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The Dentist's Chair

How not to be afraid of the dentist

Posted Wed, Jun 10, 2009
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You are not alone. Many people dread going to the dental office. Even though there are some really comfy dental chairs out there and sometimes cool music or movies to watch them in, who really wants to be poked and drilled at in the mouth?

Some people may be embarrassed with their mouth's condition or feel uncomfortable with being physically up close to the dentist or hygienist. Others may feel a loss of control as they can't see what is going on. A lot of people fear pain. This sometimes comes from previous unpleasant dental experiences or from hearing stories of dental 'pain and disasters.' One has to keep in mind that dentistry has come a long ways now and many dental procedures are less scary and even pain free.

To reduce concerns of embarrassment or lack of control, one needs to find the right dentist and know how to communicate with them. Start by finding a dentist whom you feel will stop to listen to your concerns and needs.

If your current dentist doesn't treat you seriously, or you find it hard to open up to them, then move on to another dentist. You may need to ask questions and participate in decisions. Mentally preparing for the procedure and understanding it may ease your mind. Make sure you are not hungry prior to your appointment as hunger can increase anxiety.

Another strategy is to arrange with your dentist a signal that when used, means your dental provider is to halt the procedure. A common example is hand raising and can be applied whenever you need to break, are uncomfortable, or need a rinse.

These tips will help alleviate your fears. Also, as simple as a supportive dental office whom you trust will also help reduce those butterflies in your stomach.

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  • 1. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Wed, Jun 10, 2009

    I had a very horrible experience with the dentist himself and all I did was asked a simple question before getting thrown out of his office. I have insomnia and I was up all night with my mother who was really sick with the flu and so I got no sleep, because I took care of her. I had an appointment the next day and all I did when it was time for him to check my teeth, I only asked him if it would be okay if he just did the two bottom teeth in front as they were worse off and I was really exausted, but instead of either telling me no or showing me some compassion by just doing the two teeth and leaving the others ones for another day, he angrily got up from his chair and told me that he didn't have time for this and then yelled at me to get out of his office in the waiting room in front of other people. I yelled back at him that he had no right at all to throw me out over a simple questin and he knew how I was feeling. So I left in a hurry after that and never went back there again. Because of this certain dentist, I will never go to another dentist again, unless I absolutely have to. So don't try to tell me how wonderful a trip to the dentist is, when it isn't. People will have different experiences with doctors and dentists and there's nothing anyone can do to control the outcome. And I'd like to say this to this dentist if he's reading this and he KNOWS who he is----if you're not capable of showing your patients the slightest bit of compassion, then YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS BEING A DENTIST!!

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  • 2. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Wed, Jun 10, 2009

    I had a very horrible experience with the dentist himself and all I did was asked a simple question before getting thrown out of his office. I have insomnia and I was up all night with my mother who was really sick with the flu and so I got no sleep, because I took care of her. I had an appointment the next day and all I did when it was time for him to check my teeth, I only asked him if it would be okay if he just did the two bottom teeth in front as they were worse off and I was really exausted, but instead of either telling me no or showing me some compassion by just doing the two teeth and leaving the others ones for another day, he angrily got up from his chair and told me that he didn't have time for this and then yelled at me to get out of his office in the waiting room in front of other people. I yelled back at him that he had no right at all to throw me out over a simple questin and he knew how I was feeling. So I left in a hurry after that and never went back there again. Because of this certain dentist, I will never go to another dentist again, unless I absolutely have to. So don't try to tell me how wonderful a trip to the dentist is, when it isn't. People will have different experiences with doctors and dentists and there's nothing anyone can do to control the outcome. And I'd like to say this to this dentist if he's reading this and he KNOWS who he is----if you're not capable of showing your patients the slightest bit of compassion, then YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS BEING A DENTIST!!

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  • 3. Posted by Angie on Wed, Jun 10, 2009

    Sounds like he is a total jerk---did you report him?

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  • 4. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Wed, Jun 10, 2009

    I didn't report him. I didn't even know until now that I could have reported him at the time. I probably would have if I knew that I could have. This happened last year in the fall. When this occured, I felt like ramming his head into a wall because I felt like I had been deeply embarassed and kicked in the stomach, especially with the other people witnessing this in the waiting room. It didn't at all get physical though. This person, and I use this term loosely, didn't even call back again to apologize for his vicious outburst. To this day, I still have no idea what I did or said other than ask him a simple question to make him react the way he did. And I noticed before with previous appointments when he was fixing my teeth, that he seemed a bit edgy with me despite that I hardly knew him. I shake my head at this in disbelief and disgust but I posted this, because I wanted to prove that just because a lot of people are professionals at a variety of high top careers, that doesn't mean that they're the smartest people when it comes to handling their clients or patients or anyone else that they come in contact with, and that not every professional knows how to act like one, let alone like an adult. True, I'm over this now but just to think about it, pisses me off that it was never settled. And as far as I'm concerned, he's damn lucky that I didn't report him, or mention his full name and where he lives, on the internet. I do hope however, that if he tries to bully someone else, I hope the next person will not be so merciful and not only reports him, but puts him in his place where I should have when I had the chance to.

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  • 5. Posted by thumper on Thu, Jun 11, 2009

    i had an awesome dentist i trusted to no end. never any pain, gentle funny , alround great guy. his name was dr short ,from vancouver bc. canada. then he retired , sold his practice .and ive never been back.

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