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  • I'm depressed!! And i want this feeling to go away!! How can i do that?

    Friends - 4 hours ago

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    Well it's kinda a long story but i meet this boy last year and we became good friends, and then i'm in the 8th grade and he's in the 9th grade so now he wont talk to me or hug me he just think i'm invisible all the time! like he doesn't see me anymore!! So i gave him a letter but he called me a cleany or something like that!! and it means that i hug him to much!! other girls hug him too! why not me? but i love hugging boys!! so now what i don't want to be depressed all my life help me!!
  • My girlfriend told me last night she liked her ex still and i felt sick in the stomach.Ignore it or act?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Her ex use to abuse her and did things no human should do to a women
  • Does she still like me?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I went out with this girl, and we loved each other very much. We would always tell each other we love each other. we never kissed cuz im really shy and don't talk much. becuz i dont talk much, she broke up wit me. we still flirt with each other and i still love her. i tried to get her back, but she said if i wasn't with another guy i would be going back out. Is she joking? Also my other friend, said she was checking me out, but i never noticed it. i asked her and she said "i don't remember". i told her i didn't notice cuz i was lost in her eyes. she said"awwww". She always calls me cute, messes with me, calls me boob(she has always called me that), invites me to everything, touches me(pushes, pinches, ect.) when she can, and she looks at me, but when i look at her, she looks away. She is really nice and very beautiful. i text her constantly and if i dont text her first, she texts me at any chance possible. Does she still like me or not? Please help and thank you also, im only 13 and we r BFF's now. she told me that she wishes we would have kissed and i feel bad. we only went out for about a month
  • If I wanted to move on from someone, would God help me, or no?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    There is this girl who I want to move on from. If I want to move on, must I do it all by myself, or will He help me with it?? What if He doesnt want me to move on??
  • Would you say my ex boyfriend still is attracted to me?10 points to best answer.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    We offical broke up tuesday and to sum up why we broke up, he wanted a break for a week, I was misunderstanding.dumped him the next day. he wanted me back, I said sorry and we were gona get back together then **** happened and he never called then he tried to call but I was mad because he took so long so I made it sound like I didn't want him back then he was hurt and didn't want me back when I tried the next day and then I sent him a sorry message and say I am understanding now, I was wrong and blah. he accepted it but he still wants to be friends. were on good terms now Anyway. I went up to his locker to say hi to him and the whole time he was making eye conact with me and smiling and laughing and was all happy. He was like "Hi! how are you, how did your finals go" and stuff. and like "What are you doing this weekend" so we talked a little bit but the whole time I acted depressed then he was like "are you wearing lotion or something" then he's like with a teasing smile "you smell reallly goood" and he just kept looking at me and then after I thought I should go, cause I thought he was leaving and when I tried to leave he went up to me and he was just like laughing and he's like where are you going and I said "social studies" and he's like "ok I will walk you there" so I just wanted to be like uh no because I wanted to cry but I was like ok but I walked behind him and I was looking at the ground then he appeared next to me and he's like "are you ok" and im like "yeahh" and he looked at my shoes and since their all draw over he laughed and he's like again with this teasing, cute smile "I likke your outfit"and im like "thanks.." (but the thing is I was just wearing a baggy gray sweatshirt,jeans and conversers..nothing special) and then he moved my hair and touched my face and smiled and I kinda smiled akwadly and he seemed like he felt akward then and hes like "something wa son ur uh face" and im like "thanks..." and then I kinda stoped talking to hima and he turned at the corner without saying bye -also at his locker I noticed he left up my post it note that I put on saying "my full name loves his full name forever. so I mean idn maybe he just didnt feel like taking it down. so does it sound like hes still attracted to me. because I mean eys I want him back but I atleast wana no hes still attracted to me. like I mean I am nto saying I would fool around with him, but does it sounds like he could be freinds with benefits with me. because myabe going to a realtionshipw would be stupid because hes leavinf gor college next year. but I really do love him and I mean I wana be more then friends.
  • tried to move on but i cant!?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    my story is that i met this guy from england in januarywhile he was here in the states on vacation, and we really hit it off. i hung out with him only twice for a total of maybe 7-8 hours or so. i FELL IN LOVE. and he really started to like me too, and he told me he did. when he went back to england, i found him on facebook like he wanted me to and we talked occaionally. then i noticed he was in a relationship...slowly we havent talked in a long time. im extremely jealous of this girl because i know that if he was here, we'd be together. now we havent talked in a few months. i know he has completely moved on. i still think about him everyday. everything reminds me of him and its really hard. i even sent him a message recently and recieved no return. people have given me the same advice to move on already and they'll be another guy just as good or better. its just impossible. ive tried to find a distaction in another guy, but theres no one. i dont know what i expected, i mean really. its just hard to know that he read my message and didnt even respond. its been 11 months, and i still havent gone through a day that i havent thought of him. i hate that he doesnt think of me like that... what should i do? song suggestions? HELP
  • Does he actually like me? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    So this is what happened yesterday, I was at lunch in my table talking with my BFF's. And then this guy name Luis came over to our table with his detention paper and showed it to his friends. Then I heard Luis say "Hey hang hang on I got to talk to this girl." So he sat next to me and he said "What's up?" and he just kept staring at me up and down. And I said nothing much and then he said "So anything personal you want to tell me? Because I know yesterday your friends said you like me...Oh wait, what was it? Right....Genevieve likes me." (genevieve is my name but when he said that he didn't mean it in a mean way) Then after he said that he looked down at the table and was nervous for a few seconds then he said "Why did you tell your friends that you like me? I wanted it to be kept a secret..." and I just told him I don't know. And then he was like "Did you just looked at me in the yearbook?" and I told him yes and then suddenly my friend Cassandra just blirted out to me saying "Genevieve don't act like a *****...." and I told her "But I'm not acting like a *****...." and then Luis said "Who called you a *****?" and I said "Cassandra did." and suddenly it looked like as if he defended me because he said this to Cassandra: "Shut the **** up don't call her a *****." then he looked at his picture in the yearbook and he said to his own picture "Haha **** you!" very rapidly. Then somehow at the end he just kept staring at me and staring at me and so did I and I was a little nervous and then Cassandra said "Why are you staring at her?" and he said "I don't know 'cause I'm bored...." and he kept staring at me and not looking anywhere else and I also stared at him and we didn't say anything. Then I heard my other friend Marrisa whispering to my friend Cassandra saying "I think there having there moment...." and then the bell rong and then he got out of his chair and I just packed up and when he passed by me he turned back to look at me one more time. Also in the beginning I called him cute and he then he said "Yeah...." while staring down. I think he doesn't want to admit that he also likes me too? Also I kind of stalk him when he talks to girls and he just acts all normal to them and he doesn't even stare at them that much and I've noticed that he talks to them differently then when he talks to me. Does he like me? Is he kind of nervous to admit his feelings even though he has the confidence to come and talk to me? How can I move on to the next level with him? We don't know each other that much we recently started talking about 1/2 weeks ago. Also I swear whenever he stares at me he stares STRAIGHT INTO MY EYES not anywhere else and so do I. My heart beats a little because I do like him.
  • Do girls actually like sex?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    It really seems like they don't. Like they're all sophisticated and above it. Do they just do it to please their man?
  • HELP-I need some first date advice!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I am a divorced 28 year old and have not been on a first date in forever and now I am going on one next week Friday. What do I wear, what do I ask him, HELP. I'm so nervous.
  • ****GIRLS: What type of guy do you think I am?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    im also very short for my grade, about 4'10" and like i said, im only 13 I am a nice guy who is 13 in december. I have had this one girlfriend who i really liked and she broke up with me about a year ago. I told her i loved her every day and i would always say good night and good morning. I tried to get her back when she broke up with me but that didn't work. People always say im a nerd or a n00b. i don't ever play video games and if i do it is for about an hour a week. this year, my school got open enrollment and this one girl came. i thought she was cute and i am in none of her classes, but lunch. I started to notice that she constantly looked at me and when i looked back, she would turn away. Im really shy and only talk to people i know really well. i am friends with everyone in my grade, literally. i talk to the nerds, the emos, the cool kids, the nerds, everyone. i talk to this one kid who everyone makes fun of cuz he talks funny, so i try to be nice to him. i finally asked this girl out and she said, give me time. so i did and at a high school football game, she said yes and gave me a hug. later, she broke up wit me cuz i was still shy and didn't really talk to her. i talked to her and asked for another chance, and she said i still like you, but i have another bf. we talk/text all the time. i help her with everything, but not just her, every girl. i hold doors open, help with homework, i even flirt sometimes, i give christmas gifts that come from the heart(i make them(bracelets, neckleces, ect.)), i dont like girls for their body of hotness(even tho i got both beautiful girls), im considered cute by all girls i've asked out(but apearently im not their type, which i understand). i just wanted to know if i am a good guy, would YOU go out with me if you knew me, what type girls think i am, or anything else. Thanks i also play football, basketball, and track

How old is too old for trick-or-treating?

Posted Mon, Oct 19, 2009
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Is there anything cuter than watching a toddler experiencing the magic of trick-or-treating for the very first time?

They are utterly astonished that the words they utter (with a bit of coaching from mom or dad) result in a treat being dropped in their tot-sized loot bag.

Trick-or-treating really is meant for kids who are young enough to get caught up in the wonder and excitement.

Once they hit school-aged, the focus shifts to getting just the right costume (as any parent who has lived with a child who has suffered from Halloween costume angst can attest).

As kids get older, Halloween becomes more of a treasure hunt: a quest to collect as much loot as possible from the moment they are allowed out the door ('Wait! It's too early. People are still eating dinner!') until they finally drag themselves back home (either because they are so exhausted that the prospect of collecting yet more loot has lost its appeal or because the lights in all the pumpkins have been blown out, sending out a clear message that trick-or-treating is over for another year).

Then, at some point, kids get too old for trick-or-treating.

Some opt out of trick-or-treating on their own, making plans to get together with a group of friends instead.

Others continue trick-or-treating until they leave home to head off to college.

Some never give it up.

Most big kids who trick-or-treat are harmless. They're simply out to have a good time. It's just a select few who give the rest a bad name by chasing and scaring little kids or stealing their loot bags.

All that said, do you really feel like giving a handful of goodies to the 18-year-old who's talking on his iPhone? Should trick-or-treating be left for the little kids?

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  • 1. Posted by R / S on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Big kids who still wish to be involved can always take a smaller child and then kind of stand back they will still b part of the action and be helping at the same time...

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  • 2. Posted by Peter & ... on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Any kid that looks like they are in high school gets no treats, thats too old and get lost, let the little kids do it, its for them. Period.

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  • 3. Posted by dadoe10 on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    You are never too old for trick or treating; if you put an effort into your costume and just don't show up with your hat on backwards pretending to be a hobo; you get treats at my house; i too still dress up; Hallowe'en is my favourite holiday of the year!

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  • 4. Posted by Star on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Grade 6/7 should be it.

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  • 5. Posted by Beth on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    Never too old!!! I enjoy Halloween so much, and I love that older kids are still willing to dress up. The teens who don't dress up? I get them to sing a silly song for their treats. There's so much to be serious about out there...what's a couple extra chocolate bars for a smile?

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  • 6. Posted by JustAGirl on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    I'm going, I'm in grade 8, but I'm also taking my little sisters.

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  • 7. Posted by stormyf_18 on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    I think it is okay as long as the older kids enjoy themselves and aren't out pushing the little ones around halloween is about fun and the one night a year when people are giving candy away for FREE who can't resist reliving the good old days and dress up as silly as they can.

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  • 8. Posted by Vampirillahelena... on Mon, Oct 19, 2009

    l still love Halloween and i dress up, own several costumes, and go out with the kids trickortreating, how can i resist! its the only time i can be a quirkycharacter make people smile of all ages, and have even been offered free candy!!! and get to wear my special effects makeup on myself for a change, its fun!!! all ages get ot have candy as long as they too dress up in costume.

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  • 9. Posted by stan w on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    trick or treat should be to a max of 12 years then they can have house parties... some older kids are very intimidating to younger kids and a lot not all are malicious..

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  • 10. Posted by J BRUCE on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Once our kids reached high school we encouraged them to give it up. It's for elementary school kids. The older kids come out later, so usually after 8:00pm I turn the lights off.

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  • 11. Posted by Nix on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    So, if trick or treating is for kids under a particular age and parties with alcohol are for the 18 age groups what is left for those inbetween? It's fine to have a perspective of what is too old for trick or treating, but if there is an age limit then there needs to be something for kids to do to participate besides toilet paper cards and be public nuisances. Too often, "big kids" get forgotten. And that is when they start to be problems.

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  • 12. Posted by Robsi on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    anyone who comes to my place will get some candy. if they put in the effort then why not, it doesnt matter to me how old they are.

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  • 13. Posted by Elena on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I kept up doing it for quite a while, but Hallowe'en is my favourite holiday! I love getting dressed up in costume and showing it off. Also, I'm the oldest of four so I tagged along with my younger siblings, eventually stopping for candy only at houses where I knew people. "Hey ____, yeah, taking my brothers trick-or-treating tonight. You'll give me candy too? Awesome!" It pays to be a good big sister.

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  • 14. Posted by Sekino on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Nix makes a good point. It's unfair that teenagers fall into a 'no fun land' because they're deemed too old for kids stuff but can't have the fun adults have either. Then how can we complain all they do is sit in front of the computer or loiter in malls? As long as they are respectful and they want to be part of the celebration, I don't think older kids should be excluded. At 30, I still dress up every year... I don't trick or treat though ;)

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  • 15. Posted by Ganja on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    im 10 and i like trick or treating for the candy!!!!!!!!!

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  • 16. Posted by Shirley on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Trick or treat is a time when any one can go out and have fun. As long as the older ones do not bother the younger kids what's the harm? It's honest fun. I don't care how old the trick or treaters are they are all allowed to have fun on this carefree evening. Why not indulge them? There are so few things that can bring such free spirited pleasure. Why limit it just to the young. It's a little something to look forward to. What do you think?

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  • 17. Posted by Ted on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I ask how old they are, lol , and if they say they are 12 or less I will give them treats. 13 and above get the boot !! Teenagers are too old for Halloween treats at my house !

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  • 18. Posted by Filomena P on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Halloween is like Christmas, it's great for all people at all ages!!!

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  • 19. Posted by liz on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    My kids all decided at about 13 or 14 that they were too old for trick-or-treating, and started going to parties with their friends instead..... however, if a teenager makes an effort with a costume, they'll get treats at our house. I make an exception for the neighbourhood teens that I know... Im happy to give them candy if they are polite when I answer the door, even if they arent in costume.

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  • 20. Posted by Ilikethenatualway on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    Well I am not for it at all. Even growing up I never wanted to do it. I think there should just be Halloween parties, for the kids to go to all dressed up. But if their going to do it I say start at 5 yrs old and after 10 years old stop.

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  • 21. Posted by copswife on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I remember being 13, my last year of trick or treating, and I had a man give me a very hard time because I LOOKED much older than I was. I was mortified... in front of my "petite" aka normal friends. My daughter is now 6 and already is wearing a size 10... she isn't overweight at all. We are just tall. I desperately hope she doesn't have to go through what I have. Boy, I could tell you a story about paying the child's fare on the bus and being reprimanded by the driver... I think I was 12...

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  • 22. Posted by alfredo v on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I think most of this people who left comments, doesn't even know what they're talking about....yah, I agree, dressing up is fun and it's for all ages but the trick or treating part...leave that to the kids, atleast up to grade 6-7. And that doesn't include how many times you failed elementary. Mwahahaha!

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  • 23. Posted by CptnKaos on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    High school age kids should be setting off fire works, egging houses & soaping cars, not begging for candy.

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  • 24. Posted by alfredo v on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I think most of this people who left comments, doesn't even know what they're talking about....yah, I agree, dressing up is fun and it's for all ages but the trick or treating part...leave that to the kids, atleast up to grade 6-7. And that doesn't include how many times you failed elementary. Mwahahaha!

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  • 25. Posted by dalerocks on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    hey if you put the time and effort into making / buying a costume why cant you trick or treat? and how do you know how old a kid is ? my son is 5 foot 8 and in grade 6!! and what about a baby trick or treating is that too young? i would rather give my candy to teenagers than a little baby whose parents dressed it up so they can get candy

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  • 26. Posted by kennedymomdad on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    I think grade 8 should be the last year that gives you lots of time to enjoy and after that host or go to a party! But if you really love it make sure you have a costum at least.

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  • 27. Posted by Karlen on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    i think it should be for everyone. i mean its not a big deal if an 18 year old guy wants so candy to snack on.he probally has to have a (real) costume if he wants any candy.

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  • 28. Posted by kf_athletics on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    pfft, all you people saying high school tenn's are too old for this kind of stuff should keep there their thoughts to themselves. I'm 17 and going with about 3 of my friends.(although my friend may take his 7 year old borther)

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  • 29. Posted by jan s on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    If they are willing to dress up then Ill give them candy lol

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  • 30. Posted by sunflower_canyon on Tue, Oct 20, 2009

    For me there's no age limit. If they have a decent costume (as in not just regular clothes with a mask on), I give them candy. I was trick-or-treating in high school with my friends and our neighbors were grateful to get rid of the candy because the neighborhood is growing up and there are so few young kids who still trick-or-treat. I'm sorry but cutting a kid off from trick-or-treating at 10-12 years old is just cruel. Let them decide. a lot of kids lose interest around 14 anyway. :P

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