly. Watch my Yahoo blog for timely info on this subject at the appropriate time next spring.

Should I winterize my roses?

Yes. The preferred method in most parts of the country is to mound your roses up with clean top soil or triple mix, about 60 cm up the main canes of each plant. A corrugated plastic 'rose collar' will help you do a thorough job of this.
The purpose of mounding your roses is to insulated the lower portion of the canes and of course the root zone from the damage that is caused by both the deep freeze and the freeze/thaw cycle that many parts of Canada (including Southern Ontario) are famous for.

How do I winterize my rhododendrons?

The answer to this one is a bit tricky as it varies from region to region.
In zones 5, 6 and 7 a double layer of burlap, stretched around each rhodie, secured on wooden stakes, will do the job. To be sure that you have them properly insulated, spray them with Wilf-Pruf® (www.wiltpruf.com). This is the best 'anti-desiccant' on the market. One application will provide an invisible shield from the drying effects of winter wind and air. Wilf-Pruf® also makes a great Christmas tree preservative and fire retardant.
For good measure, I protect my rhodies this time of year by pouring loose leaves -the ones that fell on your lawn - into the cavity created by the stretched burlap.

Flower(Mark Cullen)Can I still plant spring flowering bulbs?

Yes. But the best time for planting daffodils and narcissus has past. Tulips, on the other hand, will perform very well next spring even with a late autumn planting.

Can I plant trees, shrubs and evergreens still?

You will be surprised at the performance of your fall planted 'woody' plants. Most trees and all shrubs and evergreens will overwinter in your garden, planted, just fine. In fact I will venture to say that most will outperform their spring planted equivalents.

A reminder that this is the most important time of year to fertilize your lawn (with a fall formulae - I prefer Golfgreen (www.cil.nu-gro.com).
Seeing as you likely have cut your lawn for the last time this year make sure that you have changed the oil, sharpened and oiled the blade, cleaned the air filter and stored it away nice and dry. Left over gasoline should be stored well away from the house and a gas preservative added to it to keep it fresh for use come spring. Or, just pour it into your car and BUY fresh next spring.

All hand tools - the ones that make contact with earth for sure - like digging tools etc. should be coated with oil before you ignore them for the winter.

And finally, it is o.k. to let your grass seed freeze- the main thing is that you keep it dry.

And you thought that there was precious little to do in the Canadian garden?

Wait 'til next week when I talk about your Halloween pumpkin and composting... The highlight of my gardening year!!

Keep your knees dirty,


Mark

Question of the Week
Flower(Mark Cullen)Q/ How do I store dahlia tubers for next year?
A/ Wait until the foliage has turned brown in the fall. Cut the foliage down, leaving a few inches of stem above ground. Dig around the plant carefully to avoid damaging the tubers. Lift the clump and gently shake out excess soil. Wash the tubers gently. Lay the tubers on sheets of newspaper and allow them to air dry in a sunny location for 1 week. Store tubers in a cardboard box lined with newspaper. Store in a cool, dark, dry location.

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