Seven ways to build trust with timid cats

Here are seven trust-building tips.

1. Don't intrude into his comfort zone. Stay at a distance that keeps kitty relaxed. 
2. Create hiding places. Create homemade tunnels out of cardboard boxes or bags and/or use A-frame pet beds.
3. Help kitty get comfortable with touch in a safe way.  When working with feral or traumatized cats, I sit on the floor, respecting the cat's comfort zone, and extend a toilet brush (a brand new one, of course). The bristles on the end of the brush are often appealing for the cat to rub against. I also spray the bristles with Feliway, a behavior modification product. I hold the brush close to the ground at arm's length; in subsequent sessions, I gradually decrease the space between the two of us at the cat's pace.
4. Use playtime. Use a fishing pole-type toy so kitty can remain at a distance. Move the toy in a way that simulates prey to trigger the cat's prey drive. No fast motions.
5. Use food. Instead of free-feeding, feed on a schedule. Divide up the portions into several small meals. Put the food down for kitty and sit on the other side of the room.  This helps kitty associate you with positive experiences. Talk to the cat, using a very soft, soothing tone. No baby talk.
6. Use Feliway Comfort Zone diffuser. The product can help kitty feel more comfortable in your home.
7. Be patient.

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