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  • Why does she have sex all the time and shes only 13?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    am 14 and i have this friend that is about 13 i knew her since like 4 years now and shes always been a nice helpfull person when we got to our secondary school at the end of year seven she started having fights at school and at the start of year 9 she told me she had sex with this random person and now she does it all the time. Yesterday i spoke to her and she was like ohh you know that guy from our year i had it with him. So all im wondering about is why does she do it and does she think it makes her seem cooler ?? Its maybe because she lives in a bad area or that she has 16 brothers and sisters and she is trying to have her own life without them i dont know what to think ???
  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • My girlfriend broke up with me... I dont know how to take it in... Plus I have other things making me worry?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    My girlfriend broke up with me and this relationship was so much to me. She gave me my first kiss, she was always so nice, we were perfect in my eyes. We lived far apart, but I litterally walked 5 miles to see her at least 3 times a week. We lasted for 4 months, when she broke up with me... the hard part is that a couple days later she started dating a chick. It makes me feel like shit to think that I did something wrong, in fact, so wrong to turn her all the way to lesbian, and even harder to take in, is that she looks happier! I know I should move on, and I am... but She ment everything to me, and I feel like I was just being used. Other than this, my mother took custody of me, so I see my dad only on the weekends, and I really hate it over here. She yells at me, loses it all the time and I hate it. I've considered running away over night back to my dads, or my papa's. My friend recently died over here, my gf broke up with me over here, and I feel like this town is not where I belong. The school is so violent and ghetto, I am angry with my self and feel like an idiot for having so many problems. So far yahoo answers is the best thing because I can talk to people and they can help me.... Maybe it's just a stage, but I truly feel like I'm alone. I dont get along with the people here, and I'm just really depressed. Thanks to anyone who has enough time to read this.... I've helped alot of people on here I believe, and I just want some back. Not in a rude way, people do help, but you know... lol (I'm glad I can even say that...)
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 8 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • If a guy has sex with a girl on her period...?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    If a guy has sex with a girl on her period, does he maybe like her a lot, or really care for her? This is without a condom too. Just wondering, cause I know many guys are very weird about sex with a girl on her period. Serious answers only, please! question doesn't say anything about love...people keep mentioning love. didn't ask that. also, didn't ask for any input on diseases or anything like that, just need a straight answer on the question that was asked, but have some good ones so far. thanks. THIS QUESTION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVE! STOP MENTIONING LOVE! Thanks. =) HAHAHAH Amanda B's answer was funny.
From the Garden Shed

Gardeners invest in the bank account for the soul

Posted Thu, Sep 24, 2009
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You work hard, make some money, you provide a life for yourself and your family and perhaps you tuck some of those bucks away. Some of your savings are your 'rainy day' fund. 

Tulip (Mark Cullen)Gardeners have a reputation for being practical. Many of you who follow my weekly blog will be digging up your mature perennials like Hosta, daylilies and the like to divide them into smaller root portions. These, you move around your garden or give away or swap with other gardeners. More on this subject next week.

Practical as we may be, even the most frugal among us understand the value of investing in Holland bulbs this time of year. Even if it means dipping into the rainy day fund.

It is time to get to the investment that gardeners make this time of year in a great looking garden NEXT SPRING. We plant spring flowering bulbs like tulips, daffodils, crocus and hyacinths to wake up the garden come spring. More than anything that you can do, planting spring bulbs now will reward you BIG in months down the road. All you need is some patience, to make the effort to plant them in the first place and of course to make the investment in quality bulbs this time of year.

Let's get started...

Buying bulbs.

Bulb (Mark Cullen)Golden rule: the bigger the better.
Tulips, for example, are graded in the Netherlands according to their circumference. A '10 plus' bulb is 10 cm in circumference and is considered small, where most tulips are concerned (the exceptions being the botanical tulips which are small by nature). A truly great performing tulip is 12 cm plus. I have seen some Darwin Hybrids (the classic of all tulips) at 14 cm.

Remember this: the bigger the bulb the stronger the plant and the more bloom per bulb. This is also true of amaryllis by the way.

For daffodils the size is measured according to the number of growing points on each bulb - these are called 'noses'. A two nosed King Alfred daffodil is average, a 3 nose fabulous and a 4 nose almost unheard of. From each 'nose' grows a stem and a flower or cluster of flowers.

Tip: you will know the true colour of hyacinths by the colour of the skin on the bulb. Hyacinths are the most fragrant of all spring flowering bulbs.


Planning your bulb garden.

Most Canadian home gardeners will dig up tired annuals and plant among existing perennials and shrubs to make room for spring flowering bulbs, rather than devote a complete garden space to planting. Parks and Recreation departments take the opposite approach, which is one reason why I like to follow my own advice where planning my bulb planting is concerned... I mimic Mother Nature.

The effect of planting random clusters of bulbs in your garden is to create a look that gives the impression that you didn't actually have anything to do with it. "Hey, what do you know?" you might exclaim to your visitors come spring, "tulips coming up all over the place. Who would have thought?"

It is great fun to drop early flowering narcissus (small daffodils) or crocus in your lawn. They will come up for years to come and will finish flowering before the first cut of your lawn.

Spring lawn (Mark Cullen)Tip: to get a truly natural, random, scattered effect from your bulbs grab a handful of them, turn your back on the planting area and gently toss them over your shoulder. Plant them where they lie. This works best in the lawn.

To plant naturally looking clusters of bulbs in your garden I recommend that you dig a hole 3 times as deep as the bulbs are thick (measured from tip to bottom). Layer the bottom of the hole with a centimeter or two of quality soil or triple mix.
Press the bulbs into the new soil with a 1/2 twist to give them firm contact with the soil.
Fill in the hole with the original soil that you dug out (if it is reasonable quality) or fill with triple mix.

Water your bulbs thoroughly when planted.

Stick a plant label in the ground above the newly planted bulbs with the name of the species and variety (e.g. Tulip, Darwin Hybrid, and Oxford). This will not only give the ID of the bulb come spring but it will remind you of where you planted next time you go digging in your garden.

The payback for all of your trouble is the exciting appearances of your new bulbs come spring. It is hard to imagine how much fun this is, right now, in the fall, with a full gardening season just behind us. But take my word for it - when you see the performance of your bulbs come spring you will not regret your investment even if it meant raiding your 'rainy day' fund to do it.

Keep your knees dirty,

Mark

Mail order sources for bulbs:
www.gardenimport.com (Ontario)
www.mcfayden.com (prairies)
Retail: Home Hardware (across Canada) (http://www.markcullen.com/buyers_guide/markschoice_productsFall2009.htm)
www.veseys.com (maritimes)

 

 

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