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  • Is he still into me, now that the chase is over?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I meet an amazing guy about three weeks ago in one of my classes we just started talking and totally hit it off texted me non stop for two weeks we went to a dance together, and spent Halloween together he finally asked me out threee days ago and now he's no where near as attentive and cute is he bored now that the chase is over?
  • Exactly why do men snore?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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    ok I am willing to accept the one or two women may snore, but why do men do it. It's not in their best interests is it?
  • How do you talk to a guy that you like over the phone?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i like this guy, and i am to scared to call him..what do i do?
  • How Should I ask this girl out?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I really really like this girl, and I know she likes me, we going out today to a mall and I wanna know how should I ask her to my gf! D:
  • how to leave a man who hits you?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    how to leave a man who hits you and you live with him.
  • Is thin to extremely thick girdle on diamond an issue?

    Weddings - 5 hours ago

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    Hi, I am very interested in purchasing this diamond as i saw it in person, and liked the measurements on it. It makes it look alot bigger than an average 2.0 cushion. My concern is the girdle, table details. Do you thin to extremely thick will be a problem for this stone? Would you not recommend getting this diamond because of this? I am getting a pretty good price on it (10k) and would like an opinion. Overall, the stone looked good when i placed it in a vintage style setting it...but i am just an amateur. Shape: Cushion Carat Weight: 2.01 Color: F Clarity: SI2 Graded By: GIA Cut Grade: Very Good Depth: 57.5% Table: 70% Girdle: Thin to Extremely Thick, Faceted Culet: None Polish: Very Good Symmetry: Good Fluorescence: None Measurements: 8.35 x 7.31 x 4.20 Length / Width Ratio: 1.14
  • should i talk to her in person or write her a letter? please help?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    There's this girl who I really like and I'm pretty sure she likes me in the same way. However, I feel like things are going downhill because I haven't really expressed how much I like her. So I've decided to just tell her how I feel (and don't tell me not to, I've made up my mind). Since seeing her is getting harder and harder to do, I've thought about just writing her a letter so I wouldn't be waiting to see her one-on-one. So my question is, which would be better, in person or a letter? I'm a somewhat shy guy so I feel more confident about expressing how much I like her on paper, but not sure if it would be as powerful if I say her in person. Thanks to everyone who answers, I'll really appreciate it. Plus I'll give 10 points to best answer.
  • Is it fair for my friend to hate me because I didn't tell her this?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, before I say anything I do not want people to judge me because of how stupid my Mom is, because it isn't my fault. So my Mom has been to jail over 20 times, (She has got serious issues with identity theft, stealing, bla bla bla) and has cheated on my Dad. My Dad didn't want people to think bad of him so he was a bit stupid and went to the gas station, only to see my friend's aunt there. He told her the whole story, and she seemed like she was okay with it. She said, "Oh yeah yeah we don't hate you, it's Brenda (my Mom) we don't like." Of course she didn't know about the jail and everything until my dad had told her. Anyway, my friend is always asking to hang out, to go out together for Halloween, she is always texting me, whatever. Now I'm the on who has to text HER, and whenever I do she hardly ever responds, and when she does she just says all that she absolutely has to, like when I ask her something. The conversation always stops short. She used to always be hyper and show emotion in her texts, and put smiley faces and all, but not any more. She is never busy. Oh, and did I mention that I didn't tell her about my Mom? She is mad at me about that. I didn't ask her, I just know because I did nothing else and as I said, she is never busy. Please don't tell me to make sure first, because I KNOW. This isn't like her. Is it fair for her to be mad at me over this? Because first of all, it's embarrassing. Second, I've only known her for a year. I think that conversation should be brought up at a more appropriate time. Not within a year. Do you think this is fair? Sorry it's so long.
  • Does this boy like me?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    This boy, likes my best friend. And she does not like him. but i do! We spend time together...And he tells me secrets about him. He tries to make me happy when i am feeling bad. So does he like me? Please tell me!
  • Boys/men, would this girl be interesting to you?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Would you date her, assuming she was smart and a nice girl? http://photos-b.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs067.snc3/13439_1196831195982_1084530141_30678690_6115545_n.jpg
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Contraception controversy

Posted Thu, Jun 11, 2009
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A recent study published in the June issue of Contraception Magazine presents findings that the withdrawal method of birth control rivals the use of condoms.

Shocking, isn't it? An entire magazine devoted to contraception! But actually I was referring to the fact that they're telling us that a method that we've been told all our lives is not even officially a method of birth control is almost as good as condoms.

Condoms have a 98% success rate when used properly and an 82-87% failure rate (depending on who you talk to) when you factor in all the people who decide that the 6-year-old condom in his wallet is still 'fine'to use.

The study out of the Guttmacher Institute in New York said that the withdrawal method - that is, having the male partner pull out before he climaxes - is 96% effective when used perfectly (however they determine that) and an 82% success rate with more typical, obviously less perfect, use.
But before you lose the latex, it's important to remember that the withdrawal method doesn't provide any protection from Sexually Transmitted Infections that can be transmitted through pre-ejaculate fluid.

And given the prevailing resistance to using condoms it hardly seems responsible to give people another excuse not to roll down the rim. So what advantage is there to a study like this?

Well, the truth of the matter is, say the researchers, a lot of people are using the withdrawal method (usually as a back up or along with another form of birth control) and denying this is silly.

Even Dr. Carol Carozza, VP of Marketing for Ansell Healthcare, the makers of LifeStyles Condoms and a 20 year veteran on contraception and says that when you see how many people seem to be defaulting to the withdrawal method, it's clear that more research needs to be done and that users of it should be counseled properly.

People have been so stressed out into believing that withdrawal is irresponsible at worst or at best 'better than nothing.'

Although withdrawal may not be as effective as some contraceptive methods, it is substantially more effective than nothing, said the study. It's also convenient, requires no prior planning and it's free.

Health care providers and health educators should discuss withdrawal as a legitimate, if slightly less effective contraceptive method in the same way they do condoms and diaphragms. Dismissing is as a legitimate contraceptive method when used in conjunction with hormonal, barrier or other methods is counterproductive and also discourages further research into this frequently used and reasonably effective method.

Read the entire study here.

Do you use the withdrawal method and if so, how reliable do you think it is? Do you use it along with other methods?

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  • 1. Posted by Valgal on Fri, Jun 12, 2009

    What about pre-ejaculation, though??

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  • 2. Posted by kev-cz on Tue, Jun 16, 2009

    I don't know, I think the withdrawl method is still quite a risk from a contraceptive point of view. Premature ejaculation is sneaky and can happen to any guy from time to time, it usually happens with little to no warning leaving him no time to withdraw. I have trouble buying that the withdrawl method could be half as effective as condoms.

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