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  • "it's your emotions, you're the one who should be dealing with it not me"?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    would you feel offended if someone you like says that to you after telling that person you like him/her? or would you think, in the end, it's nicer because he/she doesn't want you to have false hope compared to him/her beating around the bush? I seem to have shocked a person in another section when I have given that as an answer to a particular question. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AskDIAHaHSudjOJ0SDu3hSHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091122002142AA820Bd&show=7#profile-info-bxDa4SKBaa
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    Friends - 5 hours ago

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  • No boys like me at my school because i have big eyes.What do I do?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    The boys don't seem interested in me because of my eyes,but I think they use it as an excuse just for not liking me...
  • what does it mean when your best "girl" friend asks you to go to a movie with her?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    like we've been best friends for almost 7 years now and she never asks me to go to the movies or anything and im just confused whether she likes me or just wants me to accompany her to see that new twilight movie.
  • how to attract a hot guy?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    i want to know how to attract a hot guy.does he care about your looks?
  • our daughter wants her father and I to pay for marriage counseling for her should we do it?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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  • Are women with breast implants a turn off?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    there is nothing that turns me off faster than a woman who has implants inside of her, to try to make herself look hot for a guy. The psycholoical being of the woman is such a turn off. And besides, it's so obvious. I don't get it. Do you think breast implants are cool?
  • SURVEY: For all you Older people out there...?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    How would you women feel about your partner not caring about his appearance, i mean not even trying to dress nice, go to the mall with you with tatty cut - out pants made into shorts, abit dirty, a shirt with a couple of holes and stained, (He says its clean,its been washed) but you can see its not looking nice. And he is bare foot aswell., he is always like this no matter what amount of clothes you buy him. I buy him a new shirt and new pants and not long and he has worked on some dirty job at home wearing them and ruined them with grease etc. Happens again and again, how would you feel about that? I feel ashamed to be seen with him like that in public as he looks like a homeless person . Does it mean i do not love him enough because it affects me?? Would you love some one no matter how yucky they dress because they just do not care or would it make you love them less and feel ashamed?? I want my man to dress nice and care about his appearance but he does not. Guys, are any of you out there like this?? Why is he like this? please no silly answers, i am serious. person He is my ex - husband and he has been wanting to get back together, but it really puts me off with the way he doesnt care about looking half decent. (Always was like this and has not changed) I did try when i was with him, hopelessly.
  • how to deal with the much loved boyfriend and best friend complex.?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and it has been mainly fine with him getting along with my friends. BUT he met one of my best friends who is male but i have known since i was about 6years old and he got extremely jealous and gets somewhat annoyed when i talk to him on the phone or even on facebook. and said that my friend was trying to make a move on me and its not appropriate for me to talk to him anymore. i assured him that we both see each other as pretty much being either gay or like a brother and sister. there is no bf/gf love between us what so ever. but he still doesn't accept that answer. one morning i woke up to him going though my phone and reading every single text message he has sent me and i have responded to and we got into a massive argument because he saw a message that my friend wrote starting with "hey beautiful" then i brought up that he doesn't trust me because i have said a billion times that there is no feelings between us to which he said its not that he does trust me he doesn't trust my friend (which i don't understand because it takes two people to start cheating). anyway i got really mad an pretty much walked out on him and haven't responded to his calls in the last two days just because im not sure what to say anyway what my question was is what can i do to keep both relationships (both friend and bf) without having this dilemma
  • does he like me or not?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    there is a boy in my school who always stares at me in class and in the hallways...he always tries to get closer to me, and when his bascket ball team enter in compitions he always bring me tickets for the first row... does he like me? shal i get closer to him?
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Shedding some light on the issue of sleep

Posted Thu, May 10, 2007
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If you're a sleep-deprived parent, you'll be pleased to know that Wendy Hall, an Associate Professor in the School of Nursing at the University of British Columbia, is on the case — the sleep case, that is.

Hall would like the powers that be to start taking the sleep issue seriously: to treat it as a health issue that affects all members of the family, parents and kids alike. As she notes in an article that appeared in the Encyclopedia on Early Childhood Development, "it is difficult to imagine a child whose optimal development would be unaffected by distressed and tired parents."

At the top of Hall's sleep wish list is more dollars for research into the most effective methods of dealing with sleep problems in babies and young children. "Parents have justification for being skeptical about the utility of interventions in the absence of such evidence, particularly when the lay literature provides conflicting views about behavioural sleep problems and optimal solutions," she writes. "More longitudinal research is necessary to support causal relationships between early sleep problems and longer-term social and behavioural difficulties."

The sleep issue could certainly benefit from a bit of a boost — kind of like what happened with the postpartum depression issue. It wasn't that long ago that mothers with postpartum depression suffered in silence. Sure, family and friends knew something was wrong, but the secret was closely guarded, swaddled in a blanket of shame.

Then something shifted. Postpartum depression became a public health priority and mothers started to talk about how hard it was to care for a baby when you could barely take care of yourself.

That's typically what happens with public health concerns. One moment there's low-level awareness of the issue. The next day, the topic is making headline news.

If sleep advocates like Hall have their way, it won't be long before we're having productive conversations about sleep, as opposed to feeling guilty about the sleep choices we did or didn't make or feeling like we have to wear sleep stickers that identify our sleep allegiances to like-minded parents on the playground.

Now, over to you. Post your comments below.

  • Are you losing sleep over sleep?
  • Do you think there should be greater emphasis on sleep research and education?
  • How is sleep (or the lack thereof) affecting your life?
  • What sleep words of wisdom would you like to offer to other parents, based on your own experiences in the sleep deprivation trenches?

 

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  • 1. Posted by bdcfdx on Tue, May 29, 2007

    As a Sleep doula I am always shocked that nobody seems to care about all these sleep deprived parents. Most recently the piece from City TV on driving drowsy failed to mention new parents as well. Instead it seems people seem to make parents feel guilty about their survival choices, but don't offer them any resources to make their survival easier. Kudos to Weny Hall (and you too Ann) for her energys to bring this important issue to the issue the spot light. If only people could hear the stories from the sleep trenches would they realize what a important issue this is. Tracey Ruiz aka The Sleep Doula

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  • 2. Posted by anndouglas on Mon, Jun 04, 2007

    Tracey, thanks for swinging by to share your perspective. I remember reading a study in which an alarming percentage of parents reported having momentarily fallen asleep at the wheel during the previous year. It only takes a moment for a car accident to happen, particularly when we're often traveling at high speeds and there's simply no margin for error. The consequences can be devastating.

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  • 3. Posted by anndouglas on Mon, Jun 04, 2007

    Research update: Ontario's Office of the Chief Coroner released a study this afternoon analyzing the leading causes of child deaths. The report highlighted deaths due to unsafe sleeping arrangements as a key area of concern. 12 children died as a result of unsafe sleeping environments in 2005, as compared to 16 in 2004. A CBC news story quoted Ontario's Deputy Chief Coroner Dr. Jim Cairns as saying that babies should only sleep in cribs with properly-fitting mattresses. This is in synch with Health Canada's recommendations. In its 2004 position statement on safe sleeping recommendations for infants and children, the Canadian Paediatric Society noted that bedsharing changes the quality of infant sleep and noted that further research should be done into the ways that proximity to the mother might be protective to a young infant: see http://www.cps.ca/english/statements/CP/cp04-02.htm This is an area of research that James McKenna of the Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Laboratory has researched extensively. http://www.nd.edu/~jmckenn1/lab/index.html

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  • 4. Posted by anndouglas on Thu, Jun 21, 2007

    Just thought I'd add a footnote to this post (as I'll continue to do whenever I find anything relevant to earlier discussions). First of all, you might be interested in checking out this interview with Dr. James McKenna @ http://platypusmedia.com/jimmckenna_interview.html. Secondly, there's another discussion thread on sleep here at Yahoo! Parenting: http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/blog/anndouglas/77/baby-sleep-paranoia

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