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Shedding some light on the issue of sleep

Posted Thu, May 10, 2007
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If you're a sleep-deprived parent, you'll be pleased to know that Wendy Hall, an Associate Professor in the School of Nursing at the University of British Columbia, is on the case — the sleep case, that is.

Hall would like the powers that be to start taking the sleep issue seriously: to treat it as a health issue that affects all members of the family, parents and kids alike. As she notes in an article that appeared in the Encyclopedia on Early Childhood Development, "it is difficult to imagine a child whose optimal development would be unaffected by distressed and tired parents."

At the top of Hall's sleep wish list is more dollars for research into the most effective methods of dealing with sleep problems in babies and young children. "Parents have justification for being skeptical about the utility of interventions in the absence of such evidence, particularly when the lay literature provides conflicting views about behavioural sleep problems and optimal solutions," she writes. "More longitudinal research is necessary to support causal relationships between early sleep problems and longer-term social and behavioural difficulties."

The sleep issue could certainly benefit from a bit of a boost — kind of like what happened with the postpartum depression issue. It wasn't that long ago that mothers with postpartum depression suffered in silence. Sure, family and friends knew something was wrong, but the secret was closely guarded, swaddled in a blanket of shame.

Then something shifted. Postpartum depression became a public health priority and mothers started to talk about how hard it was to care for a baby when you could barely take care of yourself.

That's typically what happens with public health concerns. One moment there's low-level awareness of the issue. The next day, the topic is making headline news.

If sleep advocates like Hall have their way, it won't be long before we're having productive conversations about sleep, as opposed to feeling guilty about the sleep choices we did or didn't make or feeling like we have to wear sleep stickers that identify our sleep allegiances to like-minded parents on the playground.

Now, over to you. Post your comments below.

  • Are you losing sleep over sleep?
  • Do you think there should be greater emphasis on sleep research and education?
  • How is sleep (or the lack thereof) affecting your life?
  • What sleep words of wisdom would you like to offer to other parents, based on your own experiences in the sleep deprivation trenches?

 

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  • 1. Posted by bdcfdx on Tue, May 29, 2007

    As a Sleep doula I am always shocked that nobody seems to care about all these sleep deprived parents. Most recently the piece from City TV on driving drowsy failed to mention new parents as well. Instead it seems people seem to make parents feel guilty about their survival choices, but don't offer them any resources to make their survival easier. Kudos to Weny Hall (and you too Ann) for her energys to bring this important issue to the issue the spot light. If only people could hear the stories from the sleep trenches would they realize what a important issue this is. Tracey Ruiz aka The Sleep Doula

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  • 2. Posted by anndouglas on Mon, Jun 04, 2007

    Tracey, thanks for swinging by to share your perspective. I remember reading a study in which an alarming percentage of parents reported having momentarily fallen asleep at the wheel during the previous year. It only takes a moment for a car accident to happen, particularly when we're often traveling at high speeds and there's simply no margin for error. The consequences can be devastating.

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  • 3. Posted by anndouglas on Mon, Jun 04, 2007

    Research update: Ontario's Office of the Chief Coroner released a study this afternoon analyzing the leading causes of child deaths. The report highlighted deaths due to unsafe sleeping arrangements as a key area of concern. 12 children died as a result of unsafe sleeping environments in 2005, as compared to 16 in 2004. A CBC news story quoted Ontario's Deputy Chief Coroner Dr. Jim Cairns as saying that babies should only sleep in cribs with properly-fitting mattresses. This is in synch with Health Canada's recommendations. In its 2004 position statement on safe sleeping recommendations for infants and children, the Canadian Paediatric Society noted that bedsharing changes the quality of infant sleep and noted that further research should be done into the ways that proximity to the mother might be protective to a young infant: see http://www.cps.ca/english/statements/CP/cp04-02.htm This is an area of research that James McKenna of the Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Laboratory has researched extensively. http://www.nd.edu/~jmckenn1/lab/index.html

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  • 4. Posted by anndouglas on Thu, Jun 21, 2007

    Just thought I'd add a footnote to this post (as I'll continue to do whenever I find anything relevant to earlier discussions). First of all, you might be interested in checking out this interview with Dr. James McKenna @ http://platypusmedia.com/jimmckenna_interview.html. Secondly, there's another discussion thread on sleep here at Yahoo! Parenting: http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/blog/anndouglas/77/baby-sleep-paranoia

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