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  • am i wrong !! SHE BITCHES ALL THE TIME..?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    hi im 22 with 2 kids and i one on the way. my wife has depression and i work. me and my wife have been threw alot with each other to be so young. she bitches ALL THE TIME ABOUT LITTLE SHIT. about me taking out the trash, me cleaning the house, me helping with the kids ect. i think i do my part with the kids but the house is always dirty because the kids. i do clean but when i come home the house is a mess. she could at least keep it clean into i get home then i can do my part. when i tell her she says she watches the kids all day. but when i come home i be tired. so the first thing i do when i get home is not clean. she hates me because i cheated on her 3 years ago and we been together 5 years. she never got over it. does she have a good reason to BITCH ALL THE TIME.!!!
  • My friends likes me...but I don't like him!? Help!?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Hey! :) Ok, my friend has a crush on me and he's constantly flirting with me. He's previously really really liked a good friend of mine (for a long time, too), and I'm just not comfortable with that fact. Also, I'm not sure if I would be attracted to him even if he had never liked my friend. He's really nice and I don't want to lose him as a friend...How do I make him see that his behavior is a little out of line, and how do I tell him that I don't like him? I don't want to be mean or break his heart or anything... Thanks!! :D He's told both a mutual friend and me that he likes me. =/
  • i am madly in love with 2 girls?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    ok well both of these girls are very gorgeous and beautiful, and i have also known them for about 2 years, i am friends with both of them, but the first girl i have went out with before, about a year ago and now she likes me again, as do i. The other girl i haven't ever went out with before but she said about a month ago, she would consider going out with me (if i ask her). They are very nice girls, but i know i can only go out with one of them i need help...... witch one should u i ask out???
  • are you attracted to feminine men?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i tend to like gay men, i like a guy that can dance. well, that dresses nice, smells good, is intelligent. not all about his muscles. is clean cut, i tend to like gay men. what are you attracted too?
  • What to do for friend on anniversary of her father's death?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    My best friend's father was murdered three years ago, and the anniversary of his death is coming up in the middle of November and I was trying to come up with some ideas as to what I could do for her and her family. I'm very close with them, but it's hard to think of something, given the situation. Does anyone have any ideas about what I could do? Thank you! WHOA. Some people are taking a nice gesture as something mean. There's a nice way to explain how you feel, making someone feel as if they're doing something bad, when only trying to help, isn't it. I in no way shape or form meant as a way to "celebrate" I simply only wanted ideas as to what I could do for her that day to get her mind off of it.
  • Im so confused about this guy. Please help!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I posted questions on him before but... there is this guy whos a friend of mine. I like him and im not sure if he likes me back. We hungout before and he like paied for my little "date" or w/e and he was so nice. In school, he pokes me which is like a hi. Though, when it comes to facebook or something, he never writes to me. I have to be the first one starting a convo. We actually arent as close as we used to be. We barley talk anymore= / Before we couldnt wait to talk to each other. I did tell him about this, but he gives the same sorry all the time. Though, on wensday when i was in band, i decided to go with the flow and ignore him for a while cause it seems like he doesnt care about me like i care about him. So i ignored his poke. He like at the end of class kept looking at me a lot while practicing his instrument. Hes a senior by the way. Im a freshmen. I know that its like a diffrence but we connected quick before and idk.. =/ Its really upsetting to me because im so nice to him and i get nothing back. We talked yesterday but... it was like oh haha lmao lmao yeah yeah. And when he was about to sign off he said i got go "Later dude" ... On facebook he keeps putting these like love statuses like "Your beautiful in so many ways" or "your not alone ill always be with you" ... its interesting. I need advice about this because im sick and tired of always thinking about this... P.s. in school there are these girls that like him too. They are like in love with him and all are freshmen. So im guessing im not the only one that sort of connects with him... Though, i doubt he ever hungout with any of them in person alone...
  • How do I stop myself from having sex?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    whenever my boyfriend and i see each other, we have sex multiple times. if i tell him that i don't want to, he respects that, but it always seems like i'm the one asking for it. i don't know how to not want it so badly. whenever we're together, we're almost always alone at my house or at a hotel, so it's really hard not to, and i always end up doing it anyway. afterwards, i don't have any regrets, but i just wish i didn't give in that easily. does anyone have any advice?
  • Ladies only? Would you find me attractive?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

  • What should I do now after I told him I like him?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    We've liked each other a long time and I just thought I'd tell him and get over it but he didn't do/say anything. What would you do if you were in this situation? I've waited 2 weeks! I'm thinking it's time to move on.
  • please help!! im sooo confused about this guy!!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    so my best guy friend who likes me alot and i like him back, but i wouldnt wanna date him cuz hes a player, and im kinda like the type that is waiting for a good guy whos trustworthy, and im 15, and havent a had a boyfriend yet cuz im picky and think i deserve better than alot of the guys tht go to my school, and he knows this. and his friends always tell me tht even tho he dates all the hoes, he likes me alot more and respects me more. but i know he doesnt want to date me for tht exact reason, cuz i respect myself too much (so he wont get sex from me is what im saying..) and so this weekend, he texted me after we were kinda fighting about how hes dating all these slutty girls and then lieing to me abnout not having a girlfriend when he does just so i'll go to the movies with him.and he texted: "i want u to know this, i do like u, i like u alot" and i was freaking out cuz he finally admitted to me that he liked me alot to my face, while he has a girlfreidn!!!!! wtf!!!! so what do u think is the reason he likes me so much but wont go out with me?! and do u think hes just keeping me aorund for rebound? and also we always give really close hugs, but recently hes been giving me these hugs where he like puts his arms really close aorund my lower waist by my butt (which he said was big last year and i got mad at him for saying tht lol, so understandable why he'd want to hug me near there). and normally, since hes tall with wide shoulders and a small waist and hips, and im short, i normally wrap my arms around hiss waist and his arms go around me when we hug. what do u think that means? he has a girlfriend, why cant he get those kind of hugs from her?!
From the Garden Shed

Perennial plants for golfers. My guide to a great low-maintenance garden

Posted Thu, May 21, 2009
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Before I get to the 'meat' of this blog - perennial plants that you should look for when shopping this weekend, I have to say something about our British gardening friends... who else, after all, would describe home vegetable growing as 'thrilling' and the flowering of perennial favourites as 'great entertainment'. And yet, the current issue of The Garden magazine, which is the official publication of the Royal Horticultural Society, does precisely that.

To look at a beet, freshly pulled from the raw earth and ready for the pot, and describe it as 'thrilling' is a bit of a stretch for us Canadian gardeners (except on the Prairies where enthusiasm for vegetable growing is reaching an all time high: and it WAS pretty high to begin with).

To witness the slow development of a peony as it erupts out of the soil in early May only to develop 'eye balls' for buds that eventually swell into perfectly round candy floss flowers later in the month as 'great entertainment'? One might think the British have lost their marbles. If that is the case I would say that they lost them a long time ago.

Truth is, Canadian gardeners have a long way to go before we can say that we enjoy our gardens with the same enthusiasm as our British brethren. Maybe that is true for all of 'garden' humanity - as no nation has such a finely developed passion for gardening than the British do.

On that note, I have some advice for you: whatever your gardening circumstances, be sure to look for the 'winners' that can make your garden the most satisfying ever, this spring.

Where people are concerned I look at the world as being made up of two primary groups: golfers and gardeners.
Golfers enjoy gardens. Well, at least they like looking at them. But they generally have little time for the tedious nature of gardening 'work'. I like to think that they live with the seed of gardening-potential inside of them: they just need to mature a little before they can see the light.
Gardeners have learned that there are countless benefits to getting their knees dirty.
Golfers think that dirt is dirty.
Gardeners have the patience to wait for a plant to mature from seed or transplant into a flowering beauty, fulfilling it's potential over time.
Golfers enjoy the thrill of the moment - a great shot on perfect grass - that someone else grew. (Note: you may insert your own interpretation of 'golfer': sailor, sports nut or whatever...)

You get the idea.

Here I list some of my favourite 'plants for golfers'. These are easy to grow, require very little maintenance and are there for you when you are finished your game - like old friends. They will not let you down.

Shop for plants with the 'exposure' of your yard in mind:

Sun. If you have blazing hot sun to deal with for most of the season then I recommend that you look over many of the Echinacea perennial flowers. The original 'Echinacea purpurea' is not a bad place to start. A prairie native, here you have a very winter hardy purple flowering butterfly magnet that blooms for up to 5 weeks and when it is done blooming attracts a host of hungry song birds in search of the prodigious production of tasty seeds.

Echinacea (Mark Cullen)

For something completely different - but still in the Echinacea family - look for some of the recently introduced varieties that 'improve' on the flowering performance of the original. Echinacea 'Magnus' was the perennial plant of the year just a few years ago. It provides a dense shade of purple that fades to almost pink later in the season. A July/August show of colour is guaranteed in almost any region of the country providing you position it in the sun.

Rudebeckia may best be known as 'Black Eyed Susan'. Not sure that Susan approves, as who wants to be known best for a black eye: but there you have it. I think that Rudebeckia is a great plant no matter what you call it. Hardy to zone 5 (north Toronto/Halifax).

It thrives in well drained, compost rich soil, loves the sun and blooms longer than just about any flowering perennial that I can think of. Plant Rudebeckia now and you will surely enjoy a fabulous show of yellow colour in late summer and autumn. In fact, this could be the best investment that the cottager makes: an easy spring planting for an abundance of colour when you get home from the cottage. It is great as a cut flower too.

Look for another 'perennial plant of the year', Rudebeckia 'Goldsturm'.
It will grow and multiply for three years then needs to be dug up and replanted. Not unusual for a 'perennial' in our climate.

Rudebeckia 'Prairie Sun' is another winner: with its' intense gold centre and butter soft outer petals.

My short list of 'sun loving perennials' includes all of the sedum family - think 'Sedum spectabilis' and 'hens and chicks' - (sempervivum, another member of the extensive sedum family, if you are looking for groundcovers in the sun).

Shade. Okay, you expected me to say that Hosta is a great shade performer. With over 7,000 varieties in the family to choose from including the meter wide giants like Hosta 'Frances Williams' and Hosta 'Drinking Gourd' I would not want to disappoint you. Truth is, however, that hostas are best grown in partial shade. A few hours of dappled shade (i.e. sun!) improves their performance substantially.

In truly dense shade I recommend the much more aggressive 'lamium' family. This is a colourful groundcover that will grow in between evergreens and shrubs, providing a carpet of variegated foliage and (right now!) flower. Though, the flowers do not last very long, I have to admit. Hardy to zone 2 (Edmonton).

Another shade loving plant on my golfers list is pachysandra or Japanese Spurge. This is an evergreen ground cover -unusual eh? It flowers in late May/early June but I would not write home about that. Instead the redeeming features of this plant is it's ability to thrive in dry shade, multiply over 2 to 3 years and provide a carpet of green where most anything else would give up. Hardy to zone 5 (Southern Ontario/Nova Scotia/PEI).

Also on my list of dry-shade lovers are:
Lily of the valley (aggressive! But worth it in the right place). Hardy to zone 2 (long winters - Edmonton).
Epimediums. A large family of early spring blooming woodland plants. Hardy to zone 4.

And finally - think of the 'natives' that do so well under similar circumstances: Garden (Mark Cullen)Trilliums (zone 3), Canadian Ginger (zone 4), Jack in the Pulpit (zone 4) and Ladies Slipper (zone 3).

Next week: Annual plants for golfers.

Meantime, enjoy your passion - whether you are British or not - and keep your knees dirty.

Mark

ps. I had a great time in Halifax and Windsor Nova Scotia this past week. The Public Garden is still the best in the country - in my books!

 

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  • 1. Posted by mike on Fri, May 22, 2009

    Hi do you have any info on building an herd dryer thanks Mike

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  • 2. Posted by HilariousAquarius on Fri, May 22, 2009

    How do I know what zone I am in??

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  • 3. Posted by purpleraindr... on Fri, May 22, 2009

    I live in the Twilight zone.

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  • 4. Posted by purpleraindr... on Fri, May 22, 2009

    I live in the Twilight zone.

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  • 5. Posted by greenhouse12000 on Wed, May 27, 2009

    Hi Hil Aquarius! You can figure out what zone you are in by going to my website www.markcullen.com and looking it up on the internal search engine. Put in your city/nearest town. Thanks for reading! Mark

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