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  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • How do I stay with him, when his friends are like this?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So earlier today, this guy asked me out. Hey guess what! we're going out now ! Now, I'm going through some problems. I'm bengali[if you don't know what that is, loook it up foool!] and hes black. so we're completely different, I dont know why he'd go for a girl like me . But I really really like him. Its being so awkward for me , and Im not racist, but its playing around with my hormones; getting me mad, some of his black friends come up to mee & they're like; "dayymm , didn't know you liked niggaaas" I try to ignore them. But also, a lot of people aren't liking us together. I was gonna be with him at lunch, but I saw him with his "brothaaas" ; He said he wanted to chill with me , BUT its really affecting everything. So I chilled with my bestfriend, and stayed away from him. the only alone time we have, are some passing periods, when no-one's looking . He said to give them time, and they'll get over it. but it annoys the shit out of me. D:
  • I'm so lost In my life right now! What should I do?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    I need to be as understanding to you guys as possible so that I can get as much help as possible. Let me give you the low down of how I've stuffed up my life.I'm 19 years old..Okay It was all working well I was In a Job for 4 months then I left because I wanted to move back out west which Is where all of my mates were and It was a hassle to drive out back home every Friday to go see my friends for the weekend. It was one of the most relaxed Jobs I've ever had but as with every other Job there is It got too repetitive and I didn't have the correct frame of mind to continue the Job. Then.. I was unemployed for about 5 months sitting at home.. every day for 5 months so I decided to do a course In automotive that course cost me $5000 New Zealand dollars which I have to pay back. Then I was out of money for a while so I could not get to school and I missed out on alot of classes so I gave that up In less than a month. That's $5000 In debt so far, then my Mum gave me her car which cost her $5000 then I got a speeding ticket which was $500 then my car conked out on me I don't have the money to fix It It's pretty stuffed up now I can only sell It for about $1000 and that's $500 towards my fine. So I got a car then I blew It I'm In debt. Then I decided to go Join the gym. I only earnt $160 a week the gym cost me $30 a week. Then my bank account got shut down therefore the gym could not receive anymore of my payments and now they're racked up at $120. I also owe my friend $325 and my other friend $120. And my pay of $160 was coming from my student allowance which I have to pay back. I have no Job.. I can't seem to find one or stick to one. No car my Dad still buys me groceries and pays my rent he works his ass off at work I pretty much live off him and I feel so horrible every single day that I am hear I feel so sorry for my Dad but I cannot leave because I have no where else to go. I also have OCD which Just ruined me. I cannot hide the fact that I am so very depressed and It feels like I am at the end of the road and It Is hard to keep positive ='( Far out the human brain Is wicked Isn't It. I'm getting different opinions from all over the place based on your peoples experience. I am getting unnecessary Answers here one of them which Is very rude. No I am not a girl yes I do pray because I want to believe In something that can help me. I do have other stuff going on In my life so please don't Judge me too much. I know what I need to do I know It Isn't fun but I can only handle so much. I came here for answers not criticism. Thank you all for your advice I do agree with some of you. These are all my first mistakes which Is why I made them In the first place. I do not have much motivation to do things I do not know how to Initiate motivation In myself okay. I know I'm not the only one but all I've asked for Is help not cold hearted rudeness alright. Thank you all for your advice I will take It.
  • My brother's wife got mad at me about a "Facebook" entry. Please Read?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, I am friends with brothers wife on facebook, my brother's wife name is Bridget and she is from Belize. Now, someone she knows asked for my friendship, when I notice it was one of her friends I trusted the source and accepted the friend which was a male. I am single and have already raised my daughter who is know 22years old. For some reason I thought she (Bridget) told him to be-friend me. Well, anyway the guy made a comment on my picture saying "Nice Picture" and I responded saying Thanks, & how are you related to my sis Bridget. Well, before he could even respond, she (Bridget) calls me and says: "If you want to be his friend, then be his friend, don't question our relationship, I don't go around on your friends asking: How are they related to you" Well, I was soo furious, because the question I ask him was just a conversation starter. And wasn't even like I really wanted to know how they were related, I just wanted to break the ice and start conversation with him. I didn't appreciate Bridget Tone and just hung up the phone, I really wanted to start cussing her out but I didn't. Then I went to Facebook and deleted her and this other guy as friend. What do you think, Was I wrong or was she wrong?. She keep calling me back, and she told my dad how I didn't have to hang up like a fool. Right Now, I am still mad and need to calm down because I didn't think she would go there. Its funny how you think things will turn out one way but it turns out to go LEFT
  • Do you know somone who you've tried your hardest to be friends with, but they still find a way to insult you?

    Friends - 8 hours ago

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    What would you do in a situation like that? Thank you, Jaguar. It's like, I really don't wanna argue with this person either. I honestly don't know why they would do that...
  • Ladies; what do you think about Metalheads?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I'm curious how the "normal" (God, I hate that word) girls/women think about guys like me? I know a lot of people might picture a sweaty beer drinking, bearded guy with long hair when they think about metalheads. Now I don't know about the sweaty part, I do drink beer, but I have neither long hair nor a beard. Im asking this because I do get womens' attention somehow, from a distance at least, but beyond that nothing much ever happens, lol. I must say, i'm an introvert guy, not really shy or anything, at least, not once I get to know you, I'm just a bit laid back when it comes to first contact. Is there like, something that repels you from approaching us or something? Do you have some sort of preconceptions? I really am curious, because quite frankly, the thought of just walking up to a girl and asking her makes me crap my pants x) I know a few dozen metalheads besides myself and most of them don't take drugs, but ok.
  • Does he like me? please answer. easy points 4 best answer?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    okay so there is a guy once cheered me on running. idk if it is just support or he actually likes me. so mi friend asked him 4 me if he liked me. he said maybe. mi friend asked another day. he supposeingly got irritated and said no. did i just make him on the spot so he said no? or is it cuz he just doesnt like me?
  • WHY DOES MY EX GF HAVE THIS ON HER PROFLIE?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    When I'm all broke down Heading for disaster And I'm spinning round Trying to find a clue And my head is tired Searching for the answer Can't figure out How I'm gonna get through the next 10 minutes., Baby I'm amazed what I feel for you Baby I'm amazed what your faith can do Baby I'm amazed where you take me to Don't you know, oh Baby I'm amazed what I feel for you Baby I'm amazed what your faith can do Baby I'm amazed where you take me to Don't you know, oh.,. Oh, get, oh When I'm all burnt down Need a place to run to No one hears me shout Lost and all alone And I'm losing ground No one understands me Can't figure out What I'm gonna do cause I just can't take it. SHE HAS ME ON HER TOP AND SOME OTHER FAGGOT AND HER FRIENDS
My Messy Bedroom

Contraception controversy

Posted Thu, Jun 11, 2009
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A recent study published in the June issue of Contraception Magazine presents findings that the withdrawal method of birth control rivals the use of condoms.

Shocking, isn't it? An entire magazine devoted to contraception! But actually I was referring to the fact that they're telling us that a method that we've been told all our lives is not even officially a method of birth control is almost as good as condoms.

Condoms have a 98% success rate when used properly and an 82-87% failure rate (depending on who you talk to) when you factor in all the people who decide that the 6-year-old condom in his wallet is still 'fine'to use.

The study out of the Guttmacher Institute in New York said that the withdrawal method - that is, having the male partner pull out before he climaxes - is 96% effective when used perfectly (however they determine that) and an 82% success rate with more typical, obviously less perfect, use.
But before you lose the latex, it's important to remember that the withdrawal method doesn't provide any protection from Sexually Transmitted Infections that can be transmitted through pre-ejaculate fluid.

And given the prevailing resistance to using condoms it hardly seems responsible to give people another excuse not to roll down the rim. So what advantage is there to a study like this?

Well, the truth of the matter is, say the researchers, a lot of people are using the withdrawal method (usually as a back up or along with another form of birth control) and denying this is silly.

Even Dr. Carol Carozza, VP of Marketing for Ansell Healthcare, the makers of LifeStyles Condoms and a 20 year veteran on contraception and says that when you see how many people seem to be defaulting to the withdrawal method, it's clear that more research needs to be done and that users of it should be counseled properly.

People have been so stressed out into believing that withdrawal is irresponsible at worst or at best 'better than nothing.'

Although withdrawal may not be as effective as some contraceptive methods, it is substantially more effective than nothing, said the study. It's also convenient, requires no prior planning and it's free.

Health care providers and health educators should discuss withdrawal as a legitimate, if slightly less effective contraceptive method in the same way they do condoms and diaphragms. Dismissing is as a legitimate contraceptive method when used in conjunction with hormonal, barrier or other methods is counterproductive and also discourages further research into this frequently used and reasonably effective method.

Read the entire study here.

Do you use the withdrawal method and if so, how reliable do you think it is? Do you use it along with other methods?

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  • 1. Posted by Valgal on Fri, Jun 12, 2009

    What about pre-ejaculation, though??

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  • 2. Posted by kev-cz on Tue, Jun 16, 2009

    I don't know, I think the withdrawl method is still quite a risk from a contraceptive point of view. Premature ejaculation is sneaky and can happen to any guy from time to time, it usually happens with little to no warning leaving him no time to withdraw. I have trouble buying that the withdrawl method could be half as effective as condoms.

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