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  • she broke my heart and i don't know what to do?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i really like this girl so i asked her out.she had been out with others in the year and they didn't really work out well.when i asked her out,we were really close friends.she told me ask her in about a month.within that month she goes out with somebody else.i don't want to show im mad or ignore her because i really like her.i don't know if i should ask her why she told me to wait if she goes out with somebody,or just move on and find someone else
  • First Sex.... How Long shall a girl wait??? how many dates?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    After how many dates shall the First Sex Happen? ...i like this guy and.. I'm going out with him tomorrow. I'm not too conservative but defenately cannot be too easy. can you help me with this? I mean i know guys start to push a bit, right? I'm old enough.... 17. Turning 18 soon, but just foreget about it and answer as how it happens usually.
  • First DATE! And he's older than I! How shall I act?? Please HELP!?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and he's 26 and i'm going on a date tomorrow, can you please advice me how shall I act? u know... or look? any advice would be great... Gosh! I never though I would turn to yahoo answers for this lol but i'm SO NERVOUS! Also i know that's a somewhat age gap but... i like hime like SO MUCH! He is a very nice and smart guy, so... and i'm quite a mature girl, but just i'm kinda nervous so...
  • Why are middle class people so jealous of upper class people?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    I could drag this question out into a full-blown essay, as I have years of experience under my belt in watching middle class people suffer in their middle class nightmares. But I'll only point to one example. Why do middle class people obsess over taking vacations? I mean, when middle class people take a vacation, they take millions of pictures and discuss the fact that they're actually on a vacation. And when they get back from the vacation, they don't shut up about the vacation. When I was growing up, we'd pack up and spend the summer months in the Bahamas (nothing too fancy but my parents have a bungalow down there). We didn't scream, "Oh, we're on a vacation! Let's take a million pictures to remind ourselves of it!" Nor did we treat the locals with disrespect as do many middle class people since it's there only opportunity to be the boss of someone else--similar to how they treat waiters in restaurants. Rich people actually treat waiters kindly. Middle class people abuse the power divide. Anyway, do middle class people just obsess over how they feel like 'royalty' for that one week? Is that what it is? Are they so frustrated with their class status that they worship the idea of not being enslaved for that one week every year? You guys have to know what I'm talking about. So why are they so obsessed with vacations?
  • what did he mean when he said all this?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok well me and my bf had a fight and after that he took me off facebook. its been a whole week since he has not contacted me but i saw him online and i said hi. how r u? and he said whats wrong? i dont knoww what he meant... so i said what do u mean and he said i mean nothing. anyway so i said ok how r u. then he said is it important for u 2 know how i am.. so i said yes thats why im asking.. then he said hes ok. thats it.. i then said why r u stubborn with me all the time.. he said i only spoke 2 u like that so i didnt have 2 rememeber u again. what did he mean?? and why do u think he said all this? anyway i said hello fist thats when he started talking, and now hes added me 2 his yahoo list. what is he thinking.. and what did he mean by "i didnt wanna remember u again"??? Im really confused.. is he hurt, or is he angry, stubborn? do u think he was waiting 4 me 2 say hi how r u?
  • how are guys suppose 2 act?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    after a fight can a guy who is deeply in love with his gf still be stubborn and not talk 2 her for a whole week?
  • I need help NOW Im in so much trouble!?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    I am struggling with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and have been struggling with alcoholism as a result of it. First off, I have nonstop panic attacks because of seizure disorder and the only way I can go outside is to drink. I almost died 5 years ago at age 23 from a brain aneurysm. Well, I successfully quit drinking for months and relapsed. I have no license from seizures and my friend drove us to a bar. My body wasnt used to alcohol and I got drunk extremely fast. I ended up falling in the parking lot and hit my head VERY hard, cut my nose, hands and knee. My friend was like ur fine and took me home. She was so wasted that she helped me up and left. The pain in my head was so extreme and I got up and looked in the mirror and could not believe how much blood and the size of the injury that was on my head. I called 911 since I knew there was something wrong because of the amount of pain I was in. At the hospital (which i deserved) they treated me like crap for drinking yet I still needed a ride home. My mom started screaming at me when I called and asked me what happened and I told her I think we were in an accident and that my friend (who Im questioning my frienship with anyway considering leaving me bleeding) drove home to avoid a DUI. Its been 24 hours. I have been in bed all day. How do I explain to my mom this was all a fabricated lie? Or do I just roll with the car accident story? One things for sure, this is def. a low point and Ive needed one as an excuse to get sober. THanks I went thru a year long rehab program. My panic attacks came back and my doctor said they are a result of PTSD and put me on Seroquel. (which is for psychotic episodes) I sleep 24 hours straight on it or I would take it.
  • What is the right age to fall in love?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    My friend first went out with somone at the age of four and also kissed-yuk! And then my other mates starting going out with people at 10 or 11,isn't that too younge. I dunno but its a bit weird,don't you agree? (This is a crap quistion by the way peeps) I feel kinda bad as I have no pratice just do not feel ready for any relationships as at the moment I feel so cold and alone and I have never ever felt tghis cold,I don't smile,laugh any more,all I do is pretend I just wander if I need somone Is 11 a bad age to fall in love?
  • HOw would you feel if your husband became a professional poker player?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    Would you have issues? What issues?
  • What should i do about my lying friend?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    So for a little while she has been off with me, i asked her if anything was wrong and she said there wasn't and that she has just been tired lately because of her new job. I also asked a friend who we are both friends with and she told me i was just being sensitive and she is quiet anyway. We were meant to be meeting this morning and i texted her to make sure it was still on, and she said no sorry im working. So i take it she wouldnt of even told me she wasnt going to turn up. Then i see she is on msn and she signed out quite quickly. I haven't done anything, i'm not bitchy and i am nice to her, so what is her problem? She doesn't admit to anything so i dont think talking to her about it would help. Should i just not bother with her? But i don't understand why she is acting like this towards me? I feel like she doesn't like me anymore.
Beauty Eats

Foods to calm you down fast

Posted Fri, Oct 26, 2007
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Holiday bills arriving in heaps? Lurking taxes turning up the tension? No Valentine in sight? Regardless of the cause, there's an almost Alice in Wonderland counter-intuitiveness to the goodies we turn to for comfort. Instead of soothing our frayed nerves, many of them ultimately make us feel worse.

Take the classic-curling up with a pint of ice cream. It's a total backfire. Why? Sweets are insidious: After the initial rush, the body's insulin response kicks in, causing a sudden blood sugar drop that triggers the release of stress hormones. Soon you're feeling more jangled than you were before you inhaled that whole container of Chunky Monkey. And alcohol, of course, is a wolfish stimulant in calm sheep's clothing.

But true comfort foods do exist.

1. Berries, any berries
Eat them one by one instead of M&Ms when the pressure's on. For those tough times when tension tightens your jaw, try rolling a frozen berry around in your mouth. And then another, and another. Since the carbs in berries turn to sugar very slowly, you won't have a blood sugar crash. The bonus: They're a good source of vitamin C, which helps fight a jump in the stress hormone cortisol

2. Guacamole
If you're craving something creamy, look no further. Avocados are loaded with B vitamins, which stress quickly depletes and which your body needs to maintain nerves and brain cells. Plus their creaminess comes from healthy fat. Scoop up the stuff with whole-grain baked chips-crunching keeps you from gritting your teeth.

3. Mixed nuts
Just an ounce will help replace those stress-depleted Bs (walnuts), give you a whopping amount of zinc (Brazil nuts)-it's also drained by high anxiety-and boost your E (almonds), which helps fight cellular damage linked to chronic stress. Buy nuts in the shell and think of it as multi-tasking: With every squeeze of the nutcracker, you're releasing a little bit of tension.

4. Oranges
People who take a 1,000 mg of C before giving a speech have lower levels of cortisol and lower blood pressure than those who don't. So lean back, take a deep breath, and concentrate on peeling a large orange. The 5-minute mindfulness break will ease your mind and you'll get a bunch of C as well.

5. Asparagus
Each tender stalk is a source of folic acid, a natural mood-lightener. Dip the spears in fat-free yogurt or sour cream for a hit of calcium with each bite.

6. Chai tea
A warm drink is a super soother, and curling up with a cup of aromatic decaf chai tea (Tazo makes ready-to-brew bags) can make the whole evil day go away.

7. Dark chocolate
Okay, there's nothing in it that relieves stress, but when only chocolate will do, reach for the dark, sultry kind that's at least 70% cocoa. You figure if the antioxidant flavonoids in it are potent enough to fight cancer and heart disease, they've got to be able to temper tension's effects.

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  • 1. Posted by jj on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Per research papers, a typical dosage of GABA (short for gamma-aminobutyric acid) for anxiety or sleep disorders is 100-200 mg up to three times daily. Dosages of GABA found to benefit a subset of individuals with epilepsy ranged from 1,500-2,500 mg daily. It's also not recommended for pregnant or lactating women because of its effect on neurotransmitters. So watch out, even if it's from a health food store with claims of natural, you are still medicating yourself and this is still therefore a "medication" and a person needs to know how much to take depending on their gender and state of current health. Meds from health food stores must be taken with the same care as any med from the "medical establishment".

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  • 2. Posted by johnh on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Why isn't beer on the list? Thats my go to for stress releif

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  • 3. Posted by Dude on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    a good quality of sleep helps relieve stress too. i like all the suggestions on this page. i will try some of them out.

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  • 4. Posted by gotya on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    health food stores will tell you what ever you want to hear

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  • 5. Posted by sassenach1743 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Gamma-aminobutyric acid smoothie....yummm.

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  • 6. Posted by Instinctual on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    All the research I've studied, shows GABA doesn't cross the blood brain barrier. L-Theanine is good, or possibly a pre-cursor to Serotonin like 5HTP.

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  • 7. Posted by DragonMissy5 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Berries, avocado and chocolate??~ It's a winning combination! ^_^*

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  • 8. Posted by parand6 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Useful info. thanks

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  • 9. Posted by gotya on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    health food stores will tell you what ever you want to hear

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  • 10. Posted by jeffoneonone2004 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    To numbers 11 and 14, some of us are trying to relieve our stress from a LACK of a sex life, thanks anyway.

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  • 11. Posted by John N on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Re, oranges and vitamin c; If you need 1000mg, then be prepared to eat a lot! A large orange MAY contain 70mg, so that means you have to eat a dozen of them! Better yet, pop a vitamin C and take more than 1000 mg. I was friends with the late Linus Pauling, inventor of orthomolocular science wherein you give high amount of vitamins to acheive optimium health. I take 8000 daily on average.

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  • 12. Posted by coldplaywithu on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    As for taking herbal "medications" to releive stress, watch out. The best way to nourish your brain is to eat the right food and to exercise. Period. Don't waste your cash. (For us English speaking folks, Chai is simply the name of a kind of tea. I do not hear "tea tea" because I speak English. I like to be called Chai tea, so I don't mix it up with other kinds :) What is moronic is that I am actually taking some of my lunch hour to respond).

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  • 13. Posted by Fudge on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I think that going it the natural way is best...all these foods give you great health benefits apart from only relieving stress. Why look for any other remedy...just go to your local supermarket. Why not walk there - another excellent way to relieve stress...

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  • 14. Posted by sulabha on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    There is a company called "Nu-Life" that makes splendid products that really work. For years I had sleeping problems and nothing works but Natrarest by Nu-Life really does. I don't use it all the time now - but a few nights in a row sets a pattern and then ... ZZZs. The other product by the same company called Tranquility works when I am really stressed and anxious. The best part is that it contains all natural ingredients - hebs, roots, etc..

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  • 15. Posted by Maggie on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Right on Fudge!

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  • 16. Posted by take a pill on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    To "coldplaywithu" (I am a cold play fan)...Chai tea is redundant. I speak English too and most people I know are aware that chai means tea. I agree with everything else you say - eat right, exercise and sleep well. As busy as everyone is nowadays, these things have to take priority. Don't medicate yourself - leave GABAergic drugs to those who medically need it.

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  • 17. Posted by Duma on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Tropical fruit durian also is calming fruit as it is good for digestion.

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  • 18. Posted by Kenny D on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Vigorous exercise beats all. It engages your mind away from the stressors, it is(should) be enjoyable, it can be social, it has long term benefits, you are improving yourself, it makes you tired (better sleep), it balances your appetite. Get up, get out, get active!

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  • 19. Posted by Bluebird2008 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    The right thing to do, the natural way? Truth is that natural products, what to eat, what it does for you, all of that is like Wikipedia: it's a vox populi truth. Not based on verifiable facts but whatever the general population is ready to swallow as th truth. You want to feel better? Listen to yourself! If ice cream, beer, non black chocolate, shopping for heaven's sake does it for you then do it! I sooth my nerves with a long walk, a coffee and chocolate. Is it good for me? Hell yes! When I'm down I need to feel better no feel like I'm on a freaking diet! I can go back to taking care of my body after. And for God's sake leave the Chai tea alone next you'll get a French guy to tell you to stop calling French fries French because they are not!

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  • 20. Posted by auntyem on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    ...oranges, nuts, berries.... crap? right... tell that to Mother Nature (as much as I DO love chocolate, it does have too many negative effects...)

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  • 21. Posted by w8titsme on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    It certainly is something to think about.

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  • 22. Posted by Dewy on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I've always found that sitting alone listening to your favourite music with a glass of Armerito on the rocks calms me down the best .

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  • 23. Posted by Robbi B on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    De-stress with whatever feels good to you. For me, that changes depending on the day, my mood and the stress factors involved. Sometimes yoga, sometimes, chocolate, sometimes berries, sometimes smoking. Whatever. Seems to me it's healthier to reduce your stress level any way you can than it is to worry about whether or not you're reducing stress "properly". And for you nitpickers, when us English speakers say chai tea, we are referring to a specific spiced blend - masala chai - which is why most of us add the word tea. You might hear tea tea, we hear spiced tea.

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  • 24. Posted by jj on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Gamma-aminobutyric acid itself is a inhibitory neurotransmitter distributed throughout the central nervous system. Essentially, if you take it, you are taking "extra" of this inhibitory neurotransmitter. It inhibits excitation within the central nervous system, that's why it calms you down. Too long to describe here but it is not useless per statement by phoenix30 as there are analogs of this neurotransmitter that are taken by people with health problems related to lack or low levels of it. Bottom line is it's better not to medicate yourself with something from a health food store - just good diet and exercise, and if that doesn't work, see a professional who can suggest various alternatives.

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  • 25. Posted by joanne80329tsung on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Whats Gamma-aminobutyric acid ?

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  • 26. Posted by sangilma on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I really love reading those comments,sometimes there are people that really knows and that helps,u know what? I love avocado and chocolate;)

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  • 27. Posted by GreatEastern on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I mean! What's an ounce in Canadian?

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  • 28. Posted by George D on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Zahmed_1970, Thanks, didn't know that about CHAI. i like the stuff, myself. but for me, to relieve stress? heck, alone or in any combination, give me the following: Chocolate -love dark, it IS the best-, sex, and mixed nuts. If I have to include anything else or select another option, guacamole and chips/crackers -whole wheat or not- or lastly, a couple oranges or a grapefruit. still get my C that way, too, and that only depends on which one is in the house. Chocolate I'll walk for, lol

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  • 29. Posted by George D on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    what negative effects auntyem? good for youre heart, tastes great, and you don't need to polish off the whole bar, just 1-2 pcs (yes i have the control to do that) is all u need. any more stress? try then the nuts/oranges.

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  • 30. Posted by Skizzorz on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I think the thing is, they are suggesting things that do MORE that just relieve stress. How about the fibre, good fats, vitamins and minerals, etc. in these foods. I take vitamin suppliments...A multi vitamin, C, D, Fish Oil..in addition to trying to eat better and excercise as much as I am able. I have a chronic pain problem so am also on perscription meds, but I've cut some of those back because I don't like some of the adverse effects.

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