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Posted Tue, May 06, 2008
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One of the fascinating things about major holidays is that they bring forth a flood of press releases bearing odd factoids and unusual sounding studies. While Mother's Day has a hard time competing with Halloween (which produces spooky stats, trick-or-treat trivia, Halloween history, and pop culture tidbits about every kind of candy imaginable) and Valentine's Day (the sex study junkie and celebrity gossip addict's favorite time of year) when it comes to the sheer volume of press releases. However, when it comes to rousing guilt and angst in the reader, the Mother's Day press release is truly in a league of its own.

I just received a press release that could be a gold medal contender in this category.

Not only does it feature quotes from the requisite expert type -- in this case a psychologist, who provides reassuring and helpful advice about what moms really want for Mothers' Day ("a thoughtful, pampering, yet not too extravagant gift that involves spending time with you").

It delivers the perfect one-two marketing punch: alarming information (the amount of money spent on a typical Mother's Day gift has skyrocketed from $96.50 to $139.14 over the past five years) plus survey data that is treated like insider information designed to help us navigate the supposedly mystifying world of moms' minds.

I say supposedly mystifying because only a PR pro would be able to spin these survey findings as something newsworthy enough to justify a press release.

Moms want to spend time with their families on Mother's Day.

They would prefer that a gift be thoughtful rather than expensive.

And they hate "bad gifts."

That last fact piqued my interest but, alas, the PR firm neglected to spell out what these bad gifts might be. Anything with a "best before date" before Mother's Day?  A self-improvement book of any type (unless mom has specifically requested the book in question by title and author). A re-gifted item that (oops!) originated with Mom?

I'm going to be collecting more of my favorite (as in kind of outrageous) mom pitches during the days ahead. I wonder if my family will fall for the one for the anti-aging cream that is being pitched as the perfect gift for moms because it's an alternative to cosmetic surgery. (They'd better not!) I'd much prefer something like this or a handmade card served with a cup of coffee.

Now over to you: Does the marketing spin at Mother's Day make you roll your eyes? What are some of the best and worst Mother's Day marketing pitches you've heard over the years?

Related:

Motherhood by the Numbers 
Mother Wire
 

2 Comments

  • 1. Posted by ok-sherry on Sun, May 18, 2008

    This year my oldest son of four children has a part time job. He expressed his disappointment that he had to work on mothers day and that brought such a warm fuzzy to my heart that it could have been his gift. The day before moms day he and his brother, and two of their friends who are at our home all the time, left with out my noticing. When they returned they had a wonderfull card, a leo ornament, because I am leo. and they had picked out a pair of real gold earrings. I knew it probably drained his bank account and I had to bite my tongue from saying "this is too much' so I thanked him with hugs kisses and tears. It was wonderful. Cards can say what we struggle to say and his card said it all. My girls made their cards and coupons for chores but this moms day when Kirk had his first job will stay in my heart forever.

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  • 2. Posted by anndouglas on Sat, May 24, 2008

    That is such a lovely tale about what really matters to moms on mothers' day. The handmade cards and little notes that my children have given me over the years (or, as you described, a carefully chosen gift -- because of all the thought that went into it) mean more to me than some generic gift that is being marketed as the "mom must have" item for a particular holiday. Did you notice how many of the ad messages this Mother's Day season were designed to guilt kids of all ages (e.g., even adults!) into spending mega-bucks on their mothers? The basic message was "After everything she's done for you, surely you're not going to try to get away with spending just [ insert dollar figure here ] on dear old mom?"

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