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  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • If a girls your friend with benefits?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    But acts like you two are talking to form a relationship, what gives? What's that about? If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. I like her, should I turn this into a relationship?
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?

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Help! I'm addicted to shopahol!

Posted Fri, Jul 03, 2009
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Alright, think about what you're wearing right at this very moment. How much did all of it cost? Your shoes? Jeans? Shirt? Underwear? Accessories? Jacket? Handbag?

Shopping(Getty)I'm gonna guess somewhere in the $200 to $300 range, all things considered. Doesn't that seem like a LOT of money? Every so often I do this calculation in my head and I'm rather astounded at how much money I spend on something that's only function is to keep me warm.

Sure it's important to look good, and I'm pretty sure Renee would lose it if I walked into work sporting a loin cloth or burlap sack. But it's crazy how much cold hard cash we actually drop on designer goods.

Case in point: I have a wedding to go to this weekend and it's taken me weeks to find a dress that a) wasn't going to cost the equivalent of a small car b) didn't resemble something worn on Daisy of Love c) wasn't white or black. Eventually, I found a beautiful dress that met criteria b and c but not a. That's alright though - I can go a month without eating.

In these days of economic turmoil, most of us are trying to cut down on needless spending in order to save our pennies (or at least, we probably should be). So it's no wonder that swapping is the hot new way to get new stuff without emptying your bank account. But can those of us with a penchant for that new clothes smell really wean ourselves off that addictive retail drug?

I swear, I really have been trying to cut down on shopping for clothes (current purchase excluded) in order to save my pennies (pennies saved thus far: 0). And it's not like I don't love a good visit to Kensington or Value Village for some second hand goods. But who knows if I'll ever be able to truly give up the one truly effective form of therapy?

How long could you give up shopping for? A month? A season? Are you still blowing your pay check on clothes despite the recession? Ever been to a clothes swap?

- Vanessa

PS. Think you might suffer from shopaholism?  Well, acknowledging you have a problem is the first step to recovery (actually, I'm pretty sure denial is the first step, but whatever). 

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  • 1. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Fri, Jul 03, 2009

    My name is Rogue and I'm a shopaholic. Seriously, I shop once a week at the mall where I will spend up to twenty to a hundred dollars on one or two items, or go to second-hand outlets and Value Village and spend a hundred on a whole bunch of clothes. On my Salary that I'm paid for at work, I can afford the expensive stuff, but I choose not to spend ridiculous amounts of money on one item, when I know I can go to other places and buy a whole bunch of items for a much cheeaper price. The reason for this is because I used to buy expensive clothes, particulary shoes, and just like cheaply made shoes and clothes, they too are capable of wearing out easily and tearing apart. It's true when they tell you that you're only paying for the label on an item and not the quality. I once bought a pair of heeled black fake leather boots for $250.00---I only had them for two weeks and then one evening, the right heel actually broke off when I kicked my car in a fit of anger because it broke down on the freeway and I knew I'd be late for a bachlorette party that I was going to. I was lucky that I always keep a spare outfit with shoes in the trunk of my car for such an occasion ( I always think of ahead of time. ) So anyway, technically, if I were to avaluate of how much money I spend on clothes a month, it would be within the 400 hundred dollar range. So yes, I'm a shopaholic, but I'm a smart and thrifty shopaholic who doesn't plan on being cured anytime soon.

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  • 2. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Sat, Jul 04, 2009

    And no, I'm not a clothes hoarder---I go through my clothes and give them to the salvation army every two years.

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