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  • My friend is scared for me. It scares me that I've gotten to this point. Long but please read. Help?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    I'm depressed, I've been cutting, I hate my self, and I want to die well more of kill myself. I was in one-on-one therapy for a week but I cut myself again and had to go to the ER and they sent me to the Insitute of Living for the night and was there all last Tuesday and had one-on-one therapy on Wednesday. They set me up with group therapy. Yesturday, I had to go in the morning for like don't know how to put this into words but like introduction pretty much. I then had a horrible day at school included with crying a lot a lunch because I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to quit swim team and band (I'm a section leader in band and I worked hard for my position) and my best friend Alex comes over to sit and he says, 'Am I the only one not depressed here' I looked up and told him to shut up and he comes over to my side of the table and hugs me and talks to me about it, trying to make me feel better. So then on the bus, I get a text from my ex friend saying 'I Heard wat happened and i just wanted 2 say im srry' and I asked her who told her and she said Alex and when I asked Alex why he told her he said 'I told nikki cuz im scared for u... I dont want u to get even more messed up... And im bad at talking ppl out of stuff... Nikkis good at it... Terrance says hi.' And it just really freaked me out because a bunch of people are worried about me and I'm used to that but he's my best friend and he's SCARED for me. And this morning going to encore I passed him in the hallway and he asked if I was okay and I turned and shook my head no and he came up and hugged me and I just don't know what to do he's just so close to me that it hurts. And last week we had a friend in the Insitute of Living because she was planning suicide, so I'm pretty sure he also doesn't want me to end up at that point. But, he doesn't know that I know how I would kill my self I only talked about that this morning with Justin. And I haven't told Alex how hard it is just to get through the days now, and I just find everything so pointless, and that I'm just sick of being around. He does know that I wanted to switch schools. And I'm just so scared in myself because I've gotten to the point that he's scared for me. And I just don't know what to do.
  • Should I give this guy a chance or is he just playing me?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I met this guy through a friend. He lives in a different state and we email back and forth on facebook. It was his turn to email me but he never emailed me back. Before then, we email each other frequently like every three days. Two weeks go by without an email. He ended up 'liking' what I said on my facebook status a few weeks after I never heard from him. So I assumed he still wants to communicate with me so I emailed him again. Its been one week and then I hear from him again. It wouldn't matter but he updates his facebook through his phone and doesn't email me back when I clearly want a response from him. I enjoy getting emails from him. He recently emailed me back and said he was busy with work. He ended up asking me if I'm dating anyone. I told him that I was not dating anyone. Its been one week and he updates his facebook but doesn't email me back on facebook. I mention to him that there were pics of me and some American Idol contestants on tour on my facebook. I got a pic with one singer that I have a crush on and he's cute too. Do you think he got jealous? Why would he ask me if I'm dating anyone and stop communicating with me at the same time? Do you think he is dating anyone and wanted me to ask him if he is dating anyone?
  • A Question For ALL The Women Out There ?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • All that matters .........?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great? I'm not letting it phase me because we arent together and have only known eachother for 8 days. I want things to get serious with her and I first.
  • If I got The date ......?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • If one of your love ones got sick due to another person, would you.........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 8 hours ago

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    Be Mad at the person that infected your love one?? Also if your love one pass away due to the infection??? I'm talking about fever
  • dad died grandmother says life insurance was drained by funeral costs?

    Family - 9 hours ago

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    my father died. I am his only kid Im 27. my grandmother took a life insurance policy out on my father. I was never told the details. The arrangements was no funeral parlor 2 days after he died we went to the family church and had mass then went straight to the cemetery. I am unsure of how to find out if I was lied to. or if my grandmother was the one to end up with what ever the life insurance paid off. I have heard that she may have been the primary beneficiary as long as she survived his dying. and I would then be the secondary, only being beneficiary if my grandmother was deceased when he died. can someone put this in perspective for me please?
  • LADIES; do you have that deep spot?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I mean when a man goes deep and hits your end does it feel good? apparatnly you have another gspot back there. however i also heard that is hurts. my gf seem to like it but i dont know if she really does or not
  • Teens: Is it embarassing not to have any plans for weekends?

    Friends - 10 hours ago

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    Do u feel nervous when it's thursday and u sill don't have any plans for the weekend? Do u feel sad or embarassed to stay at home all day on Saturday?
  • can a woman feel exactly how big a man is when he is inside her?

    Singles & Dating - 10 hours ago

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    I mean can a woman feel exactly how big a man is with just her pus?

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Toy safety review

Posted Mon, Nov 24, 2008
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Every year, the Canadian Toy Testing Council comes out with their Toy Safety report just in time for the holiday season. However, there is an entire category of toys they don't report on - sex toys!

For that, we need to go to Canada's best resource on the safety of sex toys, the Vancouver-based sex shop, Womyn's Ware. Store president, Janna L. Sylvest offers some advice for those of you who plan to buys toys for your favourite good girl or boy this holiday season:

MMB: What's the best piece of general advice you give people when it comes to shopping for toys?

WW: The more a person knows about what they want the product to do, the less they'll be led astray by 'staff favourites' and other popularity contest methods of selling sex toys. That's why we start every product category with a tutorial instead of a list of products. For example, with vibes, start by asking yourself whether you want clitoral or penetrative stimulation (or both) way before you decide you must have the Mini Pearl or the oft-written about Hitachi Magic Wand.

MMB: Can you give us the pros and cons of the various sex-toy materials?

WW: Plastic's pro is that it's cheap. It's con is that the material becomes brittle over time, can never be cleaned sufficiently to allow for sharing between users or uses, and is rarely comfortable enough for penetrative use.
Jelly is toxic and in a constant state of off gassing. It absorbs every thing it comes in contact with and is impossible to clean. There's nothing pro about it. The packaging is worth more than the toy,

Silicone is one giant pro. It's the longest lasting, easiest to clean material. Silicone is hypoallergenic, sterile, odour-free, resilient and warms to the touch. Several manufacturers offer lifetime replacement warranties against defaults in construction maerials. Some retailers describe its price as a con but we think that's a cop out. You get what you pay for is an important adage when you're looking for something to use with the ones you love. Latex-free Toys made of phthalate-free silicone or elastomer are your best bet. But beware -- a toy doesn't have to be 100% silicone to be labeled 'silicone'. Ask before buying.

Some acrylics (i.e., Lucite) and stainless steel toys offer the hypoallergenic benefits of silicone but unless you're a big fan of unforgiving rigidity, though, these materials lack the flexibility necessary for comfortable penetrative use.

MMB: What pitfalls should people avoid when it comes to buying toys?

WW: A 'Novelty Purposes Only' label means either horrific substandard quality and/or unsafe materials.

Using Jelly products for oral, vaginal, or anal stimulation is going to introduce Phthalate and other toxic solvent absorption into the mucous membranes of the body. These chemicals provoke eye, respiratory, skin, and mucous membrane irritation. Headaches, cramps, and nausea are some of the side effects that result from exposure at the levels found in Health Canada issuing an import ban. Health hazards, deceptive sales practices, and price gouging are all common in the sex toy industry. Consider the truth behind the price in our article: From Factory Floor to XXX Shop Door essay at www.womynsware.com/abtfactorytostore.htm

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