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  • Masturbation linked to cycle?

    Women's Health - 20 hours ago

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    Hey everyone! I'm 17 years old and ever since I was a wee 11 years old, my period has been 5 days long, with a 28 day cycle. However, my period has come a full week early this month, and the only thing I've changed is that I've started to masturbate. Could this have triggered my period to come early? Should I stop if it's going to mess up my cycle? Thanks!
  • I got my tooth filled on monday, it's friday. How long should it hurt?

    Dental - 1 day ago

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    I had a big cavity filled on Monday. Dentist said it might still be sore...Well I didn't feel much the first night but the next day it did hurt when I bit on something. I ate pretty carefully for the rest of the week but I did eat on that side of my mouth. ..Yesterday in the evening it started to hurt! I had to take an advil.. and I was careful with it again today but this evening it is hurting again. Feels like a tooth when you have sensitivity and cold has been put on it..but it's not dissapating and I'm taking my second advil today. Do you think it should still hurt? Maybe I chewed on it too soon and it will be sensitive for a few more days? I have read that it could be up to 2 weeks hurting and some people say no it should not hurt. .I would call the dentist but they are not open till monday. Anyone know??? Thanks!
  • How do I get rid of the "fantasies" I have where I get hurt?

    Mental Health - 1 day ago

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    Please, don't call me psychotic. I just need some advice as to where to go from here. I'm currently 14 and female (in case you couldn't tell by the name or photo ;) ). I think I remember things really starting when I was 11. But ever since I was little, I would love to see the hospital scenes on the TV. Like if someone was in the hospital, I always wanted to see it. In fact, I would sometimes (and even up until recently did) make up scenes where a certain character I favour is saving the day and ends up injured or something like that and everyone pays attention to him/ her. But I also remember this starting when I was 11: I would always make up stories in my head where I was the victim. It got worst when I was probably 12 or 13. I would complain over minor things to people whose attention I 'craved'. For example, if I got a sore wrist, I'd wear a tensor bandage. Or if my knee hurt, I'd go get ice, even though it was probably just a growing pain. Most of the time it was in my head though. Like thinking about what it would be like if I had to tell a certain person I had cancer or something. At the age of 13 (in my summer before 8th grade) I decided this is enough. I have to stop this type of thinking. It is not normal. I read that building your self confidence could help. So I tried that and within hiurs, the fantasies had no more appeal. Before I continue, you should note that I like these fantasies, they're not something I exactly dread. But when I'm making up one of the stories in my head, I really enjoy it. I do dislike the fact that I enjoy it and I am aware that this is not normal. But despite my confidence efforts, they came back. One slip up where I said "It's okay, it's been a bad day, you can think about one of your stories" leads to two, which leads to three and sooner or later I'm back to the abnormal fantasies. I was doing really well since I started high school in September. I had maybe a few days where they came back. And once in a while where they had little or no appeal. But a week ago I felt like I was going to pass out in class one day, I didn't tell anyone until that evening but after that they came back. I am currently in a state where they are somewhat appealing to me. So I once asked this question on an alternate account. (This is also an alternate account, my friends cannot see this question, but I will still choose a best answer). One girl said she was 21 and still had these types of fantasies. I was thinking I could still live with them, but I realize I shouldn't. I have dreams for my future. My job, my family, all that stuff. But when I think about it I don't want that perfect future I have planned to be plagued with these sick thoughts. I don't want to have them. It makes me feel embarassed to even think about myself. I can't confront anybody about it because I am so ashamed. I know I should see a therapist of some sort, but 1. I don't know how I'd approach him/ her 2. I don't know how to ask my mom about that or how to keep it private and 3. I don't want to be said to be mentally unstable or something and be put in a mental institution. So what would be advisable to do from here?
  • How long can someone with Pancreatic Cancer expect to live?

    Cancer - 1 day ago

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    He's my mom's brother and we can't visit him because he is in Portugal and were in Canada. My aunt from Portugal flew out to visit him yesterday and he hasn't been eating much in the past month, lost A LOT of weight, can't talk or move a lot and they cut his stomach open last night. I'm really scared cause even though we weren't too close to him we spent a lot of time with him and I'm scared he might die! Can someone tell me what the doctors will most likely do and if he has a high chance of dying ? He's only 45.
  • Uncle has pancreatic cancer?!?

    Cancer - 1 day ago

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    He's my mom's brother and we can't visit him because he is in Portugal and were in Canada. My aunt from Portugal flew out to visit him yesterday and he hasn't been eating much in the past month, lost A LOT of weight, can't talk or move a lot and they cut his stomach open last night. I'm really scared cause even though we weren't too close to him we spent a lot of time with him and I'm scared he might die! Can someone tell me what the doctors will most likely do and if he has a high chance of dying ? He's only 45.
  • Do you have to pay for a follow-up appointment at the doctors?

    Other - General Health Care - 1 day ago

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    I have already paid over $100 on the first appointment and the medicine I received didn't even help me at all. I'm wondering if I'm going to have to pay again. Also, have you had any experience with naturopathic doctors? How effective do you feel their treatments are?
  • anyone wanna be my online weight loss buddy?

    Diet & Fitness - 1 day ago

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    i started the master cleanse diet today and i plan on doing it for the next 14 days, and i was just wondering if anyone wanted to be my online weight loss buddy? You can go on a diet of ur choice and we can keep each other posted and give support to each other..
  • Have you had H1N1 this year?

    Other - Diseases - 1 day ago

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  • How do you stop growing/keep your height where you want?

    Diet & Fitness - 1 day ago

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    So i'm a guy 12 years old Grade 7 i'm 4'11 i LOVE this height i dont wanna grow any taller So i'm asking you how to NOT keep growing taller(DONT ASK WHY/IF YOUR NOT GOING ANSWER WHAT I'M ASKING THEN DONT SAY ANYTHING) Like What to eat/sports/drink/sleep So give me a list what will make you grow taller (eat/sports/drink/sleep) And Give me a list what will stop letting you grow(eat/sports/drink/sleep) Please And Thank You :) and i will NOT regret it cause i have to be almost same close height as my girlfriend
  • Is it ok to work out and get buffed up if you're not 17 yet?

    Diet & Fitness - 1 day ago

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    My little brother is 16 and a half yrs old, he's 6'1 and broad shouldered but REALLY skinny (140-145 lbs). He wants to get 'buff' but is it safe for him to try and achieve that just yet cuz I've heard it can like stunt you're growth or something. Also, what kind of work out and diet would you suggest?

Will your personality affect how long you live?

Aspiring centenarians may want to take a look at their attitude, according to a Mayo Clinic study. A person's outlook on life may not only improve longevity but quality of life, according to researchers. Optimists are said to experience a higher level of both physical and mental…

By Cynthia Ross Cravit, 50Plus.com
Will your personality affect how long you live?

Aspiring centenarians may want to take a look at their attitude, according to a Mayo Clinic study.

A person's outlook on life may not only improve longevity but quality of life, according to researchers. Optimists are said to experience a higher level of both physical and mental functioning than their pessimist counterparts.

Further, optimistic people decreased their risk of early death by a full 50 per cent compared to those who were more pessimistic.

"The wellness of being is not just physical, but attitudinal," said Dr. Toshihiko Maruta, principal author of the study. "How you perceive what goes on around you and how you interpret it may have an impact on your longevity, and it could affect the quality of your later years."

Ideas about the associations of personality and health are not new, but have their roots in the bodily humors of ancient Greece.

While the exact mechanism of how personality acts as a risk factor for early death or poorer health is unclear, Maruto says it likely has to do with the fact that pessimists have an increased chance for future problems with their physical health, career achievements, and emotional stress particularly depression.

"Yet another possibility could be more directly biological, like changes in the immune system," he adds.

Researchers found that pessimists scored below the national average on physical functioning, bodily pain, perception of general health, vitality, mental health, and social functioning.

Besides looking at the world through rosier-colored glasses, living a long and healthy life may also mean paying attention to friends and family.

Loneliness in people over age 50 greatly increases their risk of high blood pressure, according to a new study at the University of Chicago. The loneliest people studied had blood pressure readings as much as 30 points higher than those who were not lonely, suggesting that loneliness can be as bad for the heart as being overweight or inactive, said the study.

"The magnitude of this association is quite stunning," said University of Chicago scientist Louise Hawkley, the study's lead author. For those who lack companionship or feel isolated, Hawkley said the findings indicate that one strategy for treating high blood pressure might be to become more involved, "do volunteer work, make yourself useful."

The bottom line: living longer -- and better -- may come down to having a healthy attitude and social life, as well as following more traditional wellness practices such as stopping smoking, eating a balanced diet and maintaining a healthy weight. Research shows that obesity, for example, contributes to diabetes, heart disease and various cancers.

Here are other steps you can take to live longer:

1. Don't sleep too much. Sleeping more than eight hours per night can reduce life expectancy, according to a February 2002 study in the Archives of General Psychiatry. Night owls, however, should take note: researchers say that sleeping less than four hours also increases death rates. People who sleep between six and seven hours per night were shown to live the longest.

2. Stick to a low-calorie diet. A recent study by the National Institute on Aging found that a calorie-restricted diet led to decreased insulin levels and body temperature, both considered signs of longevity. A diet low in calories but high in nutrients also led to a drop in DNA damage.

3. Have more sex. Researchers say that having intimate sex makes you happier, better rested and less stressed, which in turn can lower blood pressure and protect against stroke and heart disease. A study published in the April 2004 Journal of the American Medical Association found that "high ejaculation frequency was related to decreased risk of total prostate cancer."

4. Get a pet. People who own pets, especially dogs, have been shown to be less stressed and require fewer visits to their physicians than non-owners. Survival rates for heart attack victims who had a pet were found to be 12 per cent longer than for those who did not have one, according to researcher Erica Friedmann. Pet owners have also been shown to have lower blood pressure and are less likely to be lonely or depressed. Another healthful benefit? Pet ownership stimulates exercise.

5. Quit smoking. Middle-aged men who are long-term, heavy smokers face twice the risk of developing more aggressive forms of prostate cancer than men who have never smoked, according to a study that appeared in the July 2003 issue of Cancer Epidemiology, Biomarkers and Prevention. And according to a recent study in the Archives of Gerontology and Geriatrics, cigarette smoking has been clearly linked to the most common causes of death in the elderly. "Smoking is -- for all but some exceptional subjects -- incompatible with successful aging and compromises life expectancy even in extreme longevity," the study states.

6. Manage your anger. A study led by the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine in 2002 found that men who responded to stress with high levels of anger were over three times more likely to develop premature heart disease when compared to men who reported lower anger responses. Furthermore, because anger is associated with high blood pressure, they were over six times more likely to have a heart attack by the age of 55.

7. Eat your antioxidants. Found in foods such as blueberries, artichokes, beans, cinnamon and cloves, antioxidant molecules scavenge free radicals, compounds whose unstable chemical nature accelerates the effect of aging on the cells. Cellular damage contributes to an array of degenerative diseases, including atherosclerosis, Alzheimer's disease and cancer. Research shows that certain types of beans are among the best sources of antioxidants, while blueberries and other berries follow close behind.

8. Stop nagging. Married couples who engage in heated arguments are more likely to have health problems than those who do not, according to a study at the University of Utah. Based on 150 healthy, older married couples, researchers found that women who are hostile toward their husbands are more likely to have hardening of the arteries. Men who are controlling in their relations -- or are married to someone who is -- are more likely to have atherosclerosis, a very serious condition of the coronary arteries.

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8 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Pjmcdn on Mon, Jun 15, 2009

    Lauren D - you should re-read the article. You seem to have missed the points about having a positive attitude and controlling your anger.

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  • 2. Posted by Lauren D on Mon, Jun 15, 2009

    Good article but still too male centric, such as quoting studies about the benefit to men who quit smoking and who ejaculate frequently. Seems like the various studies were only half done, as per usual.

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  • 3. Posted by Brian on Mon, Jun 15, 2009

    wonderfull article....point 3,gives me theshivers coz i hv'nt had sex for the24yrs of my life does this then expose me to seroius prostrate cancer,help me.

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  • 4. Posted by Brian on Mon, Jun 15, 2009

    wonderful thinking......

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  • 5. Posted by Daisy D on Wed, Apr 8, 2009

    I will not die..I have no relatives...

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  • 6. Posted by Mozzam5 on Wed, Apr 8, 2009

    Good article. Point. 3. 'Have more sex' is not correct. Too much sex causes lack of vitamins in body, passive, more sleep, reduces IQ in school, university students. Sex should be controlled and add love to that to get real satishfaction, otherwise people will go for sex elsewhere for sex.

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  • 7. Posted by Mozzam5 on Wed, Apr 8, 2009

    Good article. point. 3. have more sex is not correct. Too much sex causes lack of vitamins in body, passive, more sleep, reduces IQ in school, university students. Sex should be controlled and add love to that to get real satishfaction, otherwise people will go for sex elsewhere for sex.

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  • 8. Posted by Paulette S on Wed, Apr 8, 2009

    good read....indeed these are great suggestions...but I'd still like to talk to the 115 yr old... : ]

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