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  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • am i pretty!?!?!?!?!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    seriously, im having a crisis, if i spelled it right....i need well, actually ANYBODYS opinion, if this was a desent pic of me, do u guys think im pretty, if u dont, what can i do to change that!?!?!?!?!
  • Do ladies get turned on by a guy with a deep voice or is that all myth?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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  • How to spice up sex life?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    What are ways to spice up sex life? Im trying to learn and experiment different stuff...suggestions anyone?
  • does anyone else think that they're going to end up alone?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    i know i will.
  • Please read this poem that I made about my dad?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    Hi, Please read my poem - I know that it's long. However, it would be greatly appreciated i you can tell me what you think of it. (Please not that I am almost eighteen years old) It’s been so long since our family fell apart. I’ll never forget the damage that you punctured into my heart. All the grief, the misery, and the darkness that you put me through and how you never cared what I wanted to do. Now that you have a new family, suddenly now you decide to care. Words are only words that I only hear, but the truth is that you’re never there. You never saw the development of the woman that I became today. You only remember the bad choices that I made. But still, you want me back in your life just to please your new daughter and your wife. I’m sure that you never told them how you made my life burn like fire and how you tried to persuade me of throwing away my true desires. So, I can be daddy’s perfect picture. My heart will always remain pure, unlike yours who destroyed every hope that I had in you. Good luck to you trying to pretend to your baby girl that you’re a perfect dad. Honey, he’ll only tear your heart apart and at the end at of the day he will only see the bad. He’ll leave you crying in the corner full of misery and then he’ll try to convince you that he will change. Dad, it’s always the same. The games you play, the lies that slip out of your mouth and how you smile with that evil grin. You’re such a disappointment in my eyes, and I can count how many times you commuted sin. I’m better off now with out you holding my hand, because you were never there after all. You only watched every time someone punched me into the wall. Saying that I should do better, and you only let me down. I only hoped that one day that you would come around, to tell me that you are proud. We can’t rewrite history, and you can’t fixed the damage in my heart. Because you made me feel worthless, and that I can never end what I started. After everything that you put me through, I’m glad that I never put my faith in you.
  • My brother's wife got mad at me about a "Facebook" entry. Please Read?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, I am friends with brothers wife on facebook, my brother's wife name is Bridget and she is from Belize. Now, someone she knows asked for my friendship, when I notice it was one of her friends I trusted the source and accepted the friend which was a male. I am single and have already raised my daughter who is know 22years old. For some reason I thought she (Bridget) told him to be-friend me. Well, anyway the guy made a comment on my picture saying "Nice Picture" and I responded saying Thanks, & how are you related to my sis Bridget. Well, before he could even respond, she (Bridget) calls me and says: "If you want to be his friend, then be his friend, don't question our relationship, I don't go around on your friends asking: How are they related to you" Well, I was soo furious, because the question I ask him was just a conversation starter. And wasn't even like I really wanted to know how they were related, I just wanted to break the ice and start conversation with him. I didn't appreciate Bridget Tone and just hung up the phone, I really wanted to start cussing her out but I didn't. Then I went to Facebook and deleted her and this other guy as friend. What do you think, Was I wrong or was she wrong?. She keep calling me back, and she told my dad how I didn't have to hang up like a fool. Right Now, I am still mad and need to calm down because I didn't think she would go there. Its funny how you think things will turn out one way but it turns out to go LEFT
  • Do you know somone who you've tried your hardest to be friends with, but they still find a way to insult you?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    What would you do in a situation like that? Thank you, Jaguar. It's like, I really don't wanna argue with this person either. I honestly don't know why they would do that...
  • Ladies; what do you think about Metalheads?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I'm curious how the "normal" (God, I hate that word) girls/women think about guys like me? I know a lot of people might picture a sweaty beer drinking, bearded guy with long hair when they think about metalheads. Now I don't know about the sweaty part, I do drink beer, but I have neither long hair nor a beard. Im asking this because I do get womens' attention somehow, from a distance at least, but beyond that nothing much ever happens, lol. I must say, i'm an introvert guy, not really shy or anything, at least, not once I get to know you, I'm just a bit laid back when it comes to first contact. Is there like, something that repels you from approaching us or something? Do you have some sort of preconceptions? I really am curious, because quite frankly, the thought of just walking up to a girl and asking her makes me crap my pants x) I know a few dozen metalheads besides myself and most of them don't take drugs, but ok.
The Impatient Crafter

Make reflective Halloween arm bands

Posted Mon, Oct 19, 2009
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As parents, we're often forced to pArm band (Jennifer Roos)ick our battles. Sometimes I let my children "learn the hard way." Like when they want to play in the yard without a coat. Yes, it's cold. But usually within 15 or 20 minutes, they quietly come in and grab their jacket before slipping back out.

Sometimes, though, we have to be firm. When it's a matter of safety, there's no room for negotiation.

This year as Halloween excitement builds, I've overheard my girls talking about trick or treating without mom or dad. They're seven and nine years old. No way!

Costume safety is another issue that has been a topic at our dinner table. I want the kids to wear their coat over their costume. They don't think much of this idea. Together we've planned out costumes that can be layered. A turtleneck, fleece sweater, and tights will go under the costume and gloves will keep their fingers warm.

They'll also be sporting reflective arm bands so that they can be seen by drivers. These arm bands are simple to make and can be made to measure so they fit just right.

What you need

  • Sewing tape measure
  • Duct tape (black, orange or silver)
  • Scissors
  • Hook and loop tape (self-adhesive)
  • Reflective tape
  • Halloween reflective arm bands

    Collecting your materials: You'll need a sewing tape measure (the flexible kind), as well as duct tape. The regular silver will do, but you can also buy black or orange to keep with the Halloween theme. Get some self-adhesive hook and loop tape (such as Velcro) and a quality reflective tape. I used 3M Scothlite reflective tape.

    Step One: First, have your child put on the Halloween costume that will be worn trick or treating. Make sure he or she adds all of the layers. Now measure around the child's arms and ankles (if you're planning to make ankle bands). Jot down the measurements and add one or two inches for overlap.

    Arm band (Jennifer Roos)Step Two: With a helper, pull double the amount of duct tape from the roll, keeping it on the roll. You need double the measurement plus a couple of inches for overlap. Have your helper hold the roll so the duct tape is taught. At the halfway mark, make a crease and very gradually fold the tape back on itself. Work a little at a time until both sides are smooth and not sticky. You might need to trim the edges if you've slipped a little. No problem. Cut the tape from the roll.

    Step Three: Test to make sure the piece you've cut fits around your child's arm with a couple of inches for overlap. Cut a length of hook tape (about two inches long) and a length of loop tape slightly longer. Remove the paper backing from the self-adhesive hook tape and stick it, centered, near one end of the duct tape band. Flip the band over and attach the loop tape at the opposite end, again centered, so that when the band is wrapped around the child's arm the hook and loop tape will hold it in place.

    Step Four: Lay the arm band flat on your work surface. Cut a length of reflective tape long enough to go from the end of the loop tape to nearly the end of the arm band. Remove the paper backing and stick the reflective tape to the arm band. Smooth it in place so it's good and stuck!

    Step Five: For a Halloween theme, you can decorate the arm bands a little. Don't cover up the reflective tape too much, but you can use a permanent marker to draw on a spider web or to write on some Halloween words.

    Have a safe, happy and spooky Halloween!

    Here are some Halloween safety tips offered from The Government of Canada. Find these and more safety tips at www.safecanada.ca (search word Halloween).

    Trick or treating safety tips

  • Go trick or treating with your children each year until they are old enough to go by themselves. When they are old enough, make sure they go with a buddy or in a group. Or follow along at a distance to keep an eye on them.
  • Tell your children to walk, not run from house to house and to stay on the sidewalk or at the side of the road facing traffic. They should only cross the road at the corner and look both ways before crossing.
  • Tell your children to stay in well-lit areas and only visit homes that have their outside lights turned on. Make sure they know never to go inside homes or cars.
  • Give each child a flashlight to carry, to make them more visible.
  • Tell your children not to eat any goodies until you have looked them over. Serve dinner before the children go out, so that they will be less tempted to eat goodies along the way.
  • It is a good idea for you or your child to take a backpack along, to empty goodies into if the loot bag becomes too heavy.
  • Examine the treats your children bring home before they start eating them. Throw out any treats that are not wrapped, have loose or torn wrappers or have holes in the wrappers.
  • Check toys or novelty items for small parts and do not let children less than three years of age play with them.
  • You might want to consider an alternative to sugar-based treats, such as sugarless gum. Stickers, multi-coloured pencils or beads can be a nice replacement for, or an addition to, traditional treats. Ask your children for suggestions.
  • For diabetic children, let them eat the potato chips, peanuts and sugar-free gum from the loot bags. They can also keep some of the other treats, such as chocolate and candy, which can fit into their meal plan in the following days or weeks. Leftover treats can be traded with other children or given to less fortunate kids.
  • Costume safety tips

  • Choose costumes that are loose enough to be worn over warm clothing, but not baggy enough that children trip over them.
  • Pick brightly coloured costumes that can be clearly seen by motorists. Add reflective tape to the costume to increase visibility.
  • Use make-up or face paint rather than masks. If you do choose a mask, make sure it allows your child to see and breathe properly.
  • Look for costumes, beards and wigs that are labelled "Flame-Resistant." Nylon or heavyweight polyester costumes are best. Even so, "Flame-Resistant" does not mean fire-proof. Avoid costumes with baggy sleeves or flowing skirts that could catch fire from flames and candles.
  • Avoid contact lenses that change the colour of the eyes. They should only be used under the supervision of an eye-care professional.
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    2 Comments

    • 1. Posted by Bridgette on Sun, Oct 25, 2009

      why would kids under three go thed get too hyper

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    • 2. Posted by Bridgette on Sun, Oct 25, 2009

      why would kids under three go thed get too hyper

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