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  • dad died grandmother says life insurance was drained by funeral costs?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    my father died. I am his only kid Im 27. my grandmother took a life insurance policy out on my father. I was never told the details. The arrangements was no funeral parlor 2 days after he died we went to the family church and had mass then went straight to the cemetery. I am unsure of how to find out if I was lied to. or if my grandmother was the one to end up with what ever the life insurance paid off. I have heard that she may have been the primary beneficiary as long as she survived his dying. and I would then be the secondary, only being beneficiary if my grandmother was deceased when he died. can someone put this in perspective for me please?
  • Teens: Is it embarassing not to have any plans for weekends?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    Do u feel nervous when it's thursday and u sill don't have any plans for the weekend? Do u feel sad or embarassed to stay at home all day on Saturday?
  • what do u do when one of your best doesnt like your other best friend!?help mi pllzzz?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    one of my friends really doesnt like my other best friend wat can i do....
  • Help! Boy trouble! Or maybe it's me..?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay,here's the deal. Whenever I like a guy,I don't want him to right away (if at all), so I act uninterested even when he shows interest.It's childish but it's a defense mechanism for me. So there's this guy I really like a lot and I've given him the cold shoulder, even when I tried to show interest (I'm messed up,I know). I want to know if there's a way for me to fix the damage,start over maybe. The only method that I haven't tried is telling him flat out,which I cannot (will not) do, especially since I think he make have lost some interest. If anyone has any USEFUL advice,strategies,etc., I'd greatly appreciate them
  • How did u meet the person u ended up marrying?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    1. how old were u and the person when u guys met for the first time? 2. where and how did u meet the person 3. did u instantly realize that the person is " the one" when u first met him/her. 4. how long did it take to finally decide to marry 5. What's the top reason that u have decided to spend the rest of ur time with him/her?
  • so i have this friend and sometimes she can be a bitch. please help.?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    i like this guy. ever since i told my friend how much i like him, she flirts with him right in front of my face and then brags about how much they talk and how good friends they are. the first time i told her that she kept flirting with him in front of me, she told me she would stop. it got to the fourth time i was telling her and she said she would stop talking to him altogether because she wanted to prove to me that she was a better friend. i told her it was her last chance. its now at the sixth time and ive had enough. she started telling me how her and my crush started talking on the phone heaps and texting and stuff and that he asked her out and she was just rubbing it in my face. i got really angry. do you think i was right to get angry at her? i recently talked to the guy i like and he told me everything that she said was pretty much bullshit besides he called her for half an hour once to find out my best friends phone number because they are like brother and sister blah blah. also i recently talked to my friend (the bitch)'s ex best friend and she told me that my friend had done the exact same thing to her boyfriend. how do we show her what she is doing? we have both tried telling her multiple amounts of times but she just says that we dont make sense. so any ideas on how we can make her stop and show her how much damage she is doing? or should we just let it go and let karma get her? please help.
  • Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I am friends with this guy that I've hung out with 4 or 5 times. I have a crush on him and it seems like he is always flirting with me. The first time I met him it was cold and he put his arms around me and warmed me up. It seems like every time I see him he hugs me, lays on me ( jokingly), calls me his lover, etc. He gave me his number (but didnt ask for mine) and I texted him so he would have my number. We had a short conversation, only 8 or 9 texts long. I didnt hear from him for about 3 days, and then he texted me last night saying "hey cutie". We had a good 30 minute conversation, and then he just stopped replying. So, does it seem like he is flirting or looking for something more?
  • My friend is putting guys before me (7th grade)?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    ok my friends has been obsessing over guys lately.. ever since she's been playing volleyball with them she's been falling down and injuring herself on purpose just to get attention and to have guys help her up so that they can hold her hand and also she cries whenever she doesn't get a lot of attention so that the guys will notice her and treat her like a princess or something also she once told this guy that i liked him because she likes him too and she told him i liked him just so that he could talk to her more i mean what kind of friend tells someone else my secrets???? she promised not to tell ANYONE. but she told him just to get his attention. all the guys who play volleyball always treat her like a princess now and she just ignores me. like after i was playing vball with her and the guys the bell rang and then i was gonna give her something but she just ignored me every single time i called her. i was like 10 feet away from her! and then all her guy friends just dragged her away and they were laughing at me and stuff. :( wat should i dooo?? she's being such a jerkk.
  • How come people tell me that i'm pretty and have personality yet I absolutely don't get hit on by any guys?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I'm twenty. The only guys who really hit on me are homeless men with no teeth who come up to me and tell me that I am beautiful. (non-homeless guys have said this too though) Men just look, no one talks to me. What's going on??
  • What does a girl do when she knows that you like her? Plzz help?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I know this girl and I like her, but I've never talked to her before. My friends always say her name or ask me if I like her in front of her and all I can do is tell them to be quiet. She used to look at me a lot before, but now all she does is ignore. I even tried to message her on facebook... but still no response. She also seems to be very shy and not have a lot of guy friends. Should I just leave her alone and move on or go up and talk to her? I don't want to seem to desperate, also what kind of signs will she show now that she knows that I like her...? Thank you guys, in advance.
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Contraception controversy

Posted Thu, Jun 11, 2009
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A recent study published in the June issue of Contraception Magazine presents findings that the withdrawal method of birth control rivals the use of condoms.

Shocking, isn't it? An entire magazine devoted to contraception! But actually I was referring to the fact that they're telling us that a method that we've been told all our lives is not even officially a method of birth control is almost as good as condoms.

Condoms have a 98% success rate when used properly and an 82-87% failure rate (depending on who you talk to) when you factor in all the people who decide that the 6-year-old condom in his wallet is still 'fine'to use.

The study out of the Guttmacher Institute in New York said that the withdrawal method - that is, having the male partner pull out before he climaxes - is 96% effective when used perfectly (however they determine that) and an 82% success rate with more typical, obviously less perfect, use.
But before you lose the latex, it's important to remember that the withdrawal method doesn't provide any protection from Sexually Transmitted Infections that can be transmitted through pre-ejaculate fluid.

And given the prevailing resistance to using condoms it hardly seems responsible to give people another excuse not to roll down the rim. So what advantage is there to a study like this?

Well, the truth of the matter is, say the researchers, a lot of people are using the withdrawal method (usually as a back up or along with another form of birth control) and denying this is silly.

Even Dr. Carol Carozza, VP of Marketing for Ansell Healthcare, the makers of LifeStyles Condoms and a 20 year veteran on contraception and says that when you see how many people seem to be defaulting to the withdrawal method, it's clear that more research needs to be done and that users of it should be counseled properly.

People have been so stressed out into believing that withdrawal is irresponsible at worst or at best 'better than nothing.'

Although withdrawal may not be as effective as some contraceptive methods, it is substantially more effective than nothing, said the study. It's also convenient, requires no prior planning and it's free.

Health care providers and health educators should discuss withdrawal as a legitimate, if slightly less effective contraceptive method in the same way they do condoms and diaphragms. Dismissing is as a legitimate contraceptive method when used in conjunction with hormonal, barrier or other methods is counterproductive and also discourages further research into this frequently used and reasonably effective method.

Read the entire study here.

Do you use the withdrawal method and if so, how reliable do you think it is? Do you use it along with other methods?

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  • 1. Posted by Valgal on Fri, Jun 12, 2009

    What about pre-ejaculation, though??

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  • 2. Posted by kev-cz on Tue, Jun 16, 2009

    I don't know, I think the withdrawl method is still quite a risk from a contraceptive point of view. Premature ejaculation is sneaky and can happen to any guy from time to time, it usually happens with little to no warning leaving him no time to withdraw. I have trouble buying that the withdrawl method could be half as effective as condoms.

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