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  • SURVEY: For all you Older people out there...?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 4 hours ago

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    How would you women feel about your partner not caring about his appearance, i mean not even trying to dress nice, go to the mall with you with tatty cut - out pants made into shorts, abit dirty, a shirt with a couple of holes and stained, (He says its clean,its been washed) but you can see its not looking nice. And he is bare foot aswell., he is always like this no matter what amount of clothes you buy him. I buy him a new shirt and new pants and not long and he has worked on some dirty job at home wearing them and ruined them with grease etc. Happens again and again, how would you feel about that? I feel ashamed to be seen with him like that in public as he looks like a homeless person . Does it mean i do not love him enough because it affects me?? Would you love some one no matter how yucky they dress because they just do not care or would it make you love them less and feel ashamed?? I want my man to dress nice and care about his appearance but he does not. Guys, are any of you out there like this?? Why is he like this? please no silly answers, i am serious. person He is my ex - husband and he has been wanting to get back together, but it really puts me off with the way he doesnt care about looking half decent. (Always was like this and has not changed) I did try when i was with him, hopelessly.
  • does he like me or not?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    there is a boy in my school who always stares at me in class and in the hallways...he always tries to get closer to me, and when his bascket ball team enter in compitions he always bring me tickets for the first row... does he like me? shal i get closer to him?
  • advice wanted. girls preferred?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    Well at uni i was a good friend with a girl (at least i thought i was). While at uni we did help each other when needed. Well when we left uni she started to act strange. She has been ignoring my calls and texts for no reason. I know i have not upset her at all. This has been happening since Spetember. I know that she could be busy but to not reply to my text and to ignore nearly all my calls shows that she wants to ignore me. I have been told this in secret form her friend and have been told to act as if i am not aware about it. Now what i want to know is what should i do? I will totally ignore her and remove her as a friend on fb (although that seems childish). but if and when i see her what shall i say? I am saying this becasue we do have common friends. Shall i question her about why she has been ignoring me. I know that we can lose in touch with people but this si totally out of the blue and strange. I have given her some space. I mean i stopped calling her for months and when i did she still did not really talk
  • Dose she like me?????

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to meat the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?
  • Men: Do you let your wives out of the house for anything other than grocery shopping?

    Marriage & Divorce - 8 hours ago

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    I only let my wife go out when we need groceries and once I month I will let her take the kids to visit her parents. Other than that she is in the house cooking and cleaning where she belongs.
  • My student has a crush on me, how do i deal with this?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I am a 10th grade male American History Teacher, and I am absolutely positive that one of my students has a crush on me, this has happened before and I know the signs, the only difference this time is that the student is a boy. I always catch him staring at me with his head dreamily resting on his hand when I look over at him. I'm a little bit worried this might start something I don't know how to handle, if ever something does come up, is there a special way to handle it? I've never had another guy crush on me before.
  • How to approach and talk to this girl in my spanish class?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    She's a freshman, I'm a sophomore. I need advice on this, I'm shy and so is she, she barely talks in class and so do I. She sits across the room, sometimes I notice her staring at me and when I stare back she looks away. And even when I look somewhere near her, I can still see her eyes lookin at me. I'm really shy when it comes to approaching girls, It's been 3 years since I had a girl. Sad, I know. I'm not bad looking at all, but it's my shyness that turns girls off. I need some advice on this. Thanks.
  • Beautiful friend dating....insecure arrogant loser?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    My friend is so smart, she is well educated, super gorgeous and is the most kind, modest, caring warm hearted friend I could have, she is utterly selfless and just so giving polite and respectful. A guy has been dating her for a week now and already he's a jerk. he is not so intelligent, very unnatractive, arrogant, very insecure with low self esteem. They hav been out on three dates and already he is trying to control her, telling her how much make up to wear, what clothes to wear, what she should eat at restaurants. He also constantly says things to get a rise out of her. What is funny is that she is so smart and exhudes an inner strength that he is too stupid to see so she can see right through him and turns it back on him and he can't handle it. How can she end it with him, bearing in mind that he (attempts) to be manipulative and controlling. He is such a weak worthless loser. She deserves much better he is just intimidated by her brains and her beauty and I think he is jealous of her.
  • Is my girlfriend being rude?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    YESTERDAY, I asked my girlfriend if she had plans for this afternoon. She said "I don't think I do." So I asked her "I was gonna see if you wanted to come over and watch a movie with me." And she replied "I don't know, I'll see." Well...today went by...and she never texted or called me to let me know. WTF? Is she being rude, or should I not think anything about it? She is 18 and I am 22 btw.
  • I want this guy. It is not a question. :/..?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

Beauty Eats

The ultimate guide to good and bad fats

Posted Mon, Nov 17, 2008
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Remember when any fat was bad fat? When the only difference between a croissant and Krispy Kreme (or Tim Hortons) was snob appeal? Now that science has happpily found that some fats are good fats, it's all about avoiding the bad guys. But if sorting out omega-3s from sat fats makes you want to drown your frustration in a quarter-pounder and fries (a whopping 56 grams of the ickiest stuff), here's a simple list that rates fats from the top dog to don't-even-think-about-it.

TOP FATS: THE OMEGA-3s

Among the best fats on the planet, omega-3s add years to your life by dramatically reducing the risk of heart attack and stroke. They may also stave off arthritis, depression, some cancers, and even tame menstrual cramps and post-workout soreness. Looking for clear, soft skin, and great hair? Omega-3s do that too.

Eat these frequently:
-Fatty fish, such as wild salmon, sardines, herring, and tuna
-Flax seeds and flax seed oil
-Walnuts
-Canola oil and leafy greens (modest amounts)

GOOD FATS: THE MONOS
All monounsaturated fats are kind to your heart, because they up good HDL cholesterol and lower bad LDL cholesterol (the kind that clogs arteries). But virgin olive oil, the MVP of monounsaturates, does more. For starters, it contains micronutrients that are needed for hormone and enzyme production. But olive oil also boasts compounds that may fight breast and colon cancer, as well as boost the cancer-fighting power of other foods.

Delicious sources are:
-Olives
-Virgin olive oil?be sure it's virgin; processing destroys nutrients
-Canola oil
-Peanut and other nut oils
-Nuts
-Avocados

PRETTY GOOD FATS: THE POLYS
Most polyunsaturated fats are heart-friendly, but with the exception of omega-3s, they don't have the star power of other healthy fats. Also, they contain omega-6s, which are healthy unless you get too many of them - and most Americans get up to 25 times more omega 6s than they need - because they can overwhelm the superstar omega-3s. Overall, try to get most of your polyunsaturated fats from omega-3 sources.

Find them in:
-Corn, soybean, safflower, canola, sunflower and cottonseed oils
-Fatty fish (canned light tuna counts)

LOUSY FATS: THE SATS
Saturated fats are mainly trouble because they raise blood cholesterol to artery-clogging levels. In one study, eating a single slice of carrot cake and drinking a milkshake hindered the body's heart-protective functions. Loading up on sat fats may also harm brain molecules that help form memories, raising the risk of dementia.

Skimp or skip:
-Meats, particularly with visible fat
-Poultry skin, fat, and dark meat
-Whole-milk dairy foods including butter, full-fat cheeses, ice cream, sour cream
-Coconut and palm oils
-Lard and shortening

DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT 'EM: TRANS FATS
These fats are so scary that they're being banned in some cities, and food manufacturers and restaurants are working fast to find substitutes. Trans fats are formed when liquid oils are zapped with hydrogen, turning them solid (like stick margarine). Processed foods that contain trans fats have nearly eternal shelf life -- ironically, that's why trans fats were invented: to keep food from going bad. But trans fats turned out to boost bad cholesterol, decrease good cholesterol, gum up arteries, and set off inflammation throughout the body, which can trigger a host of problems, from stroke to diabetes.

Bypass completely.
Though things are changing quickly, be suspicious of any fast or processed food that's not labeled trans-fat free (packaged-food labels now must list trans fats), including:
-All deep-fried foods-chips, French fries, onion rings, donuts, etc.
-Many fast foods
-Candy
-Commercial baked goods-cookies, pies, cakes, rolls, muffins, etc.

Bottom line,stay away from trans fats the way you'd avoid highways the day before a holiday weekend. Clog city.

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22 Comments

  • 1. Posted by krandall33 on Mon, Nov 24, 2008

    good article

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  • 2. Posted by sarah on Mon, Dec 01, 2008

    I really like tositos and salsa are these bad or good for me

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  • 3. Posted by NIKOS on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    HOW COME MY ORGANIC MILK COMPANY CAN'T TELL ME HOW MUCH GOOD OR BAD CHOLESTROL IS IN THE MILK, WHEN THEY SIMPLY LIST THE AMOUNT OF IT? I ASKED THEM, AND THEY ADVISED ME TO GO SEE MY DIETICIAN! WERE THEY TOO SCARED OF THE USDA TO ANSWER A SIMPLE QUESTION? I'D LIKE TO HEAR ANSWERS TO THIS QUESTION.

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  • 4. Posted by mojtaba rezvani on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    I, enjoyed your article why not doing this stuff more & more?

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  • 5. Posted by boobiezippy on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    how about fats from eating shrimps? are these good cholesterol or bad.....I love shrimps..please tell me!

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  • 6. Posted by Magaly on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    I don't buy the whole coconut oil is a bad fat thing. There are different types of saturated fats and coconut oil is the good kind. Most of the saturated fat in coconut oil is easily digestible and converted into quick energy. And these types of fatty acids are less likely to cause obesity because they are immediately used by the body and have no opportunity to be stored.

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  • 7. Posted by coolbean on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    the author needs to do their homework about coconut oil - totally out to lunch

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  • 8. Posted by gp4107 on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    COCONUT OIL (PALM) IS ACTUALLY VERY HEALTHY. THERE IS PLENTY OF LITERATURE TO DOCUMENT ITS BENEFITS VS ITS MYTHS.

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  • 9. Posted by leasan12 on Tue, Dec 30, 2008

    The nutritional info in this article is old school. This kind of thinking is supported by the edible oil industry who would erroneously have us believe that all polyunsaturates are the good fats. Please ... wake up people. It's only been since the end of world war 2 that there has been such a consumption of polys and look at the state of our health. On the other hand coconut oil which has been used as a food for thousands of years by many cultures throughout the world has definitely been proved to be heart healthy. Actually all the bad mouthing about coconut oil ... the opposite is true. Coconut oil has innumerable benefits ... it's exactly the same molecule as the one found in mother's breast milk. It will always increase the good cholesterol (HDL) as well as what follows. More that 50% of our cell membranes are made made up of saturated fat. Does not need to be digested as it is already in a standard "energy storage unit" for the body that is below 14 carbon chain fatty acids; 2. Does not need to be converted before been used as energy. 3. Does not need insulin to enter cells. 4. Does not get stored as fat as it is smaller [12 carbon chain] than the standard storage unit [14 carbon chain], so it; is burned for energy rather than stored 5. Speeds up metabolism, and thus increases the number of calories burned. 6. Increases metabolism resulting in more efficient cell function; this heals injuries quicker, old and diseased cells are replaced faster. Young, new cells are generated at an increased rate to replace the worn-out ones. The immune system functions better. 7. Does not travel in the blood stream; travels through the lymphatic system. 8. The lauric acid helps to destroy bacteria and virus, what a bonus, and is still available as energy. (Palm oil is also a beneficial fat

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  • 10. Posted by jyoti on Sun, Mar 01, 2009

    Good morning.. I love this article,It is very useful for me.Thank you for that.. Judy

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  • 11. Posted by spew on Wed, Apr 29, 2009

    oooo. ihate this chat! wat is good fat? real butter, whole milk, meat fat with meat, oils for veggies and breads. real sugar, and real coffee. get the best and there will be enough for everyone. no one can consume too much at one sitting and it should be left to occassion.

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  • 12. Posted by alaina on Wed, Jun 17, 2009

    Totally off the mark on coconut oil...however, you must buy the cold pressed or expell pressed kind that is NOT HYDROGENATED. If you buy that kind, the health benefits on everything are numerous including cholesterol. Cold pressed coconut oil is one of the only oils out there that DOES NOT turn carcinogenic when heated.

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  • 13. Posted by duncan_wagner on Wed, Jun 17, 2009

    approximately 20% of your diet should be fats. Avoid trans fats but it is better to take in saturated fats like beef and butter than hydrogenated fats like heat processed oils (most commercial veggie oils and margarine) Hydrogenated oils are implicated as carcinogens and should be avoided always, sorry margarine users, butter is better for you. Processed foods tend to be extremely high in hydrogenated fats and should always be avoided as should fast food. EAT A BALANCED DIET, EXERCISE AND GET ENOUGH SLEEP.

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  • 14. Posted by duncan_wagner on Wed, Jun 17, 2009

    approximately 20% of your diet should be fats. Avoid trans fats but it is better to take in saturated fats like beef and butter than hydrogenated fats like heat processed oils (most commercial veggie oils and margarine) Hydrogenated oils are implicated as carcinogens and should be avoided always, sorry margarine users, butter is better for you. Processed foods tend to be extremely high in hydrogenated fats and should always be avoided as should fast food. EAT A BALANCED DIET, EXERCISE AND GET ENOUGH SLEEP.

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  • 15. Posted by nh on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    If people got off of their rump-roasts, and went to the gym.. or went for a walk... or just did something physical, they wouldn't be overweight. I'm tired of hearing people say it's "genetics" and yada-yada. There were fat people in my family, yet I am not fat. I eat 3 meals plus 3 snacks a day, balanced foods and allow myself a few treats here and there, I am "amazing healthy with perfect cholesterol levels" (as put by my doctor after my blood tests), I go to the gym minimum of 3 times per week, walk a lot, and don't pig out on the "treat foods". Also, when people claim to not know what foods are healthy, come on... Really?? It's easy enough to go on the internet and print off a copy of the food guidelines that tell you what foods are in each food group, and just go from there. People need to stay away from the packaged and processed foods,get a few recipe books, and start doing things for themselves. These lists are great to have, this is a good article... The only issue is that the people that are overweight and that don't go to the gym, expect to get in shape just by eating specific items and avoiding other items, and changing the types of oils that they use. To an extent, that will work. But without the physical activity, these people will just remain larger than life. I don't have pity for people who don't get off of the couch. And I hate it when I hear them complain, because I used to be overweight too... But instead of whining about it, I pulled myself away from the television and put hard work and dedication into making myself healthy. Rant is done now. :) heehee...

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  • 16. Posted by Lawrence on Tue, Aug 04, 2009

    See "Good Calories, Bad Calories" by Gary Taubes and "The Cholesterol Myths" by Uffe Ravnskov to find out why saturated fats are vilified unjustly.

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  • 17. Posted by bay boy on Thu, Nov 05, 2009

    eat what you want when your number is up it's up,just look at the people that don't eat meat they die,all the animals in the woods,eat healthy they die,people are getting rich from there books on this subject,eat,drink,and be merry because stress is a killer,enjoy life because it is very short,we are here on borrowed time,not a long time if you live to be 100 that is short,because the years just pass you bye.

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  • 18. Posted by bay boy on Thu, Nov 05, 2009

    eat what you want when your number is up it's up,just look at the people that don't eat meat they die,all the animals in the woods,eat healthy they die,people are getting rich from there books on this subject,eat,drink,and be merry because stress is a killer,enjoy life because it is very short,we are here on borrowed time,not a long time if you live to be 100 that is short,because the years just pass you bye.

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  • 19. Posted by althea on Thu, Nov 05, 2009

    Coconut oil is one of the more healthy oils..please check the research on it

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  • 20. Posted by Barb on Sun, Nov 15, 2009

    For over two decades, Udo Erasmus has dedicated his time to understanding the effects of fats and oils on human health, as well as the nature of health itself. Most of his more recent days have been spent on the road, spreading the message about this largely misunderstood, but vitally important, subject. He has written two ground breaking books: Fats and Oils, and Fats That Heal Fats That Kill, and has now completed his third, Choosing The Right Fats, co-written with Usha Menard. Udo's latest research and itinerary can be seen at www.udoerasmus.com.

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  • 21. Posted by Barb on Sun, Nov 15, 2009

    For over two decades, Udo Erasmus has dedicated his time to understanding the effects of fats and oils on human health, as well as the nature of health itself. Most of his more recent days have been spent on the road, spreading the message about this largely misunderstood, but vitally important, subject. He has written two ground breaking books: Fats and Oils, and Fats That Heal Fats That Kill, and has now completed his third, Choosing The Right Fats, co-written with Usha Menard. Udo's latest research and itinerary can be seen at www.udoerasmus.com.

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  • 22. Posted by Barb on Sun, Nov 15, 2009

    For over two decades, Udo Erasmus has dedicated his time to understanding the effects of fats and oils on human health, as well as the nature of health itself. Most of his more recent days have been spent on the road, spreading the message about this largely misunderstood, but vitally important, subject. He has written two ground breaking books: Fats and Oils, and Fats That Heal Fats That Kill, and has now completed his third, Choosing The Right Fats, co-written with Usha Menard. Udo's latest research and itinerary can be seen at www.udoerasmus.com.

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