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  • What is somethings I should do to prepare for my braces to come off next month?

    Dental - 8 hours ago

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    Brushing ect.
  • what is wrong with me?

    Other - Diseases - 18 hours ago

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    i have very sore eyes and always tired. extreme loss of appetite. meaning I am never hungry. always feel full. tiny redish dots are on my upper legs. butthey are hard to see and like under the skin. dizziness. more often then not but not constant. and my gums are swollen in places and my mouth is very sore in places mainly where it is swollen. but I am growing new teeth in the back and my mouth is too small for them. so... I know I need to see a doctor I have an appointment I am just so freaked and want to know what's going on. any ideas?
  • I'm scared of vaginas, help??!!!?

    Mental Health - 19 hours ago

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    I'm scared of the female genitals. I'm afraid of the split labia, this has gotten so bad that I cannot change my little girl's diaper when her mother is at work, since I stay home with her. I feel like I will hurt the baby if I try to wipe her during diaper change. I'm also scared of my wife's, and because of this, she laughs at me. I just managed to get intimate with her once, and produced our little girl. IOther than that, I have not been intimate with her anymore. We only kiss and hug. I feel less like a man. How can I get over this phobia?? Just the looks of a woman's genitals makes me afraid. I AM A HETEROSEXUAL MALE though.
  • Is this a healthy meal plan?

    Diet & Fitness - 20 hours ago

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    Breakfast: - Healthy cereal mixed with fruit - A glass of milk Lunch: - Veggies and dip - Fruit salad Dinner: - Meat with cooked vegetables and I drink water through-out the day. Is there anything I should add to my diet? I also switch it up and have crackers and cheese with my lunch or have toast for breakfast. And sometimes have yogurt as a snack. Ive been eating like this for 2 weeks now and I just want to be clear that it's infact healthy. Oh, and to add sometimes I have salad :)
  • "It's like they have pms 24/7"...what does this expression mean?

    Women's Health - 22 hours ago

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    I looked up 'pms' and it has something to do with females monthly I guess, but I don't really understand what this expression means: "It's like they have pms 24/7" Someone used this to describe a co-worker of mine... Does this mean...they have bloating problems or something....?
  • I really need help with anxiety?

    Mental Health - 23 hours ago

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    I've been suffering from anxiety for years. It was mostly generalized anxiety. During 2008, I got so much more worse, and I didn't know what to do. On june of 2009, I saw a psychiatrist, which prescribed me prozac. In august, I developed severe depression from the anxiety which my prozac has now has done a great job. I was given zyprexa, risperdal, propranolol, cogentin, clonazepam, which were all useless. I have gotten paranoia, and so now I'm on prozac, and seroquel xr. My anxiety has only improved a bit and haven't gotten much better. I feel alone, anxious, and hopeless. I don't know what to do anymore. My appointment with my psychiatrist in in early march. I've cut myself in the past, because I've felt so bad. I feel like I've lost my personality. When will it end?
  • Is it true that drinking a cup of green tea a day helps with weight loss?

    Diet & Fitness - 1 day ago

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    Accompanied, of course, by healthy eating habits and exercise.
  • LIST of the healthiest foods ever!!?

    Diet & Fitness - 1 day ago

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    I am out of shape and am restarting myself today!!!,, what are the healtiest food ever for the heart and brain and overall body? please give an extensive enough list if you know what you are talking about,, thank you
  • Anxiety, depression, paranoia?

    Mental Health - 1 day ago

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    I've been dealing with anxiety for years. About 6 years Generalized anxiety, which exploded in 2008 and still is now. I haven't been treated since june 2009. I was first put on prozac. I was then put on zyprexa in august 2009, then risperdal, propranolol, cogentin, clonazepam. All have been useless. I then started having severe depression in august, which for the most part, prozac has fixed. I was hospitalized from mid november to early january. My meds were changed to prozac and seroquel xr. I still currently on them. I started experiencing severe paranoia off and on during several months. Till this day, anxiety hasn't been helped very much. What do you recommend I tell my psychiatrist? I see them next month.
  • How to treat a dislocated finger?

    Pain & Pain Management - 1 day ago

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    I dislocated my right index finger yesterday and was able to put it back in place. I haven't shown anybody yet, but i'm probably gonna see a doctor soon but I have a tennis game tomorrow so im just curious as to what i can do to relieve some of the pain so I can play? Should I tape it or ice it.....im not to sure. Any advice would be appreciated.

Why do we hate? New academic field of hate studies seeks the answer

By Nicholas K. Geranios, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
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SPOKANE, Wash. - Why did the Nazis hate the Jews? Why did the Hutus hate the Tutsis?

Hate is everywhere, but the fundamental question of why one person can hate another has never been adequately studied, contends Jim Mohr of Gonzaga University, who is developing a new academic field of hate studies. The goal is to explain a condition that has plagued humanity since one caveman looked askance at another.

"What makes hate tick?" Mohr, director of Gonzaga's Institute for Action Against Hate, wondered. "How can we stop it?"

Gonzaga founded the institute a decade ago after some black law students received threatening letters. It has since started a Journal of Hate Studies, hosted a conference and offered its first class on hatred last spring.

The hope is that other universities will follow suit, said Ken Stern of the American Jewish Committee in New York, who has been involved in the effort. "We wanted to approach hate more intelligently," he said.

Stern, who has spent 20 years battling anti-Semitism, said the need for hate studies became obvious when people started fighting groups like the Aryan Nations, which once flourished in this area. Opponents galvanized against the Aryans, but didn't really know how best to fight them, Stern said.

"We were flying by the seat of our pants," he said. "There was no testable theory."

There is not even a good definition of hate, Stern contends.

Philosophers have offered numerous definitions: Rene Descartes said hate was the urge to withdraw from something that is thought bad. Aristotle saw hate as the incurable desire to annihilate an object.

In psychology, Sigmund Freud defined hate as an ego state that wishes to destroy the source of its unhappiness.

Gonzaga, a Jesuit university best known for its basketball team, offered a class on the subject taught by five professors from different disciplines.

Student Kayla De Los Reyes was in that class, and said the information both horrified her and gave her hope.

"Hate is something that is part of the human emotional makeup," she said. "Everyone feels it at one point or another. You have to learn to control it."

The goal is to create an academic home where a variety of disciplines, including history, psychology, religious studies, anthropology and political science, can be brought together to focus on hate. It's the same sort of effort that led to the creation of disciplines like black studies or women's studies, Mohr said.

Such academic efforts are not without controversy. Some skeptics fear they are little more than attacks on the dominant power structure.

"This stuff tends to be one dimensional and presumes the guilt of an archetypal white male," said Glenn Ricketts, spokesman for the National Association of Scholars.

Indeed, De Los Reyes said one of the more interesting topics in the class involved white privilege. The most recent Journal of Hate Studies contained articles about oppression of gays, Nazi experiments on Jews, the local battle against Aryan Nations, and Muslim support for suicide bombings.

Heather Veeder, a graduate assistant for the institute, said the organization has an important mission.

"Hate thrives in areas not illuminated by education," she said.

But Stern said it is too easy to blame ignorance for hate. People can have plenty of knowledge about something and still hate it, he said. The problem is when one person or group can separate another person or group from their humanity, thinking of them as an "other," Stern said.

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  • 1. Posted by Deezerdee on Sun, Nov 22, 2009

    Isnt hate like rage. once one has calmed it is gone. I may hate someone or something in the heat of the moment, but in hindsight there are always redeeming qualities in everything.

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  • 2. Posted by Wde Wde on Sat, Nov 21, 2009

    I found a great site --** WealthyRomances.com **-- It 's where you have the opportunity dreaming about meeting a rich people and make it true! !

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  • 3. Posted by Doris on Fri, Nov 20, 2009

    You have to love yourself.Before you can love someone else.And when you do that , then you can love someone.and god said to love one another as I have loved you. Because He is comming back to judge the world Himself.

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