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  • How to approach and talk to this girl in my spanish class?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    She's a freshman, I'm a sophomore. I need advice on this, I'm shy and so is she, she barely talks in class and so do I. She sits across the room, sometimes I notice her staring at me and when I stare back she looks away. And even when I look somewhere near her, I can still see her eyes lookin at me. I'm really shy when it comes to approaching girls, It's been 3 years since I had a girl. Sad, I know. I'm not bad looking at all, but it's my shyness that turns girls off. I need some advice on this. Thanks.
  • Is my girlfriend being rude?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    YESTERDAY, I asked my girlfriend if she had plans for this afternoon. She said "I don't think I do." So I asked her "I was gonna see if you wanted to come over and watch a movie with me." And she replied "I don't know, I'll see." Well...today went by...and she never texted or called me to let me know. WTF? Is she being rude, or should I not think anything about it? She is 18 and I am 22 btw.
  • I want this guy. It is not a question. :/..?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

  • How do I choose between a job and relationship?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Here's the skinny: I have lived my whole life in one place, and then moved somewhere for grad school. My fiance and I have had a long-distance relationship for 5 years (8 hours apart, weekend visits about once a month). She has lived all over growing up and now has a stable job near her family. She has absolutely refused to move away from her family when it comes time for me to find a job. I'm about to get a PhD and want to make sure I take advantage of it. There are job opportunities around the country, but I have not really pursued them so that I can find something near home (we both are from the same area), even though it would be almost a step down from the work I have been doing. I recently found out that there is an opening basically with my name on that would greatly increase my skill set for the future, but it's here at my grad school. I am having to decide if it's worth staying here and working for another couple years with the hope I will be more marketable to get better jobs back home, or to move home without a job lined up so we can re-establish our relationship. Personally, I feel like I would benefit from keeping the job here, but my fiance has been with me for 5 years with the hope that I would be home, and I would feel terrible to lose her after all the loyalty she's shown me. I love her very much, but the career/relationship debate has been nagging us for several years now. Any advice? Thanks!
  • I'm anorexic and my ex best friend is super mad at me. what should I do?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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  • GUYS: What does this mean?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    I have this guy I met at a sort of personhood activity(it's all about dealing with people, with the opposite sex, especially).During the activity, I asked for his friend's name, I just wanted to open a small talk that's why I asked. I don't like his friend. So he told me the name. He was my partner for the rest of the activities, and after the day, he asked for my number, so I thought he wanted to have connections, because he wants to be friends. Then for a day, we started texting each other and all. He asked me if he could give my number to his friend (the friend I asked the name), I said yes, I mean, that'd be really rude if I said no. Then he said okay, he'll give the number to the friend. And then he stopped texting me. When he went to our school with all his classmates, he didn't even tell me. I knew they were there because of my friend. So I asked him if they went to our school, he said yes. I just don't know why he didn't tell me. I mean...whatever. So, then just lately, I saw he added up my friends in Facebook, but he didn't add me. I have this thing that maybe he still can't find my profile. I texted him, I asked him if he had an account, but he didn't reply. No reply at all. Did I do something stupid? WHAT?
  • Girls how tall do you want a guy to be?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    We all know girls (at least in america) would almost always rather have a taller guy as a mate, and pretty much require they be at least their height, but my question is, is just around an inch and a half enough of a height difference? I mean for outgoing, hot girls that DO have options. I hate being just shy of 5'10" but always ALWAYS go for chicks that are like 5'8", meaning im an average height guy who likes girls quite a bit taller than average (although not runway model tall)... dunno those legs just kill me :) although 5'7" or 5'6" isnt a killer if it was the right girl, but im not sure girls are as forgiving in a guys height, for chicks in that height range, do you/can you find guys between 5'9" and 5'10" attractive? Would you rather date a guy that is 6 ft? 6'2" ?
  • Family Issues. Help? 10 Points for best answer...Sorry i'm skipping around a lot in my description.?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    Ok so i am a 16 year old female and in the 11th grade. My parents have been married for 16 years also. So when i was in the sixth grade my dad called my sister and i upstairs. When we got there we saw my mom crying and i dad then told us that he had an affair with another woman about 5 years before an that we had another sister. I did not cry, my sister did. I thought that he was telling me, my mom, and my sister, but he was only telling us. He had told my mom when it happened. I immediately started to resent my mother. I just could and still can't understand how she can stay with him. It seems like since that day me and my mother have never been the same. I pretty my can't stand her. I just feel like she only wanted to stay with him to make us happy but i would much rather have them divorced and happy than together and arguing. My mother and i get in an argument seriously everyday and i has drained me mentally, and emotionally. When my dad hears her and i arguing he comes and starts yelling at me because he feels like i don't respect her. Everytime my dad goes to see my other sister; my mom gets worried and scared that he will have another affair with my sisters mom, and it makes me sick. He is always explaining to my mom that it is not my sisters fault so she has the right to see her father and also he does not have to pay child support. He always say "if i had to pay child support, we would not have this house and we would not be living the life we do because it would make us struggle even more." out of resentment i always take his side. But now i think i hate the man he has become because he is mean, has anger issues, and always thinks he right, and doesn't allow anyone to voice there opinions, but he swears up and down that he doesn't do that.. theres alot more to it but i don't feel like writing it....the only thing i want is for my mom to understand my feeling and for me to be able to talk to her about anything.
  • what do i do!? what do i do!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    there is this guy i have been best friends with since the seventh grade, cody. we have secretly liked eachother these entire three years and we are now becoming a little flirty. we also have been hanging out at church functions and different things like that together. our friends joke around about how we belong together, and now he is finally asking me to the movies and stuff. everytime he asks im buisy but im thinking of hanging out with him over the thanksgiving break. ANY ADVICE? at all! about future relationship and/or first one on one date with him. anything you desire to type to me. it will help our a bunch. also, do i become completely flirty? will this ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out? AHHHH!
  • Girls, what do you think of this guy? (PICSSSS)?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I really like this guy...he's really sweet and nice...absolutely hilarious...has the best personality...and my friends for the most part think he's really hot. I am just wondering out of pure curiosity what you girls think...I don't stalk him at all or anything lol...but I am just a little curious what you think...the pics on this photobucket are all that I have of him :(. http://s995.photobucket.com/albums/af78/laurr321/ there are several pictures on that photobucket you could scroll through if you want Thanks <333 Sorry I know I already asked this but it says it got delelted and I didn't have a chance to read the responses.
From the Garden Shed

Duvet time in the Garden!

Posted Tue, Oct 13, 2009
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Just this morning my wife asked me if it was time to put the duvet on the bed.

Tree (Mark Cullen)We have done this in October before only to regret it. Body heat gets trapped under our goose down duvet, providing all of the natural warmth that one could imagine. This is good in the depths of winter: it can be a hazard if you try it too early in the season.

I find the only way to remain 'cool' under a duvet this time of year is to hang one leg out of the side of the bed, exposed to the cooler room temperature air while the rest of my body bathes in the warmth of itself. My leg, then, acts like a radiator to the rest of my limbs.

Putting your garden to bed too soon can have the same effect on your plants: wrapped up nice and tight for the long cold winter ahead can cause plants to overheat. They, unfortunately, cannot hang a leg out for the short time that remains between now and the hard winter freeze up.

However, we cannot ignore the fact that the frost is on the pumpkin many mornings, and with it, the slow demise of our '09 gardening season is passing us by, right in front of our eyes.

What can be done to prepare your garden for winter - now?

1. Fertilize your lawn. This IS the most important application of lawn food that you will make all year long. Why? Because the plant sugars are concentrated at the root zone of your grass plants, where they build winter hardiness and provide the ability for your lawn to bounce back in good shape next spring.
Most people will not apply fall fertilizer: if you do, you will see the results for yourself, most likely, by comparing your own lawn to that of your neighbours.
I use Golfgreen as it does not contain phosphates (damaging to environment), contains a high percentage of slow release nitrogen that will continue to work early in spring and it is made in Canada. www.cil.nu-gro.com

2. Protect young trees. Mice, rats, rabbits and deer will wreak havoc on your young trees unless you protect them with a spiral shaped plastic tree wrap. I use 'forces' tree wrap if I need to extend the protection further up the tree trunk - as is the case with deer damage.

Trunk(Mark Cullen)3. Protect young evergreens. Use burlap to protect young evergreen trees like Dwarf Alberta Spruce, Taxus (yews), boxwood, hardy holly and the like. Wrap in 2 layers - one for the wind (especially the prevailing west wind, in most cases) and another for the sun and potential salt damage.

4. Salt damage. People often e mail me in spring asking why their cedar hedge has turned brown, seemingly overnight. The answer, most often, is salt damage. Especially if your hedge is located on the east side of the road where it picks up the spray from passing cars in winter. West wind will carry the drift a surprising distance, 'burning' the foliage where it lands. Protect your cedar hedge with a double layer of burlap.

5. Deer damage. When deer get hungry - as they do in February and March - they will eat most anything just to get by. Therefore, there is no clear cut, fool proof answer to the question of how to prevent deer damage in the first place. However, there are some effective deer repellents on the market. Green Earth makes one called Scent-A-Gone. Go to www.greenearth.ca for more info.
You can make your own deer repellent by mixing rotten eggs with beef bouillon. Go to www.markcullen.com for more info.

The 'winterizing jobs' that require your attention later in the season include hilling up your roses and protecting broad-leafed evergreens with Wiltpruf.
I will give you more advice in this regard later.

In the mean time, be sure to rake the leaves off of your lawn but not your garden. The earth worms will pull them down into the soil next spring: meantime they provide needed winter protection to perennials and shrubs.

Be sure to 'build' your compost this time of year by adding the leaves that fall on your lawn.

More tips on composting next week.

For now, keep the duvet in the linen cupboard for one more week at least (unless you live on the prairies where they experienced a record cold spell last week!).

Keep your knees dirty!

Mark

Question of the Week
Q/
How do I keep squirrels from digging bulbs out of my garden?
A/ Lay metal chicken wire on the soil surface after planting bulbs. This will discourage digging in the garden soil.

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  • 1. Posted by AuntB on Fri, Oct 16, 2009

    I used the Mark's Choice burlap wrap (pictured in this blog) and it was very easy to install. It has tie straps at each end of the roll. What a great idea!

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