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  • Why does she have sex all the time and shes only 13?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    am 14 and i have this friend that is about 13 i knew her since like 4 years now and shes always been a nice helpfull person when we got to our secondary school at the end of year seven she started having fights at school and at the start of year 9 she told me she had sex with this random person and now she does it all the time. Yesterday i spoke to her and she was like ohh you know that guy from our year i had it with him. So all im wondering about is why does she do it and does she think it makes her seem cooler ?? Its maybe because she lives in a bad area or that she has 16 brothers and sisters and she is trying to have her own life without them i dont know what to think ???
  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
  • If a girls your friend with benefits?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    But acts like you two are talking to form a relationship, what gives? What's that about? If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. I like her, should I turn this into a relationship?
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • Ex girlfriend help?!? girls please!! ://?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    so my ex girlfriend, who broke up with me about 2 months ago, is a cheerleader. and today at school, she dropped her books and i walked over to her and picked them up for her. she told me thank you and i said "you're welcome" and i started walking to next class. then, she said "you smell good." and had a little smile (she always told me that when we were dating). also, after school, i was doing my homework in the lobby and she walked in but didn't see me at first. i looked at her but she didn't see me, so i just continued to do my homework when i heard a "hey" i looked up and she asked me what i was doing and everything. then she sat down beside me and started doing her homework too, we were the only ones in the room at the time. we talked quite a bit, and she brought up most of the stuff, because i didn't want to seem "Too" talkitive. then she told me that her sister and her ex boyfriend got back together a few days ago. the broke up about the same time we did. and she went into details on what he did for her sister and everything. i just want to know what you think my ex girlfriend was thinking?? and if you think she still has feelings for me? i still like her, but idk what to do about it!!
  • advice (GIRLS ONLY PLEASE)?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    ok, so uhm heres the thing, im 14 and never had a gf. For the people i hang out with thats wierd. i really want to no why. is it becuase im a big guy? or is it more of a race thing. im italian in a mostly asian community. i mean i treat everyone with lots of respect, im known throughout my whole high school, i just dont know whats going on. are girls really that shallow?
From the Garden Shed

Fall in the Canadian garden

Posted Tue, Sep 29, 2009
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Hosta (Mark Cullen)There is a movie playing in my head. It is the image of my garden complete with chickadees and other songbirds singing their little hearts out. The sound of the wind blowing through the tall ornamental grasses which only recently burst upwards with a volley of flower stems that will go to seed before the really cold weather comes.

There is more to come out there folks, so don't fold up your tent and huddle down into the couch for the winter just yet... in fact some regions of Canada have 6 to 8 weeks of reasonable gardening weather to go.

This is fall in the Canadian garden and it is time to think about digging and dividing the perennials. My Hosta were planted just 4 short years ago and in that time some have become monsters. I have been digging them up and dividing them. It is easy and fun. Especially when you can give the excess plants to friends and neighbours.

Perennial divisions: How to do it.

Dig them up.

Identify the plants that are overgrown and dig them up using a garden fork. I like using a good quality garden fork as it damages fewer roots, but if all that you have is a spade or shovel, that is o.k. too. Make sure that you sharpen it on your grinder or use a Mark's Choice bastard file.

Drive the fork into the ground around the entire plant, without pushing down on it too much. The idea is to cut some of the roots before levering the root mass out of the ground. After you have completed the circle one time without using leverage, do it again only this time push down on the fork/spade ripping and tearing roots as you go. By the time you have completed your second pass around the plant chances are pretty good it will just 'pop' out of the ground.

Mature ornamental grasses are not so easy to 'pop' out of the ground. Often you will have to get right under the plant with a sharp spade or shovel and sever all of the roots under there. Otherwise you just have a fight on your hands and maybe a broken spade handle to show for your effort.

Ornamental grass(Mark Cullen)Take your time.

Once you have the plant - roots and all - out of the ground, you have a decision to make... how many divisions will you make?
I begin by cutting the root mass in 1/2. Yea - just like a pie.
Go for it and don't worry about hurting your perennial as it is just about completely dormant now anyway - mother nature gives your perennials sedatives this time of year so that you can do operations like this before the snow flies.

After I have divided the plant in 1/2 I do it again, dividing it into quarters.
If it is a really big plant you can divide it again.

Now you have a bunch of wedges sitting on the ground ready to plant. If you can't plant them right away, place them in a shady spot and water them thoroughly. Keep them wet until you can plant them or give them away.

Planting

When you plant your new divisions, use good quality soil (triple mix works nicely) and water them in well. I always plant my divisions just a centimeter or two deeper than the original plant grew. This anchors them for the winter. A 5 cm layer of soft wood bark mulch will help to ensure that the new divisions will not heave out of the ground during the freeze/thaw cycles.

What perennials are suitable for dividing?
- mature plants
- fibrous or fleshy roots systems
- out of bloom and dormant

Some of the best perennials for dividing this time of year are peonies, day lilies, rudebeckia, Shasta daisies, veronica (speedwell) and of course hostas.

While out there doing your thing with the perennials, remember to take some time to record the sights and sounds of the garden in your head to play back later. Like in the dead of winter. You won't regret it.

Keep your knees dirty,


Mark

Question of the Week

Q/ When should I plant spring-flowering bulbs?
A/ It is best to wait until night time temperatures are consistently below 13 degrees Celsius before planting spring-flowering bulbs. You can continue planting bulbs until the ground freezes. However, bulbs will root best if planted 6 weeks prior to the ground freezing. This allows the bulbs to start developing a good root system before the cold and dry winter.

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2 Comments

  • 1. Posted by cosmicuprising on Fri, Oct 02, 2009

    Very informative, it makes me want to get out there and divide. I live on Vancouver Island but it is getting cool.

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  • 2. Posted by AuntB on Mon, Oct 05, 2009

    Squirrels are digging up the bulbs I planted this week-end. Is there a way to stop this?

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