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  • Does this girl even like me or not?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    My friend Kim, and I have been friends for about a year now. When we first met she was flirting with me, she was twirling her hair, smiling and laughing at my jokes. Someone said that I think Kim likes me. I didnt belive them. She was always smiling at me in Chem labs. When I held study sessions, she always came even though she was a Chem major, she always smiled at me, and twirled her hair. I was distracted. I gave her a cupcake she smiled. Then we lost contact, and regained it in the summer, we texted all summer long. I was working, and she "boooo" ed me. She also told me she had a bf, and I was kinda bummed out. Then the fall semester came, and she smiled at me when she saw me. She told me she had to go to her bf's boss's wedding, the day after I saw her she looked like a wreck. Then, her roomy came by, and said Kim misses me. She said that I should text Kim, and that I should come visit her. 3 weeks ago, I saw Kim, she smiled at me, and I said we should hangout sometime. She always complains she is too busy. She smiles and waves at me when she says goodbye. Then, yesterday I saw her, she gave me a brief smile, not as big as normal, and I invited her to the movies. She never showed up. I did not specify a time though, perhaps that is why. My friends thought Kim likes me, but she seems to be hot and cold about me. My girlfriends also suggested she may like me, but has feelings for her bf as well. What can I do to better my friendship with Kim? I told hler yesterday that I missed her, and she should come over and watch a movie, but never showed up? Did I saw something wrong? Please tell me what to do? I dont want to lose a good friend? I want to be there for her always. I love her. One the other hand, she needs to quit playing games with my heart. She needs to choose either him or me. Im 19 and never kissed a girl. I was always waiting for the right girl. I think she may be it. She needs to quit playing with my emotions, I am going to get hurt by her. She is hot and cold. I dont get her. She is still with her bf. I NEED TO TELL HER TO CHOOSE EITHER HIM OR ME? I CANT STAND HER PLAYING WITH MY EMOTIONS ALL THE TIME! IF SHE CHOOSES HIM, I HOPE SHE GETS HURT LIKE THE WAY SHE HURTS ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK OF HER. I THOUGHT SHE LIKED ME, BUT I GUESS I WAS WRONG! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
  • what are you thankful for this thanksgiving?

    Weddings - 4 hours ago

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    i have to go get my turkey and go over the river and thru the woods to my mother in laws house but wanted to wish all of you fellow esteemed posters and all you brides happy thanksgiving. even though sometimes family can be diffiicult, on thanksgiving we are all happy to have family, and all of us have so much to truly be thankful for.
  • admit it, arent you thankful for all you have this thanksgiving?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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    i need to go get my turkey but wanted to wish all of you angry, hilarious, clever posters and cheaters and dingdongs and abused wives a wonderful blessed thanksgiving because all of us, no matter what else is going on, really do have so much to be thankful for.
  • Do you think once a man is married?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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    he acts like a child again and expects you to take care of him. Leaves his dishes around the house, his clothes all over the floor, doesn't help with the kids, doesn't do yard work, dishes, laundry, and you can't leave for a few hours because you will come home and he hasn't taken care of anything while you were gone?
  • He lies to her to hang out with me?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    I'm married, and so is my friend. Sometimes we go out for a drink or lunch or something. My husband always knows were I am and who I am with. Recently, I heard my friend on the phone with his wife saying he was with someone else and going somewhere else. I'm not telling any lies, but I guess he is. Am I doing anything wrong? It made me sad that his wife doesn't recognize our friendship. I know her and he knows my husband. I have known both him ad his wife for 15 years--that's before they got together. The 4 of us have spent plenty of time together over the years. She and I have also been out for drinks together.
  • I Don't Know What To Do!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Well I Was With The One I Love For 2 Years We Had A Fight We Broke Up For 6 Days And She Gto Bored :S And Got A New Bf And She Sayed I WasHer 1st Love But Why Would You Move On That Fast If I Was, I Don't Get It. I Just Wanan Die Cause my heart hurts more and more and she goes to me she dnt love then she dose then she dose a bit but fallin off me :( Help Me Please dont no what to do!
  • Is there woman for every man?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Even with most outrageous personality traits, is it possible to find a girl of your dreams?
  • How do guys feel about this? re-posting?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    How do guys feel when they are finally confronted by a girl they have been trying to avoid or whatever? You guys have only spoken online and never met in person. You guys used to talk alot and trying to get to know each other and be friends...but you have been behaving badly by ignoring her suddenly...and trying to avoid a confrontation with her. She leaves you alone and then decides to contact his friend and meet up with him to try to reason with you and get to the bottom of your behaviour a few months later. You react by telling her to get a life and leave you alone. She gets upset, then reacts by telling you that you have acted very childish and immature, and that if you had just said that to her to begin with then she would have left you alone then and not have had to contact your friend. She tells you that the reason why she tried to contact you was because you guys will be working together and wanted to eliminate any potential awkwardness and misunderstandings between you guys. You don't reply to her message. You guys will be working together later on, in about a couple of years or so, which she has tried to let you know about. How do you handle her when you see her around again? Of course at this point she is pretty pissed at you and ignores you. Do guys feel remorse when a girl they have been avoiding confrontation with has put them in their place due to their wrong-doing? And if so how do they act? Please help out. Thanks alot. i confronted him online not in person...but practically IN person i guess....
  • i need some advice on the physical side of my relationship?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Both myself and my boyfriend are virgins, i know what you're thinking! , but were both only 18 and both shy people when it comes to this sort of stuff. but how do i get around to "doing the deed" as it were, with him? serious answers please.
  • my husband and son-in-law have a personality clash how do we deal with this at thanks giving?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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The Lifestylists

Is the economy making you fat?

Posted Wed, Jun 17, 2009
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We've all been there. You go to withdraw some money and the balance on your ATM receipt leaves you horrified...or worse yet, you get no money and a receipt that states 'insufficient funds'.

Where did all that money go? Then you start panicking, and rather than roll with the motions of your financial situation, you head to your nearest corner store, whip out your credit card and grab a bag of cool ranch Doritos to ease your pain.

Woman eating (Getty)Or maybe you just got a promotion and you want to celebrate with a whole wheel of brie? Or maybe you just had a really terrible fight with the significant other and the only thing that could possible understand your pain is a pint of peanut butter chocolate Haagen Dazs. No matter what the situation, we'll find a delicious treat to compliment most any emotional situation.

Most women have a fairly complex relationship with food, one that usually rides the waves of their many emotional states. One of my coworkers said, 'God knows I was heading for the Cheetos when I was facing a layoff.'

So it's no surprise that a new study released today found that the state of the economy is causing many of us to head straight for those sweet, salty and fatty eats for emotional support

But is it really the economy that's making us fat? Or is it our lack of willpower when we're faced with financial stress? I would say it's probably a combination (mostly because I would never have eaten that whole tube of Pringles if it hadn't been for my own personal financial crisis, I swear.). I mean, if you're unemployed (been there) or out of money (been there) junk food is the cheapest way to fill time during those endless days of job searching.

But why isn't it exercise or yoga or knitting that we turn to when times are tough? Well because none of these things are quite as enjoyable as the quick high you get from a Snickers bar. But there are many ways to avoid emotional eating. But according to the study, even experts agree: Don't deprive yourself. Sometimes the answer is a little bit of ice cream.

Are you an emotional eater? Why do we turn to food in the face of emotional stress? Is there a fool proof way to avoid packing on the pounds during this recession?

- Vanessa

 
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  • 1. Posted by Natalie M on Thu, Jun 18, 2009

    Hi Vanessa & Renee, Love your posts! I'd like to send you some info on wine that I think you'll find tasty (and tipsy). Would you pls e-mail me at natdecants@nataliemaclean.com? Look forward to hearing from you. Cheers, Natalie www.nataliemaclean.com

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  • 2. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Sat, Jul 04, 2009

    I indulge in Bliss rasberry truffle chocolates whenever I feel down in the dumps or if I had a bad day. But then I work it off later with a long jog or working out in the basement with weights.

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  • 3. Posted by ho-hum on Thu, Jul 16, 2009

    ALWAYS have some kind of snack in your pocket in case of emergency i.e. low-cal something-or-other or for when you leave work so yer not scarfing everything down when yer making dinner.

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  • 4. Posted by kkissboy28 on Mon, Jul 20, 2009

    My friend recommended me a very interesting place **** MillionaireLovelinks.com **** It's where wealthy singles looking for someone to enjoy their wealthy lifestyle with

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