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  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • It feels like theres so much going wrong?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 8 hours ago

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    Im a 17 year old male and don't think i can cope. Firstly, Im 6'5' and quite skinny which i hate, i always feel like i stick out. Secondly i'v not had a girlfriend for sooooooo long. Iv only kissed 4 girls in my entire life! I also feel like I do nothing to help the world, like i am forever getting depressed about how little i do to help people, I don't know how to bring myself to do good things and say nice things without getting all embarrased. I am (in my opinion) very selfish, which means i do most things my way, when I do say something, or act in a nice manner i feel sooo good, Then wonder why i cant do this all the time so get depressed again. I feel like im slipping away gradually from all my friends and starting to turn into a loner and I always feel so imature. I hate how my mum is living at home on her own when I am in Liverpool studying Preforming Arts which i don't even think I want to do. I don't want to tell my mum though as I think she would be upset because Its all I have wanted to do in my life. Im thinking of getting a diary (as gay as this might sound but I don't care) And writing a really long list of things to do before I die, and hopefully by doing this I will feel A much better person. And if not, i don't know what to do at all. Any advice or help would be great. Thanks!
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 8 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................

How old is too old for trick-or-treating?

Posted Mon, Oct 19, 2009
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Is there anything cuter than watching a toddler experiencing the magic of trick-or-treating for the very first time?

They are utterly astonished that the words they utter (with a bit of coaching from mom or dad) result in a treat being dropped in their tot-sized loot bag.

Trick-or-treating really is meant for kids who are young enough to get caught up in the wonder and excitement.

Once they hit school-aged, the focus shifts to getting just the right costume (as any parent who has lived with a child who has suffered from Halloween costume angst can attest).

As kids get older, Halloween becomes more of a treasure hunt: a quest to collect as much loot as possible from the moment they are allowed out the door ('Wait! It's too early. People are still eating dinner!') until they finally drag themselves back home (either because they are so exhausted that the prospect of collecting yet more loot has lost its appeal or because the lights in all the pumpkins have been blown out, sending out a clear message that trick-or-treating is over for another year).

Then, at some point, kids get too old for trick-or-treating.

Some opt out of trick-or-treating on their own, making plans to get together with a group of friends instead.

Others continue trick-or-treating until they leave home to head off to college.

Some never give it up.

Most big kids who trick-or-treat are harmless. They're simply out to have a good time. It's just a select few who give the rest a bad name by chasing and scaring little kids or stealing their loot bags.

All that said, do you really feel like giving a handful of goodies to the 18-year-old who's talking on his iPhone? Should trick-or-treating be left for the little kids?

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  • 1. Posted by R / S on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Big kids who still wish to be involved can always take a smaller child and then kind of stand back they will still b part of the action and be helping at the same time...

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  • 2. Posted by Peter & ... on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Any kid that looks like they are in high school gets no treats, thats too old and get lost, let the little kids do it, its for them. Period.

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  • 3. Posted by dadoe10 on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    You are never too old for trick or treating; if you put an effort into your costume and just don't show up with your hat on backwards pretending to be a hobo; you get treats at my house; i too still dress up; Hallowe'en is my favourite holiday of the year!

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  • 4. Posted by Star on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Grade 6/7 should be it.

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  • 5. Posted by Beth on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Never too old!!! I enjoy Halloween so much, and I love that older kids are still willing to dress up. The teens who don't dress up? I get them to sing a silly song for their treats. There's so much to be serious about out there...what's a couple extra chocolate bars for a smile?

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  • 6. Posted by JustAGirl on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    I'm going, I'm in grade 8, but I'm also taking my little sisters.

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  • 7. Posted by stormyf_18 on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    I think it is okay as long as the older kids enjoy themselves and aren't out pushing the little ones around halloween is about fun and the one night a year when people are giving candy away for FREE who can't resist reliving the good old days and dress up as silly as they can.

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  • 8. Posted by Vampirillahelena... on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    l still love Halloween and i dress up, own several costumes, and go out with the kids trickortreating, how can i resist! its the only time i can be a quirkycharacter make people smile of all ages, and have even been offered free candy!!! and get to wear my special effects makeup on myself for a change, its fun!!! all ages get ot have candy as long as they too dress up in costume.

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  • 9. Posted by stan w on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    trick or treat should be to a max of 12 years then they can have house parties... some older kids are very intimidating to younger kids and a lot not all are malicious..

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  • 10. Posted by J BRUCE on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Once our kids reached high school we encouraged them to give it up. It's for elementary school kids. The older kids come out later, so usually after 8:00pm I turn the lights off.

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  • 11. Posted by Nix on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    So, if trick or treating is for kids under a particular age and parties with alcohol are for the 18 age groups what is left for those inbetween? It's fine to have a perspective of what is too old for trick or treating, but if there is an age limit then there needs to be something for kids to do to participate besides toilet paper cards and be public nuisances. Too often, "big kids" get forgotten. And that is when they start to be problems.

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  • 12. Posted by Robsi on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    anyone who comes to my place will get some candy. if they put in the effort then why not, it doesnt matter to me how old they are.

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  • 13. Posted by Elena on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I kept up doing it for quite a while, but Hallowe'en is my favourite holiday! I love getting dressed up in costume and showing it off. Also, I'm the oldest of four so I tagged along with my younger siblings, eventually stopping for candy only at houses where I knew people. "Hey ____, yeah, taking my brothers trick-or-treating tonight. You'll give me candy too? Awesome!" It pays to be a good big sister.

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  • 14. Posted by Sekino on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Nix makes a good point. It's unfair that teenagers fall into a 'no fun land' because they're deemed too old for kids stuff but can't have the fun adults have either. Then how can we complain all they do is sit in front of the computer or loiter in malls? As long as they are respectful and they want to be part of the celebration, I don't think older kids should be excluded. At 30, I still dress up every year... I don't trick or treat though ;)

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  • 15. Posted by Ganja on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    im 10 and i like trick or treating for the candy!!!!!!!!!

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  • 16. Posted by Shirley on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Trick or treat is a time when any one can go out and have fun. As long as the older ones do not bother the younger kids what's the harm? It's honest fun. I don't care how old the trick or treaters are they are all allowed to have fun on this carefree evening. Why not indulge them? There are so few things that can bring such free spirited pleasure. Why limit it just to the young. It's a little something to look forward to. What do you think?

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  • 17. Posted by Ted on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I ask how old they are, lol , and if they say they are 12 or less I will give them treats. 13 and above get the boot !! Teenagers are too old for Halloween treats at my house !

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  • 18. Posted by Filomena P on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Halloween is like Christmas, it's great for all people at all ages!!!

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  • 19. Posted by liz on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    My kids all decided at about 13 or 14 that they were too old for trick-or-treating, and started going to parties with their friends instead..... however, if a teenager makes an effort with a costume, they'll get treats at our house. I make an exception for the neighbourhood teens that I know... Im happy to give them candy if they are polite when I answer the door, even if they arent in costume.

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  • 20. Posted by Ilikethenatualway on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Well I am not for it at all. Even growing up I never wanted to do it. I think there should just be Halloween parties, for the kids to go to all dressed up. But if their going to do it I say start at 5 yrs old and after 10 years old stop.

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  • 21. Posted by copswife on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I remember being 13, my last year of trick or treating, and I had a man give me a very hard time because I LOOKED much older than I was. I was mortified... in front of my "petite" aka normal friends. My daughter is now 6 and already is wearing a size 10... she isn't overweight at all. We are just tall. I desperately hope she doesn't have to go through what I have. Boy, I could tell you a story about paying the child's fare on the bus and being reprimanded by the driver... I think I was 12...

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  • 22. Posted by alfredo v on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I think most of this people who left comments, doesn't even know what they're talking about....yah, I agree, dressing up is fun and it's for all ages but the trick or treating part...leave that to the kids, atleast up to grade 6-7. And that doesn't include how many times you failed elementary. Mwahahaha!

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  • 23. Posted by CptnKaos on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    High school age kids should be setting off fire works, egging houses & soaping cars, not begging for candy.

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  • 24. Posted by alfredo v on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I think most of this people who left comments, doesn't even know what they're talking about....yah, I agree, dressing up is fun and it's for all ages but the trick or treating part...leave that to the kids, atleast up to grade 6-7. And that doesn't include how many times you failed elementary. Mwahahaha!

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  • 25. Posted by dalerocks on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    hey if you put the time and effort into making / buying a costume why cant you trick or treat? and how do you know how old a kid is ? my son is 5 foot 8 and in grade 6!! and what about a baby trick or treating is that too young? i would rather give my candy to teenagers than a little baby whose parents dressed it up so they can get candy

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  • 26. Posted by kennedymomdad on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I think grade 8 should be the last year that gives you lots of time to enjoy and after that host or go to a party! But if you really love it make sure you have a costum at least.

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  • 27. Posted by Karlen on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    i think it should be for everyone. i mean its not a big deal if an 18 year old guy wants so candy to snack on.he probally has to have a (real) costume if he wants any candy.

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  • 28. Posted by kf_athletics on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    pfft, all you people saying high school tenn's are too old for this kind of stuff should keep there their thoughts to themselves. I'm 17 and going with about 3 of my friends.(although my friend may take his 7 year old borther)

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  • 29. Posted by jan s on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    If they are willing to dress up then Ill give them candy lol

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  • 30. Posted by sunflower_canyon on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    For me there's no age limit. If they have a decent costume (as in not just regular clothes with a mask on), I give them candy. I was trick-or-treating in high school with my friends and our neighbors were grateful to get rid of the candy because the neighborhood is growing up and there are so few young kids who still trick-or-treat. I'm sorry but cutting a kid off from trick-or-treating at 10-12 years old is just cruel. Let them decide. a lot of kids lose interest around 14 anyway. :P

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