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  • How do you know if your bf wants to kiss you?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 and a half months. I think that's pretty good. I want to kiss him and im pretty sure that he wants to kiss me because I heard him say to my friend that the reason he came over by us on the playground is because his friend dared him to kiss me. my friend just gave the oh look to him. Please help! Some tips please and I don't want to have sex with him so please don't leave those comments. I just want a cheek kiss. I'm in 6th grade. :) He really lives me. Like what times would be good to cheek kiss at school?
  • Should I giver Her A Chance?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    its ben 3 years already, n i finally got an answer from the gurl i loved since those years. and her answer is idk. i try to talk with her on the fone but she ignores me most of the time. even if i tol her how i felt she still makes me feel like she doesnt want me. she usd to be so innocenet but since times past idk if shes the same one. anyways after i told her how i felt i suddenly changed how i fekt. like i dont even love her as i did.. now this girl asked me out two days ago and i said idk, should i give her the chance because she seems so nice and cute
  • Why does she have sex all the time and shes only 13?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    am 14 and i have this friend that is about 13 i knew her since like 4 years now and shes always been a nice helpfull person when we got to our secondary school at the end of year seven she started having fights at school and at the start of year 9 she told me she had sex with this random person and now she does it all the time. Yesterday i spoke to her and she was like ohh you know that guy from our year i had it with him. So all im wondering about is why does she do it and does she think it makes her seem cooler ?? Its maybe because she lives in a bad area or that she has 16 brothers and sisters and she is trying to have her own life without them i dont know what to think ???
  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • My girlfriend broke up with me... I dont know how to take it in... Plus I have other things making me worry?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    My girlfriend broke up with me and this relationship was so much to me. She gave me my first kiss, she was always so nice, we were perfect in my eyes. We lived far apart, but I litterally walked 5 miles to see her at least 3 times a week. We lasted for 4 months, when she broke up with me... the hard part is that a couple days later she started dating a chick. It makes me feel like shit to think that I did something wrong, in fact, so wrong to turn her all the way to lesbian, and even harder to take in, is that she looks happier! I know I should move on, and I am... but She ment everything to me, and I feel like I was just being used. Other than this, my mother took custody of me, so I see my dad only on the weekends, and I really hate it over here. She yells at me, loses it all the time and I hate it. I've considered running away over night back to my dads, or my papa's. My friend recently died over here, my gf broke up with me over here, and I feel like this town is not where I belong. The school is so violent and ghetto, I am angry with my self and feel like an idiot for having so many problems. So far yahoo answers is the best thing because I can talk to people and they can help me.... Maybe it's just a stage, but I truly feel like I'm alone. I dont get along with the people here, and I'm just really depressed. Thanks to anyone who has enough time to read this.... I've helped alot of people on here I believe, and I just want some back. Not in a rude way, people do help, but you know... lol (I'm glad I can even say that...)
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • Am i wasting my time with him?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I've been dating this guy for 4 months. I like him alot and we have alot of fun together. But i can't help but think he's holding back and i think it has to do with his ex. It was his first love, the only reason they broke up is because she moved away, and they still talk. I once mentioned a rumor i heard about her and he got overly defensive. Even though they broke up a couple of years ago, i am the first girl he has gotten serious with since her. He rarely tells me how much he likes me or compliments me, and he has even denied sex. I am not usually a needy or jealous girl, i've just never been in a situation like this before. People say i am out of his league, but i really believe that this could be a good thing if things would just change a little. I know that no relationship is perfect, but am i wasting my time with this one? wow people you dont give this guy too much hope. alright.. looks like we'll be having a talk tomorrow!
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 8 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
Beauty Redefined

Avoid the burn this summer

Posted Wed, Jun 24, 2009
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Seeing as we just passed the mark of the first official day of summer, I am holding it to the sun to make a regular appearance every single day for the next 3 solid months.

We've talked and made an agreement. Sun comes out, so do I, and I won't complain that it is too hot, or too bright, as I've been waiting for this for a while (three seasons to be exact).

With that being stated, we do need to cover a topic that seems to be rather one sided in the last 30 to 40 years or so.

You hear it everywhere, from everyone, all the time. Avoid the sun, the sun is damaging, the sun causes cancer, etc etc.

It sort of creates this fear of the sun. The one thing that we yearn for every winter. The one thing we dish out our hard earned cash for and travel to foreign countries to relish in. The sun has been given a terrible rap and I think it's important to dole out the virtues of the sun and how great it really is for us.

Vitamin D is essential to our everyday health and well being. The vitamin D society cites that '... research indicates vitamin D deficiency plays a role in causing 17 varieties of cancer, heart disease, stroke, hypertension, autoimmune diseases, diabetes, depression, chronic pain, osteoarthritis, osteoporosis, muscle weakness, muscle wasting, birth defects and periodontal disease.' .
Now that is quite a list of ailments. What this essentially means is that vitamin D should not be overlooked by anyone who wants to move towards a healthier lifestyle and improve their over all well-being.

In reality, the sun is good for us, and we simply need to take precautions to ensuring we don't burn when we head outside. It is the burn that is essentially unhealthy for us, not the sun.

I think a little sunscreen 101 would be a great way to lay the foundation for gearing up to avoid a burn this summer:

- SPF stands for 'Sun Protection Factor' and the number in front of it corresponds to the amount of time you can stay out in the sun without burning.
- Usually, an SPF 15 rated sunscreen will give your about an hour of protection before you should reapply sunscreen.
- The SPF # only relates to UVB protection. UVB rays are more potent, quicker to produce sunburn, and have been linked to skin cancer.
- UVA rays are associated with aging of the skin, and though milder, are still to be protected against.

Important tips for wearing sunscreen to ensure it is effective:

- Reapply often. Sweat, clothing and general evaporation of the product can reduce it's effectiveness and as such, reapplying the
- See if the product is a broad spectrum blocker, meaning it blocks both UVB and UVA rays.
- The sun is at its strongest between 10 am and 4 pm, so it possibly, try to stick to shady areas, or simply keep in mind that lower or higher SPF, just reapply!

A few great options out there I can recommend:

Coppertone NutraShield with Dual defenseoffers a great oil-free option and is recognized by the Canadian Dermatology Association. Offered in both a 30 and a 60 SPF.

For the organic and vegan option, there is Aubrey Organics Natural Sun SPF 25 Green Tea Protective Sunscreen. Not only a great, more natural variation for sun protection, but it also has antioxidants to prevent free radical damage.

It's important not to leave out the lips, too, and Mary Kay® Lip Protector Sunscreen SPF 15 - leaves the lips soft and is also waterproof.

It's key to keep in mind that we need to practice sunburn prevention - not utter aversion.

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7 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Consuelo on Wed, Jun 24, 2009

    Thanks for the lip protector reccomendation! As someone who has burnt their lips (not fun!) it's a great reminder to protect your lips as well as the rest of your skin.

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  • 2. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Fri, Jul 03, 2009

    I enjoy outdoor sports and surfing is one of them. I always use the strongest sunblock I can find, but I've only used a self tanning lotion once but never again. It turned my skin orange like a carrot! I actually had to use Javax to get it off and I didn't know what was worse----the smell of it or that it stung like son of a witch! Anyway, these are great recommendations for people like myself who enjoy the outdoors. I think it's important to protect your skin from the sun and I too have suffered sunburns on my body, particuarly on my whole back which isn't fun either.

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  • 3. Posted by aries on Sat, Jul 04, 2009

    When I put SPF on my face, my eyes start to water and burn later. I avoid the eye area and the forehead, and still get the burning watery sensation in the eyes. What do you recommend?

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  • 4. Posted by Goo on Sat, Jul 04, 2009

    ... sun is fine .... processed food isn't ... you are what you eat ... get the picture yet ... eat good food and your body will love the sun and make Vitamin D too

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  • 5. Posted by Kelly K on Sat, Jul 04, 2009

    um no I don't get the picture Goo. Having trouble staying on topic?

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  • 6. Posted by Nina M on Mon, Jul 06, 2009

    Good tipS. I just found a great place Shoturl.us/6371 .It brings wealthy guys with beautiful women together. I met many celebrities there too. ~

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  • 7. Posted by West Lorne,Canada on Sat, Jul 11, 2009

    i develop photo dematitis, it's mean i cannot go under sun at all. just few minutes under sun with sunblock 60 stil cannot protect me wearing hat as well. i will get red on my forehead and blothes spot and very itchy. and on my hands arms neck every where that's exposed to the sun. any recomendation or suggestion.

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