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  • How do you forgive someone who has done you very, very wrong?

    Family - 4 hours ago

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    Its been 2 1/2 years since i last ttalked to my mother. she met my daughter once and has never seen my son. i want very much for her to be in my life but i am finding it hard to forgive her for kicking me out of the house at 18 and calling my husband the devil. she's tried to buy me back but she wants nothing to do with me as long as i'm with my husband. she's never really been there for me as long as i can remember but she is still my mom and the only parent i have left. i truly love her but i don't know how to forgive her for the horros and disappointments she's caused me to have through my life.
  • This boy in my class keeps....?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    hitting me...like punching me in the arm and arm and shoulder...he did it 6 times today and it was only a 4 hour day at school.... and then he was like were leaving at 11:30 and i was no 11:25 and he was like NO and like pushed me into my desk with his boddy...im only in 17 grade and 13 and i go to a catholic school... i told him to stop and he said no...then a 8th grade boy who i have known since i was 3 (our parents are bff's and work toghher) told him to stop cuz my dad would shot him(my dads a cop) and stuff..and the boy that hit my just laughed what should i do?!!?
  • Is My Nephew Cute? Nice Only Please?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    Hes The Guy With the white shirt on who is surronded by ladys ^.^ he calls them his "buddies" And Remember hes only 11 So back off pedifiles Sowwy Its Sooo Small http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/9572/shaneisapimp.jpg And He Is 13 here ---->http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/706/myphotos031.jpg
  • My mom called me fat?!?!?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    well ya she did...im 13 and 5'3 and 147....i am a ballet dancer so i have alot of muscle...i no im not the skinnest person but am i really fat?...what should i do to not let it get to me.... and the other day my friend yelled to get my attention "hey fatty" ..she said she was kiding but idk.... im not like FAT...i have hips too btw..so im curvy
  • What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good? I have a black friend and today we were at mall and he ask a blackgirl out and she said no!! She told him he wasn't street enough and that he need more swagger?? She also said guys without rap sheets need not apply?? What is street and swagger mean?? I mean he has a good job working at the same place for 6 years, house and car, never been in trouble with the law and take care of himself so i don't know exactly what she is saying??
  • I noticed that when you break up and dont have a girlfriend, you save a hell of a alot more money and drama.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I just might not look for a girlfriend until after Christmas is done so i dont have to buy them a gift haha!
  • Were not dating and he sent me a text that said I miss you?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    He asked did I miss him too.. I told him the truth, which was no I did not. So why is he so mad? I mean I like talking to him and everything, and it's not that I meant it too be rude but I talk to him everyday so what's there to miss? I know this sounds really harsh, but I can't help the fact that I'm really blunt. My honesty is often misconstrued as being mean. Similar incidents have often happened with this person before so how am I supposed to talk to him? It's like he wants me to tell him what he wants to here (lies). If that's the case sorry. Not having it.
  • Why won't my bf ask me to marry him??? Part 2.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    We have been together for 4 yrs. In the 1st 6mth's he wanted too(didn't actually have a ring just talked about it a lot) and I didn't cause it was to fast. We have a wonderful relationship. He has taken my son in as his own. We have lived together for 3.5 years. We do almost everything together. When he goes away on trips, like hunting/camping and I ask him questions about it, he automatically resorts to "I don't trust him" and says that is why we are at a stand still. The thing is that I do trust him, I am slightly insecure and a little nosy so I ask questions about their plans, etc. isn't that normal of someone who cares? I think it's an excuse, I don't believe he thinks that. I don't know what to do...I feel used and I am starting to think that he is waiting for someone better. He's really good to me and my son, I hope that's not the case. I am tired of the embarrassment when asked "why hasn't he married you yet?"...now I am asking myself that question. The whole "why buy the cow when the milk is free" is haunting me. I am to afraid to change anything because he is stubborn (so am I) and I am afraid he will just let me go because he will think that I don't want him, it seems too risky. I love the idea of getting away for the weekend, but I already did that, he always misses me alot (calls, texts, etc) right now he is away hunting and he calls and texts me. I usually text him but I really haven't this time cause I don't want to be viewed as none trusting. I'm hurt and I don't know how to get what I want...and if I don't get that I don't think my relationship will stay together since the feeling of insecurity grows inside of me with time :( I don't want to mess this up but I don't want to be just a gf either.
  • Guys... should I tell him or not?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    So... my wonderful boyfriend proposed to me - and I most definitely said yes! The thing is - I don't really like my engagement ring. I didn't tell him - I was just glad to be engaged and figured I would just grow to love the ring - but it's 2 months later and I still don't! Guys I want your perspective cause I really don't want him to be hurt or to think I don't appreciate all the effort he went to in picking it - should I tell him I don't like it or not?!? Should prob mention - We'd both always wanted him to pick the ring for me - so I just asked him to follow 1 rule - "no white gold please"... it's white gold! (he said he forgot! hehe) Plus he gave it to me after the warranty ran out! Oh dear - what to do!?!? Oh - and I do love him and am greatful to be marrying him - that's why I don't want to hurt him! How much I like my engagement ring has nothing to do with how much I love my fiance. I just don't know if I should pretend to like this forever when I really don't!
  • I'm from spain and i want to know why is it that american black women are hard to talk to?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I was just trying to have a simple conversation with a girl i added on myspace and she for some reason goes off on me!! Is this the typical american black women that are in america? Alot of Spanairds including myself like black women but they come off hard-core and rude for some reason.. This is me and a girl i thought was nice but i think different now about black women, this is the second time i have met another rude one.. 11/23/2009 4:45 PM Dan: Hello, how are you doing today? ♥Successful: who are you? Its Dan from Spain you dont remember me ♥Successful: **** no i dont wtf i dont know you Dan Damn why you blackgirls so rude dude you dont have to say **** …………………………………………………………………… 4:47 PM ♥Successful: sorryy but i dont remember you im not tryna be rude or anything but Your dumb as **** byee now
The Impatient Crafter

Turn off the TV and get out the craft supplies

Posted Mon, Jul 06, 2009
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As a work-from-home mom, I admit that I've relied on the television to keep my kids entertained from time to time. We've all done it, and in balance, TV can be a wonderful thing. According to the Canadian Pediatric Society, though, the average Canadian child watches nearly 14 hours of television each week. In perspective, by high school graduation, the average teen will have spent more time in front of the television than in the classroom. GASP!

This summer, when your children are bored or theKite(Jennifer Roos) weather stinks, try crafting instead of television. And rather than simply set them up to do the project by themselves, reclaim some family time by working together.

You and your children will benefit from quality together time and you'll enjoy the benefits that come from crafting. Having worked with my own children and many others of all ages through workshops and camps, I've seen firsthand what good crafting does.

  • Creating builds confidence. There is no right or wrong when you're gluing and glittering!
  • Craft projects help children feel the success of completing a task from start to finish.
  • Creative play releases stress. Over-scheduled children need time to relax. Unstructured crafting allows them to blow off a little steam in a creative way.
  • And according to The New Brunswick Early Language Program, Talk with Me, crafting is a valuable communication tool.

  • Art activities can be a great way to stimulate a child's communication, language and creative development. Creating together provides new opportunities for conversation and learning.
  • Communication involves many skills apart from 'speech' and 'language' (i.e. 'words' and 'sentences').
  • Creating crafts together encourages eye contact, turn taking and gesturing - all important skills in good communication.
  • For children who are nonverbal, or who may be slower in developing their expressive language skills, craft activities provide an excellent opportunity to enhance these communication skills, while taking the pressure off talking!
  • Here's a craft to get you started.

    What you need

  • Craft foam sheets
  • Hole punch
  • Flower lei (optional)
  • Brads or stapler
  • Plastic tablecloth (thin, cut into strips)
  • Scissors
  • Yarn or string
  • Windsock

    Collecting your materials: The essentials for this project are sheets of craft foam (A large 30 x 45 cm sheet made two windsocks), brads (or a stapler), a hole punch and a thin dollar store plastic table cloth. I used fabric flowers from a flowers lei (found at dollar stores) to decorate the windsock shown. Boys and girls can decorate their windsocks using markers, foam shapes, glitter glue, dimensional fabric paint and so on. Be creative!

    Step One: Large sheets (30 x 45 cm) of craft foam can be folded in half (15 x 45 cm) and cut to make two windsocks. Roll the foam to make a tube. Staple to hold the tube together, or use brads and flowers as I did. Simply slip a single artificial flower from a lei onto the brad and then poke the brad through the foam at the overlap. If you need to, you can punch holes through the layers of foam first. Now, fasten the brad on the inside and repeat with one or two more as needed to hold the shape.

    Step Two: Decorate the outside of the windsock. I simply added more flowers, again fastening each in place with a brad. As mentioned above, use markers (permanent will stand up to the weather), foam shapes, glitter glue, dimensional fabric paint or anything else you can think of to make your windsock unique.

    Step Three: About an inch up from the bottom, use a hole punch to make several evenly spaced holes all the way around the tube. Cut a strip for each hole from the thin plastic tablecloth (you can use the rest of the tablecloth for future craft projects or as a drop cloth).

    Step Four: Working your way around the tube, bunch up one end of the strip and poke it through the hole, outside to inside (good fine motor skills and hand eye coordination practice). Make one or two knots at the end of the strip that's inside the tube (an opportunity for kids to practice knot tying) and gently pull it in place. Repeat this for each hole.

    Step Five: Near the top of the tube, punch one or two holes (two holes side by side is less likely to tear) on one side and then do the same halfway around the tube. String yarn through the holes and knot to make a hanger.

    Step Six: Hang the windsocks in trees or on hooks outside and enjoy.

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