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  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • does anyone else think that they're going to end up alone?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    i know i will.
  • What do I do if my ex-boyfriend is getting over me but I can't get over him?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and my ex is 19. We were together for one year. He is obviously getting over me as he started college recently at a university and he's added a few girls he goes to school with on Facebook. Me, on the otherhand, I haven't met any guys after him and I'm just always thinking about him so it's hard to get over him. I hate that he's meeting all these girls and I'm not meeting any new guys that I'm interested in. I'm kind of jealous. What should I do?
  • Please read this poem that I made about my dad?

    Family - 9 hours ago

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    Hi, Please read my poem - I know that it's long. However, it would be greatly appreciated i you can tell me what you think of it. (Please not that I am almost eighteen years old) It’s been so long since our family fell apart. I’ll never forget the damage that you punctured into my heart. All the grief, the misery, and the darkness that you put me through and how you never cared what I wanted to do. Now that you have a new family, suddenly now you decide to care. Words are only words that I only hear, but the truth is that you’re never there. You never saw the development of the woman that I became today. You only remember the bad choices that I made. But still, you want me back in your life just to please your new daughter and your wife. I’m sure that you never told them how you made my life burn like fire and how you tried to persuade me of throwing away my true desires. So, I can be daddy’s perfect picture. My heart will always remain pure, unlike yours who destroyed every hope that I had in you. Good luck to you trying to pretend to your baby girl that you’re a perfect dad. Honey, he’ll only tear your heart apart and at the end at of the day he will only see the bad. He’ll leave you crying in the corner full of misery and then he’ll try to convince you that he will change. Dad, it’s always the same. The games you play, the lies that slip out of your mouth and how you smile with that evil grin. You’re such a disappointment in my eyes, and I can count how many times you commuted sin. I’m better off now with out you holding my hand, because you were never there after all. You only watched every time someone punched me into the wall. Saying that I should do better, and you only let me down. I only hoped that one day that you would come around, to tell me that you are proud. We can’t rewrite history, and you can’t fixed the damage in my heart. Because you made me feel worthless, and that I can never end what I started. After everything that you put me through, I’m glad that I never put my faith in you.
  • My brother's wife got mad at me about a "Facebook" entry. Please Read?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    Okay, I am friends with brothers wife on facebook, my brother's wife name is Bridget and she is from Belize. Now, someone she knows asked for my friendship, when I notice it was one of her friends I trusted the source and accepted the friend which was a male. I am single and have already raised my daughter who is know 22years old. For some reason I thought she (Bridget) told him to be-friend me. Well, anyway the guy made a comment on my picture saying "Nice Picture" and I responded saying Thanks, & how are you related to my sis Bridget. Well, before he could even respond, she (Bridget) calls me and says: "If you want to be his friend, then be his friend, don't question our relationship, I don't go around on your friends asking: How are they related to you" Well, I was soo furious, because the question I ask him was just a conversation starter. And wasn't even like I really wanted to know how they were related, I just wanted to break the ice and start conversation with him. I didn't appreciate Bridget Tone and just hung up the phone, I really wanted to start cussing her out but I didn't. Then I went to Facebook and deleted her and this other guy as friend. What do you think, Was I wrong or was she wrong?. She keep calling me back, and she told my dad how I didn't have to hang up like a fool. Right Now, I am still mad and need to calm down because I didn't think she would go there. Its funny how you think things will turn out one way but it turns out to go LEFT
  • Do you know somone who you've tried your hardest to be friends with, but they still find a way to insult you?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    What would you do in a situation like that? Thank you, Jaguar. It's like, I really don't wanna argue with this person either. I honestly don't know why they would do that...
  • Ladies; what do you think about Metalheads?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I'm curious how the "normal" (God, I hate that word) girls/women think about guys like me? I know a lot of people might picture a sweaty beer drinking, bearded guy with long hair when they think about metalheads. Now I don't know about the sweaty part, I do drink beer, but I have neither long hair nor a beard. Im asking this because I do get womens' attention somehow, from a distance at least, but beyond that nothing much ever happens, lol. I must say, i'm an introvert guy, not really shy or anything, at least, not once I get to know you, I'm just a bit laid back when it comes to first contact. Is there like, something that repels you from approaching us or something? Do you have some sort of preconceptions? I really am curious, because quite frankly, the thought of just walking up to a girl and asking her makes me crap my pants x) I know a few dozen metalheads besides myself and most of them don't take drugs, but ok.
From the Garden Shed

"Must Dos" for back to school

Posted Wed, Sep 02, 2009
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We have 4 kids. While one is now working full time (Lynn is partners with her mother Mary at Mary's Yarns www.marysyarns.com) the other three are still in school.

When they head off to the institutions of higher learning, I know the feeling that parents have. More accurately, I know the 'multitude of feelings'. You are relieved (it has been a long summer of managing the kids and the schedules), you are happy (that they are finally off to school, where someone else is now in control), you are sad (cause you are going to miss them!).

But most of all you are forced into the next phase of your year. It is time to look around you and consider doing things that you previously (for 9 weeks, anyway) had no time for. Like the garden.

(Below, right: The late summer garden at the Toronto Botanical Garden www.torontobotanicalgarden.ca)

In the gardenHerewith, my indispensable list of 'things to do around the garden when the kids go back to school'. Print it and post it on the fridge next to the drawings of 'what I did on my summer vacation' etc.:

1. I will start with the least desirable job of all, weed.

Truth is, your flowers, roses, shrubs and the veggie garden have been competing with the thistles, wild grasses (twitch grass is public enemy #1 around my place!) and the like and without an intervention by you, your plants are destined to lose this one.
You see, weeds are considered weeds because they serve no useful purpose in the garden. The plants that you put in the ground, on the other hand, are the 'desirables'.
Get out your long handled hoe and make sure that it is sharp (I recommend the new Mark's Choice hand held sharpener, but putting it on a grinding wheel does the job too).
Cut down weeds with your sharp hoe and if you can, pull the big ones. With all of the rain that we have received over the past few weeks in much of the country, pulling weeds is not such a tough job.

2. Cut back the finished blooms.

It is important to cut back the blooms of perennials and annuals that have matured: Shasta daisies, early flowering rudbeckias, finished hosta flowers, peonies, day lilies even lilacs. Why? Because the energy that a plant puts into producing seed, in its' effort to reproduce, would otherwise be used to produce new growth, to beef up the root system for better blooms next year and in some cases to produce more blossoms before the killing frost of late fall.

Many annuals need 'deadheading' as well. Petunias and snapdragons are the perfect example.

(Pictured, below: Flower"Dahlia - enjoy while you can!!")

3. Fill in the holes.

Now that you have pulled/cut down weeds and cut back your perennials and annuals that are tired, it is time to pour yourself a coffee/tea or favourite beverage (this will depend on the time of day, now won't it?) and assess the possibilities.
You have created an opportunity to add interest to your garden with the addition of new plants. Naturally, you will consider going to your favourite garden retailer and look over their offerings, which may include: fall flowering, winter hardy (to zone 4) mums, hardier still (zone 3) New England Asters, rudbeckias, purple cone flower (Echinacea) and a host of ornamental grasses that just may blow your gardening socks off.

Don't forget to look over the frost hardy (as opposed to 'winter hardy') flowering kale, cabbage, ornamental millet, snapdragons (you read right) and dusty miller. These will provide reliable colour well past the first frost and in the case of the kale and cabbage will look their best after several frosts. Usually around the middle of November.

4. Fertilize your lawn.

If you haven't fertilized your lawn for more than 8 weeks, this is the time to do it again. Use the regular formulae offered by a reliable national brand for best results: So Green, C.I.L. Golfgreen and Green Earth (for organic gardeners) are all great. (Keep in mind that the most important application of lawn food is yet to come in late fall, at which time you will use a 'fall formula') more on that later.

5. Speaking of your lawn - this is the best time of year to overseed an established lawn to thicken it and to start a new lawn. Do not leave this job past the end of September or there will not be time enough for the new grass seed to put down roots before winter.

6. Holland Bulbs.

Yes, it is that time of year again and I will be talking about this more in upcoming weeks. Canadians have at least the next 6 weeks to get their tulips, daffodils and the like into the ground. However, this is the perfect time of year to buy your bulbs as the selection is at its' best at the beginning of the season.

Truth is, the boat comes over from the Netherlands loaded with the Canadian quota of bulbs once a year. That is just about it. So naturally the best and the rarest bulbs sell first. For fun, try buying some bulbs on line. I like the selection at Garden Import best of all: it is the widest of them all and Dugald Cameron (the owner who selects the varieties personally each season) offers many varieties that are not available at retailers. Go to www.gardenimport.com. McFaydens, the great Canadian 'mail order' company in Brandon Manitoba also provide an excellent selection of spring flowering bulbs. Go to www.mcfayden.com.

Wherever you buy your bulbs, this is the time to dream of the great garden that you are going to have next spring.

7. Network.

Many of the horticultural clubs that were more or less dormant during the summer months are now back up and running at full speed. Get in touch with your local horticultural club and find out when and where they meet. You will enjoy the opportunity to meet new people and to network over garden related conversations.
Besides, most of these clubs (and there are over 1,000 of them in Canada!) have a 'perennial exchange' in the early autumn, which is your best chance to acquire new plants for your garden for very little money or in exchange for a division or two from your own garden.

If you don't have a horticultural club in your community, consider starting one. Go to www.markcullen.com/news_events/gard_communities.htm.

8. Feed the birds.

Many of the most interesting birds - warblers, finches, hummingbirds etc. - are passing through our Canadian gardens now, on their way south. Interesting thing is, song birds do not make a bee-line for warmer climes. They generally zig zag their way southbound, looking for sources of food as they go. Right now we have the baby hummingbirds in our garden to beat the band. The mature males and females left for the south ahead of them, blazing the trail for the youngsters to follow.

Much like our kids, the new generation are feeling their way through life. Their grand journey to their winter home is just underway: it is up to us to savour their last visit with us 'til spring. When, of course, they will return for the summer just like your kids will.

This is your time to be selfish.
Indulge yourself by spending some quality time in the garden.

And keep your knees dirty!

Yours,

Mark

p.s. the winners of the www.livingwell.ca contest spent the day with me this past Sunday: we toured the great public gardens of Toronto including the Music Garden, the great gardens of High Park, Casa Loma and the Toronto Botanical Gardens. Cathy and Gerry Gartner, from Regina Saskatchewan were the perfect guests! We had a blast and ended the day with a great dinner prepared by Mary at our place... ahhh! Nice. Welcome back any time Cathy and Gerry! I will treasure the memory of our day together. For more info go to www.livingwell.ca.

Mark and friends (Mark Cullen) (Right: In the music garden - Toronto.)

Question of the Week

Q/ Can I prune my lilacs at this time of year?
A/ If you prune lilacs now you will be removing the flower buds for next year's blooms. It is best to prune lilacs immediately after they have finished blooming.

 

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  • 1. Posted by AuntB on Tue, Sep 08, 2009

    You have inspired me to shop early for bulbs. How do I stop squirrels from digging them up once I have planted the bulbs?

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