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  • I found out that my b/f that lives with me was watchin porn on the computer, and i got mad. Was that wrong?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I was on my b/f's name on the computer helping him with a website while i opened up another tab, and it had pictures of most visited websites, 3 in which were porn. I questioned him and he said it wasn't him, but later he said it was him after he lied. He claimed that he only went on it three times, and he doesn't even "watch it like that", but that it reminded him of us. I was mad he lied, that he even needed to watch that to remember "us", and because im self-concious about my body, so him watching the girls have sex with big boobs makes me feel bad about myself. Am i wrong to be mad at him, and possibly break up with him because of this??
  • How do you forgive someone who has done you very, very wrong?

    Family - 4 hours ago

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    Its been 2 1/2 years since i last ttalked to my mother. she met my daughter once and has never seen my son. i want very much for her to be in my life but i am finding it hard to forgive her for kicking me out of the house at 18 and calling my husband the devil. she's tried to buy me back but she wants nothing to do with me as long as i'm with my husband. she's never really been there for me as long as i can remember but she is still my mom and the only parent i have left. i truly love her but i don't know how to forgive her for the horros and disappointments she's caused me to have through my life.
  • do girls think that guys that are shy are cute?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    because when i talk to girls they say awwww ur so shy thats so cute what does that mean like a hot cute or a baby cute? i need help
  • This boy in my class keeps....?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    hitting me...like punching me in the arm and arm and shoulder...he did it 6 times today and it was only a 4 hour day at school.... and then he was like were leaving at 11:30 and i was no 11:25 and he was like NO and like pushed me into my desk with his boddy...im only in 17 grade and 13 and i go to a catholic school... i told him to stop and he said no...then a 8th grade boy who i have known since i was 3 (our parents are bff's and work toghher) told him to stop cuz my dad would shot him(my dads a cop) and stuff..and the boy that hit my just laughed what should i do?!!?
  • Is My Nephew Cute? Nice Only Please?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    Hes The Guy With the white shirt on who is surronded by ladys ^.^ he calls them his "buddies" And Remember hes only 11 So back off pedifiles Sowwy Its Sooo Small http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/9572/shaneisapimp.jpg And He Is 13 here ---->http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/706/myphotos031.jpg
  • How come all of my successful black friends have non-black girlfriends?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Three of my friends, two are engineers and the other owns a landscape business all have non-black girlfriends.. Have nice houses and drive nice cars but out of the five years i known and grow up with them i NEVER saw them around black women unless it was family members.. I remember we all went out for a drink and brought up Tyra Banks being hot and they said, they like Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Salma Hayek. Etc
  • My mom called me fat?!?!?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    well ya she did...im 13 and 5'3 and 147....i am a ballet dancer so i have alot of muscle...i no im not the skinnest person but am i really fat?...what should i do to not let it get to me.... and the other day my friend yelled to get my attention "hey fatty" ..she said she was kiding but idk.... im not like FAT...i have hips too btw..so im curvy
  • Do I have a right to be upset?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    Ok my friend Bob(not the real name) would hang out with me everyday always talk to me,be my partner for everything,and always sit with me at lunch,and have me wait for her or her wait for me at the locker...Then last week she started hanging out with my other friend Rob and they both started excluding and ignoring me Bob did nothing she used to do she was always with Rob and then when she knew I wanted to be her partner she looked at me but when Rob went over to her she is like ROB!! then only after she saw I was upset she comes over and is like I will be your partner next time (she lied) and she only said that cuz i was upset...Shes like are you mad I told her y she just goes off...she texted me im sorry like 5 times..I said I forgive you..sort of I cant tell if she actually even cares that she ignored me or she is only sorry i am mad! So...Do you think I am wrong to be mad? I came home and cried..I am more upset/sad then mad she says she still wants to be my friend, But...I am the type of person that it will take a long time to consider her my friend again
  • What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good? I have a black friend and today we were at mall and he ask a blackgirl out and she said no!! She told him he wasn't street enough and that he need more swagger?? She also said guys without rap sheets need not apply?? What is street and swagger mean?? I mean he has a good job working at the same place for 6 years, house and car, never been in trouble with the law and take care of himself so i don't know exactly what she is saying??
  • I noticed that when you break up and dont have a girlfriend, you save a hell of a alot more money and drama.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I just might not look for a girlfriend until after Christmas is done so i dont have to buy them a gift haha!
From the Garden Shed

Christmas is in the air

Posted Mon, Nov 24, 2008
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Christmas carols on the radio. Christmas carols in TV commercials. I even did a reading of the THE Christmas Carol (as in 'Dickens') at St. Andrews United Church last weekend (at which they raised over $2,000. Wow.)

So, Christmas is in the air. And it is time to think of the gardeners on your Christmas list.
If you are a non gardener, have no fear. I am here to help guide you through the quagmire of gardeners' gifts. 
If you think of yourself as a gardener, I can give you some suggestions that will help you help the gift givers that are after you for your list.

First of all, let me help you do some thinking for yourself: when it comes to gardening gizmos: tools, equipment, supplies etc. you want to think about stuff that is not only useful but that
A. lasts i.e. quality (because you want the receiver to be thinking good things about you while using the gift)
B. is useful (vs. say, a popular gardening tool like the Gold Digger, which often hangs in the tool shed until it ends up in a garage sale somewhere,
C. is of a certain nature that the gardener receiving it would not have purchased it themselves (e.g. a digital camera).

The digital camera is not such a bad idea, even for the person who already has one. I am thinking of the less expensive kind: a camera that is dedicated to garden use more-or-less exclusively. You would store this camera in your garage or even your tool shed (assuming that the roof doesn't leak). It would be there for the 'impulse shots', just a few steps away from the rose that is flowering at it's peak, the rare looking bird that just arrived on the feeder and (most importantly!) the light that is perfect - but only for a moment.
A gardener will put these photos into a special place, if only in a special 'garden' file on their computer, where they will think of you every time that they visit it.

Nothing gets more practical than a pair of hand pruners. Here, high quality goes a long way. Any gardener can tell you that using a cheap pair of pruners is hard on the hands: often they do not spring back into position after a cut, the blades will separate under moderate pressure and they will not hold an edge for long as the blade metal is cheap, just like the rest of it.

Corona Pruners (Mark Cullen)

True, I have my own pair under the Mark's Choice brand which is made by Corona: they have a reputation for excellent quality and a cutting edge that holds for a long time. But they, frankly, are second best. The very best hand pruners on the market are still made in Switzerland by Felco. When I had a nursery farm and 30 field workers, we outfitted every one of them with Felco's because they never (almost never) let us down.

Felco hand pruners are twice the price of Corona pruners. About $30 vs. $60 to $80. You are comparing the cost of a good quality garden tool that is designed and manufactured for the passionate gardener (Corona/Mark's Choice) vs. the professional grade (Felco). Now you can make an intelligent choice. Visit the Home Hardware website to view the Mark's Choice/Corona pruners.

$10.
If you are looking for the $10 stocking stuffer for a gardener, I have a little secret: every gardener is human and as such, forgets what she planted where. Answer: aluminum plant markers.

I have about 300 of these on the go in my garden at any one time. Use a permanent nursery marker or a Sharpie to permanently mark perennials, roses and shrubs. You can stand on these things and the worst that will happen is you will bend them. If that happens, pull them out of the soil and bend them back with your gloved hands. I find that the names of my plants need to be re-written every two years or they do fade. This is a good thing as I have forgotten the plant name by then anyway and writing it down yet again reinforces the name in my forgetful mind. When I am through with the marker (i.e. the plant dies or I pull it out) I simply put the marker on my wire wheel in the shop and rub the printing out. Or you can use a solvent to do the same thing.

$15.

Tree Calendar (Mark Cullen)

For anyone that loves gardens and trees: The Toronto Tree Portraits desktop Calendar.
Many of my Yahoo! blog readers are not from the Toronto region: I appreciate that. However, this calendar is unique and it celebrates the green spaces and heritage trees in one of the greatest cities in the world (arguably). The photographs and text were created by Canadian astronaut Roberta Bondar and the forward written by my friend Frankie Flowers (Ferragine). You will love it.

You can order on line at here or go to Mountain Equipment Co-op to pick up your copy(ies).

$15
Book: A Sandbox of a Different Kind.(hardcover)
Personal reflections on the Canadian garden experience.

Mark Cullen's book 'Sandbox' (Mark Cullen)

My 17th book, but my first 'story book'. Fifty two short gardening stories based on the many Canadian gardeners that I have met, my own gardening experiences and some reflections on the stories told to me by my Dad. This book is light, refreshing and fun. And my kids say that if you read it you will sleep like a baby. Nice kids.

Available at Chapters/Indigo, independent book sellers and Home Hardware.

I'll bring you some more Christmas gift suggestions in the coming weeks, but in the mean time, some reminders about your garden:

- It is not too late to protect valuable young fruit trees with a plastic spiral. This will prevent potential mice, rat and rabbit damage.

- Be sure to secure upright junipers and cedars with burlap. I find the 'tensor' type of burlap easiest to apply. In other words, you don't have to invite a few friends over to help you wrap up your evergreen when you do this job.

- Water the plants under your house eve. All plants enjoy going into winter with moisture at their root zone.

Amaryllis (Mark Cullen)

Indoors: this is a great time to start an amaryllis bulb. Get it potted up now and in a sunny window and it will be in bud for Christmas. Maybe, with some luck, it will be in full flower for early in the New Year.

A reminder to go to CTV's Canada AM site to see my weekly gardening segment with Jeff Huchison online. This week: winterizing your fruit trees and dwarf flowering trees.

Keep your knees dirty!

Mark

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