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    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    what is the difference between a full and a regular one
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    Other - Family & Relationships - 4 hours ago

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    There was a guy online who I "dated" online for 3 years almost and we havn't been able to meet yet. Now let me give you a summary of what this guy was like, he watched porn all the time, talked about sex all the time, sent me pictures of porn, was interested in discussing me f*cking dogs, wanted to see my nipples, and asked me to take explicit pictures. And all of this was when I was only 14-15. Now I'm almost 18, and decided to "break up" with him. Now, however, he has claimed to change. He called me and he was crying, and asking for forgiveness and he's changed into a really nice guy. Getting back with him is out of question, but does this guy deserve to be with me even as freinds, or does he deserve to be blocked and deleted from my life?
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    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    There was this one girl in my grade and we where really good friends but then when I asked her out she rejected me and know she does not even talk to me. Every time I talk to her or even say hi to her she sort of ignores me. Im fine with getting rejected but this is really hurts. What should I do?
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    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    well i somewhat cheated on her. i never did anything with the other women just hangout with her. we would go to the mall or to the movies. or go eat and stuff like that but nothing else. i told my wife i want to work it out and she said we can but she does not know how to trust me. how can i get her to trust me again? it was all fine until we started to have feelings for eachother
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    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I am wondering how much other families spend on food and household supplies, where they shop, and how big there family is? I have a family of 5 its Me, My hubby, 2 Sons who are 9 and 6, and my little girl who is 20 months old. I shop at Bj's wholesale club, Bi lo, and Dollar General for food. I shop at Bj's and Dollar General for household supplies.I spend 500 a month on food and 140 a month on household supplies.
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    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    As I said in my last question, he cheated on me after 11 years marriage with a girl he met through work, and he stopped because I checked his phone when he was in the shower and I basically busted him. He did then try to get back in touch with her, and she said no. Now she wants to be mates, but now HE says no, maybe because she is not single now (she was the whole time during their affair though) When he was with her, he told her things like he would marry her tomorrow if he was single, he wished he met her first, she gives him everything he wants physically and emotionally, and he even said his family would like her!! However when I found out, when it came to the crunch he did stay with me, but like I say he tried to go back to her AFTER I found out, and they were talking/meeting for a few months but since May he doesn't want to know her anymore (like I say, could be due to her new boyfriend?) Is he remorseful and does he love me if he cheated on me in the first place? (and got caught, not confessed to it) He literally begged and screamed for me not to leave when I found out, and as we have no kids he could have chose her but he chose me. But thats not the question, why did he do this if he loved me, and after 10 happy years? Was he just bored or did he GENUINELY meet someone he connected with? Assume he has NOT cheated before this, so not in 10 years marriage. I know one thing he said to her was "I can't believe I met someone at this stage in my life when I thought I was happily married!" (I know what they said cos his mistress showed me all their messages). I know it sounds like he loved her but he did tell her in May he doesnt want to see her again; has anyone got any experience of this, and yet tthe man returning to the mistress?
  • How come my mom and step dad won't buy me stuff I want?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    My mom and my step dad are always telling me "no," when I want something. I was so mad because I am 17, but for my 16th birthday they just got me a 2008 Honda Civic when I SPECIFICALLY asked for a Chevy Tahoe. And like today, I am going to my BF's pool party and we were out shopping and I saw these great Gucci sandals that would go with my bikni and my mom was like, "NO WAY, MARY." It's not like I don't understand the economy sucks right now (I am not stupid) and my step dad's business is not doing so hot and my mom is in school, but my BF always buys me stuff, so why don't they? My BF just bought me the nicest earrings and they were like $250 and he didn't even flinch. It's like they don't even want me to be happy. What is their problem?
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Real life 101: What skills do kids need to thrive in the real world?

Posted Tue, Feb 05, 2008
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Curriculum experts in Britain have been busy cooking up ways to tackle the UK's growing childhood obesity problem. One of the solutions that has been tossed around would involve giving all students the opportunity to take cooking classes at the junior high school level — either in-school (the preference of the country's home economics teachers) or on an extra-curricular basis. After all, it's one thing to know what you should be eating every day in order to say healthy. It's quite another thing to have the food preparation and cooking skills required to whip up a healthy meal on a budget.

This got me thinking about the other types of practical life skills that kids should be exposed to before graduation day — skills like making a multi-course meal for the relatives (everyone has to do it sometime), balancing a budget and a chequebook, repairing clothes (this will help with the budget department), soothing a fussy baby (starting with one of those hard-to-soothe infant simulators, and a teenage version of The Dating Game and/or a local faith organization's marriage preparation course. Now that would be a course they'd never forget.

What's ironic is that, here in Ontario at least, high school students in the applied (as opposed to the academic) stream are more likely to take courses that cover this kind of turf during their high school years. Is it because we somehow believe that kids who are university-bound are less likely to need to know how to whip up a multi-course meal, balance their chequebooks or soothe a fussy baby? Or is it because the need to cram a huge number of academic credits into four years of studies leaves no room for anything as frivolous as courses on how to survive in the real world?

It's something to think about. Sure, in a perfect world, Joe and Jane Teenager would acquire these skills at home from Mom and Pop — but as any real-world parent of a teenager can tell you, most teenagers do better at learning from anyone but Mom and Pop. (Why do you think there are so many driver's ed schools anyway?)

Now I'm going to toss it over to you. If you could add some courses to the high school curriculum so that kids could be better prepared for life in the real world, what would you suggest that they study? Roommates 101? Car Payments 301? Bad Relationships 401? Let me know!

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  • 1. Posted by Heather on Tue, Feb 12, 2008

    How about a baby piggy bank budget lesson on how money received by baby should go to a baby 's own bank account . Then start taking baby to the bank with money once a week/fortnight/or month to "deposit "any money accumulated in baby's piggy bank. When going shopping for baby's clothes,food etc , take out a few pennies with baby (so he/she actually assimalates the idea of putting in pennies into piggy bank and taking out pennies from piggy bank for important budgeting essentials such as food,clothes,books ,toys, and for saving in a bank account. It will be assimalated into daily life by baby ,even if not fully understood. It will become a healthy habit like drinking milk, eating food, playing with toys , going for a ride in the car.,etc. The best ways to set good habits are usually where it's repeated without bad consequences, where it's just one of the nice fun things in one's life. Then looking at the monthly bank statement and making and tallying entries in a cheque book become second nature. And lots of bonding opportunities.It's like reading a favourite word and picture book to baby /infant/child. Try it and you'll be surprised at how easy and fun it can be. In fact the same should be done for trips to the library: start while they are babies , so they grow into making regular trips to the library as a joyful experience,with their own library card and all.

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  • 2. Posted by Nadine G on Tue, Feb 19, 2008

    Alberta requires that all high school graduates take two half-year Career and Life Management (CALM) courses. In these courses, they cover topics such as budgetting, job search skills, aptitude tests, sex ed, and relationships. I don't think they necessarily cover soothing a fussy baby or buying and cooking nutritious meals, although they might. Schools also cover some of these topics at the junior high level (grades 7 through 9, or for the 11- to 14-year-olds, for those in the UK who have a different grading system) to reach kids who might not make it through high school and to start giving them some life skills education sooner; some kids have jobs or have started dating before they get to high school, so having some information before heading in is always a good thing. I think more focus on money and how to make practical financial choices would be beneficial: consumers carry more debt than ever before, and many of those consumers are parents; kids learn what they see! I thought every province in Canada had a similar type of program for high school students; maybe not ... ?

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  • 3. Posted by anndouglas on Wed, Feb 20, 2008

    Heather -- I totally agree. It's important to start teaching responsibility from a very early age -- both financial responsibility and respect for other people's possession's (borrowing/returning). And, as you point out, those trips to the library reap so many other lovely dividends. Nadine - You get bits and pieces of this information in different courses in Ontario. There is a mandatory 1/2 course in job search/career skills. Some of the sex/relationships material is covered in the health part of gym class, but I think gym is only mandatory in Grade 9. The only other time you'd be exposed to it would be via non-mandatory family life courses

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