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  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
  • If a girls your friend with benefits?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    But acts like you two are talking to form a relationship, what gives? What's that about? If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. I like her, should I turn this into a relationship?
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • It feels like theres so much going wrong?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    Im a 17 year old male and don't think i can cope. Firstly, Im 6'5' and quite skinny which i hate, i always feel like i stick out. Secondly i'v not had a girlfriend for sooooooo long. Iv only kissed 4 girls in my entire life! I also feel like I do nothing to help the world, like i am forever getting depressed about how little i do to help people, I don't know how to bring myself to do good things and say nice things without getting all embarrased. I am (in my opinion) very selfish, which means i do most things my way, when I do say something, or act in a nice manner i feel sooo good, Then wonder why i cant do this all the time so get depressed again. I feel like im slipping away gradually from all my friends and starting to turn into a loner and I always feel so imature. I hate how my mum is living at home on her own when I am in Liverpool studying Preforming Arts which i don't even think I want to do. I don't want to tell my mum though as I think she would be upset because Its all I have wanted to do in my life. Im thinking of getting a diary (as gay as this might sound but I don't care) And writing a really long list of things to do before I die, and hopefully by doing this I will feel A much better person. And if not, i don't know what to do at all. Any advice or help would be great. Thanks!
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 8 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
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Flexibility at work scores big points with time-pressed parents

Posted Fri, Jul 11, 2008
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Your four-year-old will be starting kindergarten in a few weeks. Now would be the perfect time to talk with your boss about the company's flex-time policies?so you could meet the school bus after school and then work from home for the rest of the day.

Or maybe not.

You see, there was that rumor about that guy in accounting really messing up once he started working from home. Anyway, he almost got fired.

It's no wonder the world of flexible work arrangements suffers from what work-life experts call "the implementation gap"?the gap between what's available to employees on paper (as spelled out in the sparkling brochures distributed by HR departments) and the uptake rate (the rate at which employees take advantage of the availability of those very same programs).

The policies that look great on paper don't always get implemented in real life because people either don't know they exist (the HR brochure went AWOL) or they've heard through the grapevine that actually taking advantage of flexible working arrangements can do terrible things to your career.

Sometimes there's some truth to these rumors. Other times, they amount to the workplace equivalent of urban legends.

So what should you do if you're interested in finding out what types of flexible working arrangements are available in your workplace?
 
Find an ally at work. Look for someone who has had a very successful experience with flexible working arrangements, either within the company or at a previous job. Ask that person to help you find out what options have been made available to other employees in your workplace and then start thinking about what you'd like to ask for when you sit down to have The Big Talk with your boss. (If you're looking for some inspiring ideas about what is possible in terms of flexible work arrangements, download a copy of Overcoming the Implementation Gap: How 20 Leading Companies Are Making Flexibility Work from the Boston College Center for Work and Family website).

Remind yourself that your employer has as much to gain from agreeing to a flexible workplace arrangement as you do. A study conducted by the Center for Work & Family in 2000 found that 70 per cent of managers and 87 per cent of employees reported that working a flexible work arrangement had a positive or very positive impact on productivity. What's more, employees who are employed by companies that offer flexible workplace options tend to reward their employers with loyalty and hard work. So it's a win-win all around.

Now over to you: How important is it to you to have flexibility in the workplace (flexible hours, flexible working locations, ability to bank time to take a leave of absence in future, etc.)? Does your employer offer any of these types of benefits? Would you change jobs to gain more control over your schedule or working environment?

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  • 1. Posted by Jodine Keller on Fri, Jul 11, 2008

    Great, positive article! It would be fantastic if all companies were supportive of flexible work arrangements. Last summer, I tried everything that you stated in your article but my company felt that if I had the ability to work at home, then everyone would be requesting the same treatment, regardless of work ethics. Let's just say, that I no longer work for this company. Companies nowadays need to be open to the idea of being flexible for their employees, for retention, for productivity, and for the health of the employee and company. It can be a win-win for both parties with a little trust and dedication.

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  • 2. Posted by liu x on Wed, Jul 16, 2008

    great

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  • 3. Posted by anndouglas on Thu, Jul 17, 2008

    Your experience with your former company is so common (frustratingly common). I hear stories like yours all the time. I think a lot of the time companies are missing the big picture or not taking a long enough view about what will lead to long-term profits.

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  • 4. Posted by darrellwhyatt@btinternet.com on Sun, Sep 14, 2008

    sex

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