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  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • How do I stay with him, when his friends are like this?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    So earlier today, this guy asked me out. Hey guess what! we're going out now ! Now, I'm going through some problems. I'm bengali[if you don't know what that is, loook it up foool!] and hes black. so we're completely different, I dont know why he'd go for a girl like me . But I really really like him. Its being so awkward for me , and Im not racist, but its playing around with my hormones; getting me mad, some of his black friends come up to mee & they're like; "dayymm , didn't know you liked niggaaas" I try to ignore them. But also, a lot of people aren't liking us together. I was gonna be with him at lunch, but I saw him with his "brothaaas" ; He said he wanted to chill with me , BUT its really affecting everything. So I chilled with my bestfriend, and stayed away from him. the only alone time we have, are some passing periods, when no-one's looking . He said to give them time, and they'll get over it. but it annoys the shit out of me. D:
  • What do I do if my ex-boyfriend is getting over me but I can't get over him?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and my ex is 19. We were together for one year. He is obviously getting over me as he started college recently at a university and he's added a few girls he goes to school with on Facebook. Me, on the otherhand, I haven't met any guys after him and I'm just always thinking about him so it's hard to get over him. I hate that he's meeting all these girls and I'm not meeting any new guys that I'm interested in. I'm kind of jealous. What should I do?
  • I'm so lost In my life right now! What should I do?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 9 hours ago

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    I need to be as understanding to you guys as possible so that I can get as much help as possible. Let me give you the low down of how I've stuffed up my life.I'm 19 years old..Okay It was all working well I was In a Job for 4 months then I left because I wanted to move back out west which Is where all of my mates were and It was a hassle to drive out back home every Friday to go see my friends for the weekend. It was one of the most relaxed Jobs I've ever had but as with every other Job there is It got too repetitive and I didn't have the correct frame of mind to continue the Job. Then.. I was unemployed for about 5 months sitting at home.. every day for 5 months so I decided to do a course In automotive that course cost me $5000 New Zealand dollars which I have to pay back. Then I was out of money for a while so I could not get to school and I missed out on alot of classes so I gave that up In less than a month. That's $5000 In debt so far, then my Mum gave me her car which cost her $5000 then I got a speeding ticket which was $500 then my car conked out on me I don't have the money to fix It It's pretty stuffed up now I can only sell It for about $1000 and that's $500 towards my fine. So I got a car then I blew It I'm In debt. Then I decided to go Join the gym. I only earnt $160 a week the gym cost me $30 a week. Then my bank account got shut down therefore the gym could not receive anymore of my payments and now they're racked up at $120. I also owe my friend $325 and my other friend $120. And my pay of $160 was coming from my student allowance which I have to pay back. I have no Job.. I can't seem to find one or stick to one. No car my Dad still buys me groceries and pays my rent he works his ass off at work I pretty much live off him and I feel so horrible every single day that I am hear I feel so sorry for my Dad but I cannot leave because I have no where else to go. I also have OCD which Just ruined me. I cannot hide the fact that I am so very depressed and It feels like I am at the end of the road and It Is hard to keep positive ='( Far out the human brain Is wicked Isn't It. I'm getting different opinions from all over the place based on your peoples experience. I am getting unnecessary Answers here one of them which Is very rude. No I am not a girl yes I do pray because I want to believe In something that can help me. I do have other stuff going on In my life so please don't Judge me too much. I know what I need to do I know It Isn't fun but I can only handle so much. I came here for answers not criticism. Thank you all for your advice I do agree with some of you. These are all my first mistakes which Is why I made them In the first place. I do not have much motivation to do things I do not know how to Initiate motivation In myself okay. I know I'm not the only one but all I've asked for Is help not cold hearted rudeness alright. Thank you all for your advice I will take It.
  • Please read this poem that I made about my dad?

    Family - 9 hours ago

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    Hi, Please read my poem - I know that it's long. However, it would be greatly appreciated i you can tell me what you think of it. (Please not that I am almost eighteen years old) It’s been so long since our family fell apart. I’ll never forget the damage that you punctured into my heart. All the grief, the misery, and the darkness that you put me through and how you never cared what I wanted to do. Now that you have a new family, suddenly now you decide to care. Words are only words that I only hear, but the truth is that you’re never there. You never saw the development of the woman that I became today. You only remember the bad choices that I made. But still, you want me back in your life just to please your new daughter and your wife. I’m sure that you never told them how you made my life burn like fire and how you tried to persuade me of throwing away my true desires. So, I can be daddy’s perfect picture. My heart will always remain pure, unlike yours who destroyed every hope that I had in you. Good luck to you trying to pretend to your baby girl that you’re a perfect dad. Honey, he’ll only tear your heart apart and at the end at of the day he will only see the bad. He’ll leave you crying in the corner full of misery and then he’ll try to convince you that he will change. Dad, it’s always the same. The games you play, the lies that slip out of your mouth and how you smile with that evil grin. You’re such a disappointment in my eyes, and I can count how many times you commuted sin. I’m better off now with out you holding my hand, because you were never there after all. You only watched every time someone punched me into the wall. Saying that I should do better, and you only let me down. I only hoped that one day that you would come around, to tell me that you are proud. We can’t rewrite history, and you can’t fixed the damage in my heart. Because you made me feel worthless, and that I can never end what I started. After everything that you put me through, I’m glad that I never put my faith in you.
  • My brother's wife got mad at me about a "Facebook" entry. Please Read?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    Okay, I am friends with brothers wife on facebook, my brother's wife name is Bridget and she is from Belize. Now, someone she knows asked for my friendship, when I notice it was one of her friends I trusted the source and accepted the friend which was a male. I am single and have already raised my daughter who is know 22years old. For some reason I thought she (Bridget) told him to be-friend me. Well, anyway the guy made a comment on my picture saying "Nice Picture" and I responded saying Thanks, & how are you related to my sis Bridget. Well, before he could even respond, she (Bridget) calls me and says: "If you want to be his friend, then be his friend, don't question our relationship, I don't go around on your friends asking: How are they related to you" Well, I was soo furious, because the question I ask him was just a conversation starter. And wasn't even like I really wanted to know how they were related, I just wanted to break the ice and start conversation with him. I didn't appreciate Bridget Tone and just hung up the phone, I really wanted to start cussing her out but I didn't. Then I went to Facebook and deleted her and this other guy as friend. What do you think, Was I wrong or was she wrong?. She keep calling me back, and she told my dad how I didn't have to hang up like a fool. Right Now, I am still mad and need to calm down because I didn't think she would go there. Its funny how you think things will turn out one way but it turns out to go LEFT
  • Do you know somone who you've tried your hardest to be friends with, but they still find a way to insult you?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    What would you do in a situation like that? Thank you, Jaguar. It's like, I really don't wanna argue with this person either. I honestly don't know why they would do that...

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Does size matter?

Posted Thu, Oct 25, 2007
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Yes, okay, I admit it. There is that moment — the first time you get naked with a guy and see his penis — a moment of pleasant surprise, or that slight sinking feeling when you know you'll be giving your girlfriends the universal pinkie symbol the next day.

Size does matter. There. I said it. But does it matter enough for a guy to shell out almost $5,000 for a surgical penis enlargement and risk, at worst, death, or (perhaps even worse) ending up with an elephant-man penis all for a bigger one? At the very least, there's a lot of discomfort involved. Surely it'd be safer and more economical to get creative. It's not the meat, it's the motion and all that, you know?

Hey, I'd be lying to you if I said it didn't come up (actually that would be another discussion entirely) but, honestly, the size of a guy's penis is not on the top of the list.

Sure, we like a nice-looking penis probably in the same way guys like nice-looking breasts. But, given the choice between a guy with a nice-looking, good-sized penis and a guy with a skillful tongue and hands, I'd go for door Number 2. Besides, vaginas are pretty stretchy things, sort of a one-size-fits-all deal. Sure, it's nice to feel full, but most of the really good nerve endings are right at the entrance of the pearly gates, something a lot of guys fail to realize. Hang around up front a while and you'll find out. To this end, the thickness of a penis is more fun for us than its length.

Finally, I don't care if his penis is the size of the Eiffel Tower. If he doesn't know what to do with it, it hardly matters. A lot of guys think having a big penis is enough. Sometimes, guys with smaller penises actually make better lovers because they learn how to compensate with other activities. And besides, I like to think penises are like snowflakes: no two are alike and they all have their own individual beauty.

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  • 1. Posted by Kim C on Thu, Oct 25, 2007

    Size does NOT matter at all!! Are we going to judge a man for what he has between his legs??? Come on!! It's what's inside that counts so I've been told. I look at the face and hands that is more important when meeting a man don't you think?

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  • 2. Posted by ErnestA on Sat, Oct 27, 2007

    excuse me when I say this, anygirl or a woman that goes for the size, to me is a sl*t. a man can the biggest of all and not know what to with it and someone can have the smallest of all and give you the best sex of your, so size isn;t anything.

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  • 3. Posted by Silver on Sun, Oct 28, 2007

    I hope you don't mind a comment from a guy who agrees totally with what you ladies are saying. I am not built like a horse but I do have a very gifted tongue, lips, and hands that have always been able to please the woman I am with. I admit I have been told I am not the longest but I am a little thicker than average and for this I am happy. I was actually told by one lover that she met up with "elephant man" one time and it scared her so much she refused to do anything for fear of being hurt. As the name implies I am in the middle age bracket and someday will no doubt drop to "pinky size" but as long as I have a tongue and hands I will continue to enjoy. By the way extended periods of kissing and hugs are also a bonus compared to the proverbial "wham bam thank you."

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  • 4. Posted by BOB M on Sun, Oct 28, 2007

    still, your mind is the biggest sex organ we have

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  • 5. Posted by like funny stories on Sat, Nov 03, 2007

    it's all very noble of the girls who say that size doesn't count, but from the way i see it, it certainly does. how else can you account for why both tall and short , big and small, girls are seen going out with guys who are so obviously the direct cousin of neanderthals who have no social skills and are educationally challenged, but are hung like a horse. if size doesn't count, these girls must surely find them boring , as anyone will tell you that these guys have less conversational skills that any 4 walls that surround us or them , for all that matters. sorry, i beg to differ. size counts, but the girls like to let you think it doesn't.

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  • 6. Posted by To Be Announced on Sat, Nov 17, 2007

    Well stated, post number 5! Goons that treat the ladies as objects tend to get more action. However, it makes me wonder, is it their size that really gets them the ladies in the first place, or are women just generally more attracted to men that don't/can't out-smart them. Perhaps there is a direct relationship between penis size and IQ.

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  • 7. Posted by Victor Jr on Tue, Nov 27, 2007

    I'm new to Canada, and I would like to know what the average size is..? and where do you start to measure from..?

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  • 8. Posted by Christ1969 on Sun, Dec 23, 2007

    Size DOES matter. My (about to become ex) loves my size. But even she admits that it may be a bit too much for her. It's not so much the length but the width. Make an "O" hand sign by touching the tip of your index to the tip of your thumb so it makes a hole. My shaft can't get in there when fully erect. In this case it isn't so much my size that's a problm but hers. She's too tight and it really hurts her. In the moment she really likes the pain but afterwards I hear the constant complaints on how I ripped her open and how she's in pain. Especially about the burning feeling when she pees. This is not my male ego talking, this is what's really going on. From my point of view it's not my size which is a problem but hers. No complaints during sez but the constant complaints of being in pain and the guilt I feel for hurting her is annoying. BTW... that's not why we're breaking up. I'm dumping her for a whole other reason.

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  • 9. Posted by knave_lily on Mon, Dec 24, 2007

    So the bottom line seems to be that length doesn't count (unless it's too long for comfort, perhaps) but thickness definitely makes a difference to that mass of nerve-endings clustered around the pearly gates, if your movements are tame. If you're adventurous and concerned enough, however, you can more than compensate for a thin fella by the way you approach the pearly gates. Now, if the difference is that you are too thick for her, as christian.lanctot describes above, tongue, lips and digits can work magic for and from both of you.

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  • 10. Posted by ziki on Tue, Apr 07, 2009

    women are half men and men are half women , they are like skin tight dress for each other , but that tightness become uncomforable and the dress get torn , remains was just hot sex meat meat and meat in relationship soul is important relationship without soul is like ship without a rudder .

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