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  • How come people tell me that i'm pretty and have personality yet I absolutely don't get hit on by any guys?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I'm twenty. The only guys who really hit on me are homeless men with no teeth who come up to me and tell me that I am beautiful. (non-homeless guys have said this too though) Men just look, no one talks to me. What's going on??
  • Im in a band. The Girl I like was at our first concert Last night...?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    we were in the middle of our second song when i first saw her i felt i was starting to get a boner. i ran off stage to the boys bathroom masturbaited in the stall ran back on stage and my band was still playing the same song. are my bands song's too long?
  • what is the best way to tell my dad that someone "took" my iPod?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    about a month ago i lost my ipod at school. i have been looking everywhere for it. i've been asking my teachers if they've seen it. i've asked the school office if anyone had turned it in and they said no. i've tried retracing my steps, but that hasn't helped. the only thing i can think of is that someone took my ipod. usually i would put my ipod i my purse, but for some reason i just decided to put it in my backpack. i know it is my responsibility to keep up with it, but i don't know what happened, honestly. and now i have come up with the conclusion that i have to tell my dad that i "lost it". i've already told my mom because i have a strong bond with her and i can tell her anything, but with my dad is a different story. i mean me and my dad are SUUUPER close. probably closer than any teenage girl and father. but just the way he is when he's mad makes me scared and want to...cry. what would be the best way to tell him?
  • I found out that my b/f that lives with me was watchin porn on the computer, and i got mad. Was that wrong?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I was on my b/f's name on the computer helping him with a website while i opened up another tab, and it had pictures of most visited websites, 3 in which were porn. I questioned him and he said it wasn't him, but later he said it was him after he lied. He claimed that he only went on it three times, and he doesn't even "watch it like that", but that it reminded him of us. I was mad he lied, that he even needed to watch that to remember "us", and because im self-concious about my body, so him watching the girls have sex with big boobs makes me feel bad about myself. Am i wrong to be mad at him, and possibly break up with him because of this??
  • How do you forgive someone who has done you very, very wrong?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    Its been 2 1/2 years since i last ttalked to my mother. she met my daughter once and has never seen my son. i want very much for her to be in my life but i am finding it hard to forgive her for kicking me out of the house at 18 and calling my husband the devil. she's tried to buy me back but she wants nothing to do with me as long as i'm with my husband. she's never really been there for me as long as i can remember but she is still my mom and the only parent i have left. i truly love her but i don't know how to forgive her for the horros and disappointments she's caused me to have through my life.
  • do girls think that guys that are shy are cute?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    because when i talk to girls they say awwww ur so shy thats so cute what does that mean like a hot cute or a baby cute? i need help
  • This boy in my class keeps....?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    hitting me...like punching me in the arm and arm and shoulder...he did it 6 times today and it was only a 4 hour day at school.... and then he was like were leaving at 11:30 and i was no 11:25 and he was like NO and like pushed me into my desk with his boddy...im only in 17 grade and 13 and i go to a catholic school... i told him to stop and he said no...then a 8th grade boy who i have known since i was 3 (our parents are bff's and work toghher) told him to stop cuz my dad would shot him(my dads a cop) and stuff..and the boy that hit my just laughed what should i do?!!?
  • is it weird that i talk to my teacher after school everyday?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    after school i stay after like almost everyday and talk to my teacher. she is very cool and fun to talk to :) but is it weird that i do that? she doesnt seem to mind, i actually think she enjoys it!! she always asks if im coming to talk to her after school. my friends say its weird and i have no life, but i dont think so.. is this weird?? should i stop talking to her after school??
  • Is My Nephew Cute? Nice Only Please?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    Hes The Guy With the white shirt on who is surronded by ladys ^.^ he calls them his "buddies" And Remember hes only 11 So back off pedifiles Sowwy Its Sooo Small http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/9572/shaneisapimp.jpg And He Is 13 here ---->http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/706/myphotos031.jpg
  • How come all of my successful black friends have non-black girlfriends?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Three of my friends, two are engineers and the other owns a landscape business all have non-black girlfriends.. Have nice houses and drive nice cars but out of the five years i known and grow up with them i NEVER saw them around black women unless it was family members.. I remember we all went out for a drink and brought up Tyra Banks being hot and they said, they like Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Salma Hayek. Etc
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Same-sex animal love

Posted Wed, Jun 24, 2009
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Birds do it, bees do it, and apparently giraffes, dolphins and elephants do it too. The 'it' being engaging in homosexual behaviour.

A new study by California scientists and published in the journal Trends in Ecology & Evolution claims that same-sex coupling occurs in virtually all-existing animal species.

The idea of homosexuality among animals is controversial because it doesn't jibe with the biological imperative given same-sex couplings can't reproduce. But, in some cases, like that of Laysan albatrosses, if a male-female pair produces eggs and 'dad' dies or takes off, another female often steps in to help raise the chicks, increasing their chances of survival. In other cases, it seems like more of a time killer, as with male Bottlenose Dolphins that engage in sexual play with other males until the female is sexually mature and ready for action. Still others, like male fruit flies, are just too daft to distinguish males or females because they lack a gene that would help tell them apart.

Still, despite the evidence, researchers who support the existence of homosexuality among animals are often accused of having an agenda, using the presence of homosexuality in animals to justify it among humans.

But Canadian biologist Bruce Bagemihl, author of Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity emphasizes the opposite. 'It's too easy to say, because homosexuality occurs in animals, it must be natural in people,' he explains. 'Animals do many things we wouldn't consider acceptable behavior in people -- rape, incest and so on.'

And, as Bagemihl's research reveals, there may be an explanation for homosexual behaviour in one species, no general explanation applies. 'I think we need to re-examine why we're looking for an explanation in the first place,' he says. 'Maybe, for example, they're just having fun.'

Back on our farm growing up, it wasn't uncommon to see 'Bossy' mounting 'Flossie' out in the pasture. Was it because certain cows had secret homosexual yearnings or was it simply that there was no 'Bart the Bull' available to mess around with?

'The whole question of sexual pleasure is tough for zoologists to deal with,' adds Bagemihl. 'There is a continuum of sexual expression in the animal world that includes heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality and everything in between. Why can't we see this behaviour as a natural variation in sexual expression?'

After all, hanging out in the jungle all day, catching bugs and swinging from vines has to get a little dull. I'd be looking for some sexual kicks too.

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  • 1. Posted by yoohoomissbl... on Mon, Jul 06, 2009

    LOL .. Are you so desperate for a same sex lover that you are making a sales pitch?

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  • 2. Posted by xploring on Fri, Sep 25, 2009

    This is hardly the first time I have seen comments and studies about this. My question is why should we care. Is because animals do or don't do anything a reason for people to participate in that behavior. I really hope that we can strive to exceed base animal instict in our behavior. I am not stating my opinion one way or the other on homosexuality. Rather I am saying any discussion we have on the reasons for our actions should require that the minimum criteria on which we will base our decisions to act in a certain way is more involved than I saw a homosexual cow and thats good enough for me. Or alternately until you show me gay dolphins I won't believe homosexuality is OK. Common on people, lets have a little higher expectations for ourselves than this.

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