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  • SURVEY: For all you Older people out there...?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    How would you women feel about your partner not caring about his appearance, i mean not even trying to dress nice, go to the mall with you with tatty cut - out pants made into shorts, abit dirty, a shirt with a couple of holes and stained, (He says its clean,its been washed) but you can see its not looking nice. And he is bare foot aswell., he is always like this no matter what amount of clothes you buy him. I buy him a new shirt and new pants and not long and he has worked on some dirty job at home wearing them and ruined them with grease etc. Happens again and again, how would you feel about that? I feel ashamed to be seen with him like that in public as he looks like a homeless person . Does it mean i do not love him enough because it affects me?? Would you love some one no matter how yucky they dress because they just do not care or would it make you love them less and feel ashamed?? I want my man to dress nice and care about his appearance but he does not. Guys, are any of you out there like this?? Why is he like this? please no silly answers, i am serious. person He is my ex - husband and he has been wanting to get back together, but it really puts me off with the way he doesnt care about looking half decent. (Always was like this and has not changed) I did try when i was with him, hopelessly.
  • does he like me or not?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    there is a boy in my school who always stares at me in class and in the hallways...he always tries to get closer to me, and when his bascket ball team enter in compitions he always bring me tickets for the first row... does he like me? shal i get closer to him?
  • advice wanted. girls preferred?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Well at uni i was a good friend with a girl (at least i thought i was). While at uni we did help each other when needed. Well when we left uni she started to act strange. She has been ignoring my calls and texts for no reason. I know i have not upset her at all. This has been happening since Spetember. I know that she could be busy but to not reply to my text and to ignore nearly all my calls shows that she wants to ignore me. I have been told this in secret form her friend and have been told to act as if i am not aware about it. Now what i want to know is what should i do? I will totally ignore her and remove her as a friend on fb (although that seems childish). but if and when i see her what shall i say? I am saying this becasue we do have common friends. Shall i question her about why she has been ignoring me. I know that we can lose in touch with people but this si totally out of the blue and strange. I have given her some space. I mean i stopped calling her for months and when i did she still did not really talk
  • Dose she like me?????

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to meat the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?
  • Hey i like this girl but... please help girls u rock at this! for info, i am the sensitive gu type?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Ok, well i like this girl,and she said she liked me, but she cant date, her parents wont let her.(mom super strict) wat should i do? where do igo from here? But, a rumour went around that she and some both liked each othr and the guy told me without knowing i liked her tht she said she would date him if she could! idk if hes lying, PLEASE HELP
  • Men: Do you let your wives out of the house for anything other than grocery shopping?

    Marriage & Divorce - 9 hours ago

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    I only let my wife go out when we need groceries and once I month I will let her take the kids to visit her parents. Other than that she is in the house cooking and cleaning where she belongs.
  • i miss my girlfriend so much it hurts?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    we have been together for 9 months and spend a lot of time together (about 3-4 days a week) but she has had to stay with her auntie who lives quite far away and will be there for about 3 or more weeks. A few days have passed already and its killing me not getting to be with her It feels like she has just broke up with me. we talk on the phone but after a while the feeling comes back... is there anything i can do to make this go away. i can't do anything without thinking about her non stop.
  • My student has a crush on me, how do i deal with this?

    Singles & Dating - 10 hours ago

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    I am a 10th grade male American History Teacher, and I am absolutely positive that one of my students has a crush on me, this has happened before and I know the signs, the only difference this time is that the student is a boy. I always catch him staring at me with his head dreamily resting on his hand when I look over at him. I'm a little bit worried this might start something I don't know how to handle, if ever something does come up, is there a special way to handle it? I've never had another guy crush on me before.
  • How to approach and talk to this girl in my spanish class?

    Singles & Dating - 10 hours ago

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    She's a freshman, I'm a sophomore. I need advice on this, I'm shy and so is she, she barely talks in class and so do I. She sits across the room, sometimes I notice her staring at me and when I stare back she looks away. And even when I look somewhere near her, I can still see her eyes lookin at me. I'm really shy when it comes to approaching girls, It's been 3 years since I had a girl. Sad, I know. I'm not bad looking at all, but it's my shyness that turns girls off. I need some advice on this. Thanks.
  • Beautiful friend dating....insecure arrogant loser?

    Singles & Dating - 10 hours ago

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    My friend is so smart, she is well educated, super gorgeous and is the most kind, modest, caring warm hearted friend I could have, she is utterly selfless and just so giving polite and respectful. A guy has been dating her for a week now and already he's a jerk. he is not so intelligent, very unnatractive, arrogant, very insecure with low self esteem. They hav been out on three dates and already he is trying to control her, telling her how much make up to wear, what clothes to wear, what she should eat at restaurants. He also constantly says things to get a rise out of her. What is funny is that she is so smart and exhudes an inner strength that he is too stupid to see so she can see right through him and turns it back on him and he can't handle it. How can she end it with him, bearing in mind that he (attempts) to be manipulative and controlling. He is such a weak worthless loser. She deserves much better he is just intimidated by her brains and her beauty and I think he is jealous of her.

Foods to calm you down fast

Posted Fri, Oct 26, 2007
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Holiday bills arriving in heaps? Lurking taxes turning up the tension? No Valentine in sight? Regardless of the cause, there's an almost Alice in Wonderland counter-intuitiveness to the goodies we turn to for comfort. Instead of soothing our frayed nerves, many of them ultimately make us feel worse.

Take the classic-curling up with a pint of ice cream. It's a total backfire. Why? Sweets are insidious: After the initial rush, the body's insulin response kicks in, causing a sudden blood sugar drop that triggers the release of stress hormones. Soon you're feeling more jangled than you were before you inhaled that whole container of Chunky Monkey. And alcohol, of course, is a wolfish stimulant in calm sheep's clothing.

But true comfort foods do exist.

1. Berries, any berries
Eat them one by one instead of M&Ms when the pressure's on. For those tough times when tension tightens your jaw, try rolling a frozen berry around in your mouth. And then another, and another. Since the carbs in berries turn to sugar very slowly, you won't have a blood sugar crash. The bonus: They're a good source of vitamin C, which helps fight a jump in the stress hormone cortisol

2. Guacamole
If you're craving something creamy, look no further. Avocados are loaded with B vitamins, which stress quickly depletes and which your body needs to maintain nerves and brain cells. Plus their creaminess comes from healthy fat. Scoop up the stuff with whole-grain baked chips-crunching keeps you from gritting your teeth.

3. Mixed nuts
Just an ounce will help replace those stress-depleted Bs (walnuts), give you a whopping amount of zinc (Brazil nuts)-it's also drained by high anxiety-and boost your E (almonds), which helps fight cellular damage linked to chronic stress. Buy nuts in the shell and think of it as multi-tasking: With every squeeze of the nutcracker, you're releasing a little bit of tension.

4. Oranges
People who take a 1,000 mg of C before giving a speech have lower levels of cortisol and lower blood pressure than those who don't. So lean back, take a deep breath, and concentrate on peeling a large orange. The 5-minute mindfulness break will ease your mind and you'll get a bunch of C as well.

5. Asparagus
Each tender stalk is a source of folic acid, a natural mood-lightener. Dip the spears in fat-free yogurt or sour cream for a hit of calcium with each bite.

6. Chai tea
A warm drink is a super soother, and curling up with a cup of aromatic decaf chai tea (Tazo makes ready-to-brew bags) can make the whole evil day go away.

7. Dark chocolate
Okay, there's nothing in it that relieves stress, but when only chocolate will do, reach for the dark, sultry kind that's at least 70% cocoa. You figure if the antioxidant flavonoids in it are potent enough to fight cancer and heart disease, they've got to be able to temper tension's effects.

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  • 1. Posted by jj on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Per research papers, a typical dosage of GABA (short for gamma-aminobutyric acid) for anxiety or sleep disorders is 100-200 mg up to three times daily. Dosages of GABA found to benefit a subset of individuals with epilepsy ranged from 1,500-2,500 mg daily. It's also not recommended for pregnant or lactating women because of its effect on neurotransmitters. So watch out, even if it's from a health food store with claims of natural, you are still medicating yourself and this is still therefore a "medication" and a person needs to know how much to take depending on their gender and state of current health. Meds from health food stores must be taken with the same care as any med from the "medical establishment".

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  • 2. Posted by johnh on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Why isn't beer on the list? Thats my go to for stress releif

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  • 3. Posted by Dude on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    a good quality of sleep helps relieve stress too. i like all the suggestions on this page. i will try some of them out.

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  • 4. Posted by gotya on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    health food stores will tell you what ever you want to hear

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  • 5. Posted by sassenach1743 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Gamma-aminobutyric acid smoothie....yummm.

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  • 6. Posted by Instinctual on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    All the research I've studied, shows GABA doesn't cross the blood brain barrier. L-Theanine is good, or possibly a pre-cursor to Serotonin like 5HTP.

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  • 7. Posted by DragonMissy5 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Berries, avocado and chocolate??~ It's a winning combination! ^_^*

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  • 8. Posted by parand6 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Useful info. thanks

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  • 9. Posted by gotya on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    health food stores will tell you what ever you want to hear

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  • 10. Posted by jeffoneonone2004 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    To numbers 11 and 14, some of us are trying to relieve our stress from a LACK of a sex life, thanks anyway.

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  • 11. Posted by John N on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Re, oranges and vitamin c; If you need 1000mg, then be prepared to eat a lot! A large orange MAY contain 70mg, so that means you have to eat a dozen of them! Better yet, pop a vitamin C and take more than 1000 mg. I was friends with the late Linus Pauling, inventor of orthomolocular science wherein you give high amount of vitamins to acheive optimium health. I take 8000 daily on average.

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  • 12. Posted by coldplaywithu on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    As for taking herbal "medications" to releive stress, watch out. The best way to nourish your brain is to eat the right food and to exercise. Period. Don't waste your cash. (For us English speaking folks, Chai is simply the name of a kind of tea. I do not hear "tea tea" because I speak English. I like to be called Chai tea, so I don't mix it up with other kinds :) What is moronic is that I am actually taking some of my lunch hour to respond).

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  • 13. Posted by Fudge on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I think that going it the natural way is best...all these foods give you great health benefits apart from only relieving stress. Why look for any other remedy...just go to your local supermarket. Why not walk there - another excellent way to relieve stress...

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  • 14. Posted by sulabha on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    There is a company called "Nu-Life" that makes splendid products that really work. For years I had sleeping problems and nothing works but Natrarest by Nu-Life really does. I don't use it all the time now - but a few nights in a row sets a pattern and then ... ZZZs. The other product by the same company called Tranquility works when I am really stressed and anxious. The best part is that it contains all natural ingredients - hebs, roots, etc..

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  • 15. Posted by Maggie on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Right on Fudge!

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  • 16. Posted by take a pill on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    To "coldplaywithu" (I am a cold play fan)...Chai tea is redundant. I speak English too and most people I know are aware that chai means tea. I agree with everything else you say - eat right, exercise and sleep well. As busy as everyone is nowadays, these things have to take priority. Don't medicate yourself - leave GABAergic drugs to those who medically need it.

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  • 17. Posted by Duma on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Tropical fruit durian also is calming fruit as it is good for digestion.

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  • 18. Posted by Kenny D on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Vigorous exercise beats all. It engages your mind away from the stressors, it is(should) be enjoyable, it can be social, it has long term benefits, you are improving yourself, it makes you tired (better sleep), it balances your appetite. Get up, get out, get active!

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  • 19. Posted by Bluebird2008 on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    The right thing to do, the natural way? Truth is that natural products, what to eat, what it does for you, all of that is like Wikipedia: it's a vox populi truth. Not based on verifiable facts but whatever the general population is ready to swallow as th truth. You want to feel better? Listen to yourself! If ice cream, beer, non black chocolate, shopping for heaven's sake does it for you then do it! I sooth my nerves with a long walk, a coffee and chocolate. Is it good for me? Hell yes! When I'm down I need to feel better no feel like I'm on a freaking diet! I can go back to taking care of my body after. And for God's sake leave the Chai tea alone next you'll get a French guy to tell you to stop calling French fries French because they are not!

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  • 20. Posted by auntyem on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    ...oranges, nuts, berries.... crap? right... tell that to Mother Nature (as much as I DO love chocolate, it does have too many negative effects...)

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  • 21. Posted by w8titsme on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    It certainly is something to think about.

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  • 22. Posted by Dewy on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I've always found that sitting alone listening to your favourite music with a glass of Armerito on the rocks calms me down the best .

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  • 23. Posted by Robbi B on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    De-stress with whatever feels good to you. For me, that changes depending on the day, my mood and the stress factors involved. Sometimes yoga, sometimes, chocolate, sometimes berries, sometimes smoking. Whatever. Seems to me it's healthier to reduce your stress level any way you can than it is to worry about whether or not you're reducing stress "properly". And for you nitpickers, when us English speakers say chai tea, we are referring to a specific spiced blend - masala chai - which is why most of us add the word tea. You might hear tea tea, we hear spiced tea.

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  • 24. Posted by jj on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Gamma-aminobutyric acid itself is a inhibitory neurotransmitter distributed throughout the central nervous system. Essentially, if you take it, you are taking "extra" of this inhibitory neurotransmitter. It inhibits excitation within the central nervous system, that's why it calms you down. Too long to describe here but it is not useless per statement by phoenix30 as there are analogs of this neurotransmitter that are taken by people with health problems related to lack or low levels of it. Bottom line is it's better not to medicate yourself with something from a health food store - just good diet and exercise, and if that doesn't work, see a professional who can suggest various alternatives.

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  • 25. Posted by joanne80329tsung on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Whats Gamma-aminobutyric acid ?

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  • 26. Posted by sangilma on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I really love reading those comments,sometimes there are people that really knows and that helps,u know what? I love avocado and chocolate;)

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  • 27. Posted by GreatEastern on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I mean! What's an ounce in Canadian?

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  • 28. Posted by George D on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    Zahmed_1970, Thanks, didn't know that about CHAI. i like the stuff, myself. but for me, to relieve stress? heck, alone or in any combination, give me the following: Chocolate -love dark, it IS the best-, sex, and mixed nuts. If I have to include anything else or select another option, guacamole and chips/crackers -whole wheat or not- or lastly, a couple oranges or a grapefruit. still get my C that way, too, and that only depends on which one is in the house. Chocolate I'll walk for, lol

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  • 29. Posted by George D on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    what negative effects auntyem? good for youre heart, tastes great, and you don't need to polish off the whole bar, just 1-2 pcs (yes i have the control to do that) is all u need. any more stress? try then the nuts/oranges.

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  • 30. Posted by Skizzorz on Wed, Jan 30, 2008

    I think the thing is, they are suggesting things that do MORE that just relieve stress. How about the fibre, good fats, vitamins and minerals, etc. in these foods. I take vitamin suppliments...A multi vitamin, C, D, Fish Oil..in addition to trying to eat better and excercise as much as I am able. I have a chronic pain problem so am also on perscription meds, but I've cut some of those back because I don't like some of the adverse effects.

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