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I have been with this man for a little over a year, and recently he got a new co-pilot. She is 25 and he is 28. At first he seemed uninterested in her being his co-pilot, but after they spent a whole weekend working together she is all he talks about. He even mentioned that she has no boyfriend and she has perfect breast for her size. He usually is unfriendly to his co-workers and a homebody but in the last week he has been staying late at work "just bulls@#ting" with the guys. Keep in mind some of these flights last 6 hours one way. Also he has seemed irritated and stressed lately at the kids and me. I am usually a very secure person, but I was married before him and this was my ex-husbands signature right before he would leave me and the kids for another woman. My head tells me he would not cheat or leave me, but my heart is saying watch out and get prepared. Like I wrote before, these are all signs I have seen before, just in different types of men. I have expressed my concern about this to him and he thinks I am overreacting.Am I overreacting? Isn't this the classic way people become friends with someone? Or is it just a way out? we are not married and have been living together for a year.

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To complicate things, we only know each other on the internet, and he lives several states away. We would both like to meet each other in real life, but the likelihood of that happening is honestly slim. Your opinions? I'm not that young, but I am inexperienced. I agree, I need to get to know him better before we meet. I like the idea of holding off until we meet to tell him. That's something that needs to be said in person.

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I meet this girl at work and its my second time seeing her, deep inside i feel like she likes me so we both work at the movies and we saw twilight with a couple new hires so when we leaving i ask her for her number and she said maybeee! like in a good way with a smile so before i took the train i asked her so are you going to give me your number and she said maybee! tomorrow, whats up with this? and tomorrow when i go back to work i don't want to ask her for her number again because its go make me look like I' am beasting any tips on this people? by the way i' am a Aquarius and shes a scorpio

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i have to go get my turkey and go over the river and thru the woods to my mother in laws house but wanted to wish all of you fellow esteemed posters and all you brides happy thanksgiving. even though sometimes family can be diffiicult, on thanksgiving we are all happy to have family, and all of us have so much to truly be thankful for.

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Well i'm not really handsome.. And i don't have any talents except for drawing, i've liked this girl for 3 years now and this is the last year of school so if i don't ask her quick i'll never get her. ( even if i ask her i'm sure she'll say no...) but i don't have the GUTS! It's really hard loving someone and knowing you'll probably never get her or any other girl, Every time i hear her name i get so excited and i feel amazing but it hurts too. every time i see her i want to look at her forever but that hurts too much too, Her voice soothes me and excites me but hearing her voice is also painful. What should i do? i can't go on like this and if this year is over i'll probably never see her again and i will be haunted by regret for my whole life and probably live my life and die alone aswell.. Help please? BTW she's in my class and i see her alot and i kind of know her i'm not shy when i'm talking to her and she talks to me alot and i make her laugh a lot but i think she just sees me as "a funny classmate" she pays more attention to my friend :P i don't blame him plus he's already got a girlfriend. the thing is IF i ever get her we're very different. Oh and i'm black and a refugee but i don't think she's a racist the thing is maybe she doesnt like black guys?? i can't just become white -.- tough i can lose some weight easily and no i don't have greasy hair! will this increase my chance? also i don't have frizzy hair like most black people PLUS she likes mainstream music hiphop, techno and other stuff MTV airs but i don't i love The Beatles, Oasis, Coldplay, The Cat Empire and the White stripes, I dont have a job yet so i dont have a lot of money and i could NOT ever let a girl pay for a night in the city that's just PLAIN WRONG! uhm me and my friends are kind of the annoying kids in class and i'll admit we're not really mature.... Do girls hate immature guys because i just like to have fun and don't want to be too serious..

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My friend Kim, and I have been friends for about a year now. When we first met she was flirting with me, she was twirling her hair, smiling and laughing at my jokes. Someone said that I think Kim likes me. I didnt belive them. She was always smiling at me in Chem labs. When I held study sessions, she always came even though she was a Chem major, she always smiled at me, and twirled her hair. I was distracted. I gave her a cupcake she smiled. Then we lost contact, and regained it in the summer, we texted all summer long. I was working, and she "boooo" ed me. She also told me she had a bf, and I was kinda bummed out. Then the fall semester came, and she smiled at me when she saw me. She told me she had to go to her bf's boss's wedding, the day after I saw her she looked like a wreck. Then, her roomy came by, and said Kim misses me. She said that I should text Kim, and that I should come visit her. 3 weeks ago, I saw Kim, she smiled at me, and I said we should hangout sometime. She always complains she is too busy. She smiles and waves at me when she says goodbye. Then, yesterday I saw her, she gave me a brief smile, not as big as normal, and I invited her to the movies. She never showed up. I did not specify a time though, perhaps that is why. My friends thought Kim likes me, but she seems to be hot and cold about me. My girlfriends also suggested she may like me, but has feelings for her bf as well. What can I do to better my friendship with Kim? I told hler yesterday that I missed her, and she should come over and watch a movie, but never showed up? Did I saw something wrong? Please tell me what to do? I dont want to lose a good friend? I want to be there for her always. I love her. One the other hand, she needs to quit playing games with my heart. She needs to choose either him or me. Im 19 and never kissed a girl. I was always waiting for the right girl. I think she may be it. She needs to quit playing with my emotions, I am going to get hurt by her. She is hot and cold. I dont get her. She is still with her bf. I NEED TO TELL HER TO CHOOSE EITHER HIM OR ME? I CANT STAND HER PLAYING WITH MY EMOTIONS ALL THE TIME! IF SHE CHOOSES HIM, I HOPE SHE GETS HURT LIKE THE WAY SHE HURTS ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK OF HER. I THOUGHT SHE LIKED ME, BUT I GUESS I WAS WRONG! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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Why did women view men as weaker and more vulnerable after this incident? and what did you women think when you heard he got it reattached and got into porn?

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I'm married, and so is my friend. Sometimes we go out for a drink or lunch or something. My husband always knows were I am and who I am with. Recently, I heard my friend on the phone with his wife saying he was with someone else and going somewhere else. I'm not telling any lies, but I guess he is. Am I doing anything wrong? It made me sad that his wife doesn't recognize our friendship. I know her and he knows my husband. I have known both him ad his wife for 15 years--that's before they got together. The 4 of us have spent plenty of time together over the years. She and I have also been out for drinks together.

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I'm 17 and my EX girlfriend had sex over the weekend. We broke up because we don't get along and argue all the time. Also my parents hate her and pushed me to break up with her. She appeals to me because she is a bad girl and i love bad girls. She told me she wants to get back together. I like that my parents hate her and she is great in bed. Should we get back together?

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Well I Was With The One I Love For 2 Years We Had A Fight We Broke Up For 6 Days And She Gto Bored :S And Got A New Bf And She Sayed I WasHer 1st Love But Why Would You Move On That Fast If I Was, I Don't Get It. I Just Wanan Die Cause my heart hurts more and more and she goes to me she dnt love then she dose then she dose a bit but fallin off me :( Help Me Please dont no what to do!