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  • okay. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. porn is alawys something we have argued about?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    and im done! i dont want to argue anymore. iv told him this amillion times.! but i cant tell if he ihas stopped. last time i found it on his computer about a month and a half ago he was just as upset as i was and disapointed in his self. he knows i hate it. just last night i found more on his computer/ he told me he swears its not his. that it must have been his brother who is 15, he told me he hates seeing me upset. that he only thinks of me and only me. that hes done with that shit as he called it and doesnt want to do it anymore. please dont tell me this is just something boys do. that its normal? thats not the answer im looking for. if he honestly is telling me the truth like hes saying..im to insecure about the subject to beleive him almost. hetold me if he looked at it he wud tell me because he said he wud rather me help him with it then him keep doing it behind my back. he also told me that he has had 4 urges to do it since i found out the last time. he told me that those times he had the urges he just went to bed or jacked off to me. i feel bad cuz i feel i cant trust him. and i also feel bad cuz when i feel like it was him and i get mad and upset he gets mad cuz i dont beleive him. i realy honestly dont know what to do to make my self feel confident about it. hes not one to lie. cheat. or any of that. i mean everyone says it cud be worse ya know? but i dnt want the porn in our relationship. last time what realy got him was...i told him i was gna leave if it didnt stop. a relationship of 2 years is pretty important to just let go like that. i honestly dont think he being hte person he is wud just drop that. can u guys help me? and before u say it i wont whatch it with him! and he has tons of pictures of me and stuff like that. i just want me and him without the porn. not me him and the porn ya know??
  • my mother-in-law yelled at wife to see if I would defend her and I didn't so her mother said see you don't-?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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    love her -any thoughts
  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me??????

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to me at the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • When I was your age... _________ was cool.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    It's a fill in question of when you were young/lil. What was cool?
  • When people say:"Oh, you make me so mad!"...who do you think cares?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    When you allow yourself to get angry or sad, frustrated or go spastic, what makes you think other people give a damn? You do it for no reason that's obvious to others...we just wonder why you think it's supposed to matter to us!
  • Facebook photos, do you think I am ugly, average or pretty?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

  • YIKES!!! Should I continue to date him or not?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    He shouts and gets angry for the slightest thing. He is very intolerant. He wants me to send him loving messages all the time, I do but not too many as we have only been dating 6 weeks. I want to take it slowly as I have been hurt before. I bought him presents (perfume, an easter egg, shirts). Sometimes he cancels dates but wants me to be available all the time when it suits him. Once did not show up at all and never called me. He went off for the weekend with his friends witout telling me and had his phone switched off. I was waiting at home for his call. He never apologised but ended up shouting at me that I worried his brother as I phoned his brother asking where he was and his brother didn't know. Yet, he wants me to be available for him when it suits him and gets angry when I am not. He gets angry easily for little things and has a temper. So I am not really sure he is a great guy .... He has no education and works in a factory and ever second week works on the night shift. I am studying for my Masters. His last girlfriends were vulgar and uneducated, one worked as a stripper. He used to work as a stripper. He is jealous and controlling and told him that I don't need to see my friends much any more. The first night we slept together he took me to a hotel. I dont know why he didnt take me back to his place. Ive been there since. I told him that I had been hurt in the past and that I wanted to take it slowly. He shouted and got angry and said "Everyone has been hurt in the past. Just get over it" He is not understanding but expects me to be understanding and caring towards him. Another time he got really angry because I asked to change bars and go to the bar next door as there were no seats at the bar we were at. Once when we slept together I went to the bathroom to get condoms. Three days later he brought it up in an angry voice that I destroyed the romantic moment by going to the bathroom to get condoms. Another time we arranged a blind date between my friend and his best friend and he got all angry and said "why would he phone her again as she won't sleep wth him, she is just looking for friendship" and was even shouting. SHOULD I CONTINUE TO DATE HIM? WOULD MANY WOMEN TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOUR? He also told me that I talk too much about my friends and their lives and that I should only talk about me and him and our future together. Also, some of his friends occassionally go with prostitutes even though they are married.
  • why is the beginning so wonderful.....then tappers off to nothing?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    when people first get together and there is this attraction and desire for one another, its so strong you cant keep your hands off each other, when you sleep together you have sex at least 3 times in one night. then a couple years later...your lucky to get it one or twice a week. I dont get it, I still want to be that way, but he doesnt. why is this in so many couples?
  • Should I do this or not? Or how to make him feel "gutted"?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    this guy hurt me in some way. he was always saying how much he "likes" me, he was telling me things like "your the one ... we've got so much in common... we need to go out ..." etc. at the time, when he was asking me out, I wasn't sure it was a good idea (I didn't know him that much, he was showing his interest, which turned out to be lie) so I said "maybe not now, maybe later". after this he stopped talking to me, I was so mad at him - he was ignoring me all week, and then - thanks to facebook - I found out that all this time he was adding my girlfriends to his friends list! and more - once my bro caught him during his date with one of my friends! luckily this girl didn't know that it was my bro and that this lier and hypocrite was asking me out as well. I was so mad at him. and the ugliest part of this story is that when he sees me in uni, he starts flirting! can you believe it? oh gosh I want to do something to make him feel miserable, angry and furious! I had this little plan, but I'm not sure it's good enough - I'll delete him from my friends list and then I'll send him msg like "sorry, my boyfriend didn't want you in my friends list" hah! how good/bad is that? or maybe you can suggest something else? he hurts girls' hearts, now it's time to make him feel that way! [evil laugh]. or maybe it's better just to ignore him? I'm confused.
The Impatient Crafter

Display your favourite photos in whimsical butterfly frames

Posted Wed, May 14, 2008
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Butterfly frames (Jennifer Roos)

I have great intentions to take up scrapbooking. Goodness knows I need to. I've got a couple of huge Rubbermaid totes filled with photos begging to go into albums. Even my wedding pictures haven't been put in the pretty scrapbook I bought years ago. I've been married nearly 11 years!

I've tried scrapbooking and I love it. I even get heart palpitations walking down the aisles filled with great new things to make pages absolutely amazing. It's the whole getting started thing that's got me daunted. Sorting, selecting ...

I'll start scrapbooking someday. Until then, I'll just have to decorate lots of great picture frames, build a few more shelves to display them and maybe put an addition on the house to make extra room for family photos. No problem.

Whether you scrapbook or not, here are a couple of whimsical picture frames that any little girl will love.

Butterfly picture frames

What you need

  • Picture frames (finished or not)
  • Acrylic paint (for unfinished frames)
  • Paintbrush (for unfinished frames)
  • Paint tray (for unfinished frames)
  • Feather butterflies (with wire)
  • Pencil
  • Hot-melt glue gun and glue sticks

For white frame shown:

  • White craft glue
  • Paintbrush
  • Paint tray
  • Iridescent glitter

For pink frame shown:

  • Tacky glue
  • Glue pot
  • Toothpick
  • Faceted gems
  • Poster putty (optional)

Step one: You can start with either a finished or unfinished wood frame. Paint your unfinished frame with acrylic paint. If you need to, sand gently first with a fine grit finishing sandpaper. Be sure to remove the glass from the frame before painting and cover your work area with a plastic tablecloth. (This works better than newspaper because the plastic won't stick to the paint like newspaper does.) Paint the front and sides of the frame. When dry, flip it over and paint the back.

For the white glittery frame shown: When the paint is dry, brush on white glue (dilute with water if too thick to spread) and sprinkle with fine iridescent (or colour of your choice) glitter. Leave to dry. Shake off excess glitter.

Step two: Buy feather butterflies with wires at stores that sell craft or floral supplies. Most dollar stores have these. Remove the butterflies from the package. Check that they're secure on the wire. If not, add a dot of hot-melt glue to keep them in place. Twist the wire around a pen or pencil to make a spring shape. Curl the end of the wire to make an O shape. This will help it stay put in the hot-melt glue. Repeat for each butterfly needed.

Step three: Position the butterflies on the frame until you like what you see. One at a time, squeeze hot-melt glue on the frame and press the wire into the glue. Press the O-shaped end of the wire into the glue and hold until the glue is hard. Repeat with each butterfly. With the wire "springs" it will look like the butterflies are flying.

For the pink gem frame shown: Once the butterflies are in place, add some sparkle with glittery, faceted gems. Dip one end of a toothpick in tacky glue. Dot glue onto the frame making a "flight pattern." Make about eight glue dots, and then set the gems into the glue. A really easy way to set the gems onto the frame is by using poster putty. Shape a piece of putty into a point. Use this to pick up and place the gems. The gems stick to the putty but come off easily when set in the glue. Continue to dot glue and place gems until the frame is complete.

For more boyish picture frames, replace butterflies, glitter and gems with bugs and other "boy" things. Glue on plastic insects, spiders, beetles, frogs, fish and more. Add toy cars, trains, planes, dinosaurs, mini hockey sticks... whatever your favourite guy likes best.

Have you got great ideas for fun picture frames? Add a comment and share your crafty creations. We'd all love to read about them. After all, the best part of crafting is sharing. Thanks!

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  • 1. Posted by chayanoelle on Wed, Apr 29, 2009

    HI i love your designs and creations !! i sell stuff and i am using your crafts to give me more ideas of what i can make and sell

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