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  • My friend is putting guys before me (7th grade)?

    Friends - 4 hours ago

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    ok my friends has been obsessing over guys lately.. ever since she's been playing volleyball with them she's been falling down and injuring herself on purpose just to get attention and to have guys help her up so that they can hold her hand and also she cries whenever she doesn't get a lot of attention so that the guys will notice her and treat her like a princess or something also she once told this guy that i liked him because she likes him too and she told him i liked him just so that he could talk to her more i mean what kind of friend tells someone else my secrets???? she promised not to tell ANYONE. but she told him just to get his attention. all the guys who play volleyball always treat her like a princess now and she just ignores me. like after i was playing vball with her and the guys the bell rang and then i was gonna give her something but she just ignored me every single time i called her. i was like 10 feet away from her! and then all her guy friends just dragged her away and they were laughing at me and stuff. :( wat should i dooo?? she's being such a jerkk.
  • How come people tell me that i'm pretty and have personality yet I absolutely don't get hit on by any guys?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I'm twenty. The only guys who really hit on me are homeless men with no teeth who come up to me and tell me that I am beautiful. (non-homeless guys have said this too though) Men just look, no one talks to me. What's going on??
  • what is the best way to tell my dad that someone "took" my iPod?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    about a month ago i lost my ipod at school. i have been looking everywhere for it. i've been asking my teachers if they've seen it. i've asked the school office if anyone had turned it in and they said no. i've tried retracing my steps, but that hasn't helped. the only thing i can think of is that someone took my ipod. usually i would put my ipod i my purse, but for some reason i just decided to put it in my backpack. i know it is my responsibility to keep up with it, but i don't know what happened, honestly. and now i have come up with the conclusion that i have to tell my dad that i "lost it". i've already told my mom because i have a strong bond with her and i can tell her anything, but with my dad is a different story. i mean me and my dad are SUUUPER close. probably closer than any teenage girl and father. but just the way he is when he's mad makes me scared and want to...cry. what would be the best way to tell him?
  • I found out that my b/f that lives with me was watchin porn on the computer, and i got mad. Was that wrong?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I was on my b/f's name on the computer helping him with a website while i opened up another tab, and it had pictures of most visited websites, 3 in which were porn. I questioned him and he said it wasn't him, but later he said it was him after he lied. He claimed that he only went on it three times, and he doesn't even "watch it like that", but that it reminded him of us. I was mad he lied, that he even needed to watch that to remember "us", and because im self-concious about my body, so him watching the girls have sex with big boobs makes me feel bad about myself. Am i wrong to be mad at him, and possibly break up with him because of this??
  • do girls think that guys that are shy are cute?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    because when i talk to girls they say awwww ur so shy thats so cute what does that mean like a hot cute or a baby cute? i need help
  • This boy in my class keeps....?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    hitting me...like punching me in the arm and arm and shoulder...he did it 6 times today and it was only a 4 hour day at school.... and then he was like were leaving at 11:30 and i was no 11:25 and he was like NO and like pushed me into my desk with his boddy...im only in 17 grade and 13 and i go to a catholic school... i told him to stop and he said no...then a 8th grade boy who i have known since i was 3 (our parents are bff's and work toghher) told him to stop cuz my dad would shot him(my dads a cop) and stuff..and the boy that hit my just laughed what should i do?!!?
  • is it weird that i talk to my teacher after school everyday?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    after school i stay after like almost everyday and talk to my teacher. she is very cool and fun to talk to :) but is it weird that i do that? she doesnt seem to mind, i actually think she enjoys it!! she always asks if im coming to talk to her after school. my friends say its weird and i have no life, but i dont think so.. is this weird?? should i stop talking to her after school??
  • Is My Nephew Cute? Nice Only Please?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    Hes The Guy With the white shirt on who is surronded by ladys ^.^ he calls them his "buddies" And Remember hes only 11 So back off pedifiles Sowwy Its Sooo Small http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/9572/shaneisapimp.jpg And He Is 13 here ---->http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/706/myphotos031.jpg
  • How come all of my successful black friends have non-black girlfriends?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Three of my friends, two are engineers and the other owns a landscape business all have non-black girlfriends.. Have nice houses and drive nice cars but out of the five years i known and grow up with them i NEVER saw them around black women unless it was family members.. I remember we all went out for a drink and brought up Tyra Banks being hot and they said, they like Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Salma Hayek. Etc
  • Do I have a right to be upset?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    Ok my friend Bob(not the real name) would hang out with me everyday always talk to me,be my partner for everything,and always sit with me at lunch,and have me wait for her or her wait for me at the locker...Then last week she started hanging out with my other friend Rob and they both started excluding and ignoring me Bob did nothing she used to do she was always with Rob and then when she knew I wanted to be her partner she looked at me but when Rob went over to her she is like ROB!! then only after she saw I was upset she comes over and is like I will be your partner next time (she lied) and she only said that cuz i was upset...Shes like are you mad I told her y she just goes off...she texted me im sorry like 5 times..I said I forgive you..sort of I cant tell if she actually even cares that she ignored me or she is only sorry i am mad! So...Do you think I am wrong to be mad? I came home and cried..I am more upset/sad then mad she says she still wants to be my friend, But...I am the type of person that it will take a long time to consider her my friend again
From the Garden Shed

The hummingbird and butterfly garden

Posted Mon, Jun 22, 2009
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Four years ago I moved into my 'dream' garden.

My wife Mary and I decided that we wanted to move to the country and it seemed obvious where that should be as a portion of her family farm was available to us at the time. One warm summer night, very early on in the negotiation, I made the remark that I would like to move there providing that I could have my 'dream garden'.
She said, "It's a field of soybeans, so go nuts."
And off I went.

I walked in to the property from the road until it just felt 'right' and there I drove a broken hockey stick into the ground. This was the demarcation of my new Canadian garden.

I didn't realise it at the time, but I had carved off 10 acres of 'soybeans' with the intention of converting it into a hummingbird and butterfly haven.

Hummingbird (Mark Cullen)Here is what I have learned about attracting butterflies and hummingbirds:

1. You can attract butterflies and hummingbirds (and song birds too!) largely by your choice of plant material.
2. Your choice of plants should include lots of native species, if you want to maximize the value of them as 'magnets' to butterflies and hummingbirds.
3. Look for bright-coloured perennials and annuals with 'trumpet' shaped flowers for the hummers and flat, bold faced flowers for the butterflies that they easily perch on (specifics to come...).
4. Plant lots of trees for nesting and protection (for the birds, hummers included).
5. Place lots of still water around your yard for drinking (bird baths work as well as anything - just empty them weekly to avoid mosquito breeding).
6. This garden performs best in sun to partial sun (so don't over plant the trees).
7. It is beneficial to have a hummingbird feeder set up near your kitchen window so that you can see them for yourself, without always having to take a tour of the garden to find the little rascals. Besides, the hummers may just announce their arrival to your place with a visit to your feeder first. You best be there to greet them!

Where do you go from here?

Some details:

1. Make a plan of your butterfly and hummingbird garden now, and be sure to include many of the plants that are known to attract them.

2. Native plants that work: Echinacea purpurea (purple coneflower), rudebeckia hirta (black eyed susan), yarrow (great for hot dry places), perennial salvia and liatrus (shooting star).

3. Bright, trumpet-shaped flowers: trumpet vine, honeysuckle (both the hardy shrub and the vine), salvia, foxglove, lupines, jasmine (tropical, but you can bring it indoors for the winter), hibiscus (the tropical varieties, the hardy perennial and the 'rose of sharon' woody shrub) - they all work nicely, lavatera (annual), rose mallow (annual), hollyhock (biennial), delphinium, all hostas, daylilies, fuchsia (annual) and nicotine (annual - and one of the best!).
The 'flat flowering' plants that provide a nectar rich platform from which butterflies will feed and 'spread their wings' include Shasta daisy, Queen Anne's Lace, rudebeckia, asters (perennial and annual) and many others.

For the complete list go to www.markcullen.com


4. Plant a mixture of deciduous and evergreen trees as both provide protection, food sources and other varied benefits.
5. I have several bird baths in my front and back garden that get a lot of use - some are more ornamental than practical: all used by birds and butterflies more for drinking than bathing. Remember to dump still water weekly to prevent the mosquitoes from breeding...

6. Bright sunshine is favoured by most butterflies and hummingbirds in fine weather, but trees provide protection from wind and severe weather.
7. I received an e mail from the executive Director of Hummingbird Canada to say that hummingbirds actually arrive in many parts of Central Canada in mid April, contrary to popular belief. Keep this in mind next spring and get your feeder out early. Go to www.wildbirds.com/dnn/Favorites/Hummingbirds

Be sure to clean out your feeder every week or so to prevent mold from building up inside of it.

And keep in mind that hummingbirds are migratory. They pass through our gardens in urban and suburban areas once in spring and again in late summer/early fall. I find that it is easier to get them to stick around during their southern migration late in the season.

So - be ready. The most desirable wildlife is about to arrive at the party. And with it, our reputation for being quiet, modest Canadian people that everyone seems to think that we are, is about to fly out the window.

Keep your knees dirty,

Mark

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  • 1. Posted by Fairminded on Mon, Jul 06, 2009

    Very informative

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