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After how many dates shall the First Sex Happen? ...i like this guy and.. I'm going out with him tomorrow. I'm not too conservative but defenately cannot be too easy. can you help me with this? I mean i know guys start to push a bit, right? I'm old enough.... 17. Turning 18 soon, but just foreget about it and answer as how it happens usually.

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I could drag this question out into a full-blown essay, as I have years of experience under my belt in watching middle class people suffer in their middle class nightmares. But I'll only point to one example. Why do middle class people obsess over taking vacations? I mean, when middle class people take a vacation, they take millions of pictures and discuss the fact that they're actually on a vacation. And when they get back from the vacation, they don't shut up about the vacation. When I was growing up, we'd pack up and spend the summer months in the Bahamas (nothing too fancy but my parents have a bungalow down there). We didn't scream, "Oh, we're on a vacation! Let's take a million pictures to remind ourselves of it!" Nor did we treat the locals with disrespect as do many middle class people since it's there only opportunity to be the boss of someone else--similar to how they treat waiters in restaurants. Rich people actually treat waiters kindly. Middle class people abuse the power divide. Anyway, do middle class people just obsess over how they feel like 'royalty' for that one week? Is that what it is? Are they so frustrated with their class status that they worship the idea of not being enslaved for that one week every year? You guys have to know what I'm talking about. So why are they so obsessed with vacations?

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after a fight can a guy who is deeply in love with his gf still be stubborn and not talk 2 her for a whole week?

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My friend first went out with somone at the age of four and also kissed-yuk! And then my other mates starting going out with people at 10 or 11,isn't that too younge. I dunno but its a bit weird,don't you agree? (This is a crap quistion by the way peeps) I feel kinda bad as I have no pratice just do not feel ready for any relationships as at the moment I feel so cold and alone and I have never ever felt tghis cold,I don't smile,laugh any more,all I do is pretend I just wander if I need somone Is 11 a bad age to fall in love?

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Would you have issues? What issues?

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So for a little while she has been off with me, i asked her if anything was wrong and she said there wasn't and that she has just been tired lately because of her new job. I also asked a friend who we are both friends with and she told me i was just being sensitive and she is quiet anyway. We were meant to be meeting this morning and i texted her to make sure it was still on, and she said no sorry im working. So i take it she wouldnt of even told me she wasnt going to turn up. Then i see she is on msn and she signed out quite quickly. I haven't done anything, i'm not bitchy and i am nice to her, so what is her problem? She doesn't admit to anything so i dont think talking to her about it would help. Should i just not bother with her? But i don't understand why she is acting like this towards me? I feel like she doesn't like me anymore.

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I just saw a question where people were saying that if you were in love and caught feelings for someone else, then you are not in love... I just don't think that I can agree with that. Love doesn't make you invincible from those feelings. It's all about control to me. Sometimes I think the second person is probably just a filler for all of the things that your love is missing. If you truly are in love, then that is where the communication has to come in, and you have to think about what it is that this second person is showing you that the first is not. What are your opinions?

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Im in college at the moment, and my course has 28 people. 26 of those are girl , me and one other lad-though he is gay. So in effect, people say especially my old high school mates, wow you are lucky! However, whilst hanging around with them now for 4 weeks, i have learned sooo much about girls now, as in my high school my group was just lads as mates. Now though, i do like some of them , as in like/love them more than a mate, but cannot tell them that though. In college, i try to be nice, friendly as can be towards them, i am flirty, but never tease them or annoy them. I ask to carry their stuff occasionally, when she needs the toilet i would go and wait outside for her etc. She does have a boyfriend, ( Thats one of the great things about being good friend with a girl, they trust me. Tell me about their boyfriend, what gets on their nerves, the texts they send, and even their secrets. They was joking about someone in our class, they did not show the other lad, but when i asked they did show me.) ANYWAYS, if or when she breaks up with her bf, trust me it has come close, i would deffo support her, and would not want to ask her out straight away. 2 days ago whilst sat down at lunch, her mate said wow you two would look great as a couple, i didnt know what to say lol. She said what him , as there was lots of people, then she said im going out with someone. IM JUST CONFUSED , most girls go for a bad boy look, i just prefer being nice and flirty, i hang around with her everywhere, sitting next to her etc, if she does break up, i dont want to ask her out for fear of losing her.... What should i do ??

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There's this girl in my class(Channelle) and she's the loudest out of the lot of us I use to dismiss it as partly because she come s from a family of 11. However at the start I thought we were really getting along talking and joking and now and again i would mes around hugging her and pretend to kick her in the ass. She would do this to other people in the class to. All the girls in my class like her except me. You see she went and told the principal I touched her inappropriately I was called over and my two year heads were there and I told them what I told you guys. They said just be careful yet then I had girls in my class say "Oh did you touch her then snigger's".. Then the next day I had nail varnish out and i was touching up my nails and this other girl in my class(Nicky) asked me would I do her nails so I said yeah cool. After I did that my mam was told that a mother had rang the school about me touching her etc (You see my mam had to go down as part odd what happened with channel) Only to be told more lies about another girl.(Nicky). Now n class they call me a weirdo and everyone else is just as cool as a cucumber. On my way back from drama class this girl(becky0 asked if i fancied this other girl(natalie) I sad to her she was weird and she said IM weird.!. they Its lie one day outta 2weeks they ease up on me. It ridiculous I suffer from depression and ive been self harming for a year and a half. I thought T. would bring us all together and id make some friends for once yet these girls don't wanna work together. The teachers are even more delusional sure like they know whats wrong and they don't do anything about it any time one of them meets me she asks me how are u cloe and before i can answer she says good good. I feel like i should play along. My parents wont change schools for me what can I do.? T.Y transistion year.

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So im,a 14 year old, male. :/ First time relationship? Yes I've been worried a lot and Ive liked this girl for along time and Im afraid she may the only girl I like out of the high school. So I need advice please. Im worried about messing everything up. Ive got alot of casual stuff about her from her mates like fave food and drink etc. I'm the type of shy person and I don't know whether I should get her friend to ask? I've got a nice social life but when it comes to relationships I become shy and all nervous. I don't want to pull off anything fancy to impress her. I just want to love her and cherish her. Hug her, Hold hands, etc. I just need a few advice on how to get rid of my shyness and show her some curtousy and love towards a relationship. Also when we look at each other we turn away quickly in lessons and stuff. Is this a sign of your a freak or she's shy too? Thank you. Hope to read your answers! 10 minutes ago You've read my life issue. THE QUESTION IS - I need guidance or advice to make a first relationship work? Please can you relate to my life issue also.