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  • Do you think I'm in the wrong or am I right?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We just got a house together and everything has been going good for the most part. Now he is 27 and ready for a family and I'm 21 and not so sure I want kids. It really hasn't been a problem because for some reason he thinks I might change my mind. Well he had done overseas about 6yrs. for the military and ended up sleeping with some girl and she had got pregnant. Come to find out she was married she told him that it was either his kid or her husbands. Well when it was born she never got a dna test but she told him that it was her husbands. Now five years later she found him on facebook and told him that she thinks the kid is his but yet she still doesn't want him to be apart of the kids life. She also told him that is not why contacted him. Well if she didn't want to talk about that then why does she keep calling. I said something to him about it and he said well even if I can't see her I still want to make sure she is okay. How would you feel about this?? Honestly I don't like that he is talking to her. Plus he doesn't even know if that kid is his for sure and she want let him find out. Do you think it's wrong of me for not wanting him to talk to her. I guess I wouldn't care so much if she would let him get a dna test but since she has already said that she wont and that the kid is being raised by her husband and that is all the kid knows and she wants to leave it that way.
  • Why would a guy keep looking at your breasts when you talk to him?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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  • GIRLS, should I text her first?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    Me and this friend of mine tried dating recently. We used to text all day, good morning to good night. And If I didnt text her, she would text me first. But we decided just to stay friends. And now shes not texting me as much. Actually way less. Her messages are getting shorter, to the point. And if I dont text her, I dont hear from her. Should I text her "Happy Thanksgiving" first, or wait for her to text me? If she even does. Im puttin the effort in, but she doesnt seem to want to anymore. Did you miss the part where I said we tried to date? She didnt want to, she said lets be friends!
  • MEN ONLY help the fat chick ch 5?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    for health reasons in 5'4' 200 lbs how much do i need to loose
  • Relationship question for girls...?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Alright girls...Here's my problem. I've had this crush for a long time. But I didn't think I had any chance with her whatsoever, so I never let my feelings show. A month ago, she told me she might like me. So we hung out a few times and we kissed a bit. Now, there's this guy from college that she used to date last year. He has come home a couple of times and they hung out both times. And now it kinda seems like she might not like me but I could just be being paranoid. Like I asked her to hang out friday and she just said "Yeah I'm kinda busy." Btw, the guy from college has abs and what not...and I don't really. I don't think she's that shallow, but I don't really know what girls want in a guy. I'm a sweet guy and I've not really had a serious relationship before, so I'm kinda new at this :P What do I do? Do I ask her about it? Do I just keep trying to hang with her? Please help.
  • If a woman is 20 and has a kid would she be considered a MILF ?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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  • Honestly: Would you say I'm a sad 16 year old with no life?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    I rarely go out to parties or even places like cinemas and retaurants with my friends because when I was younger my mum never let me so I'm used to it and don't have friends close enough to go with. When I do make plans, it gets cancelled for one reason or the other by either me or the friend and I'm sick of this. The only places I go to is school, church and the theatre where I work and I'm taking an acting course with some of my friends. Do you think I'm sad for this? Please be honest
  • Marriage Help Books. Do They Work?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    My husband and I are going through a real hard time at the moment. Our problems are I am sure not out of the ordinary, however I am really starting to worry about our future. We have lost a lot of our closeness, he doesn't listen to me and we do not deal with problems together like we used to. Our relationship was really strong and I hate to think that if our marriage problems get worse we may end up another divorce statistic. A friend has suggest I read a marriage help book and see if I get any ideas from it. Has anyone used marriage help books with any success, and what other help could I look at? I don't want to go down the route of counseling yet if I can help it. Thanks for listening.
  • who do u think is the right person to love and whats the real love for your opinion?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    what do u really think
  • What should I do when...?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    A year ago my best friend (guy) asked me out. Knowing that I loved him as a person and that he wouldn't be my friend if I turned him down I said yes. A couple days later I realized it scared me and I couldn't eat or sleep or anything so I told him I really felt more like friends and I wanted to be best friends like we were. He got really mad at me and stopped talking to me. A couple months later he sent me a text telling me how sorry he was and that he was getting Baptized and wanted to invite me. So I went to his baptism and a week later he turned away from God. I haven't talked to him since but I have a feeling that he will contact me soon. If this happens should I forgive him again, I want to do the Christian thing but I get a knot in my stomach every time I see or think of him, I'm not sure if it's love or fear. I'm messed up all over. I used to not believe in teens falling in love and I don't think I could love him especially when the last thing he said to me was "Leave me the f*** alone" but I can't stop thinking about him (and this is a year later...) Thank you so much for your answers, especially yours Ashlee: I've been thinking about it but not sure if I should. My close friends who were there to help me through the whole thing are tired of me not getting over him.
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8 Ways to fight fall weight gain

Posted Mon, Oct 19, 2009
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The summer's over, and with it, any need to show up in public in a bathing suit. But before you layer on the sweaters -- and the pounds they can hide -- check out this advice from Daphne Oz (yes, the daughter of Dr. Oz, RealAge medical advisor and Oprah health expert), who's followed her first book, The Dorm Room Diet, with a down-to-earth sequel: The Dorm Room Diet Planner. After years of adolescent struggles with as much as 30 extra pounds, Daphne started to lose weight in high school -- and went to college determined: She not only avoided the loathed freshman 15 but lost 10 pounds. Talk about A+ work! Here are her top stay-slim tips, no matter what your age:

Drink half your body weight in ounces of water daily, including one glass before every meal.

Avoid emotional eating. The next time you reach for that cookie, ask yourself whether you're being prompted by stress, hurt, depression, boredom, or even joy. The purpose of eating is to fuel your body, not temper your feelings.

Always have breakfast. It gives energy to your body and brain, and keeps you from going into starvation mode and binge-eating later.

Schedule time to eat. Plan on three meals and two fruit or veggie snacks every day. Look at your schedule for the day and block out windows of time to eat; "not enough time" is not an excuse.

Count to your age before you "cheat." Anytime you find you are about to eat something that's not healthy, count to your age. If you still want a bit after your countdown, feel free; you've made a conscious decision to indulge.

Ditch the defeatist attitude. Everyone falls off the bandwagon sometimes. The important thing is to get back on. So when you succumb to that late-night bowl of ice cream, don't think, "Well, I've already been bad, so I might as well finish the rest of the carton." Instead, enjoy the occasional indulgence and resume your resolve.

Get off the couch. A daily exercise routine would be ideal. But even walking up a few flights of stairs for a face-to-face conversation is better than instant-messaging.

Avoid processed snacks. Always try to have a piece of fruit rather than processed snack foods, especially late at night. If fruit alone doesn't cut it, try adding some peanut butter. If you need a sugar fix, nuke a handful of dark chocolate chips in the microwave for a few seconds and dip your fruit into that.

Sounds simple. It is. And Daphne's proof that it works.

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  • 1. Posted by Odabb on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    The best way to loose weight is to take half of your three times meal a day.

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  • 2. Posted by waking1964 on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    So the DAUGHTER of the DR. on Oprah says it, so it must better??? I mean, how many degrees of separationh are required now before someone's opinion ISN'T blathered on Yahoo as "top News"??? 4??? 5??? The sister of the cousin of the hairdresser to the daughter of Dr. Oz says it, so it must be a valid opinion?????

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  • 3. Posted by Kari on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I agree... it's nothing that I haven't heard of before. And I'm sorry, but I HATE the fact that the children of people (Dr. Phil's son, now Dr. Oz's daughter) who are experts now are able to come out with books - whatever happened to working for what you've earned?

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  • 4. Posted by karleyandirish on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    here's some breakthrough information. I have the newest and most scientific way to stay fit or lose weight- EAT RIGHT AND EXCERCISE!!!! wow. thats amazing (and if you didn't catch the sarcasm you REALLY need help)!! these 8 ways are nothing new. it's just for those people who don't know what anything other than their tv looks like. get outside, excercise, eat healthy, stop smoking and drinking.

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  • 5. Posted by Scotty on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    If this information is so good, what happened to Oprah???? Don't see much difference in her these days!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • 6. Posted by sporty on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    You are all correct, there is nothing new here because THERE IS NOTHING NEW. I think emphasizing that we eat for reasons other than hunger or nutritional needs is worth remembering. The unfortunate habit of eating when we are sad is exaggerated by the fact that we tend to seek SWEET foods for these mouth/brain moments.

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  • 7. Posted by yi_viva on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    old information who dosenot know these wht so special just coz she says it ?????

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  • 8. Posted by Eden on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    tnx for the advice.

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  • 9. Posted by B on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    A few drinks in the evening helps me unwind, worry less, and not think about impulse eating. The European way. And Jennie Craig would go broke in Spain / France. Slim, lovely ladies all... The Wizard of Oz.

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  • 10. Posted by sweetalot on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Whether you be on a cruise, at college, or celebrating Thanksgiving or Christmas, there's no excuse for gaining weight. It's all about portion control and regular exercise. Unfortunately, a lot of people will use any excuse they can to be irresponsible - "too busy", "on vacation", "it's winter", "it's raining outside", etc.

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  • 11. Posted by Elaine on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    this is common sense

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  • 12. Posted by sparky on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    You know what, we all came on here to read the article, to see if there was something new to learn. Why, we are hoping for the magic pill or formula. Well, we have it, we have had it for years, we just don't like it. Secondly, there ARE health conditions that do cause one to gain weight reguardless of one's diet, so there ARE legitimate reasons why some people gain weight so stop judging. As for Daphne, it seems a lot of you are assuming she is riding on her dad's coat tails. How do you know she doesn't have some sort of degree? Even if she is, wouldn't you take the opportunity if it was presented to you? I don't know if she is or not, but we shouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions.

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  • 13. Posted by discovery on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I like this and some of this tips I have been doing.

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  • 14. Posted by emef888 on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I recognize Dr. Oz's credentials (cardiac surgeon afterall), but his daughter? Will his dog be blogging soon too? What about his wife's recipe book? Jessica Seinfeld bakes! Jay McGraw counsels teens! Oh, and Robin McGraw - on what basis are these common folk dictating to us ???? MAKE IT STOP !!

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  • 15. Posted by discovery on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I like this and some of this tips I have been doing.

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  • 16. Posted by justpeachy on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    way to loose weight: -do not snack -do not eat processed foods -do not drink sweetened juices -avoid coffee -avoid enriched, bleached flours, white rice, comercial cereals (kelogs, general mills, instant oatmeals) avoid mixing certain food groups together, ex: avoid carbs & lipids combination -eat a healthy amount of various foods in their most natural form possible, from all food groups; choose the source wisely Eat as much as you feel necessary to feel 'full' at each meal, but do not transform a meal into an orgy. Take at least 20 minutes to eat, chew slowly, but as much as possible at every bite... 'eat your soup and drink your meal' avoid drinking alcohol, never drink alcohol on an emply stomach, do not mix water and alcohol at a meal, if you choose to drink while eating, drink after you are half-way done your meal, or towards the end of your meal. You will feel less bloated and your body will naturally rid itself of stocked fat, in a slow but steady pattern. your taste buds will be better for it. your energy will soar, your alertness will improve your clothes will fit better your skin will look better and if you fall off the bandwagon, make sure you get back on it asap. oh, and perhaps one of the most important things to remember: NEVER MISS A MEAL, otherwise your body will automatically put itself in a 'stocking fat mode' because it will think that it needs to make a fat reserve in case it misses more meals.

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  • 17. Posted by Joan on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    what ever is in your plate , make sure eat half of it or atleast leave some remaining in your plate. Eatting breakfast is important as long as you don't have your dinner on late night. Dance is one of those excersice which you lose weight and enjoy from the music as well.

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  • 18. Posted by Pingi5 on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    what a crock! What's next the cousin of Oprah's long lost half sister giving advice on how to save money while overeating! OR maybe Babe Ruth's illegitmate son endorsing a new chocolate bar. This is all rediciulous and so is anyone who buys the book or reads this garbage.

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  • 19. Posted by JoJo on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Thanks for the tip...what a GENIUS!! I have never heard of this before! LMAO Shot! Why didnt I think of publishing this! Crap, I'm always full of ideas, but someone always beats me to the line!! I wonder if she was a million pounds overweight, or was she that annoying girl who always asks if she looks fat with 12% body fat?! Come up with something new and quit taking up space with the same crap about losing weight! People either want or not..give it up geesh. Eat you veggies, go for a walk, don't eat after 7pm blah blah blah blah blah chain up the fridge blah drink a bath tub of water blah blah eat meals the size of your fist blahblah i could go on on ..but I know you are all smart enough it figure it out.... =) oh carbs(veggie) and natural sugars can cause you to gain weight as well .. just remember there is always evil with good.....peace t'all

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  • 20. Posted by Eric on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Simple, eat less exercise more!! Enough said, no miracle cure for weight loss.

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  • 21. Posted by jamiexof on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    seriously people get a life. why do you care who gives advice on losing weight? The fact that it bugs you so much to leave a comment is funny.

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  • 22. Posted by BD123 on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I agree, it's more than a diet, it"s a life style. Understanding why you eat is a lot more important than it sounds. She may be young but she is right ...and hopefully she reaches her peers. I'm on medications that made me gain weight and does not allow me to excercise to the point of sweating. Any help with that?

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  • 23. Posted by Michelinda2005 on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Hey Disconlu, does a wealthy boyfriend make you thin or what? I thought this was a forum to have opinions about this article... By the way, there are many ways to be thin, just eat right, not too much and walk at least 30 minutes a day. If you can do up to an hour is much better. Drink hot water with lemon or acai berry so your intestines are cleared, this probably is the best to keep your stomach flat. Peace...

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  • 24. Posted by Lana on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    definitely obvious advice. i think we all know by now what is good for us and what is not and that we have to move to use the energy in our body!! the only thing i can say of that can be applied to any diet, any season and anyone, is keep track of what you eat on a daily basis. sometimes we dont realise how much we are eating and how often.control is the answer!

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  • 25. Posted by stsigas on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Want to lose weight? Eat less and exercise more. Stop stuffing yourself until you can hardly breathe.

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  • 26. Posted by view supporter on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Fit health and Body equals know what you put in your mouth America and not only just exercise. There is no point of over eating and work out at the Y for 2 hours. If you read food labels, cook your meals, eat veggies, no pop drinks at home, eat fish, have a fruit after a meal and no sweet desert, then you really don't need to do heavy duty at the Y. Good luck.

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  • 27. Posted by mcrobertsp on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Why is Yahoo posting stuff with those so called celebraties and their off springs giving us advice which WE ALREADY KNOW THAT.. WE KNOW ABOUT DIET, HEALTH, ETC long before she was born! Stop feeding us stuff we ALREADY know please!!! Otherwise I be switching over to Google

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  • 28. Posted by queen of z on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    for crying out loud. Eat what you want, just WATCH HOW MUCH you eat. Basic commonsense will tell you NOT to binge on fries and burgers daily, three times a day!!!! Limit your intake. Don't overeat DAILY. We all tend to from time to time - we are human, not robots. It is ok to have icecream but don't have it daily!! "determine what once in a while" is - icecream once a month is quite ok to have. Don't order three scoops - the craving is gone after the first 3 licks, rest is filler - so order one scoop and you will be in the same "heaven" as if you ordered three. After three you will feel awful anyway! COMMONSENSE. We don't need these "celebs" telling us and making money while doing so!

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  • 29. Posted by Me on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I loved it, I read her biography and she has lost a huge amount of weight herself. Very nice advices. Thanks a lot.

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  • 30. Posted by Me on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    great advised. Wish u luck and thanks a lot :)

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