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  • he told me to text him. but idk if i should?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Basically we were talking about my stalker. me and this guy flirt alot. he trys getting me jealous. he has a girl. he calls himself a man. he complains about his b i t c h to me. he picked me up for our work meeting. i guess we flirted a little bit. usually hes not like this. like he wouldn't even walk next to me. he kept walking really fast and stuff.and then he said he had to take me home because his friend whom lives 2 hours away is coming over or w.e. im not sure if he even likes me anymore. he seems WAY conferable texting me. like he talks a lot more to me. and he asks me what im doing if im cold ect. idk what to think. i told him see ya weds(that's when i work) he didn't say anything. all he said is text me. i said only if you want me to he laughed and i said bye. WHAT THE F U C K DOES THIS MEAN. should i text him??? and what do you all think :(
  • Why does married life get so boring?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    Is this true? I mean most of my friends who are married tend to talk without excitement about their lives having family. Like this friend of mine who when I asked him how he and his family was he said "Oh, we are just dealing with daily stuff, school, work, the usual". I mean he and many others used to say how happy they were at the beginning or when single. I'm single myself, so I would like to know if we all end up talking like that or is it that these people aren't having the right family life? What to do to maintain the bliss?
  • On your opinion, would you say he likes me? (looong)?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Alright so this boy, let's call him Michael, has been my friend for a few years. (Since 7th grade, now we're in 10th) We actually 'went out' in 7th grade but it was one of those times where, you know, we're too young and it didn't really count. We were just too shy around each other. So now 3 years later, we've been hanging out a lot. But not just us 2, we usually hang out with a group of our closest friends. We did a lot of fun stuff together last month and last night we all went to go see Paranormal Activity (which is not as scary as it looks, trust me) and I sat by Michael through the whole movie. He even nudged me and tried to scare me a few times. But before the whole movie thing, we walked around town for a little bit and some random photographer wanted to take our picture... well a few. He seemed to make a point in standing next to me whenever he could... he was even close. And then after the movie we were dropped off at someone's house and walked a couple miles (we all live in the same area in the country) because I guess we weren't ready for the day to end. But we ended up walking to his house because his mom ordered us all pizza and called him. So as we're walking to his house (mind you it got pretty dark) he would still walk next to me whenever he could and he even pulled me out of the way when a car was coming behind us. I could see the lights, but I didn't think of how close it was. I didn't say anything to it, and neither did he. But I felt that the silence had more to say. So then we arrived at his house, ate pizza, watched 'Dude where's my car?" And we ended up using the "Truth or Dare 18+" application on his iTouch. We didn't do anything too bad. It was more fun than obnoxious. I would never want to act that way in front of my best friends. But every time my name was spun on the thing, I didn't even get to pick Truth or Dare. Either him or the other two always picked dare for me (by pressing that button on the screen). It then came to a spin the bottle dare for me. I spun and it landed on an empty space, which Michael moved his leg into. Does that mean anything significant? I'm not being naive, I know that that could mean he wants me to kiss him. But I don't want to jump to conclusions. I don't know if my other 2 friends know anything about Michael and his thoughts. I don't know them myself. But in your opinion, would you say he has feelings for me? Or would you say he was just flirting because he can? Mind you, he's not known for acting this way.
  • Met a guy online and i need advice...?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I've been chatting to this guy online, via text, on webcam and on the phone for a couple of months now, so I'm pretty certain he is who he says he is. We're meant to be meeting up in december and I'm taking a couple of other people with me, and we're meeting in a public place, so i should be fine. We seem to get on really well, and we talk about almost everything and anything. Just not sexual talk. The thing is i think i'm falling for him, and i don't know what to do about it. I think he feels the same way, and we've discussed long distance relationships (because he lives about 200 miles away) and we've decided we're not making any commitment until we've met up at least once. I just want to know if anyone else has met someone online and what happened. Thanks guys
  • Guys: What would you do if a girl tells you she likes you?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    We've liked each other for a long time (I know he does cos he stares at me a lot, gets nervous when I talk to him and his friends told me so) but he said/did nothing after I told him I like him. I'm not expecting much, just him to come out with it and admit he likes me back. I'm just asking to know maybe it's time to move on.
  • I met a nice guy but he texted me something very strange?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I met this nice guy and I like him alot. So far, he seems really cool. Hes 20 and at 1am on a Saturday, he was a party but he wasn't drinking and he just randomly texted me the word 'blumpkin' (which apparently means some strange sexual position). When I asked him what it meant, he sent the word again. It's creepy. What should I do?
  • i'm in middle school/JR high, and i want 2 know to flirt, wtout being 2 "out there", but still being...u know?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    this question is for girls
  • why do us kids dont get to answer doors?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    like yesturday when i went to answer the door i got in trouble but i do it any other times
  • How can I stop this fighting?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    My my bother is in high school and is older than me. Whenever he gets mad at his girlfriend or his girlfriend gets mad at him he gets real mean and starts a fight between us. It's not my fault his girlfriend gets mad at him! THis happens a lot. Please help!
  • GUY PROBLEMS! HELP ME WITH THIS BOY!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    He's new and shy. I'm shy as well. He is in my Chemistry class, Gym class, and he rides my bus. He was my partner in Chem today. He and I both laugh and smile easily. :) How do I talk to him? He didn't know whether or not to come over to me to be my partner today (don't ask) but I did the little "come here" movement with my hand. Do guys like that? He came over and we set up. Another girl, blonde and beautiful by the way, was working with us and he didn't give her a second glance. However, when I lit a match for the first time, for the lab, I jumped back because I got a little scared. He looked up at me in the eyes and smiled, amused apparently. Also he figured out the math part of the lab in his head and I called him smart. He smiled. Did he like that? He's just really shy and I think because he is in a lower grade, he might think that I am not interested in him. But I really am. He doesn't speak to anyone because he is REALLY shy.How do I start a relationship with him? Thanks! I heard that he has a girlfriend but I am not sure. We smile at each other a lot... I am a Junior and he is a Sophomore. And I already am a Born-Again Christian, thank you very much.
From the Garden Shed

The biggest planting weekend of the year

Posted Wed, May 13, 2009
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The biggest planting weekend of the year is finally upon us. This is THE time that all Canadian gardeners wait all year long for (with more apologies to my friends in Newfoundland who may choose to wait until the full moon of June, which occurs in the 3rd week this year). 

If you are heading out to your favourite garden retailer this weekend, here are a few things that you should keep in mind:

What to do before you buy:Begonias (Dvira Ovidia)

- Be sure to have prepped your soil before you plant. It is wise to do this before you buy your plants as the soil will be ready for you just as soon as you get home with your new plants. See last weeks' blog for details.
- When buying bedding plants (e.g. geraniums, petunias, impatiens etc.) look for strong, stocky plants with deep green leaves. Yellowing leaves are an indication that the plants are hungry and 'malnourished'.
- Avoid plants that are lanky, overgrown and/or with roots growing out of the bottom of the cell pack/pot. Why? Because they will not put roots down into your soil as readily or as quickly as a plant that has young 'white' roots that are aggressively looking for a new home.
- Notice that I have not suggested that your new plants should be in bloom. Why? Glad you asked this one too....the only good reason to look for a plant in full bloom is to confirm that it is the colour that you are looking for. Even the best of growers/retailers get their plant markers mixed up. However, generally speaking the more the bloom, the slower the plant will take producing new roots. Be patient and the bloom will come.


When new plants are home.

When you get your new plants home store them on the shady side of the house or garage until you are ready to plant. It is cooler there and the sun is your enemy. If you allow young transplants to dry out they will 'harden off' and take much longer to set down new roots (notice a 'new roots' theme developing here?).

Be sure to water your newly acquired plants while still in their containers using either compost tea (which you make by steeping a pillow case 1/2 full of compost in your rain barrel or a large bucket overnight) or a mild dilution of 20-20-20 fertilizer. This will help to establish the plants quickly once you get them into their new soil.


Be sure to:
- Plant your new plants quickly. You can hold them for up to 7 days without harm.
- Prepare the planting soil before you get home with your new plants with generous quantities of compost
- Have your tools ready before planting: clean and sharpen your digging tools, re-connect your garden hose and get ready to plant!

What to do when planting:

- Dig the hole wider and deeper than the root mass of the new plant.
- Drop the plant into the hole and push the soil around it using some 'umph' - a grunt is appropriate here. And the main reason why I prefer to plant by myself. There is a lot of grunting.
- In most cases new roots will develop around the main stem of the plant below the surface of the soil. This is especially true for tomatoes which always perform better when planted deep.
- If you are planting on a sunny day and in dry soil it is important to get your new plants watered within a few minutes of planting. If you see your plants wilting in the sunshine - before or after you plant them in the ground - be sure to water immediately.

Now here is the tricky part: most newly planted transplants do poorly due to overwatering. An experienced gardener just simply knows when to water and when to back off. For the first time gardener my best advice is that you push your finger into the soil about 2 cm or an inch deep. When the soil is dry to 2 cm then you can water.

The Magic of the Rain Barrel.

While I am on the topic of water, here is a priceless tip: use water from your rain barrel whenever you can.
Sure it may be more convenient to apply water to your newly planted garden from the end of a hose, but keep this in mind:
- As rain falls from the sky it becomes 'oxygen charged' and ALL plants love oxygen.
- It is warm. The thermal nature of water (a great insulator) means that the water being stored in your rain barrel is much warmer than that which blasts from the end of your hose. Your new plants will not like a cold shower any more than you do.
- It is free, convenient and soft.

If you don't have a rain barrel or two, I would strongly recommend that you get them.

The selection of plants at retail garden centres and specialty hardware/building centres is at its' very peak this week. I urge you to take a drive over and see what is in stock: but be sure not to buy more than you can reasonably plant over the next week.

Next week on my Yahoo blog: Great garden performers (plants) that you should look for at your local retailers.

Keep your knees dirty, like that is going to be a problem!

Mark
www.markcullen.com

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  • 1. Posted by ramblinrose117 on Thu, May 14, 2009

    I loved your advice Mark since I was a little girl,I have been planting my own veggie garden and flower garden along side my parents garden..I have a funny story to tell about this but true! My parents would forsake their garden since mine was full of veggies without my even trying.While theirs where 1/2 grown mine were ready to eat. I just had a knack for knowing plants trees and since my middle name is Rose my roses are the wonder of all them that see and feel them. I always save the seeds from the last yr. veggie starting them in the house around March never having to go to the hardware/or garden center.I plant my string beans outside in May along the fence along with my Morning Glory's, that way they grow along climbing my fence.Happy planting all.

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  • 2. Posted by Christa on Fri, May 15, 2009

    Gardening the last few years has been a challenge and a learning process. I have had some successful and not so successful experiences but I am learning more every year. I always marvel at those, like my grandmother, who can plant seed in the spring and harvest a bountiful crop with seemingly little effort. I think I will look into getting a rain barrel this year...it just makes sense especially because we always end up with watering bans in the summer.

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  • 3. Posted by greenhouse12000 on Fri, May 15, 2009

    Just remember that there is no such thing as failure in the garden - only composting possibilities. Mark

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  • 4. Posted by annette372001 on Sat, May 16, 2009

    I have always enjoyed your advice My Dad had many of your books and now they are mine since his passing..Im wondering if you have any ideas on how to get rid or cut down on Creeping Charlie in my lawn We cant use and weed killers on our lawns Maybs some of your viewrs have ideas as well.

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  • 5. Posted by marnie on Mon, May 18, 2009

    finding it hard to do any gardening this weekend since we just got about 4 or 5 inches of snow and is still coming down!

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  • 6. Posted by marnie on Mon, May 18, 2009

    finding it hard to do any gardening this weekend since we just got about 4 or 5 inches of snow and is still coming down!

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