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  • How do I pull him away from video games to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Ever since he got this x-box 360, it's like our sex life is non-existent. I've tried sexy clothes, makeup. I feel like an idiot in our living room dressed up for him to say, "One more match," and fall asleep by myself.
  • okay. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. porn is alawys something we have argued about?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    and im done! i dont want to argue anymore. iv told him this amillion times.! but i cant tell if he ihas stopped. last time i found it on his computer about a month and a half ago he was just as upset as i was and disapointed in his self. he knows i hate it. just last night i found more on his computer/ he told me he swears its not his. that it must have been his brother who is 15, he told me he hates seeing me upset. that he only thinks of me and only me. that hes done with that shit as he called it and doesnt want to do it anymore. please dont tell me this is just something boys do. that its normal? thats not the answer im looking for. if he honestly is telling me the truth like hes saying..im to insecure about the subject to beleive him almost. hetold me if he looked at it he wud tell me because he said he wud rather me help him with it then him keep doing it behind my back. he also told me that he has had 4 urges to do it since i found out the last time. he told me that those times he had the urges he just went to bed or jacked off to me. i feel bad cuz i feel i cant trust him. and i also feel bad cuz when i feel like it was him and i get mad and upset he gets mad cuz i dont beleive him. i realy honestly dont know what to do to make my self feel confident about it. hes not one to lie. cheat. or any of that. i mean everyone says it cud be worse ya know? but i dnt want the porn in our relationship. last time what realy got him was...i told him i was gna leave if it didnt stop. a relationship of 2 years is pretty important to just let go like that. i honestly dont think he being hte person he is wud just drop that. can u guys help me? and before u say it i wont whatch it with him! and he has tons of pictures of me and stuff like that. i just want me and him without the porn. not me him and the porn ya know??
  • Have you ever.......?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    Have you ever looked in your spouses/significant other's phone text messages or facebook/myspace pages if you had a gut feeling that something was going on behind your back? And if so, wether you found something or not, did you feel guilty for looking in the first place? I looked out of curiosity while trying to download some music onto her phone, didn't like what I found, and felt guilty anyway. If I don't say anything, God only knows how long it will go on for. If I do say something, she'll think I don't trust her. My issue is, it could be nothing at all, she is a viscious flirt. We have a great marriage and a fantastic sex life, so if it is what I fear, why would she find the need to stray?
  • my mother-in-law yelled at wife to see if I would defend her and I didn't so her mother said see you don't-?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    love her -any thoughts
  • How cheap is cheap? im with a cheap a$s?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    My partner is cheap, all the time. Now when i get money i always spend it on what we need, i never whinge and feel that well if we want to eat out, then lets do it. We have no kids and arnt paying mortage etc...when he is broke im always there to buy him anything he needs. Now when it comes to his money, the day he gets it he will be quiet and not go places to spend money, he avoids it all costs. he will only eat once a day. Mind you he is arabic, i know sometimes they can be cheap and they eat a very basic diet his is chicken and rice, every day almost i cant stand no more chicken and rice.i will scream if i see another grilled drumstick. So come to today i want to make something, thai chicken curry, he is all for it, then its his turn to buy he changes his mind when i say get chicken breast fillet, i need it, he says no lets get a kilo of chicken drumsticks they are $2.50 a kilogram, i said why he said its cheaper i dont want to spend alot of money, i said to him how? he told me we can boil the chicken and peel the meat off, put that in the stir fry. I was so mad you cant believe. Then we had a massive fight in the car because i called him cheap, he says he isnt, but he is, and he dosent want to spend alot on food.cheap with everything..i pay more than him and i need to eat decent food, so he said to me okay i will cook myself and if you want to buy expensive stuff then by for yourself. Im still angry and want to know if this IS cheap and he is being?!! after the arguement we didnt buy food, he just went to macdonalds and spent $15 there? i thought he wanted to not spend alot of money? oh yeh and he ate half my fries too :(
  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me??????

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to me at the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • When I was your age... _________ was cool.?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    It's a fill in question of when you were young/lil. What was cool?
  • When people say:"Oh, you make me so mad!"...who do you think cares?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    When you allow yourself to get angry or sad, frustrated or go spastic, what makes you think other people give a damn? You do it for no reason that's obvious to others...we just wonder why you think it's supposed to matter to us!
  • Facebook photos, do you think I am ugly, average or pretty?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

From the Garden Shed

A Canada Day garden

Posted Tue, Jun 30, 2009
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I have travelled across the country a couple of times over the past 3 months. This is what I do come spring - meet and greet, public speak and visit with so-called ordinary Canadians who love to garden. This is my 'season of learning' - when I have the greatest opportunity to get in touch with the people that I love most of all -outside of family and immediate friends. Mark Cullen(Mark Cullen)

One thing that I have learned through my travels is that our tastes in garden design vary from region to region.
Take the 'red and white' Canadian garden.
Chances are, you won't find a lot of the bold, patriotic statements in colour and fashion in the tony neighbourhoods of Toronto or Montreal where landscape architects are the professional 'garden designers of choice'.

In any case, why bother demonstrating your patriotic fervor by planting red petunias among some pumpkin sized rocks that have been painted white? The answer may have less to do with design concepts found in glossy magazines and upscale coffee table books and more to do with your idea of fun.

Yea - fun.

My late father was good at mixing a sense of whimsy and even humour using plants and 'stuff' that he had stored in the barn or the garage. He enjoyed planting up an old horse drawn carriage each spring with marigolds. When he first started Cullen Gardens (the public 'show garden' in Ontario that is now owned by the town of Whitby) he alternated red and white petunias up the lane ... over 1,200 linear feet of the things!!

Whether you like the idea of celebrating Canada Day by planting red and white flowers is beside the point, as far as I am concerned. Truth is, there are a few reasons why you should consider planting either or both red and white flowering plants.

Why 'red' plants?

Mark Cullen(Mark Cullen)- Red plants fit into the 'hot' side of the colour wheel and therefore are great for punching up an otherwise dull or unnoticed corner of the garden.

- Red coloured flowers attract hummingbirds. They love this colour - which is why most hummingbird feeders and liquid feed is coloured red. Where flowers are concerned look, for annual petunias, salvia, impatiens, perennial salvia cardinalis, day lilies, and oriental lilies. Tumpet Vine, while more orange than red, is also a good choice. 

- Red is the most dominant colour in the rose world. In other words, if you are looking for a rose that is as reliable a bloomer as they come, look over the selection of red varieties at your local retailer. I still find 'Improved Blaze' one of the best and most reliable climbing roses on the market. (btw - it is still a good time to plant roses and expect a decent show of colour this season).


Why plant WHITE flowers?

- First of all, if you plant white flowers at the back of your yard, it will look bigger.
White has this habit of 'punching up' the colours around it. When cooking, salt will do much the same thing. So, 'white' in the garden is what salt is to the cook.

- Secondly, white is clean and bright.
You would plant white flowering annuals, perennials and shrubs in a garden that may otherwise be in the shade, or on the east side of the house. It is no mistake that Vida Sackville West planted her famous 'white' garden on the east side of the Sissinghurst estate in England. http://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/main/w-vh/w-visits/w-findaplace/w-sissinghurstcastlegarden/

In the fashion world white is used to give an outfit energy and liveliness. Think of white in the garden much the same way.

White annuals that I recommend you consider for your garden:
Impatiens, petunias, salvia (though some varieties can look washed out) and of course marigolds and zinnias.

White perennials: David Summer Phlox, Gaura, Oriental Lily, Baby's breath.

White flowering shrubs:
Iceberg rose, Moonlight Japanese Climbing Hydrangea, Summer Snowflake Viburnum and Emerald Gaiety Euonymus.

Think that a 'Canada Day' garden is hokey?

I would urge you to reconsider.


Keep your knees dirty this long weekend!!

Mark
www.markcullen.com

 

 

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