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  • How do I pull him away from video games to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Ever since he got this x-box 360, it's like our sex life is non-existent. I've tried sexy clothes, makeup. I feel like an idiot in our living room dressed up for him to say, "One more match," and fall asleep by myself.
  • okay. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. porn is alawys something we have argued about?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    and im done! i dont want to argue anymore. iv told him this amillion times.! but i cant tell if he ihas stopped. last time i found it on his computer about a month and a half ago he was just as upset as i was and disapointed in his self. he knows i hate it. just last night i found more on his computer/ he told me he swears its not his. that it must have been his brother who is 15, he told me he hates seeing me upset. that he only thinks of me and only me. that hes done with that shit as he called it and doesnt want to do it anymore. please dont tell me this is just something boys do. that its normal? thats not the answer im looking for. if he honestly is telling me the truth like hes saying..im to insecure about the subject to beleive him almost. hetold me if he looked at it he wud tell me because he said he wud rather me help him with it then him keep doing it behind my back. he also told me that he has had 4 urges to do it since i found out the last time. he told me that those times he had the urges he just went to bed or jacked off to me. i feel bad cuz i feel i cant trust him. and i also feel bad cuz when i feel like it was him and i get mad and upset he gets mad cuz i dont beleive him. i realy honestly dont know what to do to make my self feel confident about it. hes not one to lie. cheat. or any of that. i mean everyone says it cud be worse ya know? but i dnt want the porn in our relationship. last time what realy got him was...i told him i was gna leave if it didnt stop. a relationship of 2 years is pretty important to just let go like that. i honestly dont think he being hte person he is wud just drop that. can u guys help me? and before u say it i wont whatch it with him! and he has tons of pictures of me and stuff like that. i just want me and him without the porn. not me him and the porn ya know??
  • my mother-in-law yelled at wife to see if I would defend her and I didn't so her mother said see you don't-?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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    love her -any thoughts
  • How cheap is cheap? im with a cheap a$s?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    My partner is cheap, all the time. Now when i get money i always spend it on what we need, i never whinge and feel that well if we want to eat out, then lets do it. We have no kids and arnt paying mortage etc...when he is broke im always there to buy him anything he needs. Now when it comes to his money, the day he gets it he will be quiet and not go places to spend money, he avoids it all costs. he will only eat once a day. Mind you he is arabic, i know sometimes they can be cheap and they eat a very basic diet his is chicken and rice, every day almost i cant stand no more chicken and rice.i will scream if i see another grilled drumstick. So come to today i want to make something, thai chicken curry, he is all for it, then its his turn to buy he changes his mind when i say get chicken breast fillet, i need it, he says no lets get a kilo of chicken drumsticks they are $2.50 a kilogram, i said why he said its cheaper i dont want to spend alot of money, i said to him how? he told me we can boil the chicken and peel the meat off, put that in the stir fry. I was so mad you cant believe. Then we had a massive fight in the car because i called him cheap, he says he isnt, but he is, and he dosent want to spend alot on food.cheap with everything..i pay more than him and i need to eat decent food, so he said to me okay i will cook myself and if you want to buy expensive stuff then by for yourself. Im still angry and want to know if this IS cheap and he is being?!! after the arguement we didnt buy food, he just went to macdonalds and spent $15 there? i thought he wanted to not spend alot of money? oh yeh and he ate half my fries too :(
  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me??????

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to me at the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • When I was your age... _________ was cool.?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    It's a fill in question of when you were young/lil. What was cool?
  • When people say:"Oh, you make me so mad!"...who do you think cares?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    When you allow yourself to get angry or sad, frustrated or go spastic, what makes you think other people give a damn? You do it for no reason that's obvious to others...we just wonder why you think it's supposed to matter to us!
  • Facebook photos, do you think I am ugly, average or pretty?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

  • Have you ever felt like you dont matter?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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Dvira's Design Desk

Turn drab antiques into vintage chic

Posted Wed, May 20, 2009
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There appears to be something captivating about antique furniture.  I am finding more and more that unique chairs, table and credenzas are being transformed to fit into our modern lifestyles and our vintage inspired spaces.

From modern to eclectic, whatever your space is, there is always an opportunity to introduce a piece of history to your home.  You can find some gorgeous antiques at affordable rates at local auctions, garage sales, on-line and even in local antique districts.  Toronto's antique district is located at Queen Street West and Roncesvalles and Vancouver's second hand finds can be found on Main Street.  It is truly amazing to see just how much selection and variety is out there! 

Do not be afraid to select pieces that are in shabby shape, the idea is to transform the furniture from its current state and bring it up to modern standards; nevertheless, the pieces should maintain an antiquated quality to them.

Whether you decide to take on the transformations yourself or leave it to the professionals, make sure you know exactly what you want the pieces to end up looking like.  For the feminine and French inspired white lace look, consider painting out dressers, night tables and other small items in whites, creams or soft grays.  For a rich, exotic and gothic look, choose dark plum tones, charcoals, and shades of black.  Some other refinishing techniques to consider include dry brushing, stippling and other faux-finishing options.

Painting small pieces yourself in a solid color is a great solution to saving big bucks on professional refinishing costs.  Make sure that you have all the proper tools to take on the transformation.  Here are some of the essential steps to doing it yourself:

-Ensure that your piece is sturdy; secure any loose legs, and balance out uneven edges.

-Evenly sand down the existing finish.

-Wipe off all the excess sanding dust with a semi dry cloth.

-Apply a primer (or 2-3 coats of paint).

-Apply your paint color, choose a satin or semi-gloss at the very least if you want a minimal sheen, for additional intensity choose a high-gloss finish. (high gloss looks best on dark tones).

-Apply a clear coloured sealer (be sure to use the same finish as your paint) .

TIP- wait at least an hour between the coats of paint.

On a recent project of mine, I designed a hair salon with a French boudoir inspiration; the premise was that it should look and feel like one's home.  The colors palate is teal and gold, creating a unique amalgamation of the soft and glamorous.  One of the essential elements of the salon was the furniture pieces.  All of which were found at antique stores, and auctions.  I transformed an entire set of authentic French-Provincial sofas and chairs into pieces that suited the salon's design theme.  From mahogany frames, the wood trims where professionally refinished in a gold crackle, while the seats where re-upholstered in lush velvets and mohair fabrics.  Keeping within the opulent and elegant theme of the furniture's authentic style, the look was updated to suit a modern-day space with a vintage inspiration!

Conversation of the week:
Have you refinished any antique pieces?  Share your tips and comments with other readers.

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  • 1. Posted by cheftanyad on Mon, Jun 01, 2009

    Sounds like a beautiful salon ;-)

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