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  • How do you know if your ready to "do it"??? And how should we "do it" if we do?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Okay so we have been dating a year, we have known each other since we were two, we are both virgins, we both love each other. I have the most amazing boyfriend ever he's always there for me and he is not pushing me to have sex with me in anyway, he just says "we will do it whenever it feels right to you" and i think I want to do "it" with him i'm just nervous I think, so i keep telling him i'm not ready yet and he says "okay baby, it's no big deal". I think the real thing i'm scared about is getting pregnant, but he says he will use protection and he has thought about that to and he wants to stop when ummm "stuff" starts to come out. Also i've heard that doing this with someone causes you feelings about them to change sometimes for the better sometimes for the worts... I don't know what I want to do? Do you think I'm ready? What are the chances of us getting prego? and how should we do it the first time??? Help???
  • i need help?????????????????

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i want to ask this girl out but i dont know what to say and im to shy to ask. so can someone help me. dont give me the worst she could say is no crap because thats whats stopping me from asking her.
  • Dose she like me??????????

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to me at the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • So there's this guy... And he lied.. Please help me. :(?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay so i've know this guy since I was 2! we have been best friends ever since back two years ago I don't remember how we got started talking about it but he told me he lost his Virginity when he was 13 (he's 15 now told me this when he was 14) well last January we became more than just friends. And he continued to tell me he lost his virginity, this hurt me everyday because he had told me that he lost it to some girl he didn't even know that well just because he wanted to lose it and she was willing. Then after dating for seven months he comes out and tells me that he's never done that, I really do believe him because of reasons that don't need to be discussed. But I'm really just con fussed as to why he would lie to me about something like this??? Can you help me out please? I love him and I know he loves me, we have been together almost a year. I just really wanna know why he lied to me about something stupid like that? And yes I asked him but all he said was "I don't know baby i'm sorry, I love you." Please help???
  • I dont know how to do this still?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i am 13 and i dont know how to flirt.I dont even know what flirt is So can anyone tell me what is it and how to do it?
  • Are you putting up with a family member on Thanksgiving day because you have no choice?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    I am, most of my hypocrite family who wear their heirlooms on Thanksgiving and the next day they put back their horns. I do it for my mom who is old but not because I want to.
  • okay. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. porn is alawys something we have argued about?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    and im done! i dont want to argue anymore. iv told him this amillion times.! but i cant tell if he ihas stopped. last time i found it on his computer about a month and a half ago he was just as upset as i was and disapointed in his self. he knows i hate it. just last night i found more on his computer/ he told me he swears its not his. that it must have been his brother who is 15, he told me he hates seeing me upset. that he only thinks of me and only me. that hes done with that shit as he called it and doesnt want to do it anymore. please dont tell me this is just something boys do. that its normal? thats not the answer im looking for. if he honestly is telling me the truth like hes saying..im to insecure about the subject to beleive him almost. hetold me if he looked at it he wud tell me because he said he wud rather me help him with it then him keep doing it behind my back. he also told me that he has had 4 urges to do it since i found out the last time. he told me that those times he had the urges he just went to bed or jacked off to me. i feel bad cuz i feel i cant trust him. and i also feel bad cuz when i feel like it was him and i get mad and upset he gets mad cuz i dont beleive him. i realy honestly dont know what to do to make my self feel confident about it. hes not one to lie. cheat. or any of that. i mean everyone says it cud be worse ya know? but i dnt want the porn in our relationship. last time what realy got him was...i told him i was gna leave if it didnt stop. a relationship of 2 years is pretty important to just let go like that. i honestly dont think he being hte person he is wud just drop that. can u guys help me? and before u say it i wont whatch it with him! and he has tons of pictures of me and stuff like that. i just want me and him without the porn. not me him and the porn ya know??
  • What to do when parent are strict?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    My Friends and i are having a party on this friday at 1035 Bern road, Wyomissing which is laser quest and we are having a lock in meaning we will be ther from 11:45 pm to 6 am and she flat out said no even though 1 there will be many adults there 2 it's not like i will be out doing drugs 3 we must stay in the building I just don't know how to get her to say yes because we already paid for it. Any advice to give me?
  • Have you ever.......?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    Have you ever looked in your spouses/significant other's phone text messages or facebook/myspace pages if you had a gut feeling that something was going on behind your back? And if so, wether you found something or not, did you feel guilty for looking in the first place? I looked out of curiosity while trying to download some music onto her phone, didn't like what I found, and felt guilty anyway. If I don't say anything, God only knows how long it will go on for. If I do say something, she'll think I don't trust her. My issue is, it could be nothing at all, she is a viscious flirt. We have a great marriage and a fantastic sex life, so if it is what I fear, why would she find the need to stray?
  • my mother-in-law yelled at wife to see if I would defend her and I didn't so her mother said see you don't-?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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Beauty Redefined

Is 23 too young for Botox injections?

Posted Thu, Feb 28, 2008
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You might remember that a few months ago, Ashley Simpson was plastered on the cover of In Touch Weekly magazine with a seemingly shocking headline claiming that (at 23) she receives monthly Botox injections.

I've got to admit that I was a bit surprised to read that a 23-year-old would even need Botox and I was also dead certain that it was not a good idea to be exposed to it at such a young age. Well, it turns out that I might have been wrong on the latter part.

I made a few phone calls and wanted to get the opinion of a qualified cosmetic dermatologist or that of a plastic surgeon. I contacted Dr. Fred Weksberg, owner and medical director of the Centre for Cosmetic Dermatology and the Toronto Vein Clinic. Dr. Weksberg is a specialist in cosmetic dermatology, dermatologic surgery and sclerotherapy with more than 20 years of experience.

I asked Dr. Weksberg if he considered 23 to be too young for Botox injections.

"It's really a matter of when you start forming wrinkles," he says. "If you get Botox to be trendy because a few of your friends are doing it, then it's wrong, but if you are noticing wrinkles at a young age, Botox will help reduce your lines and wrinkles and even prevent the formation of new wrinkles. A study published in 2006 suggests that long-term, consistent Botox treatment may prevent the development of imprinted lines and wrinkles associated with aging. The study compared the appearance of facial lines in identical twins, one of whom received regular Botox treatments over 13 years beginning at age 25 and one of whom did not. The study positively looked at Botox use as a preventative measure of wrinkles, not a reactive one."

There was another fact about Botox that I had seen on so many forums and on which wanted to get Dr. Weksberg's perspective: I've heard that if you get Botox injections on certain parts of your face, certain muscles will freeze and you will start developing wrinkles around the area that was treated. Dr. Weksberg did indeed confirm that this is common incident with Botox injections. This might be something women who choose to start injections in their 20s might need to keep in mind.

More about the Botox study performed on twins
A study published in the 2006 issue of the Archives of Facial Plastic Surgery suggests that long-term, consistent treatment with Botox Cosmetic (botulinum toxin type A) may prevent the development of lines that are visible without facial muscle contraction (the so-called "imprint" or "at rest" lines most associated with the aging process). The study compared the appearance of facial lines in identical twins, one of whom received regular Botox Cosmetic treatments over 13 years beginning at age 25 and one of whom did not. 

Photographic documentation was used to compare the progress of each twin.  From the age of 25, the "treated" twin had received injections in the forehead and glabellar regions (the vertical "frown lines" between the brows) two to three times per year over 13 years.  From 2004 to 2006, the "treated twin" also received two Botox Cosmetic treatments in the crow's feet area (around the outer eye). The "untreated" twin had received only two Botox treatments in the forehead and glabellar regions during the same 13-year period, the first administered in 1999 and the second administered in 2003. 

Photos showed no visible forehead or glabellar lines at rest in the "treated" twin, while noticeable imprinted forehead and glabellar lines at rest are evident in the "untreated" twin. Crow's feet were also less visible when smiling in the "treated" twin.  

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21 Comments

  • 1. Posted by alaina on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Tell me what cosmetic surgeon or dermatologist would tell you NOT to get Botox if it generates an income for his practice. Hey, the earlier the age, the richer-- I mean--the better. Please....

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  • 2. Posted by missamber on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    yes, heaven forbid we get wrinkles or even worse, grow old (you know, that new swear word: "OLD")

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  • 3. Posted by afountaintroubled on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Everytime I think that we're getting a litter smarter as a culture, trying to learn and all that, I read something like this and want to move to Switzerland.

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  • 4. Posted by James F on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    There are lots of better and more enjoyable things on which to spend your money. When will we learn as a society not to fall for the cosmetic industry marketing machine?

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  • 5. Posted by J-P on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Am I the only one that thinks that paralyzing your face to prevent wrinkles is the stupidest thing in the world? These "botox-barbies" with their frozen expressionless faces look awful and unnatural...like robots! Not to mention the animal testing that goes on to create botox. I could never in good conscious get botox.

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  • 6. Posted by wow.vistoso on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Hey, don't be too harsh on Dr. Fred here !!!! It's just the suggestion and if the patient decides to go ahead and get it done, then it's all good. Ps. Getting old gracefully doesn't mean that you're done living. Vanity is a part of being human and there's no denying it.. We're all vain one way or another.. Right?

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  • 7. Posted by PingPong on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    20 years old and you have $500.00 to spend on Botox? That is just for the forehead and lasts only six months and you have to have it done again as the wrinkles return......Better get two jobs or do lots of overtime.....

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  • 8. Posted by helloworld on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    this article is totally stupid and i am with all of you that said "which doctor in this industry would care to say no to this?" wake up you ppl out there that think you are in need of stuff like this!! go get a real life.

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  • 9. Posted by prairie indian on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Well what can you say. They cant take care of themselves. Here I am 33 look good as 23 and with a body yet, and dont have any wrinkles I think. I eat good and it pays off to look good. I thought they were rich cant the hire someone to watch their health. Man oh man ppl are getting lazy. Good luck to them they will look 56 when thier 36 if not then they would look like dolls. poor ppl.

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  • 10. Posted by par.vini on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Is Dr. Fred using this Botox thing on his own face and on her wife and daughter? How many male are doing this, why ladies are falling in this trap of denying their personality, character and appearance as it grows naturally. Its me, love me the way I am, you have to love my wrinkles as I love yours.

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  • 11. Posted by nooneinparticular on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    23? Are you kidding me? Your answer ought to have been a big YES! I find your articles biased; they tend to underhandedly lean towards encouraging cosmetic enhancements/procedures. The bulk of this prticular article clearly encourages Botox, with your lame attempt of introducing a side effect: "...if you get Botox injections on certain parts of your face, certain muscles will freeze and you will start developing wrinkles around the area that was treated. Dr. Weksberg did indeed confirm that this is common incident with Botox injections. This might be something women who choose to start injections in their 20s might need to keep in mind." I would have assumed that at this point you would have chosen to discuss this side effect further and to perhaps discourage Botox, or any other sort of "rejuvenating" procedure for people in 20 & 30 year olds. Instead, you proceed with the Botox study on the twins, which clearly, is meant to encourage the "benefits" of Botox. One would assume that you are receiving kickbacks from the specialists you quote. Shame on you Krizia for encouraging this.

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  • 12. Posted by Sharri-Anne on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    I'm 22 and I prefer to use things from nature like unrefined shea butter to have good skin.I don't believe in using unnatural things to keep me from aging.

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  • 13. Posted by Nat on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    gimme a break why would i use some doctor's name 4 times in a single text if i'm not getting paid for that?

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  • 14. Posted by Eliza on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    I don't know how old the people are who are posting, but significant changes occur in your overall muscle tone after you turn 40. All vanity aside, things like drooping eyelids, which cause you to have to constantly raise your eyebrows in order to see out of them, can be treated with botox. It is physically more comfortable after having treatment for this condition, and less painful than surgery. Don't judge the anti-aging movement as a totally vain thing--let people make their own choices, as you have the right to make yours.

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  • 15. Posted by jskitella on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    It's a shame that society has become so wrapped up in it's own vanity, that some people lose their minds when a wrinkle appears on they're face. People obsessed with their own vanity, have no idea what life is really all about. I want to see the character develop in the people I love, I don't want them to be tainted by useless chemicals that'll turn them into shells of plastic. No age is a good age to inject yourself with potentially harmful substances to sustain a false sense of temporary well being. Shame on you cosmetic surgeons who have sold your souls to make a few bucks too!

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  • 16. Posted by phillip m on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    I have seen some faces that to me have been made hideous by its use. But these peeps have money. There is the responsible intelligent use- minor and subtle.Women have constituted to 90% of all body modifications for decades. I really really wish that women would find confidence and self-love by other means. but breasts and facial augmentation will continue to be the products that women will spend the most on. They have the final say, they make the decision. So how do you emancipate a willing slave? To all others eat well, cleanse internally periodically and celebrate the positive for that is where beauty lives.

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  • 17. Posted by mybeautymatch on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    It’s been months since I wrote an article that generated so much heat. First off, I want to thank all of you for reading and posting your comments. It’s good to see that people are reading and that not everyone agrees with me. Now, I’ll take some time to answer some of your questions and address some harsh critics: 1. Dear, mizin@rogers, I’m NOT paid by Dr. Weksberg or by Botox. I used the doctor’s name, because it’s the polite thing to do. 2. Since I’m not a doctor, I have to rely on a medical opinion to give me the facts about Botox. 3. As I’m stated, I personally thought that 23 is way too young for Botox, but from where I’m sitting, I never had wrinkles at 23 and now I’m many years older than 23 and still don’t have wrinkles and I really don’t know how it feels to look at yourself in the mirror and see wrinkles. 4. Botox, skincare, diets, smoking, drinking … it’s all presented to you, you chose if it’s something you want to partake in or not. 5. This article is NOT in support or against Botox, but rather a way of presenting the facts about Botox. 6. If you can afford $500 for Botox, chances are your parents are helping or you are paying for the treatments with money you’ve earned … either way … it’s your decision. 7. The facts are the study where presented to me by the PR company for Botox Canada. If memory serve me correctly, I did find a link on the internet about it.

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  • 18. Posted by mybeautymatch on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Here's the rest of my feedback: 8. In closing, I’ll say that when I was in my early 20s I worked with a girl who was a few years younger than I was, but she looked like she was in her mid 50s. Her face was lines with deep wrinkles and it’s something I had never seen before. She was constantly concerns about how much older she looked. In her case, I’m not sure if natural methods would have done anything. Botox is real and it’s here to say (like it or not). Botox and other injections are generating billions of dollars each. It’s up to you as an individual to choose it as an anti-aging method or do use other methods that are more natural. That said, if you are like the young woman I used to work with, than you might be relieved to know that you can do something about your wrinkles. 9. If you are in your 20s and don’t have worries about wrinkles, then that’s really excellent, it simply mean that this article is information that you might not know about, but it doesn’t mean that you need to get Botox and it surely doesn’t mean that I encourage Botox. 10. I’m not getting any Botox injections, as I don’t feel that I need any, but I’m happy to know more about the facts from a qualified doctor. 11. If you want to know more about me and more about my beauty secrets, keep reading … in a few weeks I will divulge what I do to keep feeling good about myself. 12. Since it’s safe to say that I’m a bit older than most of the readers who’ve posted a comment to this story, I’ll say that I’ve made a conscience effort since I was 17 to take care of my health and my body to remain feel strong and healthy. That said, a lot of people don’t and one day they wake up and they are 30, 35, 45 or 55 and the only solution for them (in

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  • 19. Posted by mybeautymatch on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    I forgot to mention that men are getting as much Botox as women ... so it's no longer gender specific!

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  • 20. Posted by mybeautymatch on Tue, Mar 04, 2008

    Elizabeth M - Thanks for your feedback ... I could not agree with you more ... it's about having a choice ... nothing is mandatory!

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  • 21. Posted by ashley on Wed, Aug 13, 2008

    I think that it is important that, as a society, we realize that there are more important things than wrinkles. Judging by the above comments, I can see that we have thankfully done so. At the same time, we need to realize that people who take botox injections are people too, even if what they are doing is silly. The stereotypical botox addict is in fact just that - a stereotype. Few people, if any, are truly that superficial. And who are we to tell people how to spend - or earn - their money? Have none of you ever spent $500 dollars on something silly? By the way, isn't worrying about wrinkles rather counter-productive? hmmm.......

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