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  • Can guys explain this to me?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Why do some guys, not all of course, feel threatened by a girl and see her as competition rather than someone he should care for and respect.Usually they are nice and respectful at first and some guys stay that way but some guys feel they have something to prove and start to play up. I get that girls do this too, but i'm interested in why there are some guys who do this. Is it a power struggle? If its a woman that they feel no control with? she threatens his ego in some way? I get that it depends on the type of women, soe can be loud brash and yell "I'm a strong woman!"- those women are usually weak and also have something to prove. I'm just talking about normal mature level headed girls.
  • Should I forgive my best friend?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    My best friend of twenty odd years decided to send me a email the other day commenting on my grammar and said that my English was very bad. I had made a comment about a person in a picture and she picked me up on it, saying how, it was only a simple grammar mistake but that I should improve my english. I took this very badly, and probably replied in haste with a few horrible comments, she then said she knew I would act this way, but what I cant understand is, if she knew I would act this way, why would she do or such a thing. She has apologised but when she does it doesn't seem very sincere because she then comes back with, I was doing you a favour by pointing out your english errors, Im sorry you feel this way but......etc etc. I ended up texting her and apologising , saying I probably overreacted but she then left my 16 hours to stew, thinking that it was all my fault...again what friend does this? Im seriously stressed and upset about the whole situation, we have been best friends for years and it came out of nowhere, do you think I should forgive her and move on or would you end the friendship?? I'd really appreciate your advice peeps .
  • Did she break up with me or was it me?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    A few weeks ago she asked whether I was happy with her and if I wanted to continue the realtionship given she felt I still liked my ex. Two weeks later I broke up with her saying that I didnt think there was any future for us. Not because of the ex, but because we were not the right match. She agreed. A few weeks after when I called her she asked that I stop contacting her because she had found the the emails I had sent to my ex during our relationship. I had written how much I loved my ex and thought of her and how little my current gf meant. I was definetly embarrased, but still dont think we belong together. My question really is....was it me or did she break up..or was it mutual?
  • Are there any men left that will buy a woman dinner and not expect anything in return?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Beastly - been out with 2 muslims and would never do that again. They have less respect for women that other guys.
  • How do I stop being sceptical about guys?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I dumped my ex for being a sleaze. He was just into sex and was quite disrespectful so I dumped his ass pretty quickly. However there is this new guy who is everything I could want. He is reserved, intellectual, gorgeous well mannered refined and gentlemanly. He seems shy and stares at me a lot, his face lights up when we catch eyes and he holds my gaze and smiles at me. I really want to talk to him but part of me feels angry that he is showing me he thinks i'm attractive. because of my ex i'm wary of being seen as a sex object. I don't advertise myself as one i'm shy, dignified, quiet, bookish and dress modestly. How can I appreciate the fact that a guy actually seems to like me? I can assure you forlorn hope that it was only me who was mature. This guy was the biggest creep you could meet.
  • Why does physical beauty matter so much? Is that what you think is going to make your relationship last?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I have never really understood this. It has never mattered to me. So please explain: Why, when it makes no difference to the longevity or quality of your relationship, is physical appearance so important to so many people?
  • for females, is being a single bi sexual................................................?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    is being a bi sexual for a female mostly bcuz shes single and haven't found the right guy? bcuz there are lots of single gals out there vs single guys. before if a female like another female she was a lez but now it seems not that way. and it seems the other girl is not happy for the bi girl to be with guys. what is your take on this? i'm a straight guy and seen girls that are bi but it seems to be a convenience thing for them, if she really liked girls she should be a lesbian right? this relates to single females hellolex, u do understand my question
  • Why does she have sex all the time and shes only 13?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 8 hours ago

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    am 14 and i have this friend that is about 13 i knew her since like 4 years now and shes always been a nice helpfull person when we got to our secondary school at the end of year seven she started having fights at school and at the start of year 9 she told me she had sex with this random person and now she does it all the time. Yesterday i spoke to her and she was like ohh you know that guy from our year i had it with him. So all im wondering about is why does she do it and does she think it makes her seem cooler ?? Its maybe because she lives in a bad area or that she has 16 brothers and sisters and she is trying to have her own life without them i dont know what to think ???
  • What are some good insults to say to girls who date at a very young age?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    ex. 'hey baby ass!' LOL that one cracks me up! haha XD so i got friend troubles. shes my age (a...very young age o.e) so i need to come up with something thats funny and insulting at the same time to say to her. shes already dated 10 guys and shes only 13. COM'ON!!! SOMETHIN GUD SOMETHIN GUD!! XD No, I am not jealous. I've tried asking her to quit because I'm worried about her, but she's too stubborn to get that through her thick head. I actually hate people who date at a young age.
  • Is it appropriate for friends with benefits to discuss their other sex partners?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I once had a fwb setup a while back. The guy was freakin gorgeous, but I would never date him exclusively. He was very affectionate and loved to cuddle. Anyway one day we decided to meet up for some sexy time. However, I had not seen him two months due to our hectic work schedules. Anyway, out of the blue he asked me had a been with anybody since we last had sex. My answer was yes. The look on his face was priceless. He asked me like a zillion questions about the guy. Then asked me did I sleep with him again and my answer was no. His reply was well he just probably used u for sex. I told him well that was my intentions as well. Then he started telling me about other girls he had met since we had last seen each other. I gave him two thumbs up!LOL. But the weird thing as after we left eachother, he didn't give me the passionate kisses he usually gives me when we departed.
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Canada's sexual history

Posted Tue, Jun 30, 2009
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While Pierre Trudeau's statement that the government had no business in the bedrooms of the nation undoubtedly influenced Canadian sexual values, it was in fact the bill he was introducing at the time -- the 1967 Omnibus Bill -- that has probably had more impact on our national sexual identity than any piece of legislation since. This bill made birth control and abortion more available, divorce more accessible, and removed homosexuality from the Criminal Code.

Less than a decade previous to this Canada wasn't quite as sexually liberal. The D.H. Lawrence classic Lady Chatterly's Lover was considered criminally obscene at least in Quebec as late at 1959.

But a decade after the Omnibus bill, in 1977, Quebec became the first province to include sexual orientation in its Human Rights Code. It took the Supreme Court of Canada until 1995 to rule that sexual orientation is protected under the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms but the feds made up for it by becoming the fourth country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage in 2005.

And, in the same year that gay people were celebrating their legal entry into the world of heterosexual monogamy, straight married couples were celebrating their legal right to have recreational sex with someone other than their partner when, in December of 2005, swingers' club were legalized in Canada.

You could also blame our liberal sexual attitudes on Niagara Falls. According to Chris Gudgeon, author of The Naked Truth: The Untold Story of Sex in Canada, by 1867, Niagara Falls had become the Honeymoon Capital of the World because it was 'a potent symbol of the awesome natural limitlessness of the new country.' From the start, Gudgeon argues, 'Canada and sex were linked in the world's imagination.'

Our sexy rep has been solidified by people like Gwen Jacobs who took off her top on a hot day in Guelph, Ontario back in 1991, asserting she had just as much right to go topless as men. The court agreed and it became legal for women to go topless in Ontario. Toss in our two official nude beaches, Wreck Beach in Vancouver and Hanlan's Point on Toronto Island, the fact that Toronto is home to the Naked News (nakednews.com) and The History of Contraception Museum, featuring the world's biggest collection of contraceptive devices, and you've got one sexy country.

From Dildo, Newfoundland to Bare Butt Bay in Northern Ontario, Cuddle Lake in Manitoba a and The Nipples off the coast of BC, Happy sexy Canada Day!

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  • 1. Posted by JOHN R on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Idiotic Jounalism from amateurs!! No facts, foundation or stats. Typically Canadian!

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  • 2. Posted by Klutz on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Canada rocks my world!!

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  • 3. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    I'm canadian and proud of it---I just don't agree with the way the our government runs things.

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  • 4. Posted by kustom135 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    What a waste of print space. Yawn, there are a hundred more interesting topics to pursue, but this woman broadcasts only garbage to impressionable minds. Sex is a bodily function, not a lifestyle or state of mind. And Gwen Jacobs' 'victory' is about the biggest, flabbiest farce around. Another piece from one the perpetual adolescents who are bent on taking over thought and reducing it to their lowly level. Get lost, Vogels.

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  • 5. Posted by not happy on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Hey John R go bury your head in the sand you putz

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  • 6. Posted by rumteetum on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Yawn

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  • 7. Posted by HOUSE OF KNIGHTS AND LADIES on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    If you knew anything about Canadians, you'd realize they are nothing like this. Not that I am against abortion or homosexuality, but a lot of people think attitudes towards sex, marriage, divorce, the raising of children, money and women's lib are too liberal.

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  • 8. Posted by HOUSE OF KNIGHTS AND LADIES on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Obviously, there is a difference between media image and reality, aka a beautiful model or superstar in designer clothing with good lighting and makeup (has professional training, is young, good genetics, diet, sleep, plastic surgery, vitamins, massage) vs. a fat chick with saggy boobs at age fifty shoving her sinking ship of a butt into clingy spandex, cellulite, bad tans, grey hair, thick glasses and dirty nails.

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  • 9. Posted by ashleigh on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Who cares? IF you are going to talk down about Canada, and think that we are "fake" how the hell can we be fake? At least we have free health care and do not have to pay thousands to see a doctor for 10 minutes. I love lots of places in America, and a lot of Americans are amazing. Except people on here like you, talk trash about Canada, you are trash. haha believe it.

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  • 10. Posted by kustom135 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Josey Vogels doesn't speak for Canada; she might think she does. Actually, she sounds like she speaks for hedonistic downtown Toronto.

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  • 11. Posted by ted on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    I thinks they are selfish and many of them are so fat with drinking and smoking problems .

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  • 12. Posted by slippery on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    IT REALLY IS TOO BAD THAT PEOPLE THINK WE CANADIANS LIVE IN IGLOOS IN A SNOW COVERED COUNTRY . I AM EXTREMELY PROUD TO BE CANADIAN AND HAVE THE FREEDOMS OR SOLDIERS HAVE WON FOR US AS HAVE THE SOLDIERS OF MANY OTHER NATIONS. WE ARE A PEACEFUL NATION, SLOW TO ANGER, INDEPENDENT, PROUD AND SO FORTUNATE TO LIVE IN ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL COUNTRIES IN THE WORLD. MAY I ALSO POINT OUT THAT AMERICA MAY BE THE MOST MILITARILY POWERFUL NATION IN THE WORLD YET LITTLE OLE CANADA IS THE ONLY NATION IN THE WORLD TO HAVE DEFEATED THE AMERICAN S IN BATTLE AND ACTUALLY BURNED THE WHITE HOUSE. WE MAY NEVER BE ABLE TO REPEAT THIS FEAT BUT NOR WILL WE EVER BE CONQUERED AS A PEOPLE.. I LOVE OUR SEXUAL FREEDOM SUCH AS IT IS..LOL ps DO YOU KNOW WHAT WE CANADIANS DO WITH OUR OLD CHEWING GUM??? WE RECYCLE IT AND SELL IT TO THE AMERICANS IN THE FORM OF CONDUMS .... HAVE A GREAT DAY !!!! LOL

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  • 13. Posted by the growing minority..5 gen Canadian on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Only Americans would speak negative about positive points relative to Canada. Its like when our ladies hockey team, and junior hockey team hands the Americans their arses...lmao...too often...but anyway...same old thing..only crying and wishing they had what they couldnt have. Read up^^^ and see how foolish they can be.

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  • 14. Posted by Larry T.C. Ren on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Jornalism 101 seems good along side this tripe!

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  • 15. Posted by Yud on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Eh nice news, i did not know that women could go topless in Ontario.Seems to be a good idea, naturism seems to be a very nice idea for me.Go naked.Yeah!!!

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  • 16. Posted by Flasher on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    I really like Canada in general - but, I've never been so deprived of sex ... until I moved here - and I'm a fairly good looking and nice guy. It's all good, but sexual freedom ... from my experience it's more of a theory here. If it would be for anything I'd leave the country for lack of it. Not that it never happens, but it became rare. I like to say good things about Canada otherwise, but when it comes to this part I rather change the theme.

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  • 17. Posted by Evil Yoda on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    John R,... may want to use spellcheck when calling others amateur at journalism...

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  • 18. Posted by crow on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Jezz...JOHN R...Are you really so gay!!!!!!!!

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  • 19. Posted by yoda131342 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    if you dont like canada move to another country where you belong.

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  • 20. Posted by Mem on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Wait...What? Why do they have a thing about Sexual History? Gosh, I'm scared to live in Canada now if we're known as a 'good sex country'.

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  • 21. Posted by richard_stere@rogers.com on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    ted where in hell did that come from, and what part of Canada did you see. like many americans ,yes some Canadians are obese. smoking is also another common ailment both Canadians and americans share. please ted have an open mind when it comes between americans and Canadians were more alike then some people like to admit , but we are also a little different. we share many of the same problems that americans have. just try not to stereotype a nation on a few individuals.

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  • 22. Posted by brianfel on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    I guess you must be an umemployed bum asleigh. You have free health care. I don't I pay a fortune in taxes to pay for mine and probably lazy freeloaders like you. Plus I get to wait in line for hours at a hospital and wait months for tests. What a system.

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  • 23. Posted by Gary on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Well no one comes to Yahoo for "real news" although as always its great for entertainment since every idiot can spew their %&#* in comment. Actually perfect for Americans since thats all they EVER DO unless their bombing the hell out of some poor counties to bring FREEDOM and WORLD PEACE! (lol) I am so very thankful I am Canadian, since would have probably killed myself long ago if I was forced to be a American programed en-mass by their government and media. If you look at all the "negitive" comments on these sites, ie this/that sucks, is gay, etc etc etc I'd bet money MOST come from American idiots since unless they are kept busy fighting a war, they just vent their hot air about how their the best, smartest, most powerful, etc etc etc country in the world! LOL for being the most powerful country in the world, they sure got their asses handed to them in New York from... Some guy with a beard living in a cave?! LMAO - yes just shows how powerful that American Intelligence truly is!

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  • 24. Posted by alpha 2 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    i tell you how i see how sexy canadians are ..im a foreigner . first at 18 the bar is high..you can only look but cannot touch .. at 25 ..they are busy looking for the perfect partnair .. at 30 ..they are busy with work and great career .. at 35 ..they are looking for a decent person to marry .. at 40 ..they are desperate to have kids .. at 45 ..they are are looking for sperm donnors .. at 50 ... they are looking for same sex marriage . at 60.. they talk much about afghanistan n' women rights

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  • 25. Posted by sallys_29 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    What a stupid article!!!!!!!!!!!! It's not about sex!!!! Please!!!!! I worked on a cruise ship and we are laughed at because we are so liberal! That is from most of the other countries!!! Let's put Canada into the place it once was! Christian! Yes! Christian! We were a great nation and debt free and feared God! Let's give it another go and see what happens again. Revival is back! Not a bad thing!!! It's not Yoko Ono, or John Lenon! Get your heads out of the sand! Look up history and learn!!!!! Have a great Canada Day. You see, churches started holidays and hospitals and schools. get the picture! Isn't God Great!

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  • 26. Posted by yoda131342 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    to all you who dont like canada or our journalisim suck rod canada is the best and you other guys should move to the states where you fit in.

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  • 27. Posted by Flasher on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    yoda131342: I really like Canada - my family also comes from here, but I grew up in another part of the world. It is a good place, but, I have to say, (and I'm not happy to say that): unfortunately it is not nearly as sexual as some people would like it to look like (including me). Sorry to say that, but it's true :(

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  • 28. Posted by mousetoo2 on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    Boy, calling a topless Gwen Jacobs "sexy" is quite a stretch !!!!!!

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  • 29. Posted by kalaslsl on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    There's definitely more sex in Mexico and the USA than in Canada, I know because I've lived in these 3 countries.

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  • 30. Posted by abdullah on Tue, Jun 30, 2009

    A day will come when we could witness a punishment from God similar to what happened to Sodom and Gomorah/ Same sex animals don't mate!

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