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  • I found out that my b/f that lives with me was watchin porn on the computer, and i got mad. Was that wrong?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I was on my b/f's name on the computer helping him with a website while i opened up another tab, and it had pictures of most visited websites, 3 in which were porn. I questioned him and he said it wasn't him, but later he said it was him after he lied. He claimed that he only went on it three times, and he doesn't even "watch it like that", but that it reminded him of us. I was mad he lied, that he even needed to watch that to remember "us", and because im self-concious about my body, so him watching the girls have sex with big boobs makes me feel bad about myself. Am i wrong to be mad at him, and possibly break up with him because of this??
  • This boy in my class keeps....?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 4 hours ago

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    hitting me...like punching me in the arm and arm and shoulder...he did it 6 times today and it was only a 4 hour day at school.... and then he was like were leaving at 11:30 and i was no 11:25 and he was like NO and like pushed me into my desk with his boddy...im only in 17 grade and 13 and i go to a catholic school... i told him to stop and he said no...then a 8th grade boy who i have known since i was 3 (our parents are bff's and work toghher) told him to stop cuz my dad would shot him(my dads a cop) and stuff..and the boy that hit my just laughed what should i do?!!?
  • Is My Nephew Cute? Nice Only Please?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    Hes The Guy With the white shirt on who is surronded by ladys ^.^ he calls them his "buddies" And Remember hes only 11 So back off pedifiles Sowwy Its Sooo Small http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/9572/shaneisapimp.jpg And He Is 13 here ---->http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/706/myphotos031.jpg
  • How come all of my successful black friends have non-black girlfriends?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Three of my friends, two are engineers and the other owns a landscape business all have non-black girlfriends.. Have nice houses and drive nice cars but out of the five years i known and grow up with them i NEVER saw them around black women unless it was family members.. I remember we all went out for a drink and brought up Tyra Banks being hot and they said, they like Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Salma Hayek. Etc
  • My mom called me fat?!?!?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    well ya she did...im 13 and 5'3 and 147....i am a ballet dancer so i have alot of muscle...i no im not the skinnest person but am i really fat?...what should i do to not let it get to me.... and the other day my friend yelled to get my attention "hey fatty" ..she said she was kiding but idk.... im not like FAT...i have hips too btw..so im curvy
  • Do I have a right to be upset?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    Ok my friend Bob(not the real name) would hang out with me everyday always talk to me,be my partner for everything,and always sit with me at lunch,and have me wait for her or her wait for me at the locker...Then last week she started hanging out with my other friend Rob and they both started excluding and ignoring me Bob did nothing she used to do she was always with Rob and then when she knew I wanted to be her partner she looked at me but when Rob went over to her she is like ROB!! then only after she saw I was upset she comes over and is like I will be your partner next time (she lied) and she only said that cuz i was upset...Shes like are you mad I told her y she just goes off...she texted me im sorry like 5 times..I said I forgive you..sort of I cant tell if she actually even cares that she ignored me or she is only sorry i am mad! So...Do you think I am wrong to be mad? I came home and cried..I am more upset/sad then mad she says she still wants to be my friend, But...I am the type of person that it will take a long time to consider her my friend again
  • What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    What do Black women mean by this, sorry my english isn't good? I have a black friend and today we were at mall and he ask a blackgirl out and she said no!! She told him he wasn't street enough and that he need more swagger?? She also said guys without rap sheets need not apply?? What is street and swagger mean?? I mean he has a good job working at the same place for 6 years, house and car, never been in trouble with the law and take care of himself so i don't know exactly what she is saying??
  • I noticed that when you break up and dont have a girlfriend, you save a hell of a alot more money and drama.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I just might not look for a girlfriend until after Christmas is done so i dont have to buy them a gift haha!
  • Were not dating and he sent me a text that said I miss you?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    He asked did I miss him too.. I told him the truth, which was no I did not. So why is he so mad? I mean I like talking to him and everything, and it's not that I meant it too be rude but I talk to him everyday so what's there to miss? I know this sounds really harsh, but I can't help the fact that I'm really blunt. My honesty is often misconstrued as being mean. Similar incidents have often happened with this person before so how am I supposed to talk to him? It's like he wants me to tell him what he wants to here (lies). If that's the case sorry. Not having it.
  • Why won't my bf ask me to marry him??? Part 2.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    We have been together for 4 yrs. In the 1st 6mth's he wanted too(didn't actually have a ring just talked about it a lot) and I didn't cause it was to fast. We have a wonderful relationship. He has taken my son in as his own. We have lived together for 3.5 years. We do almost everything together. When he goes away on trips, like hunting/camping and I ask him questions about it, he automatically resorts to "I don't trust him" and says that is why we are at a stand still. The thing is that I do trust him, I am slightly insecure and a little nosy so I ask questions about their plans, etc. isn't that normal of someone who cares? I think it's an excuse, I don't believe he thinks that. I don't know what to do...I feel used and I am starting to think that he is waiting for someone better. He's really good to me and my son, I hope that's not the case. I am tired of the embarrassment when asked "why hasn't he married you yet?"...now I am asking myself that question. The whole "why buy the cow when the milk is free" is haunting me. I am to afraid to change anything because he is stubborn (so am I) and I am afraid he will just let me go because he will think that I don't want him, it seems too risky. I love the idea of getting away for the weekend, but I already did that, he always misses me alot (calls, texts, etc) right now he is away hunting and he calls and texts me. I usually text him but I really haven't this time cause I don't want to be viewed as none trusting. I'm hurt and I don't know how to get what I want...and if I don't get that I don't think my relationship will stay together since the feeling of insecurity grows inside of me with time :( I don't want to mess this up but I don't want to be just a gf either.
Beauty Eats

Eight study snacks that make kids smarter

Posted Mon, Oct 29, 2007
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Ask any kid, second-grader, or swaggering senior: Studying makes you hungry! Memorizing math formulas? Chips and soda are part of the equation. Digging into Moby Dick? Harpoon a bag of M&Ms.

Actually, the idea's right on -- eating can help the brain focus, if you know which foods to choose. But gee, surprise, candy and chips aren't among them.

What will help kids who are cracking the books? It depends on what kind of help they need, but it comes down to one of two Cs:

Carbs, healthy ones, for kids who tend to get so freaked about surprise tests or tough teachers that they lose all focus.
Comfort foods for studiers who start out okay but gradually get tense, can't sleep, wake up exhausted, and then don't do well.

Of the two, only one needs a little explaining: carbs. The brain needs glucose, or blood sugar, to stay sharp and alert. In fact, the brain is the only organ in the body that uses only glucose for energy. Glucose comes from carbohydrates. But the brain (like the body) does much better with a steady flow of energy, not the quick rush it gets from eating rapidly absorbed carbs like candy and chips. So slowly absorbed carbs -- which, gee, more surprises, include whole grains, fruits, and veggies -- produce longer lasting mental energy.
 
What's more, in addition to supplying the brain with energy, healthy carbs also have a steadying effect, explains Mindy Hermann, RD: They help boost serotonin, a calming brain chemical. And that combo -- calm energy -- is an ideal mix for many study-stressed kids, especially an hour or two before an exam or chem lab. So what to feed the homework harassed?

FOR STUDIERS WHO START OUT STRONG BUT END UP STRESSED AND SLEEPLESS, TRY:

A cup of something warm and soothing. Whether it's a light soup, warm milk, chamomile tea, or diet hot cocoa (to avoid the sugar hit) is personal preference -- all can help kids who've gotten tightly wound up to settle down again, says Hermann. Offer these about an hour before bedtime.
 
FOR KIDS WHO CAN FREAK OUT OVER HARD TEACHERS OR POP QUIZZES, TRY:

Apple slices spread with peanut butter.
The carb-rich fruit will give serotonin a boost, which helps calm raggedy nerves so it's easier to focus. The peanut butter is filled with healthy fats.
Cheerios or other oat "Os" cereal. A big bowl of these to munch and crunch on can be a great study snack. This whole-grain kid favorite delivers a lot of nutrients as well as slowly absorbed, subtly calming carbs.
Grapes. Like apples, these sweet carbs get serotonin going while their high fiber content slows down sugar absorption -- plus fiber itself seems to have stress-soothing abilities. Some kids prefer their grapes frozen for melt-in-the-mouth fun.
Whole-wheat pretzels. They have the same crunch as regular pretzels but loads more fiber and often lots less thirsty-making salt, so studiers aren't constantly breaking their train of thought by wanting yet another drink.

More than good grades are on the table here, by the way. Kids who get into the habit of eating plenty of fruits and vegetables --aka healthy carbs -- are likely to keep it up into adulthood. If they do, their RealAge could be 36 when they're actually turning 40. Smart.

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  • 1. Posted by jennifer z on Thu, Mar 27, 2008

    grapes are not a slow absorbing carb. look at raisins, they are suggested to increase your blood sugars when you need a hit.

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  • 2. Posted by foX on Fri, Mar 28, 2008

    Grapes are NOT raisins .. drying out the fruit concentrates the sugar within. While grapes contain ~15g of sugars (fructose) per 100g, raisins contain 59g .. which is 4 times as much. The slow absorbing carb of fruits and vegetables mentioned in the article is most likely fibre, not sugar.

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