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  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • am i pretty!?!?!?!?!?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    seriously, im having a crisis, if i spelled it right....i need well, actually ANYBODYS opinion, if this was a desent pic of me, do u guys think im pretty, if u dont, what can i do to change that!?!?!?!?!
  • Do ladies get turned on by a guy with a deep voice or is that all myth?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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From the Garden Shed

Duvet time in the Garden!

Posted Tue, Oct 13, 2009
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Just this morning my wife asked me if it was time to put the duvet on the bed.

Tree (Mark Cullen)We have done this in October before only to regret it. Body heat gets trapped under our goose down duvet, providing all of the natural warmth that one could imagine. This is good in the depths of winter: it can be a hazard if you try it too early in the season.

I find the only way to remain 'cool' under a duvet this time of year is to hang one leg out of the side of the bed, exposed to the cooler room temperature air while the rest of my body bathes in the warmth of itself. My leg, then, acts like a radiator to the rest of my limbs.

Putting your garden to bed too soon can have the same effect on your plants: wrapped up nice and tight for the long cold winter ahead can cause plants to overheat. They, unfortunately, cannot hang a leg out for the short time that remains between now and the hard winter freeze up.

However, we cannot ignore the fact that the frost is on the pumpkin many mornings, and with it, the slow demise of our '09 gardening season is passing us by, right in front of our eyes.

What can be done to prepare your garden for winter - now?

1. Fertilize your lawn. This IS the most important application of lawn food that you will make all year long. Why? Because the plant sugars are concentrated at the root zone of your grass plants, where they build winter hardiness and provide the ability for your lawn to bounce back in good shape next spring.
Most people will not apply fall fertilizer: if you do, you will see the results for yourself, most likely, by comparing your own lawn to that of your neighbours.
I use Golfgreen as it does not contain phosphates (damaging to environment), contains a high percentage of slow release nitrogen that will continue to work early in spring and it is made in Canada. www.cil.nu-gro.com

2. Protect young trees. Mice, rats, rabbits and deer will wreak havoc on your young trees unless you protect them with a spiral shaped plastic tree wrap. I use 'forces' tree wrap if I need to extend the protection further up the tree trunk - as is the case with deer damage.

Trunk(Mark Cullen)3. Protect young evergreens. Use burlap to protect young evergreen trees like Dwarf Alberta Spruce, Taxus (yews), boxwood, hardy holly and the like. Wrap in 2 layers - one for the wind (especially the prevailing west wind, in most cases) and another for the sun and potential salt damage.

4. Salt damage. People often e mail me in spring asking why their cedar hedge has turned brown, seemingly overnight. The answer, most often, is salt damage. Especially if your hedge is located on the east side of the road where it picks up the spray from passing cars in winter. West wind will carry the drift a surprising distance, 'burning' the foliage where it lands. Protect your cedar hedge with a double layer of burlap.

5. Deer damage. When deer get hungry - as they do in February and March - they will eat most anything just to get by. Therefore, there is no clear cut, fool proof answer to the question of how to prevent deer damage in the first place. However, there are some effective deer repellents on the market. Green Earth makes one called Scent-A-Gone. Go to www.greenearth.ca for more info.
You can make your own deer repellent by mixing rotten eggs with beef bouillon. Go to www.markcullen.com for more info.

The 'winterizing jobs' that require your attention later in the season include hilling up your roses and protecting broad-leafed evergreens with Wiltpruf.
I will give you more advice in this regard later.

In the mean time, be sure to rake the leaves off of your lawn but not your garden. The earth worms will pull them down into the soil next spring: meantime they provide needed winter protection to perennials and shrubs.

Be sure to 'build' your compost this time of year by adding the leaves that fall on your lawn.

More tips on composting next week.

For now, keep the duvet in the linen cupboard for one more week at least (unless you live on the prairies where they experienced a record cold spell last week!).

Keep your knees dirty!

Mark

Question of the Week
Q/
How do I keep squirrels from digging bulbs out of my garden?
A/ Lay metal chicken wire on the soil surface after planting bulbs. This will discourage digging in the garden soil.

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  • 1. Posted by AuntB on Fri, Oct 16, 2009

    I used the Mark's Choice burlap wrap (pictured in this blog) and it was very easy to install. It has tie straps at each end of the roll. What a great idea!

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