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  • A Question For ALL The Women Out There ?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • All that matters .........?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great? I'm not letting it phase me because we arent together and have only known eachother for 8 days. I want things to get serious with her and I first.
  • If I got The date ......?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • If one of your love ones got sick due to another person, would you.........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    Be Mad at the person that infected your love one?? Also if your love one pass away due to the infection??? I'm talking about fever
  • dad died grandmother says life insurance was drained by funeral costs?

    Family - 9 hours ago

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    my father died. I am his only kid Im 27. my grandmother took a life insurance policy out on my father. I was never told the details. The arrangements was no funeral parlor 2 days after he died we went to the family church and had mass then went straight to the cemetery. I am unsure of how to find out if I was lied to. or if my grandmother was the one to end up with what ever the life insurance paid off. I have heard that she may have been the primary beneficiary as long as she survived his dying. and I would then be the secondary, only being beneficiary if my grandmother was deceased when he died. can someone put this in perspective for me please?
  • Teens: Is it embarassing not to have any plans for weekends?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    Do u feel nervous when it's thursday and u sill don't have any plans for the weekend? Do u feel sad or embarassed to stay at home all day on Saturday?
  • what do u do when one of your best doesnt like your other best friend!?help mi pllzzz?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    one of my friends really doesnt like my other best friend wat can i do....
  • Help! Boy trouble! Or maybe it's me..?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    Okay,here's the deal. Whenever I like a guy,I don't want him to right away (if at all), so I act uninterested even when he shows interest.It's childish but it's a defense mechanism for me. So there's this guy I really like a lot and I've given him the cold shoulder, even when I tried to show interest (I'm messed up,I know). I want to know if there's a way for me to fix the damage,start over maybe. The only method that I haven't tried is telling him flat out,which I cannot (will not) do, especially since I think he make have lost some interest. If anyone has any USEFUL advice,strategies,etc., I'd greatly appreciate them
  • How did u meet the person u ended up marrying?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    1. how old were u and the person when u guys met for the first time? 2. where and how did u meet the person 3. did u instantly realize that the person is " the one" when u first met him/her. 4. how long did it take to finally decide to marry 5. What's the top reason that u have decided to spend the rest of ur time with him/her?
  • I have messed this guy around so much, how can I just get over him and leave him alone?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    So I really like this guy. I think he likes me. He asked me out and I said no and I dont even know why. He asked me especially to come to his party and I said I was going but I never turned up and never told him and my friends told me he spent the whole night asking where I was. I heard he was interested in some other girl so I was really mean to this girl so she would stay away. I keep messing him around like this and I dont mean to be so cruel, but I dont know whats wrong with me. I like him so much that I cant seem to leave him alone. Am I insane?

Should Jon Gosselin be dating?

Posted Fri, Jul 17, 2009
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Jon Gosselin(CP)Earlier this week, pictures of octodad Jon Gosselin and his new 22-year-old girlfriend Hailey Glassman surfaced and spread through gossip blogs like wildfire. The new romance was made public just three weeks after it was announced he would splitting from Kate Gosselin, his wife of 10 years.


The whole ordeal has people going bananas. What about the children? What about Kate? They haven't even finalized the divorce! He needs time to heal!

And again, what about the eight kids?

In a surprising twist, Kate - who in the past was vilified in the media and labeled 'controlling', 'demanding' and 'judgmental'  - is now regarded as the victim; a mother forced to care for her eight children while her husband is off gallivanting in St. Tropez with the daughter of her tummy tuck surgeon.

Geez. They couldn't write soap opera plots with this much drama!

So this begs the question: should Jon take it down a notch with the dating? He just got out of a marriage with a woman he's spent a decade of his life with. He also spent the last several years raising the eight children he had with her in front of the entire world. Maybe some reflection, perhaps a yoga retreat or some meditation is in order? Maybe he could find a book that will provide some helpful advice, something along the lines of 'Raising Eight Babies for Dummies: The Single Daddy Edition'? Seems to me that the last thing he should be doing is rushing into a relationship with another woman.

But maybe I shouldn't judge. Isn't Jon, like the rest of us, entitled to find true love again? Jon has said himself he just 'wants to move forward' with his life, and in some ways, who can blame him? Few of us will know the pressure of raising a family and holding a marriage together in front of the camera. Maybe he is just 'a regular guy who is going through a very difficult time in his life.' Can't he have a little fun while he recovers?

What do you think? Is Jon getting too much flak for his quick rebound relationship? Or should he break it off and concentrate on repairing himself and looking after his family?

- Vanessa

Average (90 Ratings)2.79 out of 5 stars

  • 1. Posted by nh on Fri, Jul 17, 2009

    I think they are both horrible people/parents, to have all of their issues on television like this. those poor kids are going to have their parent's divorce and ruining of the family aired for the whole world to see... It's disgusting. He's disgusting. Kate is disgusting. The silly buggars... So classless of him to be dating so soon, too... Not that she was anything amazing that he was married to or anything, but how nasty of him to do this knowing that it will be put out in the media. Like Kate really needs that shoved in her face right now. I feel so bad for the kids. It seems that we need a license to drive a car, but ANYONE can have kids... lovely.

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  • 2. Posted by pcb1938 on Fri, Jul 17, 2009

    he can run , but he cant hide.

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  • 3. Posted by pcb1938 on Fri, Jul 17, 2009

    he is as human as anyone else

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  • 4. Posted by pehong on Fri, Jul 17, 2009

    REAL men are real fathers and loving husbands to their wives.

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  • 5. Posted by Linab81 on Sat, Jul 18, 2009

    I'll make it short!....grow-up Jon....before your kids do, for God sake

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  • 6. Posted by manyowls on Sat, Jul 18, 2009

    whose we? guy was stuck with a [profane],let him finally have a life.

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  • 7. Posted by Anne on Sat, Jul 18, 2009

    He has no job and once the show is cancelled, the well goes dry. He still has to support his kids but now the rag mag says he is engaged and the engagement ring costs $180 thousand if that's true! His honey is not about to be a stepmother and will dump him and sue for alimony soon enough if they marry and she gets knocked up. Such childish behavior....

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  • 8. Posted by Valjeanne on Sat, Jul 18, 2009

    "Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you." Robert Fulghum *************** Maybe this rather selfish, self-absorbed behaviour on the part of this man can be viewed in this quote. When you have kids, you don't have them in isolation. In the case of this family... everyone is watching, including the reaction of the kids. What kind of role model is this? Their private agony is not private at all. If this is the case, instead of throwing criticism and blame, we should be helping them. If we don't know where to go... there are plenty of helpful, compassionate and expert people in the area of relationships, marriages and families at Smart Marriages.com. "The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother." Theodore Hesburgh *************** That says it all!

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  • 9. Posted by Liz on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    They should not have gone on a reality TV show. It is a form of child abuse. We should mind our business and let those people deal with their problems. I watched the show once or twice and quickly found it was ridiculous to expose their personal life like they did.

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  • 10. Posted by Linda on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    Why isn't Jon and Kate trying to save their marriage? It's not just the kids they can adjust but it's hard on them.

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  • 11. Posted by Suzanne H on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    He said he didn't like the public eye 24-7, uhhhhhhhh what do you think is happening now JOHN JERK

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  • 12. Posted by fargle on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    you broke your contract of marriage after having 8 children! grow up!! for better or worse you agreed to. marriage is hard work if there are problems fix them. for the sake of your children till death do you part. you will regret this decision when your old and grey

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  • 13. Posted by fargle on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    isn't hailey glassman [the girl he's dating] the daughter of victoria principals husband plastic surgeon harry glassman?

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  • 14. Posted by Kirstena on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    people think marriage kids what they forget is they should wait for at least four years after marriage to have kids .you don't realize the impact that it has on children then they go on to do it to there on kids when a marriage breaks down you some times think the grass is greener on the other side to find out it ain't and just to try something diffrent it aint worth the loss

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  • 15. Posted by Mavis on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    The way things are going, the show will be cancelled, the million dollar mansion will have to be sold, and they will be soon back to where they started. How sad.

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  • 16. Posted by lanphil605 on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    Show me a man, any man who wants to be saddled with eight kids..a high maintenance wife and camera's stuck in his face 24/7. What are these two thinking anyway.....They should be paying more attention to giving these kids some sort of normal up bringing...not sporting new girlfriends around town...or showing off tummy tucks on the beach in barely there bikini's for all the world to see and photograph. I don't even watch this stupid show and I'm sick of hearing about it... These two need to grow up and pay attention to what's really important.....they're plus eight !!!!!!

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  • 17. Posted by Connie on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    I think Jon will never grow up, but over the years he will regret his actions of to-day. Keep strong Kate and don't rush into a bad situation. Be there for the kids and you will survive.He thinks he's GODS gift , but he is really a big tool.

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  • 18. Posted by Robsi on Sun, Jul 19, 2009

    jon gosselin is a disgrace. its too bad that the world was exposed to him for so long.

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  • 19. Posted by Dianna on Mon, Jul 20, 2009

    JOn is not emotionally in control....better deal with his baggage from his marriage and the the raising of his children before he considers entering another relationship. The problem is too many people think jumping into another relationship quickly solves things or can be exhibted as "moviong on". How can you move on when you havent dealt with "CURRENT" issues at hand...they won't just vanish because you have chosen not to be there. Its wayyyyyy too soon to start something else with someone else....

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  • 20. Posted by number6 on Mon, Jul 20, 2009

    Jon Gosselin is a bastard for dating so early, leaving his kids at home 2 go b with a ho bag

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  • 21. Posted by Lasia on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    Marrigages end, people get divorced and kids grow up. Just get over it and move on with your lives

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  • 22. Posted by leprecaun28 on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    I wish they'd cancel the show already, I'm sooooo sick of hearing about this idiot! He needs to grow up, get a job and start thinking more about his kids than his libido. For someone who didn't like the cameras on him 24/7 he's not doing a good job of keeping his new private life private...what a tool His kids may not know all what's going on now, but they can get copies of episodes when they're grown up and see what a jacka** their father became.

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  • 23. Posted by askrigg2007 on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    I agree with newaver and probably would have used the same profanity

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  • 24. Posted by VINCE on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    Who gives a crap!! The world is sick of hearing about Jon and Kate and the poor little eight. Find a new story line. This is getting stale and I could care less about these two bimbos

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  • 25. Posted by VINCE on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    Who gives a crap!! The world is sick of hearing about Jon and Kate and the poor little eight. Find a new story line. This is getting stale and I could care less about these two bimbos

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  • 26. Posted by nurse_mcbitch@rogers.com on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    No I don't think he should be dating....he may affect the bond he has with his kids forever!... it's far too soon! They're going to hear about it!

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  • 27. Posted by PAM on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    John Gosslin should step back and look at the situation. He is a pig.

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  • 28. Posted by Irene on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    All I ask, or beg of them is, "please, don't get that terrible Dr. Phil" involved with this soap opera. Since when, is it anybody's business what private people do with their lives? Is it right? Who are we to decide this. We have no idea what went on privately between Jon & Kate, nor should we know. Enough, already, I am sure they are both great parents, who have been under terrible pressure, as we all would be. The show was great for everyone watching, but clearly it has ruined their marriage, although it has enabled them to 'buy' many things and have wonderful vacations. I doubt they could have managed financially without the show. Good Luck to the entire family, I so think they will need it! Now people, mind your own business, and be thankful, it isn't you everyone is gossiping about.

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  • 29. Posted by mario99 on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    who really cares. if you follow these kind of stories you need to get a life.

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  • 30. Posted by Catie I on Tue, Jul 21, 2009

    Jon you should be ashamed of yourself doing this to your family. Till death do us part, in good and bad times etc. Did you forget. What example are you showing your kids. They need their both their parents not alternating.

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