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  • Should I giver Her A Chance?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    its ben 3 years already, n i finally got an answer from the gurl i loved since those years. and her answer is idk. i try to talk with her on the fone but she ignores me most of the time. even if i tol her how i felt she still makes me feel like she doesnt want me. she usd to be so innocenet but since times past idk if shes the same one. anyways after i told her how i felt i suddenly changed how i fekt. like i dont even love her as i did.. now this girl asked me out two days ago and i said idk, should i give her the chance because she seems so nice and cute
  • Why does she have sex all the time and shes only 13?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    am 14 and i have this friend that is about 13 i knew her since like 4 years now and shes always been a nice helpfull person when we got to our secondary school at the end of year seven she started having fights at school and at the start of year 9 she told me she had sex with this random person and now she does it all the time. Yesterday i spoke to her and she was like ohh you know that guy from our year i had it with him. So all im wondering about is why does she do it and does she think it makes her seem cooler ?? Its maybe because she lives in a bad area or that she has 16 brothers and sisters and she is trying to have her own life without them i dont know what to think ???
  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • Ex girlfriend help?!? girls please!! ://?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    so my ex girlfriend, who broke up with me about 2 months ago, is a cheerleader. and today at school, she dropped her books and i walked over to her and picked them up for her. she told me thank you and i said "you're welcome" and i started walking to next class. then, she said "you smell good." and had a little smile (she always told me that when we were dating). also, after school, i was doing my homework in the lobby and she walked in but didn't see me at first. i looked at her but she didn't see me, so i just continued to do my homework when i heard a "hey" i looked up and she asked me what i was doing and everything. then she sat down beside me and started doing her homework too, we were the only ones in the room at the time. we talked quite a bit, and she brought up most of the stuff, because i didn't want to seem "Too" talkitive. then she told me that her sister and her ex boyfriend got back together a few days ago. the broke up about the same time we did. and she went into details on what he did for her sister and everything. i just want to know what you think my ex girlfriend was thinking?? and if you think she still has feelings for me? i still like her, but idk what to do about it!!
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Sex, morality and the law

Posted Wed, Oct 14, 2009
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The polarization of the debate surrounding the current court case challenging Canada's prostitution laws raises difficult questions about the role morality should play in lawmaking.

Toronto dominatrix Terri-Jean Bedford and prostitutes Valerie Scott, 51 and Amy Lebovitch, 30 are asking Ontario's Superior Court of Justice to decriminalize prostitution, saying current laws make it dangerous for women who work in the sex trade.

Opponents claim decriminalization of prostitution condones the selling of sex and that is wrong.

But is it really up to the law to decide whether the selling of sex is right or wrong?

Originally outlawed under Victorian social-hygiene-policy-based 'vagrancy laws' - which also applied to jugglers, loafers and other general undesirables - this was considered discriminatory when Canada's first criminal code was passed in 1892. But, to satisfy moral objection to prostitution, the buying and selling of sex was made legal, but 'soliciting' was not. Which is sort of like trying to be a door-to-door salesman who isn't allowed to go door-to-door.

Also, pretty much every activity surrounding prostitution - communicating, bawdy houses, and pimping, to name a few - is illegal. But, despite all this, the sex trade continues to flourish. In other words, outlawing prostitution doesn't make it go away.

Besides, if you think prostitution should be outlawed because you have a moral objection to the commercialization of sex, well, in today's society, there isn't much that isn't turned into a commodity. Why is sex is so sacred it can't be bought or sold?

It's anyone's moral right to frown on prostitution, but morality doesn't justify putting women in danger. The law is intended to protect the vulnerable in our society. According to Stats Can, prostitution is in the top three most risky professions along with cops and cab drivers. Given that, I'd say these (mostly) women fit the description.

Still, prostitution laws achieve the opposite. Because 'communicating' is illegal, street workers have to jump in cars with strangers to negotiate their terms. The streets aren't safe, but because bawdy houses are illegal, they can't go indoors. And one need only look at the Picton Pig Farm case for more proof of this job's hazards.

There should be legal limits on sex, but they should be there to protect vulnerable people, not to reflect or dictate our sexual morality. To look to the law to tell us what is healthy when it comes to sexuality is just wrong.

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  • 1. Posted by 9 on Thu, Oct 15, 2009

    YES it should be legalized - the government should respect ALL it's peoples. - This would be a huge statement by Canadian Government that they have progressed in mind set. Look at other goverments and how they accomplished this - with much success and respect for all people conserned - this could be a huge positive for Canada imo.

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  • 2. Posted by 9 on Thu, Oct 15, 2009

    YES it should be legalized - the government should respect ALL it's peoples. - It's not about who is right - but rather "what" is right. The government is not a Moral platform - you have tons of churches to do moral judgement calls. Goverments should respect all it's peoples and this includes Prosititutes - Escorts etc. etc This could be a huge statement by Canadian Government that they have progressed in mind set if legalized. Look at other goverments and how they accomplished this - with much success and respect for all people conserned - this could be a huge positive for Canada imo.

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  • 3. Posted by 9 on Thu, Oct 15, 2009

    Sorry about the couble post folks

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  • 4. Posted by Star on Thu, Oct 15, 2009

    It should not be legal. By legalising it our society condones the attitude that women can be bought and sold and treated like consumable objects (and yes it is mostly women). By legalising it you take away any government responsibility for rehabilitation, education, drug addiction programs which might help women choose a healthier lifestyle. The women on the streets don't need goevernment to say "keep doing what you're doing and now we're going to take 30%." They need someone to say "look here are some services and we're going to help you find a way out."

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