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  • should I worry about my bf and his new co-pilot?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I have been with this man for a little over a year, and recently he got a new co-pilot. She is 25 and he is 28. At first he seemed uninterested in her being his co-pilot, but after they spent a whole weekend working together she is all he talks about. He even mentioned that she has no boyfriend and she has perfect breast for her size. He usually is unfriendly to his co-workers and a homebody but in the last week he has been staying late at work "just bulls@#ting" with the guys. Keep in mind some of these flights last 6 hours one way. Also he has seemed irritated and stressed lately at the kids and me. I am usually a very secure person, but I was married before him and this was my ex-husbands signature right before he would leave me and the kids for another woman. My head tells me he would not cheat or leave me, but my heart is saying watch out and get prepared. Like I wrote before, these are all signs I have seen before, just in different types of men. I have expressed my concern about this to him and he thinks I am overreacting.Am I overreacting? Isn't this the classic way people become friends with someone? Or is it just a way out? we are not married and have been living together for a year.
  • I think I'm in love with a friend, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same. Should I tell him?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    To complicate things, we only know each other on the internet, and he lives several states away. We would both like to meet each other in real life, but the likelihood of that happening is honestly slim. Your opinions? I'm not that young, but I am inexperienced. I agree, I need to get to know him better before we meet. I like the idea of holding off until we meet to tell him. That's something that needs to be said in person.
  • Advice on someone i met? also involves signs?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    I meet this girl at work and its my second time seeing her, deep inside i feel like she likes me so we both work at the movies and we saw twilight with a couple new hires so when we leaving i ask her for her number and she said maybeee! like in a good way with a smile so before i took the train i asked her so are you going to give me your number and she said maybee! tomorrow, whats up with this? and tomorrow when i go back to work i don't want to ask her for her number again because its go make me look like I' am beasting any tips on this people? by the way i' am a Aquarius and shes a scorpio
  • what are you thankful for this thanksgiving?

    Weddings - 5 hours ago

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    i have to go get my turkey and go over the river and thru the woods to my mother in laws house but wanted to wish all of you fellow esteemed posters and all you brides happy thanksgiving. even though sometimes family can be diffiicult, on thanksgiving we are all happy to have family, and all of us have so much to truly be thankful for.
  • admit it, arent you thankful for all you have this thanksgiving?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    i need to go get my turkey but wanted to wish all of you angry, hilarious, clever posters and cheaters and dingdongs and abused wives a wonderful blessed thanksgiving because all of us, no matter what else is going on, really do have so much to be thankful for.
  • What do i have to do to get this girl?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Well i'm not really handsome.. And i don't have any talents except for drawing, i've liked this girl for 3 years now and this is the last year of school so if i don't ask her quick i'll never get her. ( even if i ask her i'm sure she'll say no...) but i don't have the GUTS! It's really hard loving someone and knowing you'll probably never get her or any other girl, Every time i hear her name i get so excited and i feel amazing but it hurts too. every time i see her i want to look at her forever but that hurts too much too, Her voice soothes me and excites me but hearing her voice is also painful. What should i do? i can't go on like this and if this year is over i'll probably never see her again and i will be haunted by regret for my whole life and probably live my life and die alone aswell.. Help please? BTW she's in my class and i see her alot and i kind of know her i'm not shy when i'm talking to her and she talks to me alot and i make her laugh a lot but i think she just sees me as "a funny classmate" she pays more attention to my friend :P i don't blame him plus he's already got a girlfriend. the thing is IF i ever get her we're very different. Oh and i'm black and a refugee but i don't think she's a racist the thing is maybe she doesnt like black guys?? i can't just become white -.- tough i can lose some weight easily and no i don't have greasy hair! will this increase my chance? also i don't have frizzy hair like most black people PLUS she likes mainstream music hiphop, techno and other stuff MTV airs but i don't i love The Beatles, Oasis, Coldplay, The Cat Empire and the White stripes, I dont have a job yet so i dont have a lot of money and i could NOT ever let a girl pay for a night in the city that's just PLAIN WRONG! uhm me and my friends are kind of the annoying kids in class and i'll admit we're not really mature.... Do girls hate immature guys because i just like to have fun and don't want to be too serious..
  • Does this girl even like me or not?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    My friend Kim, and I have been friends for about a year now. When we first met she was flirting with me, she was twirling her hair, smiling and laughing at my jokes. Someone said that I think Kim likes me. I didnt belive them. She was always smiling at me in Chem labs. When I held study sessions, she always came even though she was a Chem major, she always smiled at me, and twirled her hair. I was distracted. I gave her a cupcake she smiled. Then we lost contact, and regained it in the summer, we texted all summer long. I was working, and she "boooo" ed me. She also told me she had a bf, and I was kinda bummed out. Then the fall semester came, and she smiled at me when she saw me. She told me she had to go to her bf's boss's wedding, the day after I saw her she looked like a wreck. Then, her roomy came by, and said Kim misses me. She said that I should text Kim, and that I should come visit her. 3 weeks ago, I saw Kim, she smiled at me, and I said we should hangout sometime. She always complains she is too busy. She smiles and waves at me when she says goodbye. Then, yesterday I saw her, she gave me a brief smile, not as big as normal, and I invited her to the movies. She never showed up. I did not specify a time though, perhaps that is why. My friends thought Kim likes me, but she seems to be hot and cold about me. My girlfriends also suggested she may like me, but has feelings for her bf as well. What can I do to better my friendship with Kim? I told hler yesterday that I missed her, and she should come over and watch a movie, but never showed up? Did I saw something wrong? Please tell me what to do? I dont want to lose a good friend? I want to be there for her always. I love her. One the other hand, she needs to quit playing games with my heart. She needs to choose either him or me. Im 19 and never kissed a girl. I was always waiting for the right girl. I think she may be it. She needs to quit playing with my emotions, I am going to get hurt by her. She is hot and cold. I dont get her. She is still with her bf. I NEED TO TELL HER TO CHOOSE EITHER HIM OR ME? I CANT STAND HER PLAYING WITH MY EMOTIONS ALL THE TIME! IF SHE CHOOSES HIM, I HOPE SHE GETS HURT LIKE THE WAY SHE HURTS ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK OF HER. I THOUGHT SHE LIKED ME, BUT I GUESS I WAS WRONG! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
  • Lorena Bobbitt?? Women only answer this please?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    Why did women view men as weaker and more vulnerable after this incident? and what did you women think when you heard he got it reattached and got into porn?
  • He lies to her to hang out with me?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    I'm married, and so is my friend. Sometimes we go out for a drink or lunch or something. My husband always knows were I am and who I am with. Recently, I heard my friend on the phone with his wife saying he was with someone else and going somewhere else. I'm not telling any lies, but I guess he is. Am I doing anything wrong? It made me sad that his wife doesn't recognize our friendship. I know her and he knows my husband. I have known both him ad his wife for 15 years--that's before they got together. The 4 of us have spent plenty of time together over the years. She and I have also been out for drinks together.
  • EX Girlfriend issues?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and my EX girlfriend had sex over the weekend. We broke up because we don't get along and argue all the time. Also my parents hate her and pushed me to break up with her. She appeals to me because she is a bad girl and i love bad girls. She told me she wants to get back together. I like that my parents hate her and she is great in bed. Should we get back together?
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Real life 101: What skills do kids need to thrive in the real world?

Posted Tue, Feb 05, 2008
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Curriculum experts in Britain have been busy cooking up ways to tackle the UK's growing childhood obesity problem. One of the solutions that has been tossed around would involve giving all students the opportunity to take cooking classes at the junior high school level — either in-school (the preference of the country's home economics teachers) or on an extra-curricular basis. After all, it's one thing to know what you should be eating every day in order to say healthy. It's quite another thing to have the food preparation and cooking skills required to whip up a healthy meal on a budget.

This got me thinking about the other types of practical life skills that kids should be exposed to before graduation day — skills like making a multi-course meal for the relatives (everyone has to do it sometime), balancing a budget and a chequebook, repairing clothes (this will help with the budget department), soothing a fussy baby (starting with one of those hard-to-soothe infant simulators, and a teenage version of The Dating Game and/or a local faith organization's marriage preparation course. Now that would be a course they'd never forget.

What's ironic is that, here in Ontario at least, high school students in the applied (as opposed to the academic) stream are more likely to take courses that cover this kind of turf during their high school years. Is it because we somehow believe that kids who are university-bound are less likely to need to know how to whip up a multi-course meal, balance their chequebooks or soothe a fussy baby? Or is it because the need to cram a huge number of academic credits into four years of studies leaves no room for anything as frivolous as courses on how to survive in the real world?

It's something to think about. Sure, in a perfect world, Joe and Jane Teenager would acquire these skills at home from Mom and Pop — but as any real-world parent of a teenager can tell you, most teenagers do better at learning from anyone but Mom and Pop. (Why do you think there are so many driver's ed schools anyway?)

Now I'm going to toss it over to you. If you could add some courses to the high school curriculum so that kids could be better prepared for life in the real world, what would you suggest that they study? Roommates 101? Car Payments 301? Bad Relationships 401? Let me know!

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  • 1. Posted by Heather on Tue, Feb 12, 2008

    How about a baby piggy bank budget lesson on how money received by baby should go to a baby 's own bank account . Then start taking baby to the bank with money once a week/fortnight/or month to "deposit "any money accumulated in baby's piggy bank. When going shopping for baby's clothes,food etc , take out a few pennies with baby (so he/she actually assimalates the idea of putting in pennies into piggy bank and taking out pennies from piggy bank for important budgeting essentials such as food,clothes,books ,toys, and for saving in a bank account. It will be assimalated into daily life by baby ,even if not fully understood. It will become a healthy habit like drinking milk, eating food, playing with toys , going for a ride in the car.,etc. The best ways to set good habits are usually where it's repeated without bad consequences, where it's just one of the nice fun things in one's life. Then looking at the monthly bank statement and making and tallying entries in a cheque book become second nature. And lots of bonding opportunities.It's like reading a favourite word and picture book to baby /infant/child. Try it and you'll be surprised at how easy and fun it can be. In fact the same should be done for trips to the library: start while they are babies , so they grow into making regular trips to the library as a joyful experience,with their own library card and all.

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  • 2. Posted by Nadine G on Tue, Feb 19, 2008

    Alberta requires that all high school graduates take two half-year Career and Life Management (CALM) courses. In these courses, they cover topics such as budgetting, job search skills, aptitude tests, sex ed, and relationships. I don't think they necessarily cover soothing a fussy baby or buying and cooking nutritious meals, although they might. Schools also cover some of these topics at the junior high level (grades 7 through 9, or for the 11- to 14-year-olds, for those in the UK who have a different grading system) to reach kids who might not make it through high school and to start giving them some life skills education sooner; some kids have jobs or have started dating before they get to high school, so having some information before heading in is always a good thing. I think more focus on money and how to make practical financial choices would be beneficial: consumers carry more debt than ever before, and many of those consumers are parents; kids learn what they see! I thought every province in Canada had a similar type of program for high school students; maybe not ... ?

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  • 3. Posted by anndouglas on Wed, Feb 20, 2008

    Heather -- I totally agree. It's important to start teaching responsibility from a very early age -- both financial responsibility and respect for other people's possession's (borrowing/returning). And, as you point out, those trips to the library reap so many other lovely dividends. Nadine - You get bits and pieces of this information in different courses in Ontario. There is a mandatory 1/2 course in job search/career skills. Some of the sex/relationships material is covered in the health part of gym class, but I think gym is only mandatory in Grade 9. The only other time you'd be exposed to it would be via non-mandatory family life courses

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