Josey Vogels is the author of the nationally syndicated sex column, My Messy Bedroom, and the dating advice column, Dating Girl. With half a million readers coast-to-coast, Josey is Canada's most widely read sex and relationships columnist.
Josey's trademark is her ability to mix practical advice and biting wit together with a no-nonsense approach to the mysteries and pleasures of modern love and courtship.
I was recently having a drink with a male friend whose single status has of late been causing him much grief. He is now going through the "I'd just…
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POST A COMMENT (296)You just don't know someone until you have to negotiate your way through a shallow, narrow passage of water in a tippy, loaded-down canoe together.…
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POST A COMMENT (94)I don't know if monogamy is natural, but I do know there are as many takes on the concept as there are cultures in the world. Most of us are raised…
POST A COMMENT (2)Friends get a lot of leg room. If they don't get around to calling for a while, that's okay. A friend can be a blubbering mess one day, together and…
POST A COMMENT (1)I must confess, in the past, I've experienced a certain type of relationship pattern--meet someone, enjoy extreme intensity for about three months,…
POST A COMMENT (1)Ah, the human need to stick a label on things, hey? Once, some time back, I was in a relationship we dubbed "Frank" because everyone was so keen for…
POST A COMMENT (0)He doesn't share his feelings. I can't get him to open up. Whenever I try to talk to him about our relationship or try to find out what he's thinking…
POST A COMMENT (1)Talking dirty is a great way to explore fantasies and discover your limits and desires. It can also keep things going at a nice clip once you're more…
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